Rasta Rockerstat3---- heres what you do... next time she goes to kiss you goodbye, dont stop, just make out with her. if she stops you then no biggie, just apologize and laugh. you're friends anyways, she's not going to hate you for kissing her back when she kissed you first anyways. it doesnt matter what she told her co-worker, she probably lied to him because she thought it was none of his business.

that should take care of the 'letting you know you want her' part, but i dont really have a solution for how to make the transition into a relationship.... sorry...

theres this girl who is one of my best friends but the prob is that i really really like her. like bad. the problem is i dont know how she feels. at points it seems that she wouldnt want to be with no one else but me at others she could care less about me (for ex: i dont go to school and she gets mad at me for not seeing me, she gave me her baby pic stuff like that) we have known each other since 6th grade and we used to like each other but none of said anything... and recently i tod her how i felt in letter and she didnt say anything but didnt act weird either like if nothing had happened... i dont know what to do anymore. anyone here ever been in the same situation as i have and has an idea of what to do??

any help is greatly appreciated...

[QUOTE=ummm_yeah]theres this girl who is one of my best friends but the prob is that i really really like her. like bad. the problem is i dont know how she feels. at points it seems that she wouldnt want to be with no one else but me at others she could care less about me (for ex: i dont go to school and she gets mad at me for not seeing me, she gave me her baby pic stuff like that) we have known each other since 6th grade and we used to like each other but none of said anything... and recently i tod her how i felt in letter and she didnt say anything but didnt act weird either like if nothing had happened... i dont know what to do anymore. anyone here ever been in the same situation as i have and has an idea of what to do??

any help is greatly appreciated...[/QUOTE]
de ja vous

some thing happened with my best friend (we're good now). I told her how i felt and she said that she was hurt and insulted, becoz she thought she knew me betta, and she thought that i didnt think of her that was, and insulted becoz she thought we were better friends, that she would of picked up on that.

now when ever I bring it up, she gets embarrassed and is like "shut up, i didnt know what the right words were", but now we just make fun of that time.

point of all this? i dont know. i guess girls dont expect that thing from their friends, yet if it happens, they can always go back to the friendship they had, even if it takes time

Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.[/QUOTE]
id give you a hug but i cant.
you are still young remember.

I know. I'll get over it. :-\

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I know. I'll get over it. :-\[/QUOTE]
would it cheer you up if i told you i had alot of sex last week? like a sex marathon? it was great
no condoms too.
i might be having a child
:lol:
....

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon.[/QUOTE]

Wait, so you're 16 and she's 19? That's quite a gap.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.[/QUOTE]

Wow.

You decided the effort wasn't worth it?

Looks like we'll probably get back together... already. She keeps calling me and crying and junk. I'm too weak to resist her. -.-

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Looks like we'll probably get back together... already. She keeps calling me and crying and junk. I'm too weak to resist her. -.-[/QUOTE]

She's obviously still very attached to you, despite the fights you have. Don't give up on it so easily.

I've basically been telling her to F-off all morning, and then when I try to talk to her normally and maybe fix things, she pulls this "I need time to think" bullcrap. She was basically begging me to take her back before.

ARGH! I'm going to shoot her. :mad:

Time to give it up, I'd say.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've basically been telling her to F-off all morning, and then when I try to talk to her normally and maybe fix things, she pulls this "I need time to think" bullcrap. She was basically begging me to take her back before.

ARGH! I'm going to shoot her. :mad:[/QUOTE]

Just tell her to stop. This is ridiculous.

Agreed. Don't let her play games with you. She should either place a definite point (relationship or not) or got to hell.

Think about it: What are you? A toy? Her toy? I know from experience it's sometimes really hard to resist. REALLY hard. But I have yet to meet the woman that is worth throwing all dignity (or whatever one wants to call it) over board

Just leave her to it. Don't ring or text her, because that's what she wants. Attention. Wait till she rings you, and when she does, say ''I need time to think''. Phone down. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

She has strung you along for far too long, I know it's hard, but it would be best for you guys to stay broken up. Good luck, though, man...it's a tough time for anyone.

[QUOTE=Jom]I think it's safe to say that, yeah, she likes you... and what's the worst that could happen if she winds up rejecting you? She hasn't shown any signs of wanting to turn you down - so just think of all the great things that will happen when you make a move and make it official. It'll be less awkward for you guys when you hang out.

My advice is to definitely sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that you have had a ton of fun with her or whatever, and say that you've been thinking that you'd like to make it official or what-have-you... and then ask her for her thoughts and what she thinks.

It is important you communicate your feelings to her, and her to reciprocate.

Who knows - maybe something awesome will come out of it, seeing as how she's given you no signs that she's going to tell you otherwise.

