[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]That's messed.

I would think it's a complete hoax.

ps: My mx is scrolling all screwed up and goes spastic every once and a while. But my letters are fine.

Mitch: I was kind of thinking about it, but not tonight.. I'm going to call her in a minute though.[/QUOTE]
You were being a little bitch last night dude.:angry:

What to the Myspace? Or what to the typing delay?

[url]http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=56900627[/url]

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What to the Myspace? Or what to the typing delay?

[url]http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=56900627[/url][/QUOTE]
It says that user either cancelled their ID or is invalid.
You have a myspace?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What to the Myspace? Or what to the typing delay?

[url]http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=56900627[/url][/QUOTE]
The myspace mostly.

Mitch: Meh. I was in a bad mood and I won't say you guys deserved it being closed, but I know Dan warns you guys a lot, and there's nothing you can do about it by arguing.

[url]http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=56900627[/url]

Stupid girl, I got it screwed up the first time I posted it. Try that.

No, I don't have a Myspace (what the hell would I do with it). This is a contact of Icebox.

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]The myspace mostly.

Mitch: Meh. I was in a bad mood and I won't say you guys deserved it being closed, but I know Dan warns you guys a lot, and there's nothing you can do about it by arguing.[/QUOTE]
We could've stood a better chance though without "commoners" coming in there and arguing against us. We try to keep the BIG spammers under control.


Just so this can be an on topic post, still no word for Sarah. I think I may give Erica a call, or Pam, or Natalie.
God, I don't know who to call.


EDIT: Kimmie, says the same thing.

Draw a name out of a hat, Mitch.

[QUOTE=Tillius]We could've stood a better chance though without "commoners" coming in there and arguing against us. We try to keep the BIG spammers under control.[/QUOTE]
Eh, tbh you had no chance arguing with Dan, even without me and SOP there.

ps: I hate myspace, it doesn't even work for me lol.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Draw a name out of a hat, Mitch.[/QUOTE]
Haha, that'd be a real dick thing for me to do.

I think that if I end up going out with somebody else, it'll probably be Erica or Pamela.

[url]http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=56900627[/url]

Make sure the space between 569 and 00627 is closed. That appears to be the problem.

It worked this time, but I see nothing out of the ordinary.

Her gender is male and her orientation is not sure.

Still doesn't work for me, myspace has never really worked for me, even if I do get the page to come up it just shows the banner at the top and nothing else.

Anyways, I'll leave, as I have nothing to contribute to this thread anymore.

kthnxnewaybi.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]kthnxnewaybi.[/QUOTE]


Hey!

how was ur sunday?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Hey!

how was ur sunday?[/QUOTE]

Hi, Jon. My Sunday was okay; lots of cleaning. How was yours?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Hey Jay

Hows u and ur ex?

better i presume?[/QUOTE]

Ha! She still compleltey ignores me, even when I try to talk to her. Just one word answers and then walks away. It is not worth my time anymore to even try to fix things back to at least being friends. Time wil play its part.

Remember what I was posting about back a couple days ago with the friend that will not move on? Things just keep getting more and more interesting. Ill go into more detail if ya want, but how many people actually read everything people type? Lol.

How are you?

I'll read it if you do.

I'm bad at typing long paragraphs because I tend to ramble and they get confusing.

It looks like I'm breaking up with Lela. Our conversation today went as follows:

Her: "How come you called me like five times? I'm at work."
Me: "I didn't know that. You told me you worked at five."
Her: "Well, I got called in."
Me: "How was I supposed to know that? You didn't call me and let me know."
Her: "Well, that's not my problem."

*ten minutes later*

Me: "How come nothing I do is good enough anymore?"
Her: "I'm under a lot of stress right now."
Me: "You're not the only one with stress."
Her: "You should have taken that job at Dollar Tree."
Me: "What does that have to do with anything?"
Her: "You wouldn't be so stressed if you had that job."
Me: "That has nothing to do with you and me."

*ten minutes later*

Me: "I'm tired of always telling you you're right when you're not. Why won't you open up to me?"

