Yes, I would guess that would have come out late 70s, early 80s.

It doesn't seem like the 80's and 70's were too far before my time for some reason, but they actually were..

/random thought that's been buggin me

My brother has the [i]Space Jam OST[/i], too!

Everybody get up, it's time to slam now
We got a real jam goin' down
Welcome to the Space Jam
Here's your chance, do your dance at the Space Jam... alright!

QUAD CITY DJs!

It's your boy Jay-Z...

Please upload that and send it to me!

[url]http://s41.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=2WM1OUZUJBTBO1CJH3245XQFA1[/url]

in any case, that's the theme song.

you guys remember what I posted yesterday? I tihnk it'll lead to us breaking up.


Fortunately, it looks like it will be a more mutual thing.

Edit: We've decided it will be more of a cooling off period. We'll spend some time apart, and then if we still feel the same way about each other we'll try again.

Sometimes breaks are good. Good luck.

Think it would be a good idea to go out with some other girls this weekend to see if I can break the attachment I have to Brit?

As of now, it looks like we could work it all out. I would like to, but i don't know, my feelings about her are screwed up right now. I could go out with a few friends tonight, and I know a couple of them have crushes on me. One of them is the girl I kissed before. :-/

Should I go have fun and take my mind off things, or stay completely loyal to Brit? Surely, if I went and did anything with another girl, it could very well ruin my chances with getting back together with her.

Depends on where you last left it with Brit. If its a "break" right now with her, then go out and have some fun.

You aren't chained to this girl, especially at your age. If you can't go out and have fun with friends (some who just happen to be girls), that's not going to do you any good, heh.

Well, we are broken up right now, and she called me earlier. I told her I don't trust her at all, and I still can't believe she did that. She says she just wants to work it out, and that she terribly regrets it. but if she regretted it so much, how could she just act normal and hide it from me the whole time I was down there visiting her last week? I can't take her word, but I do want to somehow settle things with her.

But I got over past ex's by messing around wityh other girls, and I'm assuming that's how I will have to do it again. I'm not sure if i want to get over her or not though. The worse thing that could happen with anotehr girl is kissing or making out at the very worse. Surely she'd be over to handle that even if I did do it. What she did was worse IMO. :-/

Hmm...

[QUOTE=Jom]You aren't chained to this girl, especially at your age. If you can't go out and have fun with friends (some who just happen to be girls), that's not going to do you any good, heh.[/QUOTE]
The main reason I want to go out with them tonight and maybe tomorrow is because they are girls. <.< I don't have many guy friends, actually.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Well, we are broken up right now, and she called me earlier. I told her I don't trust her at all, and I still can't believe she did that. She says she just wants to work it out, and that she terribly regrets it. but if she regretted it so much, how could she just act normal and hide it from me the whole time I was down there visiting her last week? I can't take her word, but I do want to somehow settle things with her.

But I got over past ex's by messing around wityh other girls, and I'm assuming that's how I will have to do it again. I'm not sure if i want to get over her or not though. The worse thing that could happen with anotehr girl is kissing or making out at the very worse. Surely she'd be over to handle that even if I did do it. What she did was worse IMO. :-/

Hmm...


The main reason I want to go out with them tonight and maybe tomorrow is because they are girls. <.< I don't have many guy friends, actually.[/QUOTE]

If you're on a break I say go out. And do whatever. It'll take your mind off of her.

I have a quick question:

Theres this girl I really like. We're really great friends, and have been basically since school started this year. Recently I learned that someone else likes her as well, and they might be planning to ask her out soon. Tonight I'm seeing her. Do you think it would be a bad idea to ask her out tonight because it might ruin our friendship?

Honestly Kimmie, Ive pretty much had it with this one. My brother is turning 20 soon and he is involved with a pyscho. Thats pretty much what I think of her. She is very over protective of my brother, which at first, I understood because of her background. I mean, she is rasied in a very "Greek" (not trying to sound stereotypical) so shes used to being babied by her parents and family.

Well, my family is far from that and we are all pretty much independent people. Now, they have been dating for about a year and a half and they fight more and more. I know my brother doesnt like it but he loves her so who am I to say anything?

I stayed out of it until about a month ago. I have her on my msn and we got into it huge one night,(to keep a long story short) where I pretty much told her how I felt about her and that she needs to get her act together. We avoided each other for a few weeks, until we made up a few days ago and were able to talk/tolerate and make peace with that happened.

