[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]Maybe if he was older, like Kimmie said.[/QUOTE]

I think his bone structure won't allow him to get like that, Brandon. He's half hispanic and has like no gray in his hair, even though he's 43. He's going to age well. Won't go bald (his hair is to his waist), etc.

oic

You know my name? Wow, no one outside of pop-punk knows my name.. I thought anyways.

I hope I age well. I don't want to be like 20 with no hair.

Oh, me and my girlfriend were talking on the phone earlier, and she actually ackeknowledged(sp? wtf?) that something was wrong. But then she had ot get off. I wish I knew what was wrong, because the only thing that's really wrong for me is that I know something is wrong for her..

To be honest I don't think she actually likes me.. I think she just knew I did and then took comfort in me knowing that I liked her and it made her think she liked me but she doesn't.. or something..

I know your name because of my What's In A Name thread.

:D

Maybe, the part of taking comfort in her knowing that you liked her...sometimes it's a security blanket. Which sucks. You need to get to the bottom of it, though.

Yeah, getting to the bottom and figuring it out will give you peace of mind and all that other good stuff.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I know your name because of my What's In A Name thread.

:D

Maybe, the part of taking comfort in her knowing that you liked her...sometimes it's a security blanket. Which sucks. You need to get to the bottom of it, though.[/QUOTE]
oic. I didn't really think anyone would remember much from that.

I guess it worked for you though :p

Yeah, she said we'd talk about it later because she had to go for her Dad's birthday..

[QUOTE=Jom]Yeah, getting to the bottom and figuring it out will give you peace of mind and all that other good stuff.[/QUOTE]

Yeah.

:rolleyes:

So, you think you can take him, huh?

Without question. I wouldn't even need garlic, Holy water, or a crucifix to do it, either!

So hey people. I have kinda lost my regularity in here of late, which totally sux.

My ex still hates me, if anyone cares; but the one before her and me are getting along well. Quite well.

Pointless post but just wanted to say hi.

[QUOTE=Jom]Without question. I wouldn't even need garlic, Holy water, or a crucifix to do it, either![/QUOTE]

Kudos to you, then.

:lol:

[quote=Jay]So hey people. I have kinda lost my regularity in here of late, which totally sux.

My ex still hates me, if anyone cares; but the one before her and me are getting along well. Quite well.

Pointless post but just wanted to say hi. [/quote]
Hi, you. :)

Hi everyone. Just thought I'd post since I haven't in a while. As if anyone knows me anyway.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Hi everyone. Just thought I'd post since I haven't in a while. As if anyone knows me anyway.[/QUOTE]


Hi. Did she get online tonight?

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Hi everyone. Just thought I'd post since I haven't in a while. As if anyone knows me anyway.[/QUOTE]
I know you, from your avatar

Wow, a whole day and nobody has posted ANYTHING.

Wow, like it's so hard to find this thread! :eek:

Heh.

I found it somewhat remarkable that no one had posted anything today, as well.

Erica may be an interest again.....................what the hell is my problem?

[QUOTE=Tillius]Erica may be an interest again.....................what the hell is my problem?[/QUOTE]

2 mene girlz.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Erica may be an interest again.....................what the hell is my problem?[/QUOTE]

You're indecisive and can't make up your freakin' mind?

Man if I had even one girl that i was happy with I'd be fine.

you guys and your like ten women

ok more like 3 and just Mitch

Today the girl that I wasn't sure liked me, who is 3 years older, my friend's sister..blah blah blah....anyway she asked me to go to the dance (score...and it's the dance where the girls ask the guys). Then she came over tonight and I'm sure she likes me now. So hopefully I'll stop bein a poon and make some moves.

[QUOTE=Jom]You're indecisive and can't make up your freakin' mind?[/QUOTE]
That's probably it.

[quote=Kimmie]2 mene girlz[/quote]
I thought you were saying two mean girls at first. I was like WTF?!

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]who is 3 years older.[/QUOTE]

I still think that's a big gap. Isn't it?

/wonders

3 years isn't a big gap if the two people have a lot in common.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]I still think that's a big gap. Isn't it?

/wonders[/QUOTE]
I'd say it doesn't really matter if you're both over 20. 10 years or more difference is just wrong though.

[QUOTE=Jonzey]I'd say it doesn't really matter if you're both over 20. 10 years or more difference is just wrong though.[/QUOTE]

Yeah but this guy is 16 and the girl is 19.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Yeah but this guy is 16 and the girl is 19.[/QUOTE]
Ah. Then they should wait 4 years. Which they wont, because they're teenagers so they just want to get as much sex as possible.

I don't find 3 years' a big gap unless the girl is really immature. Some girls like older guys ya know.

Ok I have this problem.

