[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]I don't want to go into too much detail, but since October, I've been reeled in, chewed up and spat out again by various guys. Every single time I've put my trust in them, they've let me down, and then I feel stupid for ever loving them in the first place. I guess maybe it's just bad luck. There just always seems to be someone better than me y'know?

Alright. Rant over.
[/QUOTE]

So basically you don't believe in love cause some guys are dicks?

You just need to find the right guy.

/insert chick flick

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]So basically you don't believe in love cause some guys are dicks?

You just need to find the right guy.

/insert chick flick[/QUOTE]

Yeah you're right.

Cheers.

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]Yeah you're right. [B]I'm only 18. The best is yet to come right?[/B] I guess I've just got hurt feelings at the moment.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]

Anytime Becky. :)

The [B]bold[/B] bit is spot on.

:) Cool cool. I guess I'll start feeling better soon.

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]Yeah you're right.

Cheers.[/QUOTE]

Beckster:

If it makes you feel any better (I caught the "always someone better than me" comment, and I know what you meant) as guys age, if they're not shallow guys, they stop doing the "grass is greener" nonsense. At your age though, it's more apt to happen. It won't always be that way, though. Keep in mind that guys mature much more slowly than girls, so you just gotta wait it out.

It'll be okay. :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Keep in mind that guys mature much more slowly than girls[/QUOTE]

Not all of us...

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Beckster:

If it makes you feel any better (I caught the "always someone better than me" comment, and I know what you meant) as guys age, if they're not shallow guys, they stop doing the "grass is greener" nonsense. At your age though, it's more apt to happen. It won't always be that way, though. Keep in mind that guys mature much more slowly than girls, so you just gotta wait it out.

It'll be okay. :)[/QUOTE]

That does make me feel better thank you. I guess I'll just take my mum's advice and just stay away from guys for a while until I've got myself sorted out first. I'm not really in any rush to settle down or anything, I just want to find someone who doesn't either lead me on or get in the process of finding someone better when I'm trying to put my trust in them.

I'm just going to have fun with my friends. Enjoy the single life whilst I can.

Thanks for th advice Kimmie. :-*

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]That does make me feel better thank you. I guess I'll just take my mum's advice and just stay away from guys for a while until I've got myself sorted out first. I'm not really in any rush to settle down or anything, I just want to find someone who doesn't either lead me on or get in the process of finding someone better when I'm trying to put my trust in them.

I'm just going to have fun with my friends. Enjoy the single life whilst I can.

Thanks for th advice Kimmie. :-*[/QUOTE]

Anytime, snooks. :-*

[quote=Chrysostom]Not all of us...[/quote]

I should have qualified that with a "for the most part." Sorry. :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I should have qualified that with a "for the most part." Sorry. :)[/QUOTE]

Ha ha ha. No worries. It's not like I took offence.*




















*[size=1]hands your pyscho man a chainsaw[/size]

excuse me while i go throw myself off a cliff.

[QUOTE=~grif~]excuse me while i go throw myself off a cliff.[/QUOTE]


( i take the exxageration)

do you say that as a joke to kimmies comment? or becuase of your situation?

[QUOTE=The Fonz]( i take the exxageration)

do you say that as a joke to kimmies comment? or becuase of your situation?[/QUOTE]
because of my situation, sorry i didnt read anything between it. Was just a random comment.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Ha ha ha. No worries. It's not like I took offence.*




















*[size=1]hands your pyscho man a chainsaw[/size][/QUOTE]

Don't worry, he's got plenty of chainsaws just lying around looking to be put into action. He'll chainsaw Chaindrive soon enough.

well, a) get off the internet
b) sit down, and think about the right way to handle it, prepare for the consequences, and think about how you can help the situation out.

Is your best bet. imo

Edit- to grif

[QUOTE=smart blockhead]I just got off the phone and everything went fine. She still wants to go on the date and we worked everything out. She said that other guy annoys her sometimes too and we talked about our lives in general and had a good time and laughed etc.[/QUOTE]
Ado chap. Sorry, I know this is old news now but... nice one. Glad to hear it's working out OK.

