[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]*wipes forehead*
Broke up with my boyfriend this morning. I think he's pretty upset but I feel a lot better. No more boyfriends until I sort my head out.[/QUOTE]


You did what you ha dto do, good for you, take a nice long break, and chill with friends.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]*wipes forehead*
Broke up with my boyfriend this morning. I think he's pretty upset but I feel a lot better. No more boyfriends until I sort my head out.[/QUOTE]

This looks wrong, but congratulations for wanting to sort yourself out and being able to do that.

Breaking up issssssss harddddddddd to dooooooooooooooooooo...

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]*wipes forehead*
Broke up with my boyfriend this morning. I think he's pretty upset but I feel a lot better. No more boyfriends until I sort my head out.[/QUOTE]

So Emily, how about dinner and a movie? ;)

Hey Jared. How's your break with Lela going?

Things seem to be straightening out. I'll see how it goes though. I'm not going to run blindly into the idea that everything is fine now. I need to see if she's learned anything.

i just met this guy 2 weeks ago, and i like him. but suddenly i just became friends with one of his friends.... and turns out that she dated him for 4 years, they just broke up, and she's still not over it. she wont shut up about how she really is in love with him, and she's really sad. this is something i dont want to be involved in. people get back together constantly, so im gonna move on... agree with me....?

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]i just met this guy 2 weeks ago, and i like him. but suddenly i just became friends with one of his friends.... and turns out that she dated him for 4 years, they just broke up, and she's still not over it. she wont shut up about how she really is in love with him, and she's really sad. this is something i dont want to be involved in. people get back together constantly, so im gonna move on... agree with me....?[/QUOTE]

Agreed. A situation you should keep yourself out of methinks.

Definately a nasty piece of drama you want to avoid at all costs.

Hey lads,
Im back from England. Like an hour ago. Fu<king Awesome. Seeing her again - slept in her house.
I had a blast - i really want to just go back. Leaving her though was the worst. That morning we were lying in bed and she started crying. And she was crying the night before and then when I had to go she just burst into tears. Really broke my heart. But in the days before it we had an awesome time. Seeing her again was just brilliant. I cooked her dinner and we had nights of drinking. Lots of sex involved actually.
i think she may be pregnant - lol...no seriousley...
but yea awesome.

and my first flight.

getting there was no problem>

but on the way back i missed my flight and had to reschedual and spend the night in Gatwick airport by myself.
:(

woo!
:)

[QUOTE=~grif~]Hey lads,
Im back from England. Like an hour ago. Fu<king Awesome. Seeing her again - slept in her house.
I had a blast - i really want to just go back. Leaving her though was the worst. That morning we were lying in bed and she started crying. And she was crying the night before and then when I had to go she just burst into tears. Really broke my heart. But in the days before it we had an awesome time. Seeing her again was just brilliant. I cooked her dinner and we had nights of drinking. Lots of sex involved actually.
i think she may be pregnant - lol...no seriousley...
but yea awesome.

and my first flight.

getting there was no problem>

but on the way back i missed my flight and had to reschedual and spend the night in Gatwick airport by myself.
:(

woo!
:)[/QUOTE]

Well thats good you got to see her!


Well for me i finally saw my gf!

It was awsome!

We tried all this new sexual stuff.
And it was pretty awsome.
Im like really really happy!

[QUOTE=~grif~]Hey lads,
Im back from England. Like an hour ago. Fu<king Awesome. Seeing her again - slept in her house.
I had a blast - i really want to just go back. Leaving her though was the worst. That morning we were lying in bed and she started crying. And she was crying the night before and then when I had to go she just burst into tears. Really broke my heart. But in the days before it we had an awesome time. Seeing her again was just brilliant. I cooked her dinner and we had nights of drinking. Lots of sex involved actually.
i think she may be pregnant - lol...no seriousley...
but yea awesome.

and my first flight.

getting there was no problem>

but on the way back i missed my flight and had to reschedual and spend the night in Gatwick airport by myself.
:(

woo!
:)[/QUOTE]

Leaving people you love is very hard but then you can always remember that you will see them in the not-so-distant future. Good that you made the best of the time you did have together.

What did ya think of the plane ride?

Hey thread. Back from a week off, just about.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Leaving people you love is very hard but then you can always remember that you will see them in the not-so-distant future. Good that you made the best of the time you did have together.