Good luck :)

EDIT: God dammit, this is what happens when I read from top-to-bottom:



I still say you should talk to her, even if it she feels otherwise. Maybe she'll come around?[/QUOTE]
Haha, no it wasn't in vain, I think I will talk to her about it. Thanks for the advice, and I might just do what DrunkOverYou said :naughty:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.[/QUOTE]
Sorry to hear that dude, at least you didnt have to buy the train ticket

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've basically been telling her to F-off all morning, and then when I try to talk to her normally and maybe fix things, she pulls this "I need time to think" bullcrap. She was basically begging me to take her back before.

ARGH! I'm going to shoot her. :mad:[/QUOTE]
ARGH you dont wanna go back to her, so dont give in. Just tell her to F-off, but not unkindly :)

Well My friend always likes to Know everybody that i know and its bugging me. Lately he said that he just wanted to get to know my gf and the normal jealous person that i am, i said for him to stop getting in the middle of my life. and trying to know everybody that i do. and he hasnt texted me back, but im mad at him because he ALWAYS gets to know everybody that i do. He did it last time too with my ex. and its bugging the **** out of me. And i do trust my gf. I just get so jealous.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I wish my ex would just come around and talk, at least a little, to me. Her being and *** to me is really getting old now. We have some of the same friends, and we are forced to still be near eachother, but yet she is choosing to be an immature person.

/rants

Good luck with your situation.[/QUOTE]
We've always been friends since we broke up. There was some other guy that called her all the time and liked her, but she said she wasn't going to date him and i found out that he had been giving another girl the same bull**** at the same time so I told her. So I don't think he's really a problem.

I've sort of been mean to my (ex)girl all day, and ignored her calls, and he messaged me on Myspace, since she couldn't get ahold of me any other way. I basically told her to F-off and that it was over. Now her friend starts messaging me telling me she's extremely upset, and talking about doing stupid things to herself( :rolleyes: ). She's just trying to get me to feel sorry for her, but I think she's genuinely sad too. I don't want to be treated like a puppet, and I don't want to be alone either...

I want her back, and it hasn't even been a day. :(

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've sort of been mean to my (ex)girl all day, and ignored her calls, and he messaged me on Myspace, since she couldn't get ahold of me any other way. I basically told her to F-off and that it was over. Now her friend starts messaging me telling me she's extremely upset, and talking about doing stupid things to herself( :rolleyes: ). She's just trying to get me to feel sorry for her, but I think she's genuinely sad too. I don't want to be treated like a puppet, and I don't want to be alone either...

I want her back, and it hasn't even been a day. :([/QUOTE]
If you want her back, get back with her. Just don't let her treat you like a puppet.

But she's acting like a moron just to get me to feel sorry and come back to her, so going back now would be playing a puppet. :(

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]Haha, no it wasn't in vain, I think I will talk to her about it. Thanks for the advice, and I might just do what DrunkOverYou said :naughty:[/QUOTE]

hell yeah, you better!

[QUOTE=Wizard.]But she's acting like a moron just to get me to feel sorry and come back to her, so going back now would be playing a puppet. :([/QUOTE]

Here's some advice: Tell her that you want her to leave you alone for a bit so you can have some time to think about things without her distracting her every minute.

She hasn't said anything to me in maybe two hours, so I think she's quit for tonight. I hate not knowing how or what she's doing. I have no way of contacting her other than calling her, and there's nothing I really want to say to her. I want her to call me, but I don't want to seem like I just give in to her.

I'm not sure what to do, or what I'm even thinking/feeling. =S

The first day of a breakup is usually the hardest. See how you feel tomorrow.

Don't give in to her. Although her friend says that she is doing "things" to herself, she surely is not as you have already guessed. It would be a lie to be saying that she is doing fine, but you must realize that the worst that could be happening is her telling people what happened and crying. There is likely nothing more than that, so just be strong. You said not long ago that you wanted to break up with her and that it has happened, you are in shock. I've been there and I know how much it hurts, but you can make it through. Don't give in! :)

Yeah, but what if she decides she just doesn't care when she gets up tomorrow. Then I'll just be alone and completely forgotten, it would be like I passed up my chance or something. I guess I don't even need a girl that forgets me that easy though. =\

I'm sorry, I'm the avergae teenager that get's way too moody and bent out of shape over girls. :(

[QUOTE=Drone]Don't give in to her. Although her friend says that she is doing "things" to herself, she surely is not as you have already guessed. It would be a lie to be saying that she is doing fine, but you must realize that the worst that could be happening is her telling people what happened and crying. There is likely nothing more than that, so just be strong. You said not long ago that you wanted to break up with her and that it has happened, you are in shock. I've been there and I know how much it hurts, but you can make it through. Don't give in! :)[/QUOTE]
No. She'll say she is going to do it, but then she WILL do it. I'm just wondering if she got her friend to say that to provoke me, or if she was being serious between her and her friend. There's no way for me to find out. =\