[QUOTE=The Fonz]well, a) get off the internet
b) sit down, and think about the right way to handle it, prepare for the consequences, and think about how you can help the situation out.

Is your best bet. imo

Edit- to grif[/QUOTE]
a) i have to use the internet
b) ive sent them an email explaining it, putting Sierra in the clear and hopefully not ****ing up things with me and the Volunteering.

[QUOTE=~grif~]a) i have to use the internet
b) ive sent them an email explaining it, putting Sierra in the clear and hopefully not ****ing up things with me and the Volunteering.[/QUOTE]

What did you tell your mom?

[QUOTE=~grif~]a) i have to use the internet
b) ive sent them an email explaining it, putting Sierra in the clear and hopefully not ****ing up things with me and the Volunteering.[/QUOTE]


The "get off the internet" was for advice, not as a GTFO my inratwebs, remark.

And howd you pull that e-mail off?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You're right about not having enough time (3 months) to get something going, and what if you did? You'd be leaving anyway. So, unless she'd be willing to leave with you, why bother?

What are your plans after high school? College? If so, you'll meet tons of new people and your prospects will be greater.

So, just hang tight for the next 3 months. :)

EDIT: Dammit, a bunch of you got in my way. :p

This was to Tojes.[/QUOTE]
Yeah this thing moves quite teh fast. :eek:

Thanks anyway Kimmie. My plans are college, indeed, and I suppose that's the best thing to do. But I'll feel alone all this months. meh, I'll just bear. I don't think I mentioned it, but my friends swear they can't think of me with a girlfriend. They can't imagine a female character that's as mentally messed as myself. Yeah, I guess that makes up for it.

***

Regarding on what Becky said, I'd say yes don't have faith in men now. We are in that stage of our lives where seeing a vag¡na still gives us creeps. Once the whole fornication thing becomes boring (eh... i'd give that a couple extra decades... I was thinking of a time when you hav ebetter priorities) we have time for relating to other human beings, and especially giving a damn about others, especially a female.

So yeah I'd wait. But remember, there's always hope. :)

[QUOTE=The Fonz]The "get off the internet" was for advice, not as a GTFO my inratwebs, remark.

And howd you pull that e-mail off?[/QUOTE]
I explained everything best i could to her, i just told her the truth really.

Thanks Tojes. That's appreciated. :) I'll bear it in mind.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What did you tell your mom?[/QUOTE]
i didnt. if she asks il say it, but i told them not to get my mother involved because im 18, old enough to sort things out myself.

Becky: you've just had uncharacteristically bad luck. A lot of it hasn't really been your fault, from the looks of things you've written here or on MSN. You just seem to be attracted to or run into guys who aren't serious about commitment and that lets you down in the end because you don't see it coming. It's kind of hard to find people who want to be serious with one another at the age of eighteen. But just because you've had a bad string of luck [i]now[/i] doesn't mean that you will continue to do so when you're 19, 20, 21, and older. There will be that certain maturity hit and a lot of things will be more sensical or what-have-you. But just because what happened when you were younger and at your current age - as tragic or unfortunate as they may be - you can still walk under the sun and you can still be you, and things will work themselves out. On a positive, at least you've been learning about what you want.

Tojes' story: it was kind of like reading a story about myself, in a way, except not really. Excuse that Byzantine sentence.

It would be rather silly of me to give you advice because it'd be somewhat like the blind leading the blind, in a way, sort of.

But, I will tell you this:

Regardless of what institution you go to, you [i]will[/i] be meeting hundreds, even thousands, of new people. Everyday, in every way. A new school is like a brand new start: nobody is going to judge you for your past, they're only going to judge you based on how you present yourself and your behavior to them and others. People pick up on you when you treat others well, and will acknowledge it. You're going to have new neighbors, new classmates, and eventually new friends and acquaintances. And because you'll be there for eight or nine months or so a year, you'll get acclimated to the new environment quickly.

Now, I'm not going to address my personal stories, but I will tell you that you definitely will meet new people constantly, and when you form your niche, things like relationships will fall into line - regardless of your 'experience' (or lack thereof) with them previously.