I really like this girl in school. I'm friends with with her and we talk sometimes. Well it's been like 2 years now since I 've met her. I started to like her this year. But just yesterday, I found out she has boyfriend. Her boyfriend is this guy I went to school with in Elementary. He's a pretty cool guy. She seems really happy with him and I don't want to ruin it and start ****. But now I'm expiriencing a lot of depression. I don't feel like doing anything anymore. Even though she has a boyfriend, I still like her a lot. I think I should just try to forget about her but it's really hard. What the hell should I do?

[QUOTE=Mutilated Cadaver]I don't find 3 years' a big gap unless the girl is really immature.[/QUOTE]

Hmmm...

[QUOTE=followedformat]Ok I have this problem.

I really like this girl in school. I'm friends with with her and we talk sometimes. Well it's been like 2 years now since I 've met her. I started to like her this year. But just yesterday, I found out she has boyfriend. Her boyfriend is this guy I went to school with in Elementary. He's a pretty cool guy. She seems really happy with him and I don't want to ruin it and start ****. But now I'm expiriencing a lot of depression. I don't feel like doing anything anymore. Even though she has a boyfriend, I still like her a lot. I think I should just try to forget about her but it's really hard. What the hell should I do?[/QUOTE]

Just because she has a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't be her friend. Because you don't want to mess anything up, you're already making the right call. Don't jeopardize a potential friendship due to subconscious jealousy or anything.

Get your mind on other matters. Start talking to different girls and just hang out with more people. I know it's easier said than done, but Steerpike always is good with suggestions. Ask a friend of yours who's a girl and say that you were going out to get an ice cream/smoothie/Starbucks whatever and that you'd appreciate the company. The more people you talk to, the better.

Or you could ask her if she has any hot friends or something. But I don't encourage that.

[QUOTE=Jom]Or you could ask her if she has any hot friends or something. But I don't encourage that.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

But, seriously, why not?

Angela just called me asking if I could do something later and I said I already have plans (which I do) and she said from one friend to another some tips on girls. I think that just cut it deep, now I know for pretty much 100% that she sees me as [i]friends only[/i] and I don't know what to do about it.

I want to do the whole move on thing and try again later but she's going to be constantly asking to hang out which will only further the 'friends only' thing. I think if I didn't talk to her for a while and we started off totally new than I might be able to do things differently. Because, right now, I can't see myself wanting to be only friends but I don't want to come across like that.

I want more from it than her but confronting her about it I feel isn't going to solve anything.
So I ask a question, is there ever a point of no return with girls and being friends? I mean, just a little over a week ago we were making out and thinking of going out again but then she said she didn't want to and was only going to be friends. And she has made up her mind [i]really[/i] quickly and that it seems that [i]any[/i] feeling of more than just friends from her from before has quickly died. Any ideas how to get them back?

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]So I ask a question, is there ever a point of no return with girls and being friends?

Any ideas how to get them back?[/QUOTE]

Yeah, there is a point of no return. I'm afraid you seem to have crossed. This is the main pitfall with girls, and you have fallen down that pit and been skewered on the spikes of 'no return' hidden at the bottom. Sorry man.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Yeah, there is a point of no return. I'm afraid you seem to have crossed. This is the main pitfall with girls, and you have fallen down that pit and been skewered on the spikes of 'no return' hidden at the bottom. Sorry man.[/QUOTE]

well i mean, its happened before with her too

like, i liked her all last year (and she knew it) and she then denied me. All summer long (last one) i was friends with her but I guess i never slipped into the 'just friends' thing. She always called me her best friend and said that she was able to talk to me about anything, but i guess i never slipped into the 'just friends' with her until now, and truthfully i am going to have a HARD time meeting new ones because im not very good at it

goddamnit

I just wana know how important you guys think the first kiss with someone is?

I went to the cinema with a girl last night and while we were waiting for her dad to pick her up we were both a little nervous. I was just gonna go for it a few times but pussied out:(. Then her dad rang saying he was outside and we went to hug each other and both of us went in to kiss, it was very brief and not much at all. So Im just wondering how important you all think the first kiss is?

btw Im 16 and it wasnt my first kiss in general, just with this girl.

Not that important. Your first kiss with someone is always going to kind of awkward at your age, so don't worry about it.

K thanks you just made me feel better about it now.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Not that important. Your first kiss with someone is always going to kind of awkward at your age, so don't worry about it.[/QUOTE]

uhh hey kim

soo what do you think about my situation...?

I think you're past the point of no return, unfortunately. She's stopped thinking of you as a boyfriend, which is why she's giving you tips on girls.

ahhh.. didn't want to hear that, but i guess it happens :(
ooh welll.. life goes on

how are you doing?