Unless you know her taste really well, pick them out together.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Unless you know her taste really well, pick them out together.[/QUOTE]
I know she likes silver and I think her ring size is a 6, thats about it.

ok it hit me the other day that I have been dating this girl for a month and I do not even know her last name

now, I'm a customer at her place of business, so she knows mine by my check card, and it never came up.

what the heck am I supposed to do so that I don't look like I'm a total jackass.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner][B]ok it hit me the other day that I have been dating this girl for a month and I do not even know her last name
[/B]
now, I'm a customer at her place of business, so she knows mine by my check card, and it never came up.

what the heck am I supposed to do so that I don't look like I'm a total jackass.[/QUOTE]
LMAO. Sorry, but thats sort of funny.


Not sure....hmmm....just be truthful. She will probably think it's funny, and at least you're being truthful with her.

go round hers, look for a letter, somehow get a look at an id card...

phone book, i dunno

[QUOTE=Ganondorf]Ok, got kinda wasted last night, ended up making out with soem girl I'm really NOT attracted to, major regeret right about now?

How do I stop feeling ****?[/QUOTE]

Get over it. You made a stupid mistake while drinking, and if you're smart you'll practice better moderation in the future.

It's alcohol. What do you think is going to happen when you get wasted?

I have a question: Are stupid little things that make you feel irrational things normal?

My GF is very friendly and is basically one of those "My hug is my handshake" girls. Sometimes when she does this, it makes me feel a little uncomfortable. BUt at the same time, I know she's just being nice. Is me feeling uncomfortable about her being friendly irrational?

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]I have a question: Are stupid little things that make you feel irrational things normal?

My GF is very friendly and is basically one of those "My hug is my handshake" girls. Sometimes when she does this, it makes me feel a little uncomfortable. BUt at the same time, I know she's just being nice. Is me feeling uncomfortable about her being friendly irrational?[/QUOTE]
yes

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]I have a question: Are stupid little things that make you feel irrational things normal?

My GF is very friendly and is basically one of those "My hug is my handshake" girls. Sometimes when she does this, it makes me feel a little uncomfortable. BUt at the same time, I know she's just being nice. Is me feeling uncomfortable about her being friendly irrational?[/QUOTE]

I have never seen a girl shake hands.

But I hug everyone, too.

I wouldn't say irrational, but it is unfounded. Lots of guys feel this way, but you just have to stop and think every time the feeling comes up.

You'll find soon enough that it's a common psychological phenomenon, but one you don't have to lose any sleep over and can keep under control.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]I wouldn't say irrational, but it is unfounded. Lots of guys feel this way, but you just have to stop and think every time the feeling comes up.

You'll find soon enough that it's a common psychological phenomenon, but one you don't have to lose any sleep over and can keep under control.[/QUOTE]
Yeah. Those little things in the back of our heads that tell us to "KILL" when we see our women interact with other males are very annoying.

Hi L&R, this question is somewhat embarassing, but I've been having some "stamina problems." Is there anything I can to do help this?

What I recommend is something called "Kamasutra". It has a numbing result, which means you can go longer.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What I recommend is something called "[B]Kamasutra[/B]". It has a numbing result, which means you can go longer.[/QUOTE]

what is that?

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]ok it hit me the other day that I have been dating this girl for a month and I do not even know her last name

now, I'm a customer at her place of business, so she knows mine by my check card, and it never came up.

what the heck am I supposed to do so that I don't look like I'm a total jackass.[/QUOTE]
uh find it

its somewhere

[QUOTE=DreamWorld]what is that?[/QUOTE]

I was wondering the same thing, I thought it was just different positions.

Here's another piece of advice you might be able to use: tease.

Extend foreplay on as long as you can stand it. If you find something she likes, stop doing it at random just for a moment to tease her. Bide your time and draw it out before you actually penetrate her.

The more you work her over, the better it will be for the both of you.

ok, so last night, i went to this party, and there was this girl there, who ive known for years (since the age of 5)

ive also kinda liked her for a year or so, but never made it clear...

cut a long story short, i ended up making out with her, and she told her mate who told me that she would quite like to date me

problem is, we are 2 totally different kinds of people. shes a "good girl," only gets drunk occasionally, barely ever kisses anyone, that kinda thing, whereas i'm an alcoholic party animal. if you get the idea.

i kinda want to go out with her, but i dont want to hurt her...

help?

i would take the good girl

good girls are rare these days

but i know what im like, and i know i would probably end up hurting her. my past record hasnt been the most faithful..

also, its not like i can get some cheap fun then ditch her, as we are part oif a theatre group and will be sharing a flat in edinburgh in a few weeks.

So, recently got a new girlfriend, she's just a bore.

How do I let her off easy without her being pissed or killing herself.

She's slightly emo, this is the 3rd time I've gone out with her, my fault, I know.

