[QUOTE=Tillius]...[/QUOTE]
next'd


seriously break up with her.

experiment something for me.

call her say something along the lines of:

"i have incredible feelings for you and love the time we spend with eachother. but things just won't work out, we can't be together anymore. goodbye"


then hang up immediatley and don't pick up when she calls back.


you have to actually mean "its over" when you say it. and act like you mean it.

than slowly you can let her "win you back" i guess if you want

but yeah i want to know what that wil result in before i use it thanks

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]next'd


seriously break up with her.

experiment something for me.

call her say something along the lines of:

"i have incredible feelings for you and love the time we spend with eachother. but things just won't work out, we can't be together anymore. goodbye"


then hang up immediatley and don't pick up when she calls back.


you have to actually mean "its over" when you say it. and act like you mean it.

than slowly you can let her "win you back" i guess if you want

but yeah i want to know what that wil result in before i use it thanks[/QUOTE]
But the fact is, I really don't want it to be over.

Kinda...pathetic really.

Nah, not pathetic. It's not a fun situation, and nobody wants to work hard to make things... well, work. I hate being at crossroads with friends and acquaintances - it's a terrible feeling and can really ruin your mood for however long conflict lasts.

It's really hard to accept things when it comes to dying friendships/acquaintanceships/relationships. You don't want to accept it, but you know it'll be better for you as soon as you move on.

However, it's not worth worrying about if she's going to freak out about you not calling her for your one-month anniversary or something. That's just stupid on her part, really.

So, you can decide to leave and know that she's just acting like a tard, or you can wait it out and see what she does, but you certainly don't need to apologize for it, as you've done nothing wrong.

[QUOTE=Jom]Nah, not pathetic. It's not a fun situation, and nobody wants to work hard to make things... well, work. I hate being at crossroads with friends and acquaintances - it's a terrible feeling and can really ruin your mood for however long conflict lasts.

It's really hard to accept things when it comes to dying friendships/acquaintanceships/relationships. You don't want to accept it, but you know it'll be better for you as soon as you move on.

However, it's not worth worrying about if she's going to freak out about you not calling her for your one-month anniversary or something. That's just stupid on her part, really.

So, you can decide to leave and know that she's just acting like a tard, or you can wait it out and see what she does, but you certainly don't need to apologize for it, as you've done nothing wrong.[/QUOTE]
I love you man.

That actually makes me feel quite a bit better.

oh you didn't call on an anniversary?


i didn't know that was the problem


have you caused her to have certain expectations like that? it might not be total unreasonable for her to be upset over that, but yeah anything else most likely isn't genuine. like all the myspace stuff is probably more about testing you and manipulation stuff. i'm gonna go with break up.
[QUOTE=Tillius]But the fact is, I really don't want it to be over.

Kinda...pathetic really.[/QUOTE]
i don't think it will actually be over. as long as you're on good terms when you do it. like i basically did the same thing a year ago before i was conscious of what i was doing and it resulted in her crying and becoming obsessed. so she wouldn't be doing all that lame stuff for a while if i decided she was worth it again. but she wasn't. so yeah

It's one of those things that makes life not-so-much-fun as you get older. I dare not to claim that I am old enough to say that it's something you experience as you get older, but I'm sure Kimmie could vouch for this if you don't believe me, heh.

Anyways, it's something I've battled/struggled/fought/lost sleep over. I really wasn't good at handling dying friendships and the like, but I've gotten better at dealing with it as I've gotten older. However, I'll admit that I still struggle with it today, regrettably, but I've also felt like I've done everything I could to make things right: first to make reconciliation, listen to the other side, try to compromise, and all that - but some people are just unreceptive, or selfish, or unwilling because they're so self-centered or don't want to admit that they're wrong. When it comes to that, you can't worry about that any longer, especially when you know you've done the best you can to make things right.

But again, this is assuming you guys split. I have a feeling you guys will work something out - not calling is a really, really, really bonehead means of breaking up with someone on their one month anniversary. One year anniversary? Understood. But one month? [Butt-head]Watch out for those Cling-ons near Uranus.[/Butt-head]

[QUOTE=Jom]It's one of those things that makes life not-so-much-fun as you get older. I dare not to claim that I am old enough to say that it's something you experience as you get older, but I'm sure Kimmie could vouch for this if you don't believe me, heh.

