try looking for local colleges or night classes

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]try looking for local colleges or night classes[/QUOTE]


Ya, maybe ill ask my parents to help me find somewhere.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Thanks. A lot.
Well i really like metal music so i might go buy some posters.
I really tend not to care what people think of me.
if they dont like me its not my fault. They dont accept me for who i am.
i also want to learn a new langauge. I want to learn Norweigan. Where do u think i could learn it?[/QUOTE]

Another thing to keep in mind is that if you think about the themes of your favorite bands, you can surround yourself and fill your wardrobe with imagery of those themes.

Say for example you're into Iron Maiden. Since they like to cover historical topics, particularly that of military history, a model airplane of a WWII era fighter wouldn't be out of place. Or if you like a spookier band like Samhain or Danzig, try looking into some Indonesian/Balinese cabinets. These are easy to find at foreign imports stores, are relatively cheap and [url=http://www.balibocraft.com/image/primitive/skull-pyramid01.jpg]look unbelievably cool.[/url]

It worked for me.

Anyway, on learning Norwegian, if you're still in high school, I'd take a class in German first. Both languages have the same root, so it helps.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Another thing to keep in mind is that if you think about the themes of your favorite bands, you can surround yourself and fill your wardrobe with imagery of those themes.

Say for example you're into Iron Maiden. Since they like to cover historical topics, particularly that of military history, a model airplane of a WWII era fighter wouldn't be out of place. Or if you like a spookier band like Samhain or Danzig, try looking into some Indonesian/Balinese cabinets. These are easy to find at foreign imports stores, are relatively cheap and [url=http://www.balibocraft.com/image/primitive/skull-pyramid01.jpg]look unbelievably cool.[/url]

It worked for me.

Anyway, on learning Norwegian, if you're still in high school, I'd take a class in German first. Both languages have the same root, so it helps.[/QUOTE]

Im thinking of taking that next year. Right now im taking latin.

So, I gave into Brit today and we're going back out. :-/

Good god, D. Enough is enough.

Hi thread. I have the hiccups.

I'm hoping it goes better this time. She was literally begging me to take her back, and I've felt like crap since the other day. It even got to the point that her father called to find out why she was so upset... Which made me feel like a complete jerk for some reason.

At least I will be happier for now, even if it would be better for me to stay away from her. I don't really care what's good for me right now, if I can just be happy for a little longer. :-/

I think I'm going to go to bed. Goodnight.

Night. Good dreams.

[Tiger]You yellow-bellied pus[font=verdana]s[/font]y, you're going to regret buckling under the pressure and it's going to make you miserable when it goes to crap again.[/Tiger]

Jom was nowhere to be found in the making of this post :p

[QUOTE=Jom][Tiger]You yellow-bellied pus[font=verdana]s[/font]y, you're going to regret buckling under the pressure and it's going to make you miserable when it goes to crap again.[/Tiger]

Jom was nowhere to be found in the making of this post :p[/QUOTE]

Yeah, right!

/Warriors.

I didn't talk to her again today, because one of my friends didn't have anyone to sit with because the people he usually sits with weren't here, so I sat with him. I saw her after lunch and she called me over and I told her where I was and she said "oh that's sweet." Then she gave me her carrots, which she normally gives me everyday, she actually saved them to give to me today. And then she said "notice anything different about me?" and I said "no" and she replied "I'm wearing the bracelet you gave me." Interpretations anyone?

So I've been friends with my neighbors cousin (she lives three hours away) for a few years now, she visits me and my neighbor friends every so often. We have been talking on IM for almost that long too. Now I've always found her attractive, we have great conversations and she is simply an amazing person. But Ive never pursued it because she lives so far away(long distance relationships suck). But recently I heard that she likes me, and odds good that we will be attending the same University in the fall. So this has get me starting to fall for her.

But there is one major issue between us, Religion. She is a devoted Catholic and I'm a fairly staunch athiest. I'm wondering if you guys think this rift between us could mean death for a future dating relationship.

[QUOTE=Biddco]So I've been friends with my neighbors cousin (she lives three hours away) for a few years now, she visits me and my neighbor friends every so often. We have been talking on IM for almost that long too. Now I've always found her attractive, we have great conversations and she is simply an amazing person. But Ive never pursued it because she lives so far away(long distance relationships suck). But recently I heard that she likes me, and odds good that we will be attending the same University in the fall. So this has get me starting to fall for her.

But there is one major issue between us, Religion. She is a devoted Catholic and I'm a fairly staunch athiest. I'm wondering if you guys think this rift between us could mean death for a future dating relationship.[/QUOTE]

I'm going to let someone else take it, because religion isn't my forte.