Her: "Maybe I don't want to. I talk to Dominique about everything. She's like my sister."

Me: "Yes, but I'm your boyfriend. How am I supposed to trust you completely when you don't trust me enough to tell me what's on your mind?"

Her: "I don't know. You're being too controlling. You always call me and get mad when I don't call you back."

Me: "I call you because I'm worried about you. I'm trying to keep in touch with you because I'm trying to be supportive. I get angry because when I do get ahold of you, you tell me off and blow me off."

Her: "Maybe we should just be good friends for now until things in my life get easier."

Me: "I'm not playing those games. I've done that before and I'm not doing it again. You can't take a hiatus everytime things get rough. How are we supposed to live together if you're going to run away from every problem that comes along?"

Her: "I don't know. I'm just too busy right now. I don't have time to hang out with you."

Me: "Yet you make time for everyone else except me. I feel like we're in a long distance relationship when we only live five minutes apart. I can't even just drop by your house and see you because your parents don't approve of me. Then, if I try to call you first to see if it's ok to stop by, I can't get ahold of you. When I do get ahold of you, you're too busy with laundry or you're too tired. Well now I'm tired. I'm getting tired of fighting with you every day and I'm tired of you blocking me out. If you would just let me help you cope with this stress, things would be so much easier."

Her: "I don't need help."

Me: "Obviously you do, because you're not dealing with it too well on your own. Look what it's done to our relationship."

That went on for another few minutes until she hung up on me. Again.

I know that was a lot of crap to read, so I apologize. I'm just really depressed right now and I'm finally realizing how much she's changing and how it's pushing us apart. I just don't understand it though. When we first got together everything was perfect. More so than any relationship I've ever had before. Even with work and her schooling, we spent tons of time together. We'd go out, we'd stay at my place and watch movies until 11:00 at night and we could talk about anything.

Now we don't talk at all. When we do talk, all we do is fight. I've been dealing with this for the past month and a half now and I've been bending over backwards to give her anything she needs/wants but nothing is good enough for her anymore and she just doesn't get it. When I try to tell her how I feel about everything she tells me, "You need to stop whining. My life is a lot harder right now than yours."

She's almost 18-years old. I thought we could be adults about this and work through any obstacle that came our way, especially since we agreed at the very beginning that we're both long-term people and we wanted this to really last. Now she's tearing it apart.

Anyway, I left her a message telling her I wouldn't come confront her at work because I didn't want to get her in trouble, but I want her to call me tomorrow after she thinks about everything and I want her to talk to me about this like an adult. If she doesn't bother to call me or if she does and things go poorly (as I'm pretty sure they will), I'm ending it.

This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I've never, ever been the one that has to make the "we're breaking up" decision. I don't want this burden and I don't want this to end. I really love her. I know what I have to do though and it's really going to f[size=2]uck[/size] me up when it happens.

I guess I just need support.

Aw Jared..

That sucks, but it seems as if things aren't going to change if she isn't willing ot do anything about it. You're making the right choice IMO. Good luck with that.

[QUOTE=El Krunk]It looks like I'm breaking up with Lela. Our conversation today went as follows:

Her: "How come you called me like five times? I'm at work."
Me: "I didn't know that. You told me you worked at five."
Her: "Well, I got called in."
Me: "How was I supposed to know that? You didn't call me and let me know."
Her: "Well, that's not my problem."

*ten minutes later*

Me: "How come nothing I do is good enough anymore?"
Her: "I'm under a lot of stress right now."
Me: "You're not the only one with stress."
Her: "You should have taken that job at Dollar Tree."
Me: "What does that have to do with anything?"
Her: "You wouldn't be so stressed if you had that job."
Me: "That has nothing to do with you and me."

*ten minutes later*

Me: "I'm tired of always telling you you're right when you're not. Why won't you open up to me?"

Her: "Maybe I don't want to. I talk to Dominique about everything. She's like my sister."

Me: "Yes, but I'm your boyfriend. How am I supposed to trust you completely when you don't trust me enough to tell me what's on your mind?"

