[QUOTE=~grif~]Hey lads,
Im back from England. Like an hour ago. Fu<king Awesome. Seeing her again - slept in her house.
I had a blast - i really want to just go back. Leaving her though was the worst. That morning we were lying in bed and she started crying. And she was crying the night before and then when I had to go she just burst into tears. Really broke my heart. But in the days before it we had an awesome time. Seeing her again was just brilliant. I cooked her dinner and we had nights of drinking. Lots of sex involved actually.
i think she may be pregnant - lol...no seriousley...
but yea awesome.

and my first flight.

getting there was no problem>

but on the way back i missed my flight and had to reschedual and spend the night in Gatwick airport by myself.
:(

woo!
:)[/QUOTE]

Leaving people you love is very hard but then you can always remember that you will see them in the not-so-distant future. Good that you made the best of the time you did have together.

What did ya think of the plane ride?

Hey thread. Back from a week off, just about.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Leaving people you love is very hard but then you can always remember that you will see them in the not-so-distant future. Good that you made the best of the time you did have together.

What did ya think of the plane ride?

Hey thread. Back from a week off, just about.[/QUOTE]


1 week? where have u been?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]1 week? where have u been?[/QUOTE]

Track started up this past week and I havent gotten home until 7 each night and have been swamped with hw. Then this weekend I went camping and yea.

So you finally saw your gf? Thats good. I am debating if I wanna take action on this situation I am in or not.

I talked to my ex-girlfriend for two and a half hours last night. We're going to go on a date pretty soon, so we'll see what happens. I'm glad I didn't decide to be an [B]a[/B]ss and hate her or anything because I doubt this would have happened if we couldn't get along.

Good luck with that.

[QUOTE=smart blockhead]I talked to my ex-girlfriend for two and a half hours last night. We're going to go on a date pretty soon, so we'll see what happens. I'm glad I didn't decide to be an [B]a[/B]ss and hate her or anything because I doubt this would have happened if we couldn't get along.[/QUOTE]

I wish my ex would just come around and talk, at least a little, to me. Her being and *** to me is really getting old now. We have some of the same friends, and we are forced to still be near eachother, but yet she is choosing to be an immature person.

/rants

Good luck with your situation.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I wish my ex would just come around and talk, at least a little, to me. Her being and *** to me is really getting old now. We have some of the same friends, and we are forced to still be near eachother, but yet she is choosing to be an immature person.

/rants[/QUOTE]

then she's not worth your time

I have a problem..
I get sooooo freaken jealous of my girlfriend's guy friends..
I know I shouldn't, but it's just.. ehh.. I don't know.. even when she tells them she loves them or hearts them or whatever.. It's just I get so freaken jealous.. I trust her and all it's just I don't know how to control myself.
How do I just STOP being jealous?

It's been a while since I've been in the L&R..and I need some advice. I've been hanging out and talking a lot with this girl for the past week or so. She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon. Anyway, I've really taken a liking for her, but I'm very very oblivious to girls, I have no idea if they like me or not unless they're basically throwing themselves at me. She texts me during school about 3 times a day, every day. She always wants to hang out, come to my house, go to Chipotle, go to her house,etc. This makes me think she likes me. But I've had her over at my house when my parents weren't home, and the same at her house. We've talked about sex and what not, but we haven't done anything with each other. Except everytime I leave, or she leaves we kiss. Then I sometimes get a text from her saying she had a good time. Mind you we're not dating, I'd like to, but I'm too much of a puss to make a move when we're together because I'm afraid of rejection. I know I have to grow some cajones for that to change. I guess by writing this it seems like she clearly likes me. But when we're hanging out it just doesn't seem like she does. We're completely honest with each other about everything, I don't know if I should ask her to be my gf, or ask her if she likes me, or try to figure out how she feels without asking. Sorry for the long post, but thanks for any advice.