Anyways, it's something I've battled/struggled/fought/lost sleep over. I really wasn't good at handling dying friendships and the like, but I've gotten better at dealing with it as I've gotten older. However, I'll admit that I still struggle with it today, regrettably, but I've also felt like I've done everything I could to make things right: first to make reconciliation, listen to the other side, try to compromise, and all that - but some people are just unreceptive, or selfish, or unwilling because they're so self-centered or don't want to admit that they're wrong. When it comes to that, you can't worry about that any longer, especially when you know you've done the best you can to make things right.

But again, this is assuming you guys split. I have a feeling you guys will work something out - not calling is a really, really, really bonehead means of breaking up with someone on their one month anniversary. One year anniversary? Understood. But one month? [Butt-head]Watch out for those Cling-ons near Uranus.[/Butt-head][/QUOTE]
That's what I said. I could understand getting mad over a year, or even six months, but it's ONE GOD DAMN MONTH. It's almost as bad as some girls I've seen who get pissed at their boyfriends for not remembering the "anniversary" of their first kiss, or some shi[size=2]t[/size] like that.

In all seriousness though, you need to cut this **** out right now. Put your foot down now, because if you let her keep being a drama queen over miniscule little ****, she will never stop and it will escalate. If it takes ending it, do it now before you get any more wrapped around her spoiled little finger.


Is this the girl I thought looked like a man? Or was that Wizard's girl? I get you and him confused a lot, how can two dicks be pussies and all.

Heh, it reminds me of Kevin James's [i]Don't Sweat the Small Stuff[/i] stand-up sketch.

[pretending to be his girlfriend]: "Do you know what today is?"

[normal, with blank stare]: "Uhhh. I'm gonna guess Tuesday, but I have a feeling I'm wrong, right?"

[pretending to be his girlfriend, scoffing]: "Ugh! Two weeks ago today was the first time you kissed me at a Jiffy-Lube."

I have a relationship problem. It has to do with my Ramen.

I was making it and took the seasoning packet out of the package, shook it to get it to the bottom, and promptly threw it behind the stove.

This is quite the disturbing news, Kimmie.

:-*

It is indeed. Which caused me to need to bust open another package to retreieve another seasoning packet, because the one I threw behind the stove vanished into [SIZE=2]F[/SIZE]UCKING THIN AIR.

EDIT: I'm sorry, I was so concerned about my ramen I neglected to do this:

:-*

Ah, I hate when that happens. I like to throw the seasoning packets into my rice cooker and flavor it like that. It's quite good. Damn, that seasoning packet of yours! :smash:

:-*

'Twas really weird. I got the yardstick out and tried to fish it out from behind there, but it was nowhere to be found.

:-*

[QUOTE=Tiger]In all seriousness though, you need to cut this **** out right now. Put your foot down now, because if you let her keep being a drama queen over miniscule little ****, she will never stop and it will escalate. If it takes ending it, do it now before you get any more wrapped around her spoiled little finger.


Is this the girl I thought looked like a man? Or was that Wizard's girl? I get you and him confused a lot, how can two dicks be pussies and all.[/QUOTE]
I'm late on this because I took a call, but dude, shut the fuc[size=2]k[/size] up. I'm tired of your bullshi[size=2]t[/size]. You go and give me actually pretty good advice, and then you go and ruin it with some stupid shi[size=2]t[/size] like that. If you can't help without being a dick about things, then why come in here at all?

[QUOTE=Tillius]I'm late on this because I took a call, but dude, shut the fuc[size=2]k[/size] up. I'm tired of your bullshi[size=2]t[/size]. You go and give me actually pretty good advice, and then you go and ruin it with some stupid shi[size=2]t[/size] like that. If you can't help without being a dick about things, then why come in here at all?[/QUOTE]

Hi, Mitch. Sorry about what's going on with Sarah.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Hi, Mitch. Sorry about what's going on with Sarah.[/QUOTE]
I just can't believe how stupid she's being.

And Tiger's getting on my God damn nerves.

[QUOTE=Tillius]I'm late on this because I took a call, but dude, shut the fuc[size=2]k[/size] up. I'm tired of your bullshi[size=2]t[/size]. You go and give me actually pretty good advice, and then you go and ruin it with some stupid shi[size=2]t[/size] like that. If you can't help without being a dick about things, then why come in here at all?[/QUOTE]


Uh oh, somebody's got a case of the Saturdays! :'(

[QUOTE=Tillius]I just can't believe how stupid she's being.

