[QUOTE=mullets suk]Im about to hang out with my friend who is also my band mate/friends girlfriend. Its just going to be the two of us. if u where my friend (band mate) would you be pissed that i was hanging out with her. Also is it wrong for me to hang out with her?

note: I do like her, but im not going to make a move on her cause I don’t want to piss her boyfriend off and cause that the break up the band.[/QUOTE]
Well I think you've answered your own question, to be perfectly honest. As long as you don't, er, "make a move," as it were, and if it comes up between you and your friend (band mate) you make it clear that you don't intend to, it should be OK.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]oic. you could have made the whole "I know someone like that" a tad more clear[/QUOTE]

yeah i probably could have.

But i didn't really think of how to word it.

meh

guys im getting way too much tang, help.

Tie a knot in it?

in what?

[QUOTE=Paliente]guys im getting way too much tang, help.[/QUOTE]

stop buying it

:lol:

That was, indeed, classic.

:lol:

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]That's where I'm gonna differ on this.[/QUOTE]

well that's because you're wrong

It's an opinion. They can't be wrong.

sure they can

And, that's YOUR opinion.

no i don't speak in opinions, darling.

I relay certain facts that God himself has provided me with.

oic.

sexymuffin if i was a girl would you make love to me all night long and tell how beautiful i am

I certainly wouldn't.

tang, its a kick in the glass

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]sexymuffin if i was a girl would you make love to me all night long and tell how beautiful i am[/QUOTE]

yeah but only if you gave good head


on a serious note: I think it's retarded that people say sex isn't important to a relationship and usually look at people who say sex [i]is[/i] important as sleazy scumbags who have their priorities mixed up. What makes an emotional relationship any more intimate then a sexual one? I hate people that hold their virginity up as some sign to all how pure and rightous they are almost as much as they hate people who tell them sex is the only way to go

umm i gave it a try in fifth grade

[QUOTE=beeyotch]You can have a perfectly happy relationship without sex... and I think people should give it a try, initially. But once you do have sex involved in your relationship, then it becomes very important to the relationship.[/QUOTE]

if you have a strong relationship then sex doesn't matter.

That's why you should do it.

Once you have sex, it doesnt become important. I mean, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we had sex like, before we started dating.
It was never/has never become an important part of our relationship. Sure, its awesome as hell but we dont rely on it.

I might be getting back together with my ex, Rachel. :)

Wish some luck my way.

Good luck, Jared. Hope it works out. :)

Good luck and all the best to you, Jared, especially after that Layla ordeal.

[quote=sexymuffin]on a serious note: I think it's retarded that people say sex isn't important to a relationship and usually look at people who say sex is important as sleazy scumbags who have their priorities mixed up.[/quote]

Sup, generalizations?

[quote]I hate people that hold their virginity up as some sign to all how pure and rightous they are almost as much as they hate people who tell them sex is the only way to go[/quote]

Sup, middle ground?

to sexymuffin:

Although sex isnt like...mandatory, i dont think I would be dating someone if we didnt have sex. Call me shallow but whatever.

I can go without it, but not for months at a time.

[QUOTE=Jom]Good luck and all the best to you, Jared, especially after that Layla ordeal.[/QUOTE]

It was Lena. In case you're poking fun.

I've come to learn that anytime a girl has sex with a guy when they're dating or whatever, that's usually all they wanted. The sex.

That's why I usually try to find someone who is a virgin. You can call me stupid or whatever, but it just makes me very uncomfortable if I'm dating someone who has had sex. I don't know why, but it does. I like a girl with inocence, and they seem to lose that if they've lost their virginity. To me, (just me, and yes even I think I'm retarded thinking it) sex is something that younger people do to get their kicks. They know there's risks in it but just could careless because they want to be cool and they want that good feeling. I plan to be sexually abstinent until I'm married, because then the experience will be much better and caring. I find sex completley overrated and unneccesary unless you plan on reproducing.

I also know a lot of my friends who had sex with their gf's/bf's and their relationships seemed to poof away just like that.

sounds like nbf has some performance and/or physical anxieties

Oh so you think I'm scared of having sex? :p

It isn't that entirley, I have no worries of how my performance will be/how long I'll last, I just don't see any importance of it when it comes to a relationship. I want it to be something I can save and share with that special someone.

well you shouldn't have sex when you just start dating if that's not what you want

if she is up for sex, well maybe an explanation that you want a deeper relationship before you go the whole hog

yes, the male refusing sex sounds a bit girly but you personally will be better off in your feelings and confidence