[QUOTE=pohl_56]Ha! She still compleltey ignores me, even when I try to talk to her. Just one word answers and then walks away. It is not worth my time anymore to even try to fix things back to at least being friends. Time wil play its part.

Remember what I was posting about back a couple days ago with the friend that will not move on? Things just keep getting more and more interesting. Ill go into more detail if ya want, but how many people actually read everything people type? Lol.

How are you?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Hi, Jon. My Sunday was okay; lots of cleaning. How was yours?[/QUOTE]


it was okay

i decided not to go to a party tonight with ltos of drinking. although i could use the night out.


Im good.

haha that sounds like my ex she wont even talk to me anymore.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]it was okay

i decided not to go to a party tonight with ltos of drinking. although i could use the night out.


Im good.

haha that sounds like my ex she wont even talk to me anymore.[/QUOTE]

Lol... is it a bad thing when you try to think of ways to make her pissed off?

But yea. What I was getting at earlier was that my friend's crush that he cant have has a thing for me. He is kinda mad about that and I could easily have her but they both know I dont wanna get on anyone's bad side.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Lol... is it a bad thing when you try to think of ways to make her pissed off?

But yea. What I was getting at earlier was that my friend's crush that he cant have has a thing for me. He is kinda mad about that and I could easily have her but they both know I dont wanna get on anyone's bad side.[/QUOTE]


haha no it isnt bad. I try to piss of people everyday.
I try not to get on peoples bad sides but sometimes thats not possible.

any new girls in ur life?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]haha no it isnt bad. I try to piss of people everyday.
I try not to get on peoples bad sides but sometimes thats not possible.

any new girls in ur life?[/QUOTE]

Not really. I'm kinda loving single life, much to the dismay of most of my friends. they cannont seem to figure out how it is I can be happy and single. I could easily have a couple people actually right now but dont really feel like being with anyone, ya know?

You??

So remember those stupid problems about me whoring for my girl's attention? Well, she was doing fine and seemed like she was sorry and everything, except for today. She didn't call me or anything until nightfall, when she was about to go to bed.

I don't want this to escalate abd build up this time. I want to nip it in the bud, but I'm not sure how. What do I say/do to kind of reawaken her?

And no, I'm not going to break up with her yet. I haven't yet mustered the willpower. =|

This could've just been an off day though, so I'm going to try not to worry much.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I don't want this to escalate abd build up this time. I want to nip it in the bud, but I'm not sure how. What do I say/do to kind of reawaken her?
[/QUOTE]


Quit being a needy little bitch. She called you, even.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Quit being a needy little bitch. She called you, even.[/QUOTE]
Stop while you're ahead.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]So remember those stupid problems about me whoring for my girl's attention? Well, she was doing fine and seemed like she was sorry and everything, except for today. She didn't call me or anything until nightfall, when she was about to go to bed.

I don't want this to escalate abd build up this time. I want to nip it in the bud, but I'm not sure how. [b]What do I say/do to kind of reawaken her?[/b]

And no, I'm not going to break up with her yet. I haven't yet mustered the willpower. =|

This could've just been an off day though, so I'm going to try not to worry much.[/QUOTE]

Don't call her; let her call you.

Thought so. I've been doing that for awhile. =\

im going to england in 30mins woo woo wooOO!!!

time for a shower

AAHHH!!

see you all in a week.
AH PLANES :S

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Stop while you're ahead.[/QUOTE]


No no, I will push it till it breaks.

Address what I said. She called you, once today, why do you need more? You cannot cling to someone like **** on velcro and expect it to be a healthy relationship. I think youre the one in this pair who needs to step up.

Keep doing it.

[QUOTE=Tiger]No no, I will push it till it breaks.

Address what I said. She called you, once today, why do you need more? You cannot cling to someone like **** on velcro and expect it to be a healthy relationship. I think youre the one in this pair who needs to step up.[/QUOTE]
You aren't really offering advice or helping, you're just pointing out the obvious.

I'm not really expecting a healthy reltionship out of this, because I've been trying to bring myself to end for awhile. I just want things to go back to normal for a time, so I can think about what to do without my mind worrying.

What do you mean by "step up"?

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've been trying to bring myself to end for awhile.
[/QUOTE]


Thats what I mean, right there. You know what you need to do, even if its not break up with her. You know what the solution is, just step up and handle it.

It's harder then it sounds for me man. For one, I am obsessive compulsive and cannot stand drastic changes, so a big change in my life would cause me to screw everythign else up because I overreact naturally. I have to have to let things gradually die down. Once I am sure I can adjust to life normally, I can break it off. I've been going out and enjoying life much more lately. It's actually pissed my girlfriend off, because she knows she doesn't control me anymore.

So you see, I have made [I]some [/I]progress.

I'm the same way about all changes, not just stuff with girls.

Thats cool.


So why did you post, what exactly are you wanting to know?

I'm not sure really. I just post here because it makes me think more about things when I can actually see my thoughts and stuff written out.

Sometimes Chaindrive or someone says something that makes me see things differently as well.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I'm not sure really. I just post here because it makes me think more about things when I can actually see my thoughts and stuff written out.

