[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Sounds like a fun job. What are you making an hour?[/QUOTE]

7.50

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]Hey Kimmie. It's going pretty good actually. I dont know if you read it, but I broke up with James. Other than feling bad about it for a few days, I have been doing pretty the last week or so.

How you doin?[/QUOTE]

I read EVERYTHING in this thread. So I saw where you had done that. That's a shame, but if you felt like you were living a lie then you made the right decision.

I'm fine.

Hiya Nicole. Good that things are good with you.

Kyle: $7.50 is pretty good money.

yeeah im kinda excited to get some money in my pocket now..

only kinda weird because all of a sudden, i don't have too much free time on the weekdays

[QUOTE=Chaindrive][U]I read EVERYTHING in this thread.[/U] So I saw where you had done that. That's a shame, but if you felt like you were living a lie then you made the right decision.

I'm fine.

Hiya Nicole. Good that things are good with you.

Kyle: $7.50 is pretty good money.[/QUOTE]


wow, you should be the L&R mod. i read alot of this thread, but not as much as you have.

and yeah, I didnt feel like it was right for me to be with him. he is avoiding me now, and I know he is mad, but I think I did what was right.

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]wow, you should be the L&R mod. i read alot of this thread, but not as much as you have.

and yeah, I didnt feel like it was right for me to be with him. he is avoiding me now, and I know he is mad, but I think I did what was right.[/QUOTE]

This thread doesn't really need any dedicated mods. For the most part people behave in here, and if they don't I whine at Jom and he fixes it. This thread is kind of my baby.

He's probably pretty hurt. But if you were with him for the wrong reasons, like you said you thought you might be, then I guess it's better he be hurt now instead of months down the road, because it'll be worse then.

Kyle, that's the paradox about having a job. Lots of money and no time to spend it. :)

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]yeeah im kinda excited to get some money in my pocket now..

only kinda weird because all of a sudden, i don't have too much free time on the weekdays[/QUOTE]

7.50 an hour isnt bad. Im tryin to do that Rush right now. Ive got my friend tryin to download it since my cpu is slow.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]7.50 an hour isnt bad. Im tryin to do that Rush right now. Ive got my friend tryin to download it since my cpu is slow.[/QUOTE]

ok, cool

hope you enjoy the albums :)

Im glad that this thread is pretty much self-organised. Its a good reliever, especially being in the pit, to come into some good conversations.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Im glad that this thread is pretty much self-organised. Its a good reliever, especially being in the pit, to come into some good conversations.[/QUOTE]

I know it, love. It's like taking your shoes off, putting your feet up, and just relaxing, while talking to good friends. I <3 it.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I know it, love. It's like taking your shoes off, putting your feet up, and just relaxing, while talking to good friends. I <3 it.[/QUOTE]

Hello Friend. G'night Friend.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]This thread doesn't really need any dedicated mods. For the most part people behave in here, and if they don't I whine at Jom and he fixes it. This thread is kind of my baby.[/QUOTE]

This, and I wind up merging and/or deleting posts on my own. A vast majority of people don't notice. It just makes the thread look a little more organized.

Night, Jay. Sweet dreams. :)

[QUOTE=Jom]This, and I wind up merging and/or deleting posts on my own. A vast majority of people don't notice. It just makes the thread look a little more organized.[/QUOTE]

Here's a double post for you to delete or merge. :p

You rock in here. Thanks 4eva for all your attention to this thread.

Hi, Jom.

Hello. It's no problem at all to visit The Pit and make sure things are cool here, and then stopping in on this thread and reading through from the point I left off of.

[QUOTE=Jom]Hello. It's no problem at all to visit The Pit and make sure things are cool here, and then stopping in on this thread and reading through from the point I left off of.[/QUOTE]

:lol: Nice merge.

Well, at least you didn't make my post a neon color this time... :p

I think there's not a post in this thread that I have not read. Go me. :rolleyes:

At first, I just edited in a hello in a color into the merge, but then I realized that you probably wouldn't have checked back in this thread a few minutes later wondering why I didn't respond to you.