And Tiger's getting on my God damn nerves.[/QUOTE]

I agree; she's blowing this all out of proportion.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Uh oh, somebody's got a case of the Saturdays! :'([/QUOTE]
No, it's just that I was reading what you wrote and was actually happy that you were giving good advice, and then you finish it off with stupid bullshi[size=2]t[/size].

And Kimmie, yes, she is. Why are girls this stupid?

Younger girls by the way, not you of course.

[QUOTE=Tillius]No, it's just that I was reading what you wrote and was actually happy that you were giving good advice, and then you finish it off with stupid bullshi[size=2]t[/size].
[/QUOTE]


Hahaha, thats perfect. You should know better. Its like Im Sean Connery and you're Alex Trebek.

And its confirmed that yes, you are the dater of the coma victim. She has no right to be as controling as she is, she's lucky to get anything coming her way (even you).

Ditch the space cadet and quit menstruating, you admited already that its good advice.

[QUOTE=Tillius]No, it's just that I was reading what you wrote and was actually happy that you were giving good advice, and then you finish it off with stupid bullshi[size=2]t[/size].

And Kimmie, yes, she is. Why are girls this stupid?

Younger girls by the way, not you of course.[/QUOTE]

Nope, I still have my stupid moments, even at my age. I just don't voice them or show them.

[QUOTE=Tillius]If you can't help without being a dick about things, then why come in here at all?[/QUOTE]
Wow, I'm having some serious deja vu.

Well, my best friend from high school is back from Navy boot camp early becuase of a sprained ankle, and we had alot of problems near the end of high school, (hanging out way too much and getting bored and pissed off at each other, fighing for the affection of the same girls, etc.), so we stoped talking. and we hung out for a few hours on friday, and poof, all htos bad memories were gone, and we were best friends again, and we talked about the plans we had for life and such.

and yeah, my cousin died a few weeks ago, my dog died on wednesday, and my uncle died thursday night.

I am suprisingly taking all of this well.

have a nice day L&R thread. I dont know when I will be back.

lmao

Good to hear... I think.

Yeah, I am fine right now. I will most likely break down and cry within the next few days when stress builds up.

My uncle wouldnt have wanted us sad though. I can imagine him pulling me aside at a funeral, and whispering a dirty jokeing my ear to cheer me up.
And my dog was old, she lived a good life, and she was loved.
My cousin was a great guy, and I wish I had known him better.

So yeah, im crying a little bit now, but i am fine.

How are you?

Don't let stress build up. It will be worse then. That's how I deal with things, I kind of ignore everything and force myself to be until I eventually explode over something very lame and blow it of proportion, as you can tell if you've ever read my posts before Letting it build will just cause major problems that you don't need.

If something bugs you, do something about it immediately.

I;ve personally never been affected by family member's dying, but I balled my eyes out when my dog died. :( I had the little bugger as long as I could remember.

I tell my self not to let stress build up all the time, and it never really helps.

Ranting annomously on teh intarwebs helps me feel better, so that is what i do.

We had Cassie for since I was about 4, and she was a year old when we got her, so she was about 15 years old. We had other dogs, but she was the first, and out lived the rest.

Really, just tell yourself to think positively, and force yourself to do it. If you think somehting bad, just rewind for a sec, try to make logic of the thought, then shake it off.

I know, it's harder than it sounds. But I've been a much happier person since I've been doing this for the past 9~10 months. It would probably work for you too.

Take everything as if it is a joke, and meaningless. it makes life much simpler.

I am pretty laid back most of the time. I laugh alot and the most common expression on my face is a smile. I live moment to moment, trying to have as much fun as I can. If there is an instrument to be played, and i can play it, ill play it, or a song to be heard, ill listen. I usually have a song in my head, or at least a beat I can play around with.

Im a pretty happy guy, and living in the moment is a great way to go about life. If there is fun to be had, ill have fun. I wont think of the consequenses if I know I will get a laugh out of it later.

I dont stress out easily. The only times are when my Dad and I get in an arguement, or some family wide problems(some one seriously ill, death, etc).

so yeah, i dont stress out much, but when I do, it will break me down and I will cry, and it will all be at a bad time.



edit: good night L&R thread.