Ok, i need some advice on dealing with flirty friends. My gf has a 2 guy freinds that are just wayyyy too flirty for my tatse, and what they say makes me feel uncomfortable. I keep holding my tongue to say something because I don't want to sound paranoid or controling.....but I just want to tell her....

She will say they are just freinds, and yes they are, but that doesn't make it right for them to say that stuff. They are disrespecting me as her bf by doing this....

anyone?

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]Kiss her lips, not like her...kneecap :p

Just messin' with ya man lol.[/QUOTE]

Hardy flippin' harr.

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]Ok, i need some advice on dealing with flirty friends. My gf has a 2 guy freinds that are just wayyyy too flirty for my tatse, and what they say makes me feel uncomfortable. I keep holding my tongue to say something because I don't want to sound paranoid or controling.....but I just want to tell her....

She will say they are just freinds, and yes they are, but that doesn't make it right for them to say that stuff. They are disrespecting me as her bf by doing this....

anyone?[/QUOTE]

I'd talk to her friends if I were you. Let them know how you feel about the way they talk and act around her. Of course, just remember, it's guy nature to act that way around girls.

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]Hardy flippin' harr.



I'd talk to her friends if I were you. Let them know how you feel about the way they talk and act around her. Of course, just remember, it's guy nature to act that way around girls.[/QUOTE]
I don't really know them that well, so directly talking to them might be awkward.

They mostly keep bugging her to hang oout with them, like one on one. That is a huge no in my book.

Just tell let her know your somewhat worried. And that it's not her your worried about but them. You absaloutely trust her but you don't trust the other guys.

Make sure she understands though that your worried not because you think she'll do something but that they might.

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]Just tell let her know your somewhat worried. And that it's not her your worried about but them. You absaloutely trust her but you don't trust the other guys.

Make sure she understands though that your worried not because you think she'll do something but that they might.[/QUOTE]
That is EXACTLY how I feel and I have told her that before. But then, she always says "but we're just freinds" and I know this....I trust her 100%, it just makes me feel crappy when other guys hit on your girl.

My worst fear is making her think i'm some psycho bf that won't let her talk to her guy friends, which i'm not at all.

So me and my girlfriend just broke up. Im pretty sad. Its cuz of the distance thing. I really didnt want it to die this way but i couldnt do anything about it. Plus i love her :(

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]So me and my girlfriend just broke up. Im pretty sad. Its cuz of the distance thing. I really didnt want it to die this way but i couldnt do anything about it. Plus i love her :([/QUOTE]

Ok well the best advice that I can offer is that I went through this (LD relationship fails only because of the distance) and I'll be the first to say that no matter what you may feel, everything your friends and family say is true.

You probably feel like you a) can never love again b) can never be loved again c) you're worthless d) your personality isn't up to par and girls only want top notch

But it's all lies your head tells you because humans are naturally life-mating animals. Accept that what you feel is a good instinct to have because one day it's going to put you in a really strong relationship again.

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]Hey, um, I'm kind of embarassed to ask this, but me and Sara are going to the movies this Sunday, and I know that she wants me to kiss her. The problem is, um...what is the right way to kiss a girl without shocking her or whatever? Like when we're sitting in the theater, what is it I should do to know when it's right to kiss her?[/QUOTE]

Look into her eyes, and if you get one of those deep, gazes back, then go for it.

K well im going to tel you the whole story now.

We have been going out for almost 5 months now and lately we have been knowing that our relationship is dying and we have not seen each other in about one month. i love her with all my heart. We both agreed that we would get back together when we can see each other more and that we will continue the same things we do, like call each other everyday, hang out when posible, care for each other...ect.....This is just really hard for me, i love her to much and i really want to be with her but i know this will be for the better, but also the though of her makingout with guys bugs me even though i will be doing the same to girls. I just love her so much. :(

[QUOTE=Sun Ray™]Look into her eyes, and if you get one of those deep, gazes back, then go for it.[/QUOTE]

remember only go 9/10ths the way and let her go the last tenth.

and no tongue

and no touching her boobs. or anything other than her lips really on a first kiss (unless you were sitting close, in that case I suggest not moving away from her to kiss her).

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]K well im going to tel you the whole story now.

We have been going out for almost 5 months now and lately we have been knowing that our relationship is dying and we have not seen each other in about one month. i love her with all my heart. We both agreed that we would get back together when we can see each other more and that we will continue the same things we do, like call each other everyday, hang out when posible, care for each other...ect.....This is just really hard for me, i love her to much and i really want to be with her but i know this will be for the better, but also the though of her makingout with guys bugs me even though i will be doing the same to girls. I just love her so much. :([/QUOTE]

Man, five months is nothing. I bet it will take you less than two months to move on. This happens to everyone during their life, and it always sucks, though.