/explanation

But you know I would have checked back for you.

But, thanks for not searing my eyeballs, tonight. For some reason, my eyes are really tired...

*grabs white cane*

Heh, you should have seen my colorful "stickied!" message I left for someone in R&M.

EDIT: here we go, check this bad boy out [url=http://www.musicianforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=11655314&postcount=18368]right here[/url].

Thanks. My eyeballs are screaming because I was dumb enough to go check it out.

my*eyes*bleed.

Gimmick? Maybe. Good gimmick, though. I'll make shure I p0ost retaardedly with it; and u can ban me at will.

"Hay look at me I'm 14 and nubile and I like beaches and puppies. R there ne guys here???"

So I'm contemplating a right to be jealous/angry at a friend

Condensed story: Had a gf (we'll call her a), week later went to visit her at school, my friend (b) was there and saw me, met my gf and her friend (c). a week later b comes back with me and makes out with c while i hang out with my woman. Soon enough b kisses a (out of the blue), c is pissed and i dont really care because it seemed to mean nothing. Week or so later a gives me some dumb**** excuse about how instead of telling a teacher shes dropping her class, she told him her dad abuses her and then the cps is called (totally out of the ****ing blue). she says that night that she wants space so i give it to her and the next day as a joke hit on c (and bring her flowers). basically, a wants b now and b only wants a for sex, and I really hope a feels used, that would be great.

either way, should i be mad at my friend (who i gave permission to but he seems set on not shutting up about it) or should i just called my ex a whore like so many other people do.

Fun fact: 2 weeks after we were going out my gf and i were alone in her house and she declined my mere advances, shes not going out with b and theyve already talked about "hanging out", ****ing whore

That hardly mad any sense dude just use names next time. I say you need new friends and a new GF man. Distance yourself from these people as no one needs that sort of crap, oh and your EX needs a slap.

[QUOTE=Zmev]Fun fact: 2 weeks after we were going out my gf and i were alone in her house and she declined my mere advances, shes not going out with b and theyve already talked about "[B]hanging out[/B]", ****ing whore[/QUOTE]
what do you contemplate "hanging out" as?

[QUOTE=dazmo]what do you contemplate "hanging out" as?[/QUOTE]
Don't know about him, but to my ex "hanging out" was her way of saying casual screwing. Freakin' tramp....

^^ What he said

uh, its so clear now:p

Speaking of jobs, my dad thinks he's gonna make me get a haircut for a job interview. (im 15). That not happening, The only haircutting i do is in the back, because it gets all mullet..y. Even the haircut lady refuses to cut it too much, cause she says it will look bad. and It makes me look 11.

On topic of thread: Has anybody ever gotten like, so.. bored, I guess, that you go looking for girls, even if you know nothing will come o fit, just the feeling of wanting somebody. Becuase well, this is my first year of HS, so after 8 years of the smae 125 girls(250 kids total) in my grade. now theres somewhere roundabouts a thousand. plus some sophomores, becuase soph/frosh relationships arent rare. But now halfway through the year, it appears that all the girls in my school suck. I've met all the girls from my middle school, obvviously, and tehre no different in HS, some have changed a bit, but for the most part, In 8 years, I've gotten bored of them i s'pose, I know them all, but none of them appeal to me. AND most of the girls in my HS suck, they are snobby or bit[size=2]c[/size]hes and whonot.

Baisically that was a rant and a "ever been there before, when it seems like you know everygirl you [I]can[/I] know, and none of them "click"" and a "what do i do? nothing, and just wait?"

Sorry i suck at organizing posts/ideas :upset:

Hey im in a prettty gurd relationship with a really nice girl atm, but its just she's a bitt hesitant about doin stuff. I mean when we're hangin out i kiss her and stuff but its like hard to get her to make out with me. anyways i could resolve this ya think?

im thinkin i should jus go to the cinema with her then i guess the ice will be broken sorta?