Her: "I don't know. You're being too controlling. You always call me and get mad when I don't call you back."

Me: "I call you because I'm worried about you. I'm trying to keep in touch with you because I'm trying to be supportive. I get angry because when I do get ahold of you, you tell me off and blow me off."

Her: "Maybe we should just be good friends for now until things in my life get easier."

Me: "I'm not playing those games. I've done that before and I'm not doing it again. You can't take a hiatus everytime things get rough. How are we supposed to live together if you're going to run away from every problem that comes along?"

Her: "I don't know. I'm just too busy right now. I don't have time to hang out with you."

Me: "Yet you make time for everyone else except me. I feel like we're in a long distance relationship when we only live five minutes apart. I can't even just drop by your house and see you because your parents don't approve of me. Then, if I try to call you first to see if it's ok to stop by, I can't get ahold of you. When I do get ahold of you, you're too busy with laundry or you're too tired. Well now I'm tired. I'm getting tired of fighting with you every day and I'm tired of you blocking me out. If you would just let me help you cope with this stress, things would be so much easier."

Her: "I don't need help."

Me: "Obviously you do, because you're not dealing with it too well on your own. Look what it's done to our relationship."

That went on for another few minutes until she hung up on me. Again.

I know that was a lot of crap to read, so I apologize. I'm just really depressed right now and I'm finally realizing how much she's changing and how it's pushing us apart. I just don't understand it though. When we first got together everything was perfect. More so than any relationship I've ever had before. Even with work and her schooling, we spent tons of time together. We'd go out, we'd stay at my place and watch movies until 11:00 at night and we could talk about anything.

Now we don't talk at all. When we do talk, all we do is fight. I've been dealing with this for the past month and a half now and I've been bending over backwards to give her anything she needs/wants but nothing is good enough for her anymore and she just doesn't get it. When I try to tell her how I feel about everything she tells me, "You need to stop whining. My life is a lot harder right now than yours."

She's almost 18-years old. I thought we could be adults about this and work through any obstacle that came our way, especially since we agreed at the very beginning that we're both long-term people and we wanted this to really last. Now she's tearing it apart.

Anyway, I left her a message telling her I wouldn't come confront her at work because I didn't want to get her in trouble, but I want her to call me tomorrow after she thinks about everything and I want her to talk to me about this like an adult. If she doesn't bother to call me or if she does and things go poorly (as I'm pretty sure they will), I'm ending it.

This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I've never, ever been the one that has to make the "we're breaking up" decision. I don't want this burden and I don't want this to end. I really love her. I know what I have to do though and it's really going to f[size=2]uck[/size] me up when it happens.

I guess I just need support.[/QUOTE]

I got you Jared; I'll get on AIM if you want me to.

I've thought for a while now that she wasn't worthy of you; ever since you guys have been having problems. She's not taking your feelings into consideration at all, and that's not right. Sure, there's a lot of things going on in her life, but so is there in yours.

Is Dominique the girl that she wanted to move in with you and her?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I got you Jared; I'll get on AIM if you want me to.[/quote]

k.

[quote]I've thought for a while now that she wasn't worthy of you; ever since you guys have been having problems. She's not taking your feelings into consideration at all, and that's not right. Sure, there's a lot of things going on in her life, but so is there in yours.[/quote]

I've told her I need her to be there for me the way I am for her and she told me, "I don't have time right now. You need to stop whining and toughen up." Apparently I'm supposed to be an emotionless robot.

[quote]Is Dominique the girl that she wanted to move in with you and her?[/QUOTE]

Yep.

Jared, AIM says I'm there. Let me know if you don't see me.

Dominique is a problem. Might be "the" problem, even.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Jared, AIM says I'm there. Let me know if you don't see me.[/quote]

I don't. :-\

[quote]Dominique is a problem. Might be "the" problem, even.[/QUOTE]

We had a brief talk about that today too.

Me: "Why do you make Dominique a priority over you and I?"

Her: "She's my best friend. I've known for like, five years."