[QUOTE=Jom]werds[/QUOTE]

Couldn't have said it better myself.

O wait, I did say almost exactly that, earlier.

:p

Meh, I read from where I last left off in the thread. And by the time I see all your stuff, I still might as well post it if I'm going to write all that out. If people whine about redundancy, then so be it.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Ha! I laughed at that part. So true. So what are the consequences of the situation? Suspended? Did ur mom flip?

Hello thread. I = tired now.[/QUOTE]
Just saw this.

Well, they gave me a day of ISS. Nope, mom didn't flip, because I kinda lessened the story a little bit.

I kinda made it worse by revealing to my assistant principal that I can't have sex for two months or I'll die.

Your's was the story about sex in the bathroom, right?

If so, why don't you explain that it was a rumour?

If im completely off, or missing something, link to the post?

Edit 1k

[QUOTE=The Fonz]Your's was the story about sex in the bathroom, right?

If so, why don't you explain that it was a rumour?

If im completely off, or missing something, link to the post?

Edit 1k[/QUOTE]
It's because the rumor wasn't entirely false, just not nearly as bad as the bitch cheerleader made it out to be. First of all, she said I was in a stall, when I had no more than a foot in there. Secondly, my g/f wasn't even in the bathroom while I was doing it.

[QUOTE=Tillius]It's because the rumor wasn't entirely false, just not nearly as bad as the bitch cheerleader made it out to be. First of all, she said I was in a stall, when I had no more than a foot in there. Secondly, my g/f wasn't even in the bathroom while I was doing it.[/QUOTE]


so... what was the rumour? just that you were in the girls bathroom, or that you did something?

(I'd check, but I'm at my dads, and the computer sucks here)

[QUOTE=The Fonz]so... what was the rumour? just that you were in the girls bathroom, or that you did something?

(I'd check, but I'm at my dads, and the computer sucks here)[/QUOTE]
The rumor was that I was in the stall with my girlfriend in the girls bathroom and that we were going to have sex but we were walked in on.

[QUOTE=Tillius]The rumor was that I was in the stall with my girlfriend in the girls bathroom and that we were going to have sex but we were walked in on.[/QUOTE]


Ohhhhh, well, why don't you just say it was a rumour?

[QUOTE=The Fonz]Ohhhhh, well, why don't you just say it was a rumour?[/QUOTE]
Because, even though I'm popular with most people, so is the girl who told the office.
She's a preppy cheerleader office aid, and I'm a rocker who, though I end up doing good in the classes, slacks off all the time.
It was my word against hers, and there's no way I was getting out of that one.

Thanks Jom, that was quite a helpful piece of advice. I'll keep it in mind. :D

[QUOTE=Tillius]Because, even though I'm popular with most people, so is the girl who told the office.
She's a preppy cheerleader office aid, and I'm a rocker who, though I end up doing good in the classes, slacks off all the time.
It was my word against hers, and there's no way I was getting out of that one.[/QUOTE]

That sucks. Well, when it comes to your mom, telling her it was a rumour should work. Right?

At anyrate, good luck.

Where the hell is mom? I need some actual advice.

[QUOTE=Baliente]Where the hell is mom? I need some actual advice.[/QUOTE]

If i remember correctly. She should be on her wayy from work to home..

Dang. I just plowed down a large portion of pages in my book whilst enduring load times. Good thing I have new ones, because I'm almost finished with the one I'm reading.

Hi guys.

Baliente, if you're still on line, hit me up if you want. Or anyone else.

Sorry, got kicked off. If you haven't already, read my posts on pages 54 and 55. Tell me when you do, because there's more stuff I want to add.

Also, what are your thoughts on all that?

I read both pages.

Update?

My thoughts say ditch her, unless you have something important that's happened since then?

No, nothing's happened.

I don't know why, but I want to hang out with her again. Possibly because I had some good memories with her last summer (spefically her getting me started smoking) and I can't really turn to the guy I smoked with because he hates me for some reason, so yeah.

And a wierd thing happened today. I was spacing off, thinkin about her, then I came back to and realized what I had been staring at. A picture of a bottle of red wine :eek:

Sorta creepy, eh?