Hmm, so I come to my second L&R. I began talking to someone who id seen around school a couple of months ago. I didnt really notice her atall to begin with, but as I got to know her I found that we listend to a lot of the same bands ect. At first when I saw her I gave her a knod or a smile, as you do, and she seemed to be respondant and friendly. Recently however she seems to toss her hair, and look in other direction, :rolleyes: . Any advice?

[QUOTE=mikethecoug]Hey im in a prettty gurd relationship with a really nice girl atm, but its just she's a bitt hesitant about doin stuff. I mean when we're hangin out i kiss her and stuff but its like hard to get her to make out with me. anyways i could resolve this ya think?

im thinkin i should jus go to the cinema with her then i guess the ice will be broken sorta?[/QUOTE]

Maybe your relationship hasn't progressived far enough, yet.

[quote=Original-Kris06]Hmm, so I come to my second L&R. I began talking to someone who id seen around school a couple of months ago. I didnt really notice her atall to begin with, but as I got to know her I found that we listend to a lot of the same bands ect. At first when I saw her I gave her a knod or a smile, as you do, and she seemed to be respondant and friendly. Recently however she seems to toss her hair, and look in other direction, . Any advice?[/quote]

Try talking to her?

[QUOTE=mikethecoug]Hey im in a prettty gurd relationship with a really nice girl atm, but its just she's a bitt hesitant about doin stuff. I mean when we're hangin out i kiss her and stuff but its like hard to get her to make out with me. anyways i could resolve this ya think?

im thinkin i should jus go to the cinema with her then i guess the ice will be broken sorta?[/QUOTE]

Don't try to make out with her at the movies. It's "cliche", lame, whatever you want to call it. And if shes nervous about moving along, I don't think making out in front of a room of strangers is going to help your cause. Try talking to her about it and if youre into this girl go at a pace shes comfortable with. It will be worth it in the end.

So im in a bit of a knot and i need a real intelligent answer without any smart *** comments so im posting it here.

its about me and sierra.

ye know i went to england to see her. but my mom paid for the whole trip you see - i told her i was going to see some volunteer thing and see if it was right for me, but this volunteer thing is what i want to do after school.
but i wasnt allowed over there till the end of march, but i went anyway just to see sierra without telling my mom - cause she obivousley wouldnt let me if i went just for her.

so now the volunteers have caught on because my mom sent them an email to get me to ring her. and now they are wondering wtf?

now im kinda ****ed in the sense my mom is gonna find out that i wasnt over there at the volunteer area and i the volunteer prog. wont accept me because of all of this..

good week all the same.

and i do not want to get sierra in trouble, she was confronted today about it and im just so ****ed.



lil help?

[QUOTE=EizingerIsGod]Try talking to her about it and if youre into this girl go at a pace shes comfortable with. It will be worth it in the end.[/QUOTE]
i don't agree with this really

i think you should just build the sexual tension til she jumps on top of you

talking about it just seems like it would kill the passion. i guess it depends on what kind of relationship you want with her.

[QUOTE=mikethecoug]Hey im in a prettty gurd relationship with a really nice girl atm, but its just she's a bitt hesitant about doin stuff. I mean when we're hangin out i kiss her and stuff but its like hard to get her to make out with me. anyways i could resolve this ya think?

im thinkin i should jus go to the cinema with her then i guess the ice will be broken sorta?[/QUOTE]


Well, is it ofeten, or just once? Maybe she wasn't feelling well. and you should have to "get her" to do anything, just relax, and hangout, then wait for a bit, and see what happens.

Also- anything to my post above. I mea, its no biggie, life is going good on a whole, but i miss having a relationship. ANd it doesnt help that my friend has his GF hang out with us all the time, though. but thats okay, becuase shes cool to hang out, and stuff, so... yeah

TO GRIF:

You should have been more precautious and have your priorities at a higher stake in this situation. See the volunteering first, then checking on Sierra. What could have happened if you saw her a few minutes less? Or even hours, or whatever.

Anyhow, All the thing that happened... I didn't get it very well... :-|

What I understood was that your mom called and they found out and now Sierra is in trouble... (sorry don't know about the background of the story)... I'd just talk about it with my mother... nonetheless, teenage years distant love isn't the greatest idea. Especially overseas AND with money given by someone that isn't you, for other reasons.