Sometimes Chaindrive or someone says something that makes me see things differently as well.[/QUOTE]


You're on the right track, D. This relationship with Blu needs to end.

im so ****ing lonely
i might have blown it with a guy i like
because i gave his friend my phone number, and you never know how they'll interpret these things

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]im so ****ing lonely
i might have blown it with a guy i like
because i gave his friend my phone number, and you never know how they'll interpret these things[/QUOTE]

:confused:

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]im so ****ing lonely
i might have blown it with a guy i like
because i gave his friend my phone number, and you never know how they'll interpret these things[/QUOTE]
You shouldn't have done it, if you "knew" how he would interpret it.

And why would you give another guy your number, unless you wanted to talk to that other guy? most guys are going to pissed about that.

Whether you like it or not, guys are going to treat you like a possession for the rest of your life. Even if it isn't visible, they will believe you are "owned" by them, so to speak.

Hey Chaindrive
 

Just an update.


Kate (my love interest) seems to be warming up a little more to me. I think she's starting to appreciate all the subtle things I do to show my affection. My other friends see it and all think that it's great the way I'm going about this. My only complaint is that it's taking more time than I would like but things are moving in a good direction.


I think that single rose I gave her gave her a little something to think about and she did in fact appreciate the gesture.



me = :)

why are you confused? why did i give him my phone number? why not? he's a person first of all, regaurdless of his sex/gender/sexual preference. im new in town and dont know many people. i want some friends. that was what i was thinking, but now today, i dunno..... maybe they'll talk about me and assume that drunken phone number giving can only mean one thing...

You said it yourslef, you know how the guy will interpret it. Nearly all guys will. In fact, the guy you gave your number too is going to think you are interested in him now.

If thiis has any negative effects on your relationship, then you brought it upon yourself, regardless of whether you have the right idea. You know how he is going to take this, yet you do it anyway.

You asked for it, so now you're going to have to deal with it.

Sorry for being harsh. =\

[QUOTE=Wizard.]You shouldn't have done it, if you "knew" how he would interpret it.

And why would you give another guy your number, unless you wanted to talk to that other guy? most guys are going to pissed about that.

Whether you like it or not, guys are going to treat you like a possession for the rest of your life. Even if it isn't visible, they will believe you are "owned" by them, so to speak.[/QUOTE]

well my first response was to tigers confused face. but i think i answered some of your questions too

i dont think a guy is going to treat me as a possession. i am going to find the most e-masculated pushover i can.

but back to the point, yeah, this guy is kind of serious and i do like him. i dont want to embarrass him, i hope its not a big deal.
what everyone can learn from this is that if a girl gives another guy her number, it DOES NOT mean she doesnt like you.....

i guess if he cant deal with it, then i'll just have to sleep with his friend. right? haha

[QUOTE=g°®†]Just an update.


Kate (my love interest) seems to be warming up a little more to me. I think she's starting to appreciate all the subtle things I do to show my affection. My other friends see it and all think that it's great the way I'm going about this. My only complaint is that it's taking more time than I would like but things are moving in a good direction.


I think that single rose I gave her gave her a little something to think about and she did in fact appreciate the gesture.



me = :)[/QUOTE]
Good for you. :)

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]well my first response was to tigers confused face. but i think i answered some of your questions too

i dont think a guy is going to treat me as a possession. i am going to find the most e-masculated pushover i can.

but back to the point, yeah, this guy is kind of serious and i do like him. i dont want to embarrass him, i hope its not a big deal.
what everyone can learn from this is that if a girl gives another guy her number, it DOES NOT mean she doesnt like you.....[/QUOTE]

But, don't be giving out your number to a friend of his. I'm a girl; I know.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]But, don't be giving out your number to a friend of his. I'm a girl; I know.[/QUOTE]

hmm..... well, ok, i guess i lost this one. :(

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]hmm..... well, ok, i guess i lost this one. :([/QUOTE]

If you're lucky, it'll be okay. If not, the person that you gave the number to will call you and he'll want to get lucky. That will suck.

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]i dont think a guy is going to treat me as a possession. i am going to find the most e-masculated pushover i can.[/QUOTE]
ALL guys are going to think this way. It's just the way we evolved or whatever. It's not something we can help. Even the most sappy and slightly confuzzled sea lionfooted of us will still have those primal beliefs.

[QUOTE]but back to the point, yeah, this guy is kind of serious and [B]i do like him[/B]. i dont want to embarrass him, i hope its not a big deal.
what everyone can learn from this is that if a girl gives another guy her number, it DOES NOT mean she doesnt like you.....[/QUOTE]
It doesn't mean you don't like them, but it does mean hat you like them. See the problem?

Damn these swear filters!

chaindrive, its ok i can handle drunk dials. haha i hope thats all that happens.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]ALL guys are going to think this way. It's just the way we evolved or whatever. It's not something we can help. Even the most sappy and slightly confuzzled sea lionfooted of us will still have those primal beliefs.


It doesn't mean you don't like them, but it does mean hat you like them. See the problem?[/QUOTE]

hat? what.....

anyways i completely disagree that male dominance is innate. i dont wanna discuss it here or now, maybe later.