What did ya think of the plane ride?

Hey thread. Back from a week off, just about.[/QUOTE]


1 week? where have u been?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]1 week? where have u been?[/QUOTE]

Track started up this past week and I havent gotten home until 7 each night and have been swamped with hw. Then this weekend I went camping and yea.

So you finally saw your gf? Thats good. I am debating if I wanna take action on this situation I am in or not.

I talked to my ex-girlfriend for two and a half hours last night. We're going to go on a date pretty soon, so we'll see what happens. I'm glad I didn't decide to be an [B]a[/B]ss and hate her or anything because I doubt this would have happened if we couldn't get along.

Good luck with that.

[QUOTE=smart blockhead]I talked to my ex-girlfriend for two and a half hours last night. We're going to go on a date pretty soon, so we'll see what happens. I'm glad I didn't decide to be an [B]a[/B]ss and hate her or anything because I doubt this would have happened if we couldn't get along.[/QUOTE]

I wish my ex would just come around and talk, at least a little, to me. Her being and *** to me is really getting old now. We have some of the same friends, and we are forced to still be near eachother, but yet she is choosing to be an immature person.

/rants

Good luck with your situation.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I wish my ex would just come around and talk, at least a little, to me. Her being and *** to me is really getting old now. We have some of the same friends, and we are forced to still be near eachother, but yet she is choosing to be an immature person.

/rants[/QUOTE]

then she's not worth your time

I have a problem..
I get sooooo freaken jealous of my girlfriend's guy friends..
I know I shouldn't, but it's just.. ehh.. I don't know.. even when she tells them she loves them or hearts them or whatever.. It's just I get so freaken jealous.. I trust her and all it's just I don't know how to control myself.
How do I just STOP being jealous?

It's been a while since I've been in the L&R..and I need some advice. I've been hanging out and talking a lot with this girl for the past week or so. She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon. Anyway, I've really taken a liking for her, but I'm very very oblivious to girls, I have no idea if they like me or not unless they're basically throwing themselves at me. She texts me during school about 3 times a day, every day. She always wants to hang out, come to my house, go to Chipotle, go to her house,etc. This makes me think she likes me. But I've had her over at my house when my parents weren't home, and the same at her house. We've talked about sex and what not, but we haven't done anything with each other. Except everytime I leave, or she leaves we kiss. Then I sometimes get a text from her saying she had a good time. Mind you we're not dating, I'd like to, but I'm too much of a puss to make a move when we're together because I'm afraid of rejection. I know I have to grow some cajones for that to change. I guess by writing this it seems like she clearly likes me. But when we're hanging out it just doesn't seem like she does. We're completely honest with each other about everything, I don't know if I should ask her to be my gf, or ask her if she likes me, or try to figure out how she feels without asking. Sorry for the long post, but thanks for any advice.

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]I have a problem..
I get sooooo freaken jealous of my girlfriend's guy friends..
I know I shouldn't, but it's just.. ehh.. I don't know.. even when she tells them she loves them or hearts them or whatever.. It's just I get so freaken jealous.. I trust her and all it's just I don't know how to control myself.
How do I just STOP being jealous?[/QUOTE]
I had the same problem. I would try to get to know some of her friends, maybe that'll ease your worries. Just don't bug her about it, because I did that with my ex, and that's part of why we broke up...but she did cheat so I had my reasons to suspect.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]then she's not worth your time[/QUOTE]

I know she's not. It would just be a nice change to be able to have the group together as a whole again, rather than divided.

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]I had the same problem. I would try to get to know some of her friends, maybe that'll ease your worries. Just don't bug her about it, because I did that with my ex, and that's part of why we broke up...but she did cheat so I had my reasons to suspect.[/QUOTE]
I am now officialy paranoid :(

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]I am now officialy paranoid :([/QUOTE]
I'm sorry man,didn't want that to happen. I'm sure your relationship is much different from what we had...it was terrible.

EDIT: Nevermind about my problem. I talked to one of my friends that works with her, and she said that she doesn't like me in that way, she just wants to 'hang out'. :(

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]I'm sorry man,didn't want that to happen. I'm sure your relationship is much different from what we had...it was terrible.