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]I have a problem..
I get sooooo freaken jealous of my girlfriend's guy friends..
I know I shouldn't, but it's just.. ehh.. I don't know.. even when she tells them she loves them or hearts them or whatever.. It's just I get so freaken jealous.. I trust her and all it's just I don't know how to control myself.
How do I just STOP being jealous?[/QUOTE]
I had the same problem. I would try to get to know some of her friends, maybe that'll ease your worries. Just don't bug her about it, because I did that with my ex, and that's part of why we broke up...but she did cheat so I had my reasons to suspect.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]then she's not worth your time[/QUOTE]

I know she's not. It would just be a nice change to be able to have the group together as a whole again, rather than divided.

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]I had the same problem. I would try to get to know some of her friends, maybe that'll ease your worries. Just don't bug her about it, because I did that with my ex, and that's part of why we broke up...but she did cheat so I had my reasons to suspect.[/QUOTE]
I am now officialy paranoid :(

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]I am now officialy paranoid :([/QUOTE]
I'm sorry man,didn't want that to happen. I'm sure your relationship is much different from what we had...it was terrible.

EDIT: Nevermind about my problem. I talked to one of my friends that works with her, and she said that she doesn't like me in that way, she just wants to 'hang out'. :(

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]I'm sorry man,didn't want that to happen. I'm sure your relationship is much different from what we had...it was terrible.

EDIT: Nevermind about my problem. I talked to one of my friends that works with her, and she said that she doesn't like me in that way, she just wants to 'hang out'. :([/QUOTE]

That's too bad that its just a hang out thing. Just be glad you 2 get along.

eh, i just need to put this into writing somewhere, sorry if it's kinda out of place.


I got a shi[size=2]tload off my chest today, and it feels DAMN good.[/size]

[QUOTE=Junooni]eh, i just need to put this into writing somewhere, sorry if it's kinda out of place.


I got a shi[size=2]tload off my chest today, and it feels DAMN good.[/size][/QUOTE]

Any details?

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]It's been a while since I've been in the L&R..and I need some advice. I've been hanging out and talking a lot with this girl for the past week or so. She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon. Anyway, I've really taken a liking for her, but I'm very very oblivious to girls, I have no idea if they like me or not unless they're basically throwing themselves at me. She texts me during school about 3 times a day, every day. She always wants to hang out, come to my house, go to Chipotle, go to her house,etc. This makes me think she likes me. But I've had her over at my house when my parents weren't home, and the same at her house. We've talked about sex and what not, but we haven't done anything with each other. Except everytime I leave, or she leaves we kiss. Then I sometimes get a text from her saying she had a good time. Mind you we're not dating, I'd like to, but I'm too much of a puss to make a move when we're together because I'm afraid of rejection. I know I have to grow some cajones for that to change. I guess by writing this it seems like she clearly likes me. But when we're hanging out it just doesn't seem like she does. We're completely honest with each other about everything, I don't know if I should ask her to be my gf, or ask her if she likes me, or try to figure out how she feels without asking. Sorry for the long post, but thanks for any advice.[/QUOTE]

I think it's safe to say that, yeah, she likes you... and what's the worst that could happen if she winds up rejecting you? She hasn't shown any signs of wanting to turn you down - so just think of all the great things that will happen when you make a move and make it official. It'll be less awkward for you guys when you hang out.

My advice is to definitely sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that you have had a ton of fun with her or whatever, and say that you've been thinking that you'd like to make it official or what-have-you... and then ask her for her thoughts and what she thinks.

It is important you communicate your feelings to her, and her to reciprocate.

Who knows - maybe something awesome will come out of it, seeing as how she's given you no signs that she's going to tell you otherwise.

Good luck :)

EDIT: God dammit, this is what happens when I read from top-to-bottom:

[quote=Rasta]EDIT: Nevermind about my problem. I talked to one of my friends that works with her, and she said that she doesn't like me in that way, she just wants to 'hang out'. [/quote]

I still say you should talk to her, even if it she feels otherwise. Maybe she'll come around?