What you're going through is "The Suck." It's like being afraid of heights but knowing you have to jump off of a bridge to survive, or being assigned floor cleaning duty with only a tooth brush to wash it. It's something you have to man up tough out.

Don't get me wrong. If you need to let it out, do so. I promise that as time goes on you will think about her less and less, though, regardless of how much you loved her.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]Man, five months is nothing. I bet it will take you less than two months to move on. This happens to everyone during their life, and it always sucks, though.

What you're going through is "The Suck." It's like being afraid of heights but knowing you have to jump off of a bridge to survive, or being assigned floor cleaning duty with only a tooth brush to wash it. It's something you have to man up tough out.

Don't get me wrong. If you need to let it out, do so. I promise that as time goes on you will think about her less and less, though, regardless of how much you loved her.[/QUOTE]


I know that will happen but ive been crying so much. It happens about 20 minutes ago. I really dont think ill ever find somebody like her.

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]I know that will happen but ive been crying so much. It happens about 20 minutes ago. I really dont think ill ever find somebody like her.[/QUOTE]

Like I said..it's all part of being human.

Let it out until you can't and don't stay up late at night because you feel awful. I used to do that all the time..hoping for something to help me, and it just made me feel worse and worse until I went to bed miserable.

If you find yourself doing that, pick a set time to go to bed. It seriously helps.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]Like I said..it's all part of being human.

Let it out until you can't and don't stay up late at night because you feel awful. I used to do that all the time..hoping for something to help me, and it just made me feel worse and worse until I went to bed miserable.

If you find yourself doing that, pick a set time to go to bed. It seriously helps.[/QUOTE]


Okay, how could i find another girl. I love heavy metal i would like to be with a girl who also likes it. Im just worried about meeting another girl. Its hard for me to meet people like me.

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]Okay, how could i find another girl. I love heavy metal i would like to be with a girl who also likes it. Im just worried about meeting another girl. Its hard for me to meet people like me.[/QUOTE]
You don't need to be with a girl to be happy. You also don't need to have a girlfriend who enjoys metal to have a decent relationship. Like they say- opposites attract.

Sounds like you need a break. If you stop looking for someone and focus on yourself a little bit more it'll help you decide what you want. It sounds like you're insecure with yourself and (correct me if I'm wrong) feel a bit socially awkward? You need to sort your head out first and get over this other girl before trying to move on. You're young, you'll meet someone when the time is right. Nothing in this world is permanent- letting go is the first step to moving on :)

Well i am a very insecure person, but not socially awkward. I get over this quick too.

Yeah, don't limit yourself to a girl that likes metal. I'm into metal, and my girlfriend likes rap, and Shakira, or however you spell it.

There are a lot of girls out there, just keep your options open.

[QUOTE=Silent Death]Yeah, don't limit yourself to a girl that likes metal. I'm into metal, and my girlfriend likes rap, and Shakira, or however you spell it.

There are a lot of girls out there, just keep your options open.[/QUOTE]


I try to.

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]Well i am a very insecure person, but not socially awkward. I get over this quick too.[/QUOTE]
So what's the actual problem?

(I'm a little confused- my brain is too small :( )

Im just afraid that i will never love someone as much as her or find someone as awesome as her.

Someone's said it before but I'll say it again. It was only 5 months. That's still they 'honeymoon period'. Seriously, you will find someone else. If it was meant to be it would have worked. Don't worry, you have plenty of time :)

[QUOTE=Baz Turd]Someone's said it before but I'll say it again. It was only 5 months. That's still they 'honeymoon period'. Seriously, you will find someone else. If it was meant to be it would have worked. Don't worry, you have plenty of time :)[/QUOTE]


I know i do. Is there anything that can get my mind off this kinda stuff?

Go to metal concerts and meet girls if you want to meet someone into metal :-/

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]because humans are naturally life-mating animals.[/QUOTE]

I disagree.

[quote=Aakon Keetreh]I know i do. Is there anything that can get my mind off this kinda stuff?[/quote]

Not really. You'll just have to grin and bear it for a few weeks, that's all.

okay.

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]remember only go 9/10ths the way and let her go the last tenth.

and no tongue

and no touching her boobs. or anything other than her lips really on a first kiss (unless you were sitting close, in that case I suggest not moving away from her to kiss her).[/QUOTE]

I wont touch her boobs, haha, Im not a perv at all. It's not like I've never kissed before, it's just the first time I madeout/kissed/whatever, the girl made the first move unexpectadly and I went with it. This girl is gonna be wanting me to make the first move, but are you sure that if I look at her and then start moving close to her she'll know or what? I'm sorry I'm just really worried. :(

Dont be worried. Its no big deal. You will do fine.

I hope so. It seems kinda hard to kiss someone when there's friggin' armrests in the way. They need to start making couches in movie theaters.

Hmm I guess we're lucky you can move the armrests up at the movie theatres here ;).

You guys are lucky. :( Our armrests are so huge. We may just sit on the floor lol.