Dude, watch out for one thing, although I don't think you need to worry about it. It's where you go in for a kiss, and the girl either doesn't get the message or she's denying you, and turns the kiss attempt into a hug. happened to me once. Quite recently, actually. But yeah, good luck.

O, one thing that really bugs me and pisses me off is when people use the term "stalker" lightly. I used to think that a stalker was someone who like has pictures of someone all over and hangs out outside their window in the middle of the night, you know stuff like that. But nowadays, apparently anyone who really likes someone and has strong feelings for them is a stalker. Let's discuss, shall we?

um then the way they're displaying their "stong feelings" is creepy



...so how long have you been a stalker for?

hey, i know what he means. it's not the girl that calls you a stalker, but all your friends and stuff that are on the outside of the situation. if you like a girl for a really long time they're like "oh, yeah, you're practically stalking her, man."

first kiss is always the hardest, but it also carries the best feeling ever...

and she'll know. after all, if a chick came towards you with her eyes closed and w/e, you'd know?

we've all seen enough movies...

[QUOTE=Corkofski]we've all seen enough movies...[/QUOTE]

Yes, because things always happen like they do in films...:rolleyes:

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]You guys are lucky. :( Our armrests are so huge. We may just sit on the floor lol.[/QUOTE]
it really is worth paying the extra £4 for the couch down here:thumb:

oh btw i have a bit of a problem. me and my gf are going through a bit of a rough patch. but its really all my fault. its all cool its just that it seems to me that shes lost interest a tiny little bit. and me being the prick i am, ive become paranoid of splitting up. i know its stupid but thats how it is. any advice much appreciated

[QUOTE=Chrysostom]I disagree.
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Why do you think we have emotional attachment, then?

:thumb:

[QUOTE=ledzeprock]oh btw i have a bit of a problem. me and my gf are going through a bit of a rough patch. but its really all my fault. its all cool its just that it seems to me that shes lost interest a tiny little bit. and me being the prick i am, ive become paranoid of splitting up. i know its stupid but thats how it is. any advice much appreciated[/QUOTE]

If its going to happen, it will. But in case it doesnt, dont get too stressed about something you cant change. Just continue to be who you are, act normally (in general/to her).

Take it for what its worth, no relationship is a life or death situation. Just chill and Im sure things will be fine man.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]Why do you think we have emotional attachment, then?

:thumb:[/QUOTE]
i have emotional attachments to friends but i don't want to [I]mate[/I] with them



humans are not [I]naturally[/I] life mating animals. life-long monogamy is a social construct, not the way we naturally are

honestly you're the worst scientist i've ever met

Ok I don't know if you'd call this a problem, but I need help.

I don't know if it's because I really like/love this girl or if it's because I'm nervous about tommorow, but I've felt like I have to throw up for the past 3 days ever since she told me how strongly she felt about me. I don't think it's a bad pain, but it's really getting annoying and I want this sick feeling in my stomach to go away. Is there any way to get rid of it without not thinking about her or can someone tell me why this feeling is there?

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]i have emotional attachments to friends but i don't want to [I]mate[/I] with them



humans are not [I]naturally[/I] life mating animals. life-long monogamy is a social construct, not the way we naturally are

honestly you're the worst scientist i've ever met[/QUOTE]

oic


Either way.

Emotional attachment to the sex of a relationship.

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]Ok I don't know if you'd call this a problem, but I need help.

I don't know if it's because I really like/love this girl or if it's because I'm nervous about tommorow, but I've felt like I have to throw up for the past 3 days ever since she told me how strongly she felt about me. I don't think it's a bad pain, but it's really getting annoying and I want this sick feeling in my stomach to go away. Is there any way to get rid of it without not thinking about her or can someone tell me why this feeling is there?[/QUOTE]

You are nervous? Excited? Its just a combination of all of your feelings so its making a little butterfly feeling in your tummy. Oh, the feeling of a fresh relationship.

btw, Ive been with my boyfriend for over 8 months and I still get that tummy feeling.

Okay, I've just had girlfriends in the past and I never got the tummy feeling like I do with her.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]If its going to happen, it will. But in case it doesnt, dont get too stressed about something you cant change. Just continue to be who you are, act normally (in general/to her).

Take it for what its worth, no relationship is a life or death situation. Just chill and Im sure things will be fine man.[/QUOTE]

thankyou very much :)

i think im just stressing too much. hopefully

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]Okay, I've just had girlfriends in the past and I never got the tummy feeling like I do with her.[/QUOTE]

It doesnt neccessarily mean you love her or anything. You could just be really fond and happy with her, which is causing you the tummy tickles. Dont make too much of it, enjoy it :)

It's hard to enjoy when I can barely eat. :-/

It's cool, I haven't really slept in two weeks.

I think it may be bad indigestion. That's how it feels.

Haha, it could be but butterflies and indigestion are two different things my friend.

You'll be able to tell the difference.

Either way, I hope it goes well. Theres nothing quite like young love.

I'm going on vacation next week for a week, and my GF is getting bummed about me leaving, so what can I do for her to make her more comfortable with my leaving? I was going to write her a love/letter to leave her with so she knows i'm thinking about her, type thing.

Well how do I know which is which? This feeling I have it's hard to burp, I feel like I just ate a lot of food, even though I haven't eaten anything, and I keep farting.

I doubt my farts are a symbol of fondness for a girl, haha.

At the same time though I have a feeling in my chest, around the heart area, but it's a nice warm feeling.

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]Well how do I know which is which? This feeling I have it's hard to burp, I feel like I just ate a lot of food, even though I haven't eaten anything, and I keep farting.

I doubt my farts are a symbol of fondness for a girl, haha.

At the same time though I have a feeling in my chest, around the heart area, but it's a nice warm feeling.[/QUOTE]
okay love doesn't give you gas

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]I'm going on vacation next week for a week, and my GF is getting bummed about me leaving, so what can I do for her to make her more comfortable with my leaving? I was going to write her a love/letter to leave her with so she knows i'm thinking about her, type thing.[/QUOTE]

Thats probably a good thing to do. A love letter or something symbolic for her to read or look at if ever she misses you and whatnot.

Its pretty thoughtful and meaningful. Remind her a week isnt too long.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Thats probably a good thing to do. A love letter or something symbolic for her to read or look at if ever she misses you and whatnot.

Its pretty thoughtful and meaningful. Remind her a week isnt too long.[/QUOTE]
Yes, but me and her are pretty in love, and a week will seem like a year. :-(


I'm a little bummed about it, but i'm very happy to say for the first time in my history of GF's, i'm not worried in the slightest about her doing anything while i'm gone. I'm so glad I trust her 100%.

i don't like the sound of your relationship



theres a vibe to it

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]i don't like the sound of your relationship



theres a vibe to it[/QUOTE]
Hmmmm care to expand on that idea? :p

I know how you feel. I might be going to Montreal for a few days this week, and my boyfriend will be gone when I get back so we wont see each other maybe for a week (or talk) so I know how crappy that seems. But we both will be doing our own things, having fun and will have stories for each other when we both get back.

Ill miss him with oodles too. But its good that you both trust each other I guess..(its a week, not a couple months) so write her a love letter and she'll be fine.

K well me and my girlfriend broke up cuz of the distance thing. We both love and want to be with each other. She said that once we can see each other more we should go out again but i really dont think that will ever happen since we live far away. Do you think i should wait to see fi it does happen or just forget about it and go on with life and find somebody new.