[QUOTE=Jom]I think it's safe to say that, yeah, she likes you... and what's the worst that could happen if she winds up rejecting you? She hasn't shown any signs of wanting to turn you down - so just think of all the great things that will happen when you make a move and make it official. It'll be less awkward for you guys when you hang out.

My advice is to definitely sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that you have had a ton of fun with her or whatever, and say that you've been thinking that you'd like to make it official or what-have-you... and then ask her for her thoughts and what she thinks.

It is important you communicate your feelings to her, and her to reciprocate.

Who knows - maybe something awesome will come out of it, seeing as how she's given you no signs that she's going to tell you otherwise.

Good luck :)

EDIT: God dammit, this is what happens when I read from top-to-bottom:



I still say you should talk to her, even if it she feels otherwise. Maybe she'll come around?[/QUOTE]

I hate when that happens. Type out a long thing and then realize it is useless.

Ya never know unless YOU tell her. Friends are good for a lot of things but maybe having a middle man isn't the way to go?

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Any details?[/QUOTE]

Well, I'm not too good at talking to my parents, so today I made an honest attempt to talk to em without getting pissed. And it helps, a lot.

Of course, there's some things you just don't talk to em about, and those weren't brought up, but a lot of things, such as how horrible this school that I'm going to is, and talking about transferring back to my old school, just lots of random stuff I needed to get off my chest, including telling em bout how I beat down some kid last year who started to spread rumors about me doing drugs.

They see me as this sweet little boy who wouldn't harm a fly. But not anymore, I feel they can help me, and I can help them better, if I'm honest with em.

:)

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]I've been hanging out and talking a lot with this girl for the past week or so. She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon.[/QUOTE]

Wait, I'm wondering, how is she three years older than you if you two are only a grade level apart? That would make her a 20-year old senior in high school. :-\

Rasta Rockerstat3---- heres what you do... next time she goes to kiss you goodbye, dont stop, just make out with her. if she stops you then no biggie, just apologize and laugh. you're friends anyways, she's not going to hate you for kissing her back when she kissed you first anyways. it doesnt matter what she told her co-worker, she probably lied to him because she thought it was none of his business.

that should take care of the 'letting you know you want her' part, but i dont really have a solution for how to make the transition into a relationship.... sorry...

theres this girl who is one of my best friends but the prob is that i really really like her. like bad. the problem is i dont know how she feels. at points it seems that she wouldnt want to be with no one else but me at others she could care less about me (for ex: i dont go to school and she gets mad at me for not seeing me, she gave me her baby pic stuff like that) we have known each other since 6th grade and we used to like each other but none of said anything... and recently i tod her how i felt in letter and she didnt say anything but didnt act weird either like if nothing had happened... i dont know what to do anymore. anyone here ever been in the same situation as i have and has an idea of what to do??

any help is greatly appreciated...

[QUOTE=ummm_yeah]theres this girl who is one of my best friends but the prob is that i really really like her. like bad. the problem is i dont know how she feels. at points it seems that she wouldnt want to be with no one else but me at others she could care less about me (for ex: i dont go to school and she gets mad at me for not seeing me, she gave me her baby pic stuff like that) we have known each other since 6th grade and we used to like each other but none of said anything... and recently i tod her how i felt in letter and she didnt say anything but didnt act weird either like if nothing had happened... i dont know what to do anymore. anyone here ever been in the same situation as i have and has an idea of what to do??

any help is greatly appreciated...[/QUOTE]
de ja vous

some thing happened with my best friend (we're good now). I told her how i felt and she said that she was hurt and insulted, becoz she thought she knew me betta, and she thought that i didnt think of her that was, and insulted becoz she thought we were better friends, that she would of picked up on that.

now when ever I bring it up, she gets embarrassed and is like "shut up, i didnt know what the right words were", but now we just make fun of that time.

point of all this? i dont know. i guess girls dont expect that thing from their friends, yet if it happens, they can always go back to the friendship they had, even if it takes time

Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.[/QUOTE]
id give you a hug but i cant.
you are still young remember.

