[QUOTE=purplefeet]I completely agree you.[/QUOTE]

Me as well.

Steerpike you seem to have changed a lot in the past year or so.

I tend to get jealous as well, because my girlfriend gets hit on ALL the damn time.

I went on a quest to change myself for the better. In the last year, I've made considerable progress.

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]haha, well said. You give very good advice, it actually makes me feel better about the situation.

It's just that I love this girl more than anything, that may sound cliche, but it's absolutely true. I jsut need to take your advice and control my emotions. Thanks. :)[/QUOTE]

Just remember that she loves you too whenever you get jealous. She is with you because she wants to be and cares about you.

That being said, some random chump hitting on her wont effect you or the relationhsip.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]I tend to get jealous as well, because my girlfriend gets hit on ALL the damn time.[/QUOTE]

She's still with you, isn't she? That means you're doing right what all those other guys are doing wrong.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]I tend to get jealous as well, because my girlfriend gets hit on ALL the damn time.[/QUOTE]

This is the worst reason to get jealous EVER.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]This is the worst reason to get jealous EVER.[/QUOTE]

Not really. It's a competition thing. For that reason I would aregue it's the most natural/obvious reason to get jealous.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]This is the worst reason to get jealous EVER.[/QUOTE]
I never said it was a good reason, it's just frustrating when I hear some of the things that guys say and do. Maybe its less jealously, and more anger, because some guys show her no respect at all.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]I never said it was a good reason, it's just frustrating when I hear some of the things that guys say and do. Maybe its less jealously, and more [B]anger, because some guys show her no respect at all.[/b] [/QUOTE]

Thats something I think you can justify.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]I never said it was a good reason, it's just frustrating when I hear some of the things that guys say and do. Maybe its less jealously, and more anger, because some guys show her no respect at all.[/QUOTE]

Joke about it with her. Remember how I referred to those guys earlier? Don Juan-nabee. Say it out loud if it doesn't sound right in text.

Those guys are hitting on your girlfriend because they don't have one themselves. You are the alpha male, and they are lowly omegas with dellusions of grandeur. They're not even worth the effort of putting them in their place as your girlfriend can do that for you.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]They're not even worth the effort of putting them in their place as your girlfriend can do that for you.[/QUOTE]

Unless of course one's laxidasical approach allows her the space to grow fond of one of these omega males.

Yea, I see what you are saying Steerpike.

Anyway, my girlfriend is really modest so when she gets a compliment she usually cracks a smile or something, which leads some guys to really get in her face and make her uncomftorable.

That's the worst.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Unless of course one's laxidasical approach allows her the space to grow fond of one of these omega males.[/QUOTE]

Thats your own insecurity, not your girlfriends problem.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Thats your own insecurity, not your girlfriends problem.[/QUOTE]

Maybe so, but one partner cheating on another is a reality is it not? These things occur.

It is a reality. But you cant stop it from happening. If a guy is hitting on your girlfriend you need to let her make the right decision and not just try to prevent it from happening.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]It is a reality. But you cant stop it from happening. If a guy is hitting on your girlfriend you need to let her make the right decision and not just try to prevent it from happening.[/QUOTE]

True enough.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]It is a reality. But you cant stop it from happening. If a guy is hitting on your girlfriend you need to let her make the right decision and not just try to prevent it from happening.[/QUOTE]

I like the way you think.

Ultimately it's up to the person being hit on to make it stop. Which comes back to my point about common sense...some people just don't have it.

Maybe they should call it [i]un[/i]-common sense.

ZING

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Don Juan-nabee.[/QUOTE]

Hahahaha. Oh my God, that's golden.

Haha. Some people lack it in gross amounts.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Maybe they should call it [i]un[/i]-common sense.

ZING[/QUOTE]

Urrite. They should.

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]Unless of course one's laxidasical approach allows her the space to grow fond of one of these omega males.[/QUOTE]

If you suspect he's getting really pushy, insert yourself into the conversation. She's your girlfriend, so you shouldn't need an excuse to want to talk to her. Don't even acknowledge his advances. Just treat him as another guy in the crowd, and eventually your girlfriend will see that you trust her and you're not worried about her cheating. You just wanted to offer a little a help in diffusing a potential stalker.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Yea, I see what you are saying Steerpike.

Anyway, my girlfriend is really modest so when she gets a compliment she usually cracks a smile or something, which leads some guys to really get in her face and make her uncomftorable.

That's the worst.[/QUOTE]

Now that I can understand being angry about. It's rude, creepy, and suggests a complete ignorance of non-verbal communication.

Again, just insert yourself into the conversation. "Hey, honey. Friend of yours?" Stay casual. With you around, the moron will soon be dissuaded, especially if he can't seem to get a strong reaction out of you.

In the long run, women will like you more if you trust in their sensibility and independence. There are 3 billion men on this planet. And she's going out with you. That means you have something these other guys who continually hit on her don't.

Women don't need men to swoop in and take away their problems. If she needs your help shaking off a would-be suitor, she'll let you know.

F[size=2]u[/size]ck all you people that said not to worry about anything. FU[size=2]C[/size]K YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What???

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]F[size=2]u[/size]ck all you people that said not to worry about anything. FU[size=2]C[/size]K YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!![/QUOTE]

What happened?:confused:

Date was a flop. Just like I KNEW it would be.

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]Date was a flop. Just like I KNEW it would be.[/QUOTE]

Well, the best advice here is that you need to pull yourself together, act like you're cool and everything will be cool.

How old are you man?

I mean honestly one bad date doesn't mean much of anything except that she might not dig you if she ever did. Just roll with it.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]Well, the best advice here is that you need to pull yourself together, act like you're cool and everything will be cool.

How old are you man?

I mean honestly one bad date doesn't mean much of anything except that she might not dig you if she ever did. Just roll with it.[/QUOTE]

I agree. Don't beat yourself up about it. If things were gonna go wrong, they just were.

So, what exactly DID happen then?

He'll be back after he eats.

I will say that it sounds like it went worse than any of us expected, though.