Me: "I've known most of my friends for ten or more years. I still put you first."

Her: "You don't approve of any of my friends. Tyler, Keith, Dominique.."

Me: "You know why I don't like Tyler and Keith. Tyler hits on you more often than he breathes and Keith has a stalking complex. I don't have any problem with you being friends with Dominique. I do, however, have a problem with her being a cornerstone of our relationship."

*more arguing ensues*

Well, I guess my opinion is going to be rendered obsolete, but it looks like Jared's seriously considered this and is cool with his decision. I agree with it, but I'm biased because that is exactly what I would do in this situation if I had to give her options instead of just telling her to fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] off. You gave her options, and she can choose. Whatever she chooses, you seem content with...

... to be honest, though, I don't think this girl is worth your time. She seems more bent on treating you like crap than this being a two-way street. Her not wanting to open up to you is pretty low, and you're right - how can you trust her if she can't confide in you? There's no explanation for that. That's why I'd say that the sooner you get her out of this, the better off you'll be because you won't have to put up with her shi[font=verdana]t[/font]. And this Dominique crap isn't exactly assuaging your situation. It should be down to you and her, not some third wheel.

/supports

What Jom said.

[QUOTE=Jom]Well, I guess my opinion is going to be rendered obsolete, but it looks like Jared's seriously considered this and is cool with his decision. I agree with it, but I'm biased because that is exactly what I would do in this situation if I had to give her options instead of just telling her to fuc[font=verdana]k[/font] off. You gave her options, and she can choose. Whatever she chooses, you seem content with...

... to be honest, though, I don't think this girl is worth your time. She seems more bent on treating you like crap than this being a two-way street. Her not wanting to open up to you is pretty low, and you're right - how can you trust her if she can't confide in you? There's no explanation for that. That's why I'd say that the sooner you get her out of this, the better off you'll be because you won't have to put up with her shi[font=verdana]t[/font]. And this Dominique crap isn't exactly assuaging your situation. It should be down to you and her, not some third wheel.

/supports[/QUOTE]

Yeah, everything you guys are saying is 100% true. Like I'm telling Kimmie though..

[quote]x Roisin Dubh x (6:50:53 PM): I agree. She wasn't this immature before though, so that's why this is so emotionally stressful for me. We used to be on the same level with everything. Once she realized though that, "Oh ****. I procrastinated on all my senior work and now I have to play catch up." and her grandpa started going under, she became completely self-centered. I told her, "Hey if you need help with school, just let me know." She says, "I don't need help." I say, "Hey if you need to talk about your grandpa or anything, just talk to me." she says, "I don't need to talk." Now it's grown into this. It's like she's nothing but regressing.[/quote]

It's just so hard for me right now because I still believe she's a mature person, but I can see that she's falling farther and farther from that fact.

Looks like she is regressing. Seems like the only support she's looking to at the moment is Dominique.

[quote=AIM]x Roisin Dubh x (6:50:53 PM): I agree. She wasn't this immature before though, so that's why this is so emotionally stressful for me. We used to be on the same level with everything. Once she realized though that, "Oh ****. I procrastinated on all my senior work and now I have to play catch up." and her grandpa started going under, she became completely self-centered. I told her, "Hey if you need help with school, just let me know." She says, "I don't need help." I say, "Hey if you need to talk about your grandpa or anything, just talk to me." she says, "I don't need to talk." Now it's grown into this. It's like she's nothing but regressing.[/quote]

She's really cutting you off from playing any significant role in helping her cope with her problems. It's too bad she's blown off school and that her grandpa fell ill and all that, but when she's only relying on her girlfriend for moral support and not you, it's not a knock on you, per se, but it's just her putting up walls and barricading her inside, along with Dominique.

There's really nothing else you can do if she's going to sell you out like that. You've acted perfectly rational and within reason, and if she's just going to cut you off like that, you just can't expect it to magically click all of a sudden with her. When you've done the most you can, there's nothing else you [i]can[/i] do really.