I know. I'll get over it. :-\

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I know. I'll get over it. :-\[/QUOTE]
would it cheer you up if i told you i had alot of sex last week? like a sex marathon? it was great
no condoms too.
i might be having a child
:lol:
....

[QUOTE=Rasta Rockerstat3]She's 3 years older than me (I'm a junior and she's a senior in high school) as of right now, but I'm turning 17 soon.[/QUOTE]

Wait, so you're 16 and she's 19? That's quite a gap.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.[/QUOTE]

Wow.

You decided the effort wasn't worth it?

Looks like we'll probably get back together... already. She keeps calling me and crying and junk. I'm too weak to resist her. -.-

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Looks like we'll probably get back together... already. She keeps calling me and crying and junk. I'm too weak to resist her. -.-[/QUOTE]

She's obviously still very attached to you, despite the fights you have. Don't give up on it so easily.

I've basically been telling her to F-off all morning, and then when I try to talk to her normally and maybe fix things, she pulls this "I need time to think" bullcrap. She was basically begging me to take her back before.

ARGH! I'm going to shoot her. :mad:

Time to give it up, I'd say.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've basically been telling her to F-off all morning, and then when I try to talk to her normally and maybe fix things, she pulls this "I need time to think" bullcrap. She was basically begging me to take her back before.

ARGH! I'm going to shoot her. :mad:[/QUOTE]

Just tell her to stop. This is ridiculous.

Agreed. Don't let her play games with you. She should either place a definite point (relationship or not) or got to hell.

Think about it: What are you? A toy? Her toy? I know from experience it's sometimes really hard to resist. REALLY hard. But I have yet to meet the woman that is worth throwing all dignity (or whatever one wants to call it) over board

Just leave her to it. Don't ring or text her, because that's what she wants. Attention. Wait till she rings you, and when she does, say ''I need time to think''. Phone down. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

She has strung you along for far too long, I know it's hard, but it would be best for you guys to stay broken up. Good luck, though, man...it's a tough time for anyone.

[QUOTE=Jom]I think it's safe to say that, yeah, she likes you... and what's the worst that could happen if she winds up rejecting you? She hasn't shown any signs of wanting to turn you down - so just think of all the great things that will happen when you make a move and make it official. It'll be less awkward for you guys when you hang out.

My advice is to definitely sit down and have a conversation with her. Tell her that you have had a ton of fun with her or whatever, and say that you've been thinking that you'd like to make it official or what-have-you... and then ask her for her thoughts and what she thinks.

It is important you communicate your feelings to her, and her to reciprocate.

Who knows - maybe something awesome will come out of it, seeing as how she's given you no signs that she's going to tell you otherwise.

Good luck :)

EDIT: God dammit, this is what happens when I read from top-to-bottom:



I still say you should talk to her, even if it she feels otherwise. Maybe she'll come around?[/QUOTE]
Haha, no it wasn't in vain, I think I will talk to her about it. Thanks for the advice, and I might just do what DrunkOverYou said :naughty:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Me and Brit broke up. :-|

I somehow worked it so that she is actually the one who broke up with me, probably just so I wouldn't feel guilty, because I'm a douchebag like that.

I feel like s[SIZE="2"]hi[/SIZE]t.[/QUOTE]
Sorry to hear that dude, at least you didnt have to buy the train ticket

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I've basically been telling her to F-off all morning, and then when I try to talk to her normally and maybe fix things, she pulls this "I need time to think" bullcrap. She was basically begging me to take her back before.

ARGH! I'm going to shoot her. :mad:[/QUOTE]
ARGH you dont wanna go back to her, so dont give in. Just tell her to F-off, but not unkindly :)

Well My friend always likes to Know everybody that i know and its bugging me. Lately he said that he just wanted to get to know my gf and the normal jealous person that i am, i said for him to stop getting in the middle of my life. and trying to know everybody that i do. and he hasnt texted me back, but im mad at him because he ALWAYS gets to know everybody that i do. He did it last time too with my ex. and its bugging the **** out of me. And i do trust my gf. I just get so jealous.