EDIT: Nevermind about my problem. I talked to one of my friends that works with her, and she said that she doesn't like me in that way, she just wants to 'hang out'. :([/QUOTE]

That's too bad that its just a hang out thing. Just be glad you 2 get along.

eh, i just need to put this into writing somewhere, sorry if it's kinda out of place.


I got a shi[size=2]tload off my chest today, and it feels DAMN good.[/size]

[QUOTE=Junooni]eh, i just need to put this into writing somewhere, sorry if it's kinda out of place.


I got a shi[size=2]tload off my chest today, and it feels DAMN good.[/size][/QUOTE]

Any details?

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]It's been a while since I've been in the L&R..and I need some advice. I've been hanging out and talking a lot with this girl for the past week or so. She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon. Anyway, I've really taken a liking for her, but I'm very very oblivious to girls, I have no idea if they like me or not unless they're basically throwing themselves at me. She texts me during school about 3 times a day, every day. She always wants to hang out, come to my house, go to Chipotle, go to her house,etc. This makes me think she likes me. But I've had her over at my house when my parents weren't home, and the same at her house. We've talked about sex and what not, but we haven't done anything with each other. Except everytime I leave, or she leaves we kiss. Then I sometimes get a text from her saying she had a good time. Mind you we're not dating, I'd like to, but I'm too much of a puss to make a move when we're together because I'm afraid of rejection. I know I have to grow some cajones for that to change. I guess by writing this it seems like she clearly likes me. But when we're hanging out it just doesn't seem like she does. We're completely honest with each other about everything, I don't know if I should ask her to be my gf, or ask her if she likes me, or try to figure out how she feels without asking. Sorry for the long post, but thanks for any advice.[/QUOTE]

I think it's safe to say that, yeah, she likes you... and what's the worst that could happen if she winds up rejecting you? She hasn't shown any signs of wanting to turn you down - so just think of all the great things that will happen when you make a move and make it official. It'll be less awkward for you guys when you hang out.

My advice is to definitely sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that you have had a ton of fun with her or whatever, and say that you've been thinking that you'd like to make it official or what-have-you... and then ask her for her thoughts and what she thinks.

It is important you communicate your feelings to her, and her to reciprocate.

Who knows - maybe something awesome will come out of it, seeing as how she's given you no signs that she's going to tell you otherwise.

Good luck :)

EDIT: God dammit, this is what happens when I read from top-to-bottom:

[quote=Rasta]EDIT: Nevermind about my problem. I talked to one of my friends that works with her, and she said that she doesn't like me in that way, she just wants to 'hang out'. [/quote]

I still say you should talk to her, even if it she feels otherwise. Maybe she'll come around?

[QUOTE=Jom]I think it's safe to say that, yeah, she likes you... and what's the worst that could happen if she winds up rejecting you? She hasn't shown any signs of wanting to turn you down - so just think of all the great things that will happen when you make a move and make it official. It'll be less awkward for you guys when you hang out.

My advice is to definitely sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that you have had a ton of fun with her or whatever, and say that you've been thinking that you'd like to make it official or what-have-you... and then ask her for her thoughts and what she thinks.

It is important you communicate your feelings to her, and her to reciprocate.

Who knows - maybe something awesome will come out of it, seeing as how she's given you no signs that she's going to tell you otherwise.

Good luck :)

EDIT: God dammit, this is what happens when I read from top-to-bottom:



I still say you should talk to her, even if it she feels otherwise. Maybe she'll come around?[/QUOTE]

I hate when that happens. Type out a long thing and then realize it is useless.

Ya never know unless YOU tell her. Friends are good for a lot of things but maybe having a middle man isn't the way to go?

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Any details?[/QUOTE]

Well, I'm not too good at talking to my parents, so today I made an honest attempt to talk to em without getting pissed. And it helps, a lot.

Of course, there's some things you just don't talk to em about, and those weren't brought up, but a lot of things, such as how horrible this school that I'm going to is, and talking about transferring back to my old school, just lots of random stuff I needed to get off my chest, including telling em bout how I beat down some kid last year who started to spread rumors about me doing drugs.

They see me as this sweet little boy who wouldn't harm a fly. But not anymore, I feel they can help me, and I can help them better, if I'm honest with em.

:)

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]I've been hanging out and talking a lot with this girl for the past week or so. She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon.[/QUOTE]

Wait, I'm wondering, how is she three years older than you if you two are only a grade level apart? That would make her a 20-year old senior in high school. :-\