Your assumptions seem perfectly valid. She's regressing further and further, and pretty soon she's just going to burn out - and you don't want to be placed in that situation at all. If she didn't have Dominique, she'd have nothing, it seems - especially if she's treating you the way she is currently.

When you're put so low down the priority ladder, you can't just sit there and take it - it doesn't matter how things were before. Something snapped in her, and now she refuses to open up to you. You can't fight that regressive phase at all, regardless of your efforts. You're just going to have to let it go or let the situation breathe for a bit - you giving her choices and having her decide what she wants is the best scenario, I think, as others have said.

"Priority ladder"...damn, that's perfect. Because that's what it is. Lela is just smacking Jared down that ladder, rung by rung, it seems to me.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Ha! She still compleltey ignores me, even when I try to talk to her. Just one word answers and then walks away. It is not worth my time anymore to even try to fix things back to at least being friends. Time wil play its part.

Remember what I was posting about back a couple days ago with the friend that will not move on? Things just keep getting more and more interesting. Ill go into more detail if ya want, but how many people actually read everything people type? Lol.

How are you?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Hi, Jon. My Sunday was okay; lots of cleaning. How was yours?[/QUOTE]


it was okay

i decided not to go to a party tonight with ltos of drinking. although i could use the night out.


Im good.

haha that sounds like my ex she wont even talk to me anymore.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]it was okay

i decided not to go to a party tonight with ltos of drinking. although i could use the night out.


Im good.

haha that sounds like my ex she wont even talk to me anymore.[/QUOTE]

Lol... is it a bad thing when you try to think of ways to make her pissed off?

But yea. What I was getting at earlier was that my friend's crush that he cant have has a thing for me. He is kinda mad about that and I could easily have her but they both know I dont wanna get on anyone's bad side.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Lol... is it a bad thing when you try to think of ways to make her pissed off?

But yea. What I was getting at earlier was that my friend's crush that he cant have has a thing for me. He is kinda mad about that and I could easily have her but they both know I dont wanna get on anyone's bad side.[/QUOTE]


haha no it isnt bad. I try to piss of people everyday.
I try not to get on peoples bad sides but sometimes thats not possible.

any new girls in ur life?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]haha no it isnt bad. I try to piss of people everyday.
I try not to get on peoples bad sides but sometimes thats not possible.

any new girls in ur life?[/QUOTE]

Not really. I'm kinda loving single life, much to the dismay of most of my friends. they cannont seem to figure out how it is I can be happy and single. I could easily have a couple people actually right now but dont really feel like being with anyone, ya know?

You??

So remember those stupid problems about me whoring for my girl's attention? Well, she was doing fine and seemed like she was sorry and everything, except for today. She didn't call me or anything until nightfall, when she was about to go to bed.

I don't want this to escalate abd build up this time. I want to nip it in the bud, but I'm not sure how. What do I say/do to kind of reawaken her?

And no, I'm not going to break up with her yet. I haven't yet mustered the willpower. =|

This could've just been an off day though, so I'm going to try not to worry much.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I don't want this to escalate abd build up this time. I want to nip it in the bud, but I'm not sure how. What do I say/do to kind of reawaken her?
[/QUOTE]


Quit being a needy little bitch. She called you, even.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Quit being a needy little bitch. She called you, even.[/QUOTE]
Stop while you're ahead.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]So remember those stupid problems about me whoring for my girl's attention? Well, she was doing fine and seemed like she was sorry and everything, except for today. She didn't call me or anything until nightfall, when she was about to go to bed.

I don't want this to escalate abd build up this time. I want to nip it in the bud, but I'm not sure how. [b]What do I say/do to kind of reawaken her?[/b]

And no, I'm not going to break up with her yet. I haven't yet mustered the willpower. =|

This could've just been an off day though, so I'm going to try not to worry much.[/QUOTE]

Don't call her; let her call you.

Thought so. I've been doing that for awhile. =\

im going to england in 30mins woo woo wooOO!!!

time for a shower

AAHHH!!

see you all in a week.
AH PLANES :S