Anyway, their relationship has become so unhealthy that Shane (my brother) was suppose to call her at 10pm last night. He called her at 10:15pm and she flipped on him. SHe was so mad and they fought the whole night. He is pretty much fed up and we talked about it today. Well the serious why Im so mad is because Im online trying to figure out some college stuff, and Im on the phone with my work trying to figure out stuff about my T4. She comes online and here is the jist our conversation.

Stacey: Can you let shane on the computer because he had to get off the phone for you to use it?
Me: No, Im busy. I dont have time to let him on here.
Stacey: well thats not fair, this is importnant.
Me: Im pretty sure you fighting with SHane isnt as important as my college stuff.
Stacey: 5 mins wont ruin your college
Me: Can you just stop..for once?
Stacey: YOu think you know everything eh
Me: I do, thanks.
Stacey: Fuk you, I hate you anyway.

She just makes me so angry. How can people actually be like this???
My brother knows he has to change stuff with her, which is aagain, his business...I dont like when she says anything to me because she is way out of line. I want to punch her in the face.

I remember you telling me about her a month or so ago, Nicole. When Shane was sleeping and she wanted you to go wake him up for no good reason. That's when the giant fight between her and you ensued.

About the only thing you can do is cut her off at the pass when she tries to say anything to you. It's aggravating as hell, but, as you know, she's his burden. She doesn't have to be your burden, though.


TO CRIPPLE:

Ask her out tonight, but make sure she knows that if she says no it won't ruin the friendship between you.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
About the only thing you can do is cut her off at the pass when she tries to say anything to you. It's aggravating as hell, but, as you know, she's his burden. She doesn't have to be your burden, though.


[/QUOTE]

Yah I know. I really dont want to deal with her anymore. But I wish someone would smarten her up.

I need to learn how to meet new people.

As long as Shane doesn't object to her behavior, she'll, of course, continue being the way she is. Unfortunately.

I wouldn't be nice to her just because of him though.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]

TO CRIPPLE:

Ask her out tonight, but make sure she knows that if she says no it won't ruin the friendship between you.[/QUOTE]


thanks very much..i did just that, but she said that she thought we'd better stay friends...oh well, at least we are still friends

[QUOTE=Cripple]thanks very much..i did just that, but she said that she thought we'd better stay friends...oh well, at least we are still friends[/QUOTE]
u deserve some ice cream for having the courage to ask her

or some candy of some sort

[QUOTE=Cripple]thanks very much..i did just that, but she said that she thought we'd better stay friends...oh well, at least we are still friends[/QUOTE]

And you now know where you stand. So this is good.

LOL, Kimmie...guess what idiot is sitting like..right beside me on another couch. Yup, Stupidhead.

Ive just going to take your advice and ignore her childish ways. Im not going to let her get under my skin anymore, I would rather laugh at her :)

Once again, good work for having the balls to ask:D

Yeah, kudos from me as well. And at least nothing was lost by asking, either, so you're still good friends.

Ugh, I just heard angela has tried pot for the first time today

i dont know why.. but i am just really dissapointed in that :-/

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]Ugh, I just heard angela has tried pot for the first time today

i dont know why.. but i am just really dissapointed in that :-/[/QUOTE]


Is it disappointment because you dont approve or because she didnt blaze with you (just so I know whats going on hurr)

Just that she tried it :-/

I mean I tried it this past summer 2-3 times but I have stopped and I don't know why.. just I feel betrayed in a way (even though we're not going out anymore or anything) I told her last night that I don't reccommed her drinking or smoking and just that I don't want her to get into that kinda thing. :-/

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]Just that she tried it :-/

I mean I tried it this past summer 2-3 times but I have stopped and I don't know why.. just I feel betrayed in a way (even though we're not going out anymore or anything) I told her last night that I don't reccommed her drinking or smoking and just that I don't want her to get into that kinda thing. :-/[/QUOTE]


Well I can understand the fact that you want to still look out for her nontheless, but I guess if she is responsible and doesnt make it a bad habit than theres really nothing you can be disappointed at. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel and where you are coming from though.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Well I can understand the fact that you want to still look out for her nontheless, but I guess if she is responsible and doesnt make it a bad habit than theres really nothing you can be disappointed at. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel and where you are coming from though.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I know that she is pretty responsible buut I guess I just still want to protect her and everything from like when we were going out. :-/