Well, it's certainly possible. There are some things that you guys will simply not agree on, even casual dating. Depending on how conservative she is (just a stereotype - don't read into it too quickly), she's not going to want to engage in pre-marital sex, for example.

Basically, you guys just need to talk it out, and see what you guys can agree with. If you guys don't address the issue together, it's going to turn into a bad guessing game.

The only thing that could be your saving grace (sorry, bad pun) is that you guys are open and are willing to make compromises and negotiate. On Sundays, chances are she's going to be at church (depending on what time she goes), and she may have church-related activities during the week. Don't chastise her for being Catholic, and she shouldn't/won't chastise you for being athiest. If she tries to get you to go to church with her or something, you don't have to go, you realize, and you don't have to change your beliefs for her.

Again: just talk to her and address this issue. Maybe it will be a non-issue to her. Maybe it will. You won't know until you bring it up.

[QUOTE=Biddco]So I've been friends with my neighbors cousin (she lives three hours away) for a few years now, she visits me and my neighbor friends every so often. We have been talking on IM for almost that long too. Now I've always found her attractive, we have great conversations and she is simply an amazing person. But Ive never pursued it because she lives so far away(long distance relationships suck). But recently I heard that she likes me, and odds good that we will be attending the same University in the fall. So this has get me starting to fall for her.

But there is one major issue between us, Religion. She is a devoted Catholic and I'm a fairly staunch athiest. I'm wondering if you guys think this rift between us could mean death for a future dating relationship.[/QUOTE]
Well it depends, how much do you feel about atheism. and theres no point bringing it up, becoz people have gotten into fights, becoz one believes in god, and the other doesnt and the one that doesnt acts like a superior jerk trying to convince them god isnt real, then the god-believer gets testy about it

I don't think we differ much on political issues/dating issues like prematrial sex. I will definetly respect her religious beliefs, im not a jerk like that. I will definetly talk this over with her when the time is right. It wont be a while for anything major to happen anyway. I will definetly make sure to bring this up before anything serious happens.

But thank you for your advice guys

[QUOTE=Biddco]I don't think we differ much on political issues/dating issues like prematrial sex. I will definetly respect her religious beliefs, im not a jerk like that. I will definetly talk this over with her when the time is right. It wont be a while for anything major to happen anyway. I will definetly make sure to bring this up before anything serious happens.

But thank you for your advice guys[/QUOTE]
well then all should be good:thumb:

Ok, I'm in a rather stupid predicament.
1 guy... three interests...
Girl #1 - My ex gf. We're still very close, hell I'm closer to her then her bf is. She is the first girl I ever made love to. One of the main reasons we broke up was her father, and another is the fact that I moved about 2 hours away for college. Not sure if I should hold out for her though.
Girl #2 - My best friend in high school. We flirted non stop, even when I was with Girl #1, and we were pretty close. I didn't spend much time with her over the summer, cause I worked non stop. I figured our friendship, and any chance of anything more was gone. I'm currently on spring break, and I saw her Tuesday. I spent a lot of time at her house, then we came to mine. She slept at my house... and we made love... multiple times. She told me she loves me... and I realized I do too. But, she also lives 2 hours away from me, and I couldn't deal with a long distance relationship.
Girl #3 - The only girl who lives where I do now. I met her through a friend who lives in the same house as I do. She's in High School, she's 16, and I am 18. She is somewhat religious, whereas I am an atheist. I know she has interest in me though. I am going to spend some time with her after my spring break. She's really cute too.

Here's my problem. I'm in love with both of the first 2 girls, and uncertain about the third. I don't know if I should follow through on dating #3, because I'm afraid of hurting #2. Also, I'm totally confused about my relationship with #1. She has told me on numerous occations that she wishes I still lived nearby, because she wants to have another run with our relationship. I know I shouldn't have slept with the first 2 girls... but I'm in love with them, and definately was at the time for #1. I'm so confused as to which girl to attempt to court. The first 2 girls, I can definately see a real future with, but due to distance, I can't really be with them. I feel stretched out... like Bilbo in LOTR "Like butter spread over too much bread". Any help would be greatly appreciated

[QUOTE=smart blockhead]I didn't talk to her again today, because one of my friends didn't have anyone to sit with because the people he usually sits with weren't here, so I sat with him. I saw her after lunch and she called me over and I told her where I was and she said "oh that's sweet." Then she gave me her carrots, which she normally gives me everyday, she actually saved them to give to me today. And then she said "notice anything different about me?" and I said "no" and she replied "I'm wearing the bracelet you gave me." Interpretations anyone?[/QUOTE]
There's definitely something. She wouldn't purposely try to show that off to you unless she wanted your acknowledgement, if that makes sense. Seems like she was wearing it to impress you. I could be wrong, but in any case, it's certainly a good sign.

[QUOTE=Shady Ultima]Ok, I'm in a rather stupid predicament.
1 guy... three interests...
Girl #1 - My ex gf. We're still very close, hell I'm closer to her then her bf is. She is the first girl I ever made love to. One of the main reasons we broke up was her father, and another is the fact that I moved about 2 hours away for college. Not sure if I should hold out for her though.
Girl #2 - My best friend in high school. We flirted non stop, even when I was with Girl #1, and we were pretty close. I didn't spend much time with her over the summer, cause I worked non stop. I figured our friendship, and any chance of anything more was gone. I'm currently on spring break, and I saw her Tuesday. I spent a lot of time at her house, then we came to mine. She slept at my house... and we made love... multiple times. She told me she loves me... and I realized I do too. But, she also lives 2 hours away from me, and I couldn't deal with a long distance relationship.
Girl #3 - The only girl who lives where I do now. I met her through a friend who lives in the same house as I do. She's in High School, she's 16, and I am 18. She is somewhat religious, whereas I am an atheist. I know she has interest in me though. I am going to spend some time with her after my spring break. She's really cute too.

Here's my problem. I'm in love with both of the first 2 girls, and uncertain about the third. I don't know if I should follow through on dating #3, because I'm afraid of hurting #2. Also, I'm totally confused about my relationship with #1. She has told me on numerous occations that she wishes I still lived nearby, because she wants to have another run with our relationship. I know I shouldn't have slept with the first 2 girls... but I'm in love with them, and definately was at the time for #1. I'm so confused as to which girl to attempt to court. The first 2 girls, I can definately see a real future with, but due to distance, I can't really be with them. I feel stretched out... like Bilbo in LOTR "Like butter spread over too much bread". Any help would be greatly appreciated[/QUOTE]
lmao... dude, you're one of the lucky people in this thread. First of all, you're not really in love with any of them, or else the choice would be completely obvious. I can't really help much more than that though. But you still sound a bit hung on the first girl.

[QUOTE=Shady Ultima]Ok, I'm in a rather stupid predicament.
1 guy... three interests...
Girl #1 - My ex gf. We're still very close, hell I'm closer to her then her bf is. She is the first girl I ever made love to. One of the main reasons we broke up was her father, and another is the fact that I moved about 2 hours away for college. Not sure if I should hold out for her though.
Girl #2 - My best friend in high school. We flirted non stop, even when I was with Girl #1, and we were pretty close. I didn't spend much time with her over the summer, cause I worked non stop. I figured our friendship, and any chance of anything more was gone. I'm currently on spring break, and I saw her Tuesday. I spent a lot of time at her house, then we came to mine. She slept at my house... and we made love... multiple times. She told me she loves me... and I realized I do too. But, she also lives 2 hours away from me, and I couldn't deal with a long distance relationship.
Girl #3 - The only girl who lives where I do now. I met her through a friend who lives in the same house as I do. She's in High School, she's 16, and I am 18. She is somewhat religious, whereas I am an atheist. I know she has interest in me though. I am going to spend some time with her after my spring break. She's really cute too.

Here's my problem. I'm in love with both of the first 2 girls, and uncertain about the third. I don't know if I should follow through on dating #3, because I'm afraid of hurting #2. Also, I'm totally confused about my relationship with #1. She has told me on numerous occations that she wishes I still lived nearby, because she wants to have another run with our relationship. I know I shouldn't have slept with the first 2 girls... but I'm in love with them, and definately was at the time for #1. I'm so confused as to which girl to attempt to court. The first 2 girls, I can definately see a real future with, but due to distance, I can't really be with them. I feel stretched out... like Bilbo in LOTR "Like butter spread over too much bread". Any help would be greatly appreciated[/QUOTE]
ok the first girl has a bf, so she is prob out of reach. firl 3 is just a fling. girl #2 ftw man, especially if shes a good root. that reminds me, say rotted of fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked or something original. alas you love them so you have to say made love:( oh well.

good luck:)

[QUOTE=dazmo]ok the first girl has a bf, so she is prob out of reach. firl 3 is just a fling. girl #2 ftw man, especially if shes a good root. that reminds me, say rotted of fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ked or something original. alas you love them so you have to say made love:( oh well.

good luck:)[/QUOTE]
I agree with going with girl #2, but I didn't want to say anything because it would be more of a personal opinion, rather than what may be the best thing for him. :-/

A couple of hours isn't really [I]that [/I]big of a deal. It's still close enough to meet up, nearly every weekend. You don't have to see her daily or anything.

If I had a vehicle, I prolly would come down more often. Thus where the problem of the distance comes in. My parents are my transportation there and back, and they would not be willing to come get me each weekend. And neither 1 or 2 have a vehicle

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I agree with going with girl #2, but I didn't want to say anything because it would be more of a personal opinion, rather than what may be the best thing for him. :-/

A couple of hours isn't really [I]that [/I]big of a deal. It's still close enough to meet up, nearly every weekend. You don't have to see her daily or anything.[/QUOTE]
you shagged her, repeatedly, and you think you love her. sounds most practical, no? even if you cant see her every weekend, still betta than nothing

[QUOTE=Shady Ultima]If I had a vehicle, I prolly would come down more often. Thus where the problem of the distance comes in. My parents are my transportation there and back, and they would not be willing to come get me each weekend. And neither 1 or 2 have a vehicle[/QUOTE]
That really does cause some problems then. I was assuming you were driving for some reason. Girl #3 would probably just be a fling, but it looks like it's your best choice if you are wanting to stay completely away from a long-distance thing.

Personally, I would go with girl #2, but girl #3 sounds like someone that would fit your lifestyle better. Girl #1 isn't worth it IMO. She'd be bringing too much drama with her. Girl #3 doesn't sound like something that is really serious, but then again, it takes time for something to evolve into a serious relationship.

Explore your options with girl #3, and if you really feel nothing there, go to girl #2. Stay away from girl #1. That's what I'd do anyway. :-/

Don't take in any of what I said too seriously though. I have no clue what the best decision would be, I'm just saying what I would do in your situation. And I'm not know for making the best decisions in the slightest.

And dont take what im saying seriously...seriously. I'm just trying to weigh out the options, but only YOU can make the right choice.

*walks off into sunset*

Lela informed me that she wants to go to a cosmotology college in Seattle. I'm totally supportive of what she wants to do, but she's talking about:

1) Living on campus, where I can't live with her.
2) Seattle is 2 1/2 hours away.
3) I won't be able to afford living on my own here in Oregon, much less in Washington where prices are higher.

To top it off, she told me:

"You won't be able to live with me if I'm in a dorm, but I'm going to see if I can get Dominique in there with me."

Now, things between her and I have been on the up and up and so I'm not going to be all, "If you move I'm dumping you." But she's still pulling her same old stunts and I think that when it comes down to it, if she moves to Seattle, takes her friend over me and basically leaves me out in the cold, it [i]is[/i] going to end.

I really don't know what to do/say to her right now because I want to tell her that I'll be there to support her 100% of the way, but honestly, I can't do that. It's just not in my capacity to do so.

Tell her everything you just said in your post.

Seems like you should be saying all that to her, not to us.

[QUOTE=El Krunk]Lela informed me that she wants to go to a cosmotology college in Seattle. I'm totally supportive of what she wants to do, but she's talking about:

1) Living on campus, where I can't live with her.
2) Seattle is 2 1/2 hours away.
3) I won't be able to afford living on my own here in Oregon, much less in Washington where prices are higher.

To top it off, she told me:

"You won't be able to live with me if I'm in a dorm, but I'm going to see if I can get Dominique in there with me."

Now, things between her and I have been on the up and up and so I'm not going to be all, "If you move I'm dumping you." But she's still pulling her same old stunts and I think that when it comes down to it, if she moves to Seattle, takes her friend over me and basically leaves me out in the cold, it [i]is[/i] going to end.

I really don't know what to do/say to her right now because I want to tell her that I'll be there to support her 100% of the way, but honestly, I can't do that. It's just not in my capacity to do so.[/QUOTE]
see if she can live off campus, but still in washington?

[quote=Wizard]Tell her everything you just said in your post.

Seems like you should be saying all that to her, not to us.[/quote]

I tried.

"Well, I really want to go to this college. The only other ones I can go to are on the east coast." Which is a load of s[size=2]hit[/size] because there's a beauty school right in Portland where my cousin went for the past few years.

[quote=dazmo]see if she can live off campus, but still in washington?[/quote]

"I need my money for college."

The truth is, she doesn't save her money. She spends every penny she earns. She just wants free board because she has scholarships that will pay for most of her schooling and her parents are going to pay for the rest.

She's really being a bitch about this.

[QUOTE=El Krunk]
"I need my money for college."

The truth is, she doesn't save her money. She spends every penny she earns. She just wants free board because she has scholarships that will pay for most of her schooling and her parents are going to pay for the rest.

She's really being a bitch about this.[/QUOTE]
dude tell her all of this, and if she throws it back in your face, she doesnt care about your relationship as much as you do. but dont break up with her unless its real bad