Also, there's this other girl... yeeeeah.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]ok, so last night, i went to this party, and there was this girl there, who ive known for years (since the age of 5)

ive also kinda liked her for a year or so, but never made it clear...

cut a long story short, i ended up making out with her, and she told her mate who told me that she would quite like to date me

problem is, we are 2 totally different kinds of people. shes a "good girl," only gets drunk occasionally, barely ever kisses anyone, that kinda thing, whereas i'm an alcoholic party animal. if you get the idea.

i kinda want to go out with her, but i dont want to hurt her...

help?[/QUOTE]

So you're saying that you can't trust yourself to show any degree of self-restraint?

[QUOTE=doublepost0rz]So, recently got a new girlfriend, she's just a bore.

How do I let her off easy without her being pissed or killing herself.

She's slightly emo, this is the 3rd time I've gone out with her, my fault, I know.

Also, there's this other girl... yeeeeah.[/QUOTE]

"Look, I really do care about you, but something just isn't working. I think we should just stay friends and try to work out these issues before one or both of us gets hurt down the road."

Ok so i just read the past few pages as i have been away the past few days, despite this discussion being dead i'm going to state my oppinion on this:

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Wait, am I reading this right? Marriage is the only way to be certain that you're not with somebody just for the sex? Please tell me I'm wrong.[/QUOTE]

Which was in reply to

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]I seem to be stuck in the mindset though that sex is only good if its with who you're married with because then there's more trust and knowing that you arent just with them for sex.[/QUOTE]

IMO, marriage has changed alot since the days when abstinence until your wedding day was custom. Although i still feel that to want to follow this custom is totally acceptable and if you want that go ahead, but make sure it is for the right reason. :)

But, i agree with steerpike on this one, these days marriage is no longer a definate sign of complete trust and love, and there are MANY couples out there who can be hopelessly in love and lust for each other...have an active sex life and still be yet to commit to marriage.

Then there are a good portion of married couples who within a few years become divorced and in many cases fall apart just as badly as a non marital relationship would/could.

So if you are basing your abstinence on the mindset that it is only a pure, loving bond when you are married, and anything else is dirty, slutty or just for kicks, this is not the right reason to abstain.

Do it when you and your partner are both fully ready and want to do it, wether that be when you want a "fu[size=2]ck[/size]buddy" or when you fall completely in love with someone, is your choice, but marriage is not the dominant factor in detecting love in a relationship.

Found out my gf will be studying abroad for a year in europe. I chouldn't be happier for her, but this scares the crap out of me. I mean, a year is a pretty lengthy time to be away from someone and the only interaction between the two of us would be the internet, letters and phones calls.....now, I know she wouldn't cheat, but I can't help but think of "what if" scenarios, because I think that since she's away from me for so long, she'll get lonely and find some guy to keep her from feeling that way while over there...idk, it just worries me about the fututre of our relationship.

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]Found out my gf will be studying abroad for a year in europe. I chouldn't be happier for her, but this scares the crap out of me. I mean, a year is a pretty lengthy time to be away from someone and the only interaction between the two of us would be the internet, letters and phones calls.....now, I know she wouldn't cheat, but I can't help but think of "what if" scenarios, because I think that since she's away from me for so long, she'll get lonely and find some guy to keep her from feeling that way while over there...idk, it just worries me about the fututre of our relationship.[/QUOTE]

If you're worried about it in a "she may get lonely and want a guy" perspective, consider what you yourself will do when you get lonely, if it isn't to go looking for other women, and you trust her, then that mindset may ease the worries. :)

[QUOTE=Jo Shoe Wah]If you're worried about it in a "she may get lonely and want a guy" perspective, consider what you yourself will do when you get lonely, if it isn't to go looking for other women, and you trust her, then that mindset may ease the worries. :)[/QUOTE]
I know, but we're talking about a YEAR. Not a month or a couple weeks.

I hear you though, I worry about this stuff, but our relationship is very strong and I kind of feel guilty to be having these thoughts. I want us to have a healthy future, and her going over there just worries me a bit.

well for your information, it's not like im against kinky, dirty and slutty things, i mean im not saying it's wrong for people to do things like that, im just completely unactracted to it. I could have a 20 inch boner (impossible i know) and then see my significant other wearing a tight leather suit and holding a whip and can of whipcream and have my dick shrink to 2 inches. im just completely turned off by it.

Your worries are perfectly natural, but unfounded. Believe me, this is very common, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. The key here is that you can second guess those thoughts and realize it's just another one of those inner demons you need to learn to stop paying attention to.

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]well for your information, it's not like im against kinky, dirty and slutty things, i mean im not saying it's wrong for people to do things like that, im just completely unactracted to it. I could have a 20 inch boner (impossible i know) and then see my significant other wearing a tight leather suit and holding a whip and can of whipcream and have my dick shrink to 2 inches. im just completely turned off by it.[/QUOTE]

I think the larger point he was making is that you shouldn't abstain only because you believe sex out of wedlock is somehow impure or lesser. To be perfectly honest, that's a crude misconception.

I know, I shouldn't worry but the thought of losing her terrifies me and the thought of some foreign guy trying to get her from me sickens me.

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]I know, I shouldn't worry but the thought of losing her terrifies me and the thought of some foreign guy trying to get her from me sickens me.[/QUOTE]

Dude, she's with you for a reason. There are guys overseas who are every bit as hopeless at the dating scene as the ones over here.