I suppose it was all a matter of getting your priorities going.


***

In a completely different setting of mind, I'd like to ask for suggestions/help/comments on my little... issue. I asked for it a while ago, but it wasn't a satisfactory answer. Not here, of course. Anyhow, here's my story.

I haven't had a girlfriend in ages. I think I haven't even had one, maybe something going on in elementary school, but nothing really worth talking about. Anyhow, this is my senior year, and I want to leave town, as soon as possible. In my group of friends, Im the oddball of the pack. Anyways, and regarding relationships: I've had very, very few real attempts at getting a girlfriend. The last one was with a girl with whom I related to fantastically, but things just didn't seem to work out, on any form. That pretty much sums up in the fact that I have a very hard time relating to people I want to care about, because I hate getting hurt emotionally.

Nonetheless, there's so much good about that game of love. There's fun, there's tears. There's everything. And I kinda like it. Problem is, I don't have any time to get things started with another person at my pace (3 months, tops) and I certainly don't want to be involved with a skank just for my "girlfriend resumé". So I guess the question is, what's the best thing to do in my situation?

Of any data that was given is at any point useless in the answer you're giving, just ignore it. Thanks.

[QUOTE=TojesDoLan]TO GRIF:

You should have been more precautious and have your priorities at a higher stake in this situation. See the volunteering first, then checking on Sierra. What could have happened if you saw her a few minutes less? Or even hours, or whatever.

Anyhow, All the thing that happened... I didn't get it very well... :-|

What I understood was that your mom called and they found out and now Sierra is in trouble... (sorry don't know about the background of the story)... I'd just talk about it with my mother... nonetheless, teenage years distant love isn't the greatest idea. Especially overseas AND with money given by someone that isn't you, for other reasons.

I suppose it was all a matter of getting your priorities going.

[/QUOTE]

I was precautious, and she didnt ring them, she sent them an email that she got off the site. She is just so nosey in what i do.

Its not some teenage love thing.

Granted i got my mom to pay for the trip but was only on condition that i sell my surfboard that i spent 6months saving for to pay her back.

Sierra was confronted about it, only thing was said if she "knew anything" and she just played dumb.

I know what i have to do - im just going to have to come out and say to the volunteers what i did, i do not want to get her in trouble so im going to leave her out of it saying she knew nothing, i told her to say the same. I have this whole idea of an email in my head i wil lsend them

Only problem now is them cotacting my mom and my mom throwing me out of the house. I wouldnt blame her honestly.

I don't think I believe in love anymore.

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]I don't think I believe in love anymore.[/QUOTE]

why becky?

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]I don't think I believe in love anymore.[/QUOTE]

:eek:

Oh God no! Don't get bitter and cynical before your time. You're still young. :(

You're right about not having enough time (3 months) to get something going, and what if you did? You'd be leaving anyway. So, unless she'd be willing to leave with you, why bother?

What are your plans after high school? College? If so, you'll meet tons of new people and your prospects will be greater.

So, just hang tight for the next 3 months. :)

EDIT: Dammit, a bunch of you got in my way. :p

This was to Tojes.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]why becky?[/QUOTE]

I don't want to go into too much detail, but since October, I've been reeled in, chewed up and spat out again by various guys. Every single time I've put my trust in them, they've let me down, and then I feel stupid for ever loving them in the first place. I guess maybe it's just bad luck. There just always seems to be someone better than me y'know?

Alright. Rant over.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]:eek:

Oh God no! Don't get bitter and cynical before your time. You're still young. :([/QUOTE]

Yeah you're right. I'm only 18. The best is yet to come right? I guess I've just got hurt feelings at the moment.

Thanks.

[QUOTE=*Blue Haze*]I don't think I believe in love anymore.[/QUOTE]
what happened?

Or did you just,,, "realize"


Edit- Ohhhh.

Well, it happens, i... suck at advice, I don't know why i post here so much.

All i can say is...i.. don't know, I can only do specific stuff, not general love stuff... I'm still thinking though.

Sorry :upset: