I have a date with this girl that I like tomorrow and it's our first date. we talked a couple of times on messenger and she's pretty cool. I was just wondering if any of you could give me some tips:)

[QUOTE=Dosed3]I have a date with this girl that I like tomorrow and it's our first date. we talked a couple of times on messenger and she's pretty cool. I was just wondering if any of you could give me some tips:)[/QUOTE]

Play it cool. That is to say, treat her as a friend as this point, but throw in a little light flirting to make sure she knows friendship isn't your ultimate aim.

[QUOTE=El Coyote]Masturbate. Relationships aren't all about sex.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, but more importantly, do it before you see her, or before you're in a situation were you might do something your gonna regret, really.

oh, by the way guys: [SIZE="5"]Don't fu[SIZE="5"]c[/SIZE]king go out with your friends, it will just ruin everything for everybody.[/SIZE]

Thanks:)

I just started going out with this girl yesterday, and I have no idea what to get her for Valentines day. I know what kind of music she listens to, but I don't know what CD to get her because I don't want me to get it and her already own it. Any ideas?

Also, she has a different group of friends than I do, so I'm really not sure what to do. Her friends don't like me, but should I still hang out with her and her friends?

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]I just started going out with this girl yesterday, and I have no idea what to get her for Valentines day. I know what kind of music she listens to, but I don't know what CD to get her because I don't want me to get it and her already own it. Any ideas?

Also, she has a different group of friends than I do, so I'm really not sure what to do. Her friends don't like me, but should I still hang out with her and her friends?[/QUOTE]


For five days, just, go out. I mean, if you guys are walking around, sure, get her something, but Really, 5 days ehhh

Thats why I always wait till after birtdays and valentines day to ask people out. :lol:

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]oh, by the way guys: [SIZE="5"]Don't fu[SIZE="5"]c[/SIZE]king go out with your friends, it will just ruin everything for everybody.[/SIZE]

Thanks:)[/QUOTE]

What happened?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What happened?[/QUOTE]


Well, two of my friends, who were decent friends themselves started going out not too long ago, no biggie, nothing really changed, but girl expects alot more from the guy then she should, becuase this guy is realllllllly laid back, really really laid back. So now shes all depressed and her "friend" isn't making it better by what she says, becuase well, ill just illustrate the friendships

Ashley is friends with therese
Therese is going out with tom
tom is friends with ashley
I was going out with christing
christine is/was friends with ashley
im baisically friends with all of them.

K, so ashley baisically told christime to break up with me because she was jealous(of me) but she made up reasons, and lied. Alot. Now asley is all the sudden deciding to tell therese stuff tom said about her like how he doesnt care that shes upset and stuff, which i know he never said, becuase while he light hearted, hes not a jerk, not to mention, she wont even talk to him about any of this, so he has no idea. and well, thats baiscally it. But now our nice little friendship is a "drama-ed" up. :angry:

I'm working to fix it.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Well, two of my friends, who were decent friends themselves started going out not too long ago, no biggie, nothing really changed, but girl expects alot more from the guy then she should, becuase this guy is realllllllly laid back, really really laid back. So now shes all depressed and her "friend" isn't making it better by what she says, becuase well, ill just illustrate the friendships

Ashley is friends with therese
Therese is going out with tom
tom is friends with ashley
I was going out with christing
christine is/was friends with ashley
im baisically friends with all of them.

K, so ashley baisically told christime to break up with me because she was jealous(of me) but she made up reasons, and lied. Alot. Now asley is all the sudden deciding to tell therese stuff tom said about her like how he doesnt care that shes upset and stuff, which i know he never said, becuase while he light hearted, hes not a jerk, not to mention, she wont even talk to him about any of this, so he has no idea. and well, thats baiscally it. But now our nice little friendship is a "drama-ed" up. :angry:

I'm working to fix it.[/QUOTE]

Ugh. All it takes is one person to throw a wrench into the works.

Ashley sounds like a pain.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Ugh. All it takes is one person to throw a wrench into the works.

Ashley sounds like a pain.[/QUOTE]


Yeah, shes a pain, in soo many ways.
O well, But this situation ahs gotten me thinking, maybe highschool, or at least freshmen [I]are[/I] too young to be dating, Because for the most part, we don'tr eally know what we want out of a relationship.
I mean, I just recently realized what I want, but only becuase of reading this thread, which is a tool most other people don't have.

I WONNNNN I WONNN

Okay, so a little while ago, mayybe a month, me and my friend got into a fight becuaes hes an idiot,a nd we deleted each other from myspace, he left my tabel at lunch, blocked each other on IM, NO communication, accept when he was bit[size=2]c[/size]hing about me to our mutual friend, who always had to tell him about he hes wrong. and I'm right. Becuase he had to get over himself, we werent talking, fine, But he couldn't let that be.baisically. Well, now hes decided to be my friend on myspace.
Now, I dont take myspace serious or anything, but its what it represents, he realized that while I've thrived, ive made 3 new friends, which has make me much more social, and I'm actually happier but now, hes conceded. Yessssss

/gloat.

[QUOTE=MEssage on myspace from my friend greg]ok i might have over reacted and i shouldn't have called you a poser and even if you are an spatula i'm probably one too so, i'm sorry and i want to be wanye and garth again, or bill and ted or any other dynamic dou with long hair kick as[SIZE="2"]s[/SIZE] music[/QUOTE]


Edit, sorry for double, I was caught up in the moment

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]For five days, just, go out. I mean, if you guys are walking around, sure, get her something, but Really, 5 days ehhh

Thats why I always wait till after birtdays and valentines day to ask people out. :lol:[/QUOTE]

Yeah but she's getting me something. I feel obligated.

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Yeah but she's getting me something. I feel obligated.[/QUOTE]


Well, if shes getting you something, then yeah, your kind ain a bind there.

Just get a nice litlle somthin somethin.

So I've been single since July and I finally have someone interested in me that I like. Theres been a few girls at college, but they were just annoying college girls if you know what I mean. So now theres this new girl and shes cool and has everything I could ask for in a girl. This is a useless post but I figured I'd share. I'm happy. Thanks.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Yeah, but more importantly, do it before you see her, or before you're in a situation were you might do something your gonna regret, really.

oh, by the way guys: [SIZE="5"]Don't fu[SIZE="5"]c[/SIZE]king go out with your friends, it will just ruin everything for everybody.[/SIZE]

Thanks:)[/QUOTE]

wow.. both parts are pretty much dead on. Even though I think the best relationships are usually they were good friends before hand.. when you break up, it can cause a lot of problems (first hand expierence)

Speaking of friends and girlfriends, I've recently becamse friends with my ex, who I hated passionately until the last week or so. But I think she has a thing for me again, which may be why she's being friendly again. :(

I'll just assume she's being genuinely noce though. :)

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]wow.. both parts are pretty much dead on. Even though I think the best relationships are usually they were good friends before hand.. when you break up, it can cause a lot of problems (first hand expierence)[/QUOTE]

Well, its not so much that they should be friends first, but that they should know each other well enough, which implies that that they become friends.
I think that makes sense

All right, I'm not really looking for advice or anything. I don't really know what I want, but I just want to get this out.

All right, so this girl and I really started liking eachother. I had gotten really strong feelings for her and she actually felt the same and it was a new feeling for me and I really liked it. This is what a typical day was like during the school week:

I would get up at 4 am or sometimes even earlier and be so excited because then I would talk to her on AIM. She would always ask me to wake her up when I do. So I'd usually wait a little bit to let her get some sleep and then I'd IM her and it would wake her up. Then we'd just talk for a while about our dreams and stuff and pretty much anything. Then we'd both get ready for school and then talk to eachother on AIM again before school started for a good half hour or longer. Then we had the same first period class and we'd just sit there and stare at eachother for more than half the period. I just loved staring at her eyes and the way she looked back. I miss it soooo much. And then we'd both walk out of class together and I just remember being so close to her. Our bodies were always touching eachother and we'd even playfully grab eachother's hands or something. Then she'd see her boyfriend and kiss him and then come back and walk with me. Our next period class was right next to eachother so we'd walk to it and then we'd wait for eachother after class and walk to another class always touching eachother. Then we wouldn't see eachother untill lunch. Then in lunch, we would always go into the lunch line together and talk and just tickle eachother or something. We seriously flirted a lot. Then after lunch we'd walk together and still touching eachother or holding hands or whatever and she'd go to her locker and we'd talk and everything. I would pass her a note and then we'd go to our class. Then after class she gave me a note and she'd touch me or wherever and then we wouldn't see eachother in school again. Then, after school. we'd just talk on AIM till it was night time.

That's pretty much what happened for a good 2 months. And then it just ended in a heartbeat. I miss it sooo much. I wish I could have it back. I was so happy. Now I just feel like doing nothing. She lead me on and everything and she dumped her boyfriend. And now she's back with him and I don't even know anymore. It just pisses me off sometimes and makes me sad. It pisses me off even more when she's out with her boyfriend being all happy and I'm just sitting her depressed and doing nothing. But it's not like I even feel like doing anything. Oh well....

[QUOTE=allalone]All right, I'm not really looking for advice or anything. I don't really know what I want, but I just want to get this out.

All right, so this girl and I really started liking eachother. I had gotten really strong feelings for her and she actually felt the same and it was a new feeling for me and I really liked it. This is what a typical day was like during the school week:

I would get up at 4 am or sometimes even earlier and be so excited because then I would talk to her on AIM. She would always ask me to wake her up when I do. So I'd usually wait a little bit to let her get some sleep and then I'd IM her and it would wake her up. Then we'd just talk for a while about our dreams and stuff and pretty much anything. Then we'd both get ready for school and then talk to eachother on AIM again before school started for a good half hour or longer. Then we had the same first period class and we'd just sit there and stare at eachother for more than half the period. I just loved staring at her eyes and the way she looked back. I miss it soooo much. And then we'd both walk out of class together and I just remember being so close to her. Our bodies were always touching eachother and we'd even playfully grab eachother's hands or something. Then she'd see her boyfriend and kiss him and then come back and walk with me. Our next period class was right next to eachother so we'd walk to it and then we'd wait for eachother after class and walk to another class always touching eachother. Then we wouldn't see eachother untill lunch. Then in lunch, we would always go into the lunch line together and talk and just tickle eachother or something. We seriously flirted a lot. Then after lunch we'd walk together and still touching eachother or holding hands or whatever and she'd go to her locker and we'd talk and everything. I would pass her a note and then we'd go to our class. Then after class she gave me a note and she'd touch me or wherever and then we wouldn't see eachother in school again. Then, after school. we'd just talk on AIM till it was night time.

That's pretty much what happened for a good 2 months. And then it just ended in a heartbeat. I miss it sooo much. I wish I could have it back. I was so happy. Now I just feel like doing nothing. She lead me on and everything and she dumped her boyfriend. And now she's back with him and I don't even know anymore. It just pisses me off sometimes and makes me sad. It pisses me off even more when she's out with her boyfriend being all happy and I'm just sitting her depressed and doing nothing. But it's not like I even feel like doing anything. Oh well....[/QUOTE]


Yeah mean, its sucks, girls can be like that. I know how you feel. You think you have a chance, and then "nope" denied. And you can't do anything.
BUt hey, grab a beer(or not thats not the important part) and just find a friend or two and hang out. I know its easier said than done, I can never get over girls, i usually don't want to, Its that warm fuzzy feeling, even if you know they don't share it. Eh....

Kimmie: I sent the package today and didn't royally fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] that up! Hooray!

How's your friend situation going?

[QUOTE=Jom]Kimmie: I sent the package today and didn't royally fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] that up! Hooray!

How's your friend situation going?[/QUOTE]

Haven't talked to her, of course.

I can't wait to see what happens when she gets your package.

This doesnt really belong here...
 

But i don't want to make a thread.

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K, so I lost my history book last semester, now i have tp pay 60$ for a book that was falling apart or I don't get to sing up for classes. So on monday, Im just gonna sit in the office and refuse to leave untill i talk to somebody about how inane it is to stop a student from signing up for classes.
No sports i understan
No extra-curricular actibites i get
and the such
But its a SCHOOL!!
Mother fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ker, this is bulls[SIZE="2"]h[/SIZE]it

I've long been planning to buy a promise ring for my girl for our 1 year(March 5th), and I guess I should get shopping. But since we've been screwy lately, and I'm pissed at her, I don't feel like buying something like that. I guess I shouldn't let this fight ruin the plan though, since it will be the only 1 year we ever have. But, if we broke up soon, that would mean I just wasted even more money on her. :-/

Should I buy it or not?

Also, should I even bother sending her flowers and other cliche crap for Valentine's Day? Doesn't sound right to let an argument ruin special days for us, but getting her stuff could send the wrong message.

Hmm...

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]But i don't want to make a thread.

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K, so I lost my history book last semester, now i have tp pay 60$ for a book that was falling apart or I don't get to sing up for classes. So on monday, Im just gonna sit in the office and refuse to leave untill i talk to somebody about how inane it is to stop a student from signing up for classes.
No sports i understan
No extra-curricular actibites i get
and the such
But its a SCHOOL!!
Mother fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]ker, this is bulls[SIZE="2"]h[/SIZE]it[/QUOTE]
Dude, just wait to you start college sourses. You have to pay for every damned book you use, and when you sell them, you rarely get the money you need back. Not to mention that cheaper collegeshave some really poorly made textbooks.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Haven't talked to her, of course.

I can't wait to see what happens when she gets your package.[/QUOTE]

/sideswipes sexual connotation

We'll see, I guess. We talked really briefly last night, as in, maybe two minutes. And of course, I had the card and gift all sealed up because I took care of it after I finished my term paper, so it's not like I could have changed anything. If she says anything, I'm just going to say that I asked the post office on Wednesday to hold it until Friday or something.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've long been planning to buy a promise ring for my girl for our 1 year(March 5th), and I guess I should get shopping. But since we've been screwy lately, and I'm pissed at her, I don't feel like buying something like that. I guess I shouldn't let this fight ruin the plan though, since it will be the only 1 year we ever have. But, if we broke up soon, that would mean I just wasted even more money on her. :-/

Should I buy it or not?

