If she has 60 days left it sounds like where she works is either relocating or elminating her position. In that case she's laid off, not fired. If she's laid off she can collect unemployment.

She's district manager for Cingular wireless. They aren't eliminating that position, I'm sure.

She would've said laid off if she got laid off. She got laid off from her last major job too. =S

Well, it's been my experience that when they fire you they don't give you 60 more days to work, so I think it might be something else.

I'm not sure. I guess she'll tell me eventually.

I'm really hoping her old employer will hire her, because she still has it in with him. She worked for a Cingular agent before, which isn't actually owned by Cingular, before moving to the official thing. She stills does favors and stuff for her old employer, so maybe she'll have a chance. The guy is strictly busniess though, so he'll probably see her as unreliable since she left for another job before.

Most employers understand employees leaving for another job to better themselves, though. Unless she left because she was angry with him.

So, there's some girls I've seen around lately that I'm attracted to. Any tips on how exactly I can get to know them better/talk to them/meet them?

[QUOTE=YouGottaBeCrazy]So, there's some girls I've seen around lately that I'm attracted to. Any tips on how exactly I can get to know them better/talk to them/meet them?[/QUOTE]

You can always just walk up to them and introduce yourself.

[QUOTE=YouGottaBeCrazy]So, there's some girls I've seen around lately that I'm attracted to. Any tips on how exactly I can get to know them better/talk to them/meet them?[/QUOTE]

Well, I all depends on details, but just try casualy converstion, and when the chance presents itself, get more person, you know. Start out talking about current events and who not, then like, if it realates to you, justbe all "that reminds me of.." and youll get to know each other that way.

If that makes sense:confused:

[QUOTE=YouGottaBeCrazy]So, there's some girls I've seen around lately that I'm attracted to. Any tips on how exactly I can get to know them better/talk to them/meet them?[/QUOTE]
Just do it. There is no secret or certain way to get aquainted with a girl. Just walk up to them and make some bull[SIZE="2"]s[/SIZE]hit comment about something. Just treat them like you would your best friend.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Just do it. There is no secret or certain way to get aquainted with a girl. Just walk up to them and make some bull[SIZE="2"]s[/SIZE]hit comment about something. Just treat them like you would your best friend.[/QUOTE]

...punch them in the shoulder?


jk :p thanks for the help guys

lmao, if you want, you can really do that. Just make sure it's filmed for us. ;)

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I don't even know yet. She hasn't said. =\

It took her forever to get that job. Finding a good paying job aroudn ehre is hard. I live in a poor area. ><[/QUOTE]

That sucks, dude.

edit: I retract my comment about a union, since I just read your mom was in management.

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]i just think that the DAY AFTER i saw him is a little weird. im not gonna do it.... i dont know....[/QUOTE]

Do it tomorrow. Overthinking is the worse thing you can do to yourself.

[QUOTE=Danish]Do it tomorrow. Overthinking is the worse thing you can do to yourself.[/QUOTE]

She already did it and posted that she did.

I always overthink everything.

I'm already having problems with it and I've only been going out with my current girlfriend for a week today.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]lmao, if you want, you can really do that. Just make sure it's filmed for us. ;)[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I'd hook you guys up.

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I always overthink everything.[/QUOTE]

I do this all the time, but it's more of an analysis than it is thinking, which I'd argue as two separate entities. I'd also argue that what you're doing isn't wrong until you start becoming obsessed with being emersed in thought.

Just don't lose sleep over it.

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I always overthink everything.

I'm already having problems with it and I've only been going out with my current girlfriend for a week today.[/QUOTE]


i overthink things too

Any tips on kissing?

[QUOTE=AtomShip]Any tips on kissing?[/QUOTE]
First kisses?
Any kiss?
Depends on a situation really. to me.

[QUOTE=AtomShip]Any tips on kissing?[/QUOTE]

Don't make loud noises or suck like a leech. And don't try to emulate things you see in the movies. Otherwise, just go with what you think is normal. Unless slurping is considered 'normal,' which I hope is not the case, heh.

And I agree with grif:

[quote=grif]First kisses?
Any kiss?
Depends on a situation really. to me.[/quote]

It depends on the situation and where you're kissing. Cheek? Lips?

[QUOTE=~grif~]First kisses?
Any kiss?
Depends on a situation really. to me.[/QUOTE]


i agree

i remember when i was sorta worried i guess about kissing. It guess it just came natural to me because every girl tells me that im a good kisser.

[QUOTE=Jom]Don't make loud noises or suck like a leech. And don't try to emulate things you see in the movies. Otherwise, just go with what you think is normal. Unless slurping is considered 'normal,' which I hope is not the case, heh.

And I agree with grif:[/quote]

True, some girls ACTUALLY dont like tongue. Knocking of teeth and making that squeekey noise - ever happens, i just laugh it off lol.
Hands are important - place of that is. Hips, her stomach or side, her *** in any case, her face is one of the most romantic - bit cliché like a movie but you honestly are thinking about that. Like when i kiss its me its not something i see in a movie - whatever you think at the time you should be doing do it - cause thats you kissing.

[quote=Jom]
It depends on the situation and where you're kissing. Cheek? Lips?[/QUOTE]
...everywhere else :eek:

Kissing is awsome
I love kissing.

Edit: im frekaing out cuz i cant see my gf and we love kissing

Wat can pass the time until i see her next?

[QUOTE=~grif~]...everywhere else :eek:[/QUOTE]

Raunchy.

Haha.

[quote=Destined_for]Edit: im frekaing out cuz i cant see my gf and we love kissing

Wat can pass the time until i see her next?[/quote]

How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.

[QUOTE=Jom]
How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.[/QUOTE]
sleep :thumb:
smoke :smoke:
drink :chug:

[QUOTE=Jom]Raunchy.

Haha.



How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.[/QUOTE]


She lives like 30 minutes away driving and its really hard for us to get rides to see each other. and i cant drive until april.

I would love some good books. I really want to read some books by Nietzche.
I play the guitar everyday and im saving up for some recording equipment.
Ah my videogames get boring after a while.
Ill probally write some music like always.

What else could be good to do?

[QUOTE=~grif~]sleep :thumb:
smoke :smoke:
drink :chug:[/QUOTE]


sleep is a must
i stopped smoking(its bad for u)
Eh i only drink wine.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]sleep is a must
i stopped smoking(its bad for u)
Eh i only drink wine.[/QUOTE]
drink a bottle of wine and go to bed for a while.

nah smoking isnt that bad.

[QUOTE=Jom]Raunchy.

Haha.



How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.[/QUOTE]


Yeah, maybe call her or something.

For books, Read- A short history of nearly everything. Its reallly good if you like science, and stuff, but don't want the fancy mumbo jumbo. Bill Bryson is a good writer, its like hes telling about all the things, like a story, but you learn.