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]Yeah, I know that she is pretty responsible buut I guess I just still want to protect her and everything from like when we were going out. :-/[/QUOTE]


I think thats normal. You still care about her.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]Yeah, I know that she is pretty responsible buut I guess I just still want to protect her and everything from like when we were going out. :-/[/QUOTE]

Yah of course. and it is a natural way to feel nontheless. I mean, when you are use to someone and how they are, (regardless if you break up or not) its still weird trying to think of them changing or doing things they wouldnt normally do.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]I think thats normal. You still care about her.[/QUOTE]

but it sucks :(

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]but it sucks :([/QUOTE]


Your gonna learn how to not care about her AS much as you used to. It takes time.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]LOL, Kimmie...guess what idiot is sitting like..right beside me on another couch. Yup, Stupidhead.

Ive just going to take your advice and ignore her childish ways. Im not going to let her get under my skin anymore, I would rather laugh at her :)[/QUOTE]

Better late than never, babe. Sorry.

Laugh all you want...and if Shane says one word about it you tell him that you have a life and HE nees to get one...without the Stupidhead from hell.

Ok, well, I spent the night at the movies with Kristen and a couple of her friends and some other people. I didn't end up doing anything at all, which is good because I was worried I would get carried away with her. The only thing that happened was Kristen squeezing my hand during the entire movie, and I'm sure that wasn't because she was scared. :-/

I completely forgot about Brit and the drama for that short time, and as soon as I got home the bad moods hit me all at once. The more I think about what happened, the angrier I get at Brit. She really does seem depressed and sorry about the whole situation. Still, I feel like I don't want to be with her anymore, and at the same time I feel like I couldn't live without her. I can't picture myself with any other girl. I feel guilty, like I'm cheating just when I think about it. I feel like I need Brit, despite our problems. But if I needed her so badly, why is she so easy to forget when I'm out an about with friends and other girls?

Bah, sorry for my melodramatic whining. -.-

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Ok, well, I spent the night at the movies with Kristen and a couple of her friends and some other people. I didn't end up doing anything at all, which is good because I was worried I would get carried away with her. The only thing that happened was Kristen squeezing my hand during the entire movie, and I'm sure that wasn't because she was scared. :-/

I completely forgot about Brit and the drama for that short time, and as soon as I got home the bad moods hit me all at once. The more I think about what happened, the angrier I get at Brit. She really does seem depressed and sorry about the whole situation. Still, I feel like I don't want to be with her anymore, and at the same time I feel like I couldn't live without her. I can't picture myself with any other girl. I feel guilty, like I'm cheating just when I think about it. I feel like I need Brit, despite our problems. But if I needed her so badly, why is she so easy to forget when I'm out an about with friends and other girls?

Bah, sorry for my melodramatic whining. -.-[/QUOTE]

d/w, im sure she whines about you.

dude, brit is just seeking attention, and this means you will be able to move on. just be friends with brit, and if she cant accept that, well its not up to you to father her. shes acting more like your child than your girlfriend

oh and icksnay on telling itbray oabout the ateday
(nicks on telling brit about the date)

Dude, you have to remember that relationships are supposed to be fun and a positive addition to your life. Wtih Brit, it certainly doesn't seem that way. I truthfully think and as hard as it may be, take a break. You will get over it and it could open up to some exciting things you have been missing in your life.

It wasn't really a date though. I was just "meeting up with friends". She knows I went, she just doesn't know who I was with or anything. She'd probably scream at me if she knew who I was with, since she already went through a whole ordeal because she thought I was cheating on her with Kristen.

Being with Brit is fun. We are normally perfect for each other. It's just the last couple of months have been over-the-top screwy. Now the girls keeps ****ing calling me and ends up crying and hanging up on me. That's never going to let us get over one another. And I really don't even want to. I want to be with her, just want to know I can trust her again.

I need a way to see inside her head. She's never been this bad of an attention whore. She always has been, but this has been too much even for her. I would like a way just to get her to stay calm while I talk to her. Any tips on making a girl calm down when she's upset?

Shoot her?

seriously though, i know you picture yourself with this perfect girl who makes you happy blah blah blahbity blah. Dude, wake up, she doesnt make you happy anymore, shes changed, she isnt committed like you are, instead of just talking to you, and trying to be rational, she does stupid things, she doesnt respect you and she sounds like shes trying to take the easy way out.


Sorry for being brutal