Also, should I even bother sending her flowers and other cliche crap for Valentine's Day? Doesn't sound right to let an argument ruin special days for us, but getting her stuff could send the wrong message.

Hmm...[/QUOTE]

I saw somewhere else that you're trying to teach her a lesson. What lesson might that be?

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Dude, just wait to you start college sourses. You have to pay for every damned book you use, and when you sell them, you rarely get the money you need back. Not to mention that cheaper collegeshave some really poorly made textbooks.[/QUOTE]


Yeah, i take some over the summer.

/is a nerd

[QUOTE=Jom]/sideswipes sexual connotation[/QUOTE]

Oops, sorry. Didn't mean it that way. :lol:

Why would she say anything about when it was mailed?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I saw somewhere else that you're trying to teach her a lesson. What lesson might that be?[/QUOTE]
Not really teaching her a lesson. I told her off the other night, and told her I'm not living for her anymore, that I'm going to have fun and stop worrying about her, and that if she wants to talk to me, she can call me as long as I'm not busy.

But I've been busy the past three times she's called, because she only happens to call when my friend is over. So now she is pissed because she thinks I'm ignoring her. Now she knows what it feels like, lol.

For some reason her being pissed at me makes me much happier. :p

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Not really teaching her a lesson. I told her off the other night, and told her I'm not living for her anymore, that I'm going to have fun and stop worrying about her, and that if she wants to talk to me, she can call me as long as I'm not busy.

But I've been busy the past three times she's called, because she only happens to call when my friend is over. So now she is pissed because she thinks I'm ignoring her. Now she knows what it feels like, lol.

For some reason her being pissed at me makes me much happier. :p[/QUOTE]

Ive been there, if you keep that up, it won't work. You have to humble yourself eventually, and compromise.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Yeah, i take some over the summer.

/is a nerd[/QUOTE]
If trying to stay ahead in life means you're a nerd, then I wish I was a nerd. :(

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Ive been there, if you keep that up, it won't work. You have to humble yourself eventually, and compromise.[/QUOTE]
I'm not doing it on purpose, she just thinks I am, which is hilarious. I've compromised enough if you've read my past issues. I'm not worried about anything though. I don't really care what happens at the moment.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]If trying to stay ahead in life means you're a nerd, then I wish I was a nerd. :([/QUOTE]

Thats the thing, they don't actually count for anything, I just take them cause I can.
:lol:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I'm not doing it on purpose, she just thinks I am, which is hilarious. I've compromised enough if you've read my past issues. I'm not worried about anything though. I don't really care what happens at the moment.[/QUOTE]
Oh, alrighty then

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Thats the thing, they don't actually count for anything, I just take them cause I can.
:lol:[/QUOTE]
Well then, you sir, are a nerd. :p

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Ive been there, if you keep that up, it won't work. You have to humble yourself eventually, and compromise.[/QUOTE]

I disagree. You have to do what's right for you. If you don't like someone's behavior then you don't have to deal with it.

Like I was saying last night, my friend being mad at me might not be a bad thing.

D., I think what you're doing here is a good thing. Stepping back a little is a good idea.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Well then, you sir, are a nerd. :p[/QUOTE]

HAHAH, yeah.... But alot of the other kids that do it as well are really cool, thats were i got into BLS Megadeth Metallica NIN, learned about shrooms.. and yeahh..

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I disagree. You have to do what's right for you. If you don't like someone's behavior then you don't have to deal with it.

Like I was saying last night, my friend being mad at me might not be a bad thing.

D., I think what you're doing here is a good thing. Stepping back a little is a good idea.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, your probably right

[QUOTE=Wizard.] I don't really care what happens at the moment.[/QUOTE]
yes


yes



yes


from now on though demonstrate that you're not going to "live for her" instead of verbalizing it. its betta

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]HAHAH, yeah.... But alot of the other kids that do it as well are really cool, thats were i got into BLS Megadeth Metallica NIN, learned about shrooms.. and yeahh..[/QUOTE]
Shrooms =/= Cool

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Shrooms =/= Cool[/QUOTE]


I also learned that there. That was more to evidence that it was like pocket protector nerds. eh, nevermind

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oops, sorry. Didn't mean it that way. :lol:

Why would she say anything about when it was mailed?[/QUOTE]

You remember the message I passed by you to make sure it sounded alright? Well, I don't want her to be like, "What are you talking about, 'things are kind of rough' still? We've talked since then!"

So, yeah. Hopefully that doesn't happen :)

I need some valentines day gift ideas.

Theres this girl I like, and I dunno how she feels about me. Sometimes she seems really into me, and sometimes we just dont seem to get on that crash got.

Anywho, I wanna get her something simple that shows her I care, but I dont want it to be too extravagent a gift to make me look like a fool incase she doesnt like me. Anytips?