Some advice to anyone who thinks that what happens in high school is meaningful...


99% of it isn't

[QUOTE=EinzingerIsGod]Some advice to anyone who thinks that what happens in high school is meaningful...


99% of it isn't[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I don't expect to find true love in high school. I don't think anyone does, but some might.

The way I see it is, high school "love" is just a trip of fu'cking that just happens to last for 4 years.

[QUOTE=Towlie]Yeah, I don't expect to find true love in high school. I don't think anyone does, but some might.

The way I see it is, high school "love" is just a trip of fu'cking that just happens to last for 4 years.[/QUOTE]

High school love generally isn't (generally speaking)

[QUOTE=EinzingerIsGod]High school love generally isn't (generally speaking)[/QUOTE]

Yeah, it's pretty much (w)hor(e)mones.

[QUOTE=Towlie]Yeah, it's pretty much (w)hor(e)mones.[/QUOTE]

Haha, aye, I agree on that one.

[QUOTE=allalone]Soooooo. I have this problem, sort of. So I'm 16, going to be a senior in high school. Now I have only really kissed 2 girls in my life. That's the farthest I've ever gotten with a girl. You see, I used to be fat and I really just did think anyone would really like me. I still kind of feel that way, but anyways, everyone else is starting to have sex and everything and I've never even gotten passed first base. So, I don't know what I should do about it. I really have no experience whatsoever to begin with. How would I be if I even tried to have sex with a girl.

And on another note, I don't even know how to, like, get with a girl, to begin with. I'll kind of flirt with girls, but nothing really happens after that. I don't understand how other people do it.[/QUOTE]

You sound like me when I was in high school.:p I thought no girl in existence would ever want to be with me, even the ugly and fat ones(no offense to ugly and fat girls). Eventually after high school I pretty much woke up one day and looked in my mirror. "Fu[color=white]ck[/color] this. I hate the way I look." I decided it was time to set some personal goals.

So then I went into dieting and excercising hardcore for about 3 months straight. I went from 227 to 172 in about 4 months and I've kept it off since then. Once this happened, I gained a lot more confidence in myself.

The next thing I had to conquer was shyness. The way I did this was I went out of my way in my college classes and ESPECIALLY at work to force myself to talk to co-workers, even if it was just pointless garbage. This helped me develop my social skills and humor. Nowadays, I'm much more confident with my physical appearance and my confidence in general. I have a girl now that I really care about and things couldn't be better. I can assure you, once you get out of high school, the girls just aren't the same in college and in the real world, which is a good thing.

The only other advice I can give you is don't be afraid to put yourself out there. If you're denied, so what? Move on to your next goal.:thumb:

[QUOTE=zealous]Ah goood :p remember much? haha glad you had a great night![/QUOTE]
I remember everything unfortunately :p

Oh it was awesome. I have a huge crush on this teacher (:( + :embarrassed:) and she was there all dressed up nice so that was a pretty sight.

I got a huge hug from my history teacher who's about to retire, bless him. What a dude.

The party afterwards was interesting... ended up making out with this one guy a lot. Probably regret that the most, he's a bit of a psycho so I just hope he doesn't think anything else is going to happen.

God I love being single and 16.

[QUOTE]Soooooo. I have this problem, sort of. So I'm 16, going to be a senior in high school. Now I have only really kissed 2 girls in my life. That's the farthest I've ever gotten with a girl. You see, I used to be fat and I really just did think anyone would really like me. I still kind of feel that way, but anyways, everyone else is starting to have sex and everything and I've never even gotten passed first base. So, I don't know what I should do about it. I really have no experience whatsoever to begin with. How would I be if I even tried to have sex with a girl.

And on another note, I don't even know how to, like, get with a girl, to begin with. I'll kind of flirt with girls, but nothing really happens after that. I don't understand how other people do it.[/QUOTE]
This is gonna sound really generic and crap but whatever.

It doesn't matter.

I've spoken to so many people that regret their first time. Basically all my friends have had sex, and are in relationships with very active sex lives and I'm still a virgin.

You'll feel happier with yourself if you just wait it out rather than trying to find girls to experiment with, trust me. Sex and all that jazz is only part of a relationship and only a part of your life. At our age, everything is starting to change, new responsibilites and everything. It all happens so fast that sometimes you feel left behind and like you have to catch up. Take things at your own pace, everyone is different.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]You'll feel happier with yourself if you just wait it out rather than trying to find girls to experiment with, trust me. Sex and all that jazz is only part of a relationship and only a part of your life. At our age, everything is starting to change, new responsibilites and everything. It all happens so fast that sometimes you feel left behind and like you have to catch up. Take things at your own pace, everyone is different.[/QUOTE]

This is exactly what I would say.

Wow things have changed since ive been gone....

MXtabs is closed again, the pit is renamed. i bet ppl were crying about that. lol.

but yea hey lads - hows thigns goin for everyone? Aint been on much, had my exams all month and what nots, been going up and down to see Sierra alot. We are getting on great =)

Weird thing, her grandma rang me today and was like "hi kevin this is grandma" and im like "lol wtf?" it was pretty funny on my part.
But yea i also had an interview today with Volunteer work, i hope i did ok, hopefully il be moving up with Sierra soon if it all goes well!

I spent the last week with her in her place, she is coming down here tomorrow.

There is a big music festival happening here at the weekend in Tramore, "Trafest" - its all these bands take over the streets, drinking all over, was hoping she could get to see it but no luck there.

Anyway im finished school for life, everything is going well.

yay!

x

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]This is gonna sound really generic and crap but whatever.

It doesn't matter.

I've spoken to so many people that regret their first time. Basically all my friends have had sex, and are in relationships with very active sex lives and I'm still a virgin.

You'll feel happier with yourself if you just wait it out rather than trying to find girls to experiment with, trust me. Sex and all that jazz is only part of a relationship and only a part of your life. At our age, everything is starting to change, new responsibilites and everything. It all happens so fast that sometimes you feel left behind and like you have to catch up. Take things at your own pace, everyone is different.[/QUOTE]

Couldn't put it better myself! Lots of my friends say regret losing their virginity. Most even hate the guys they lost it to.

I'm still a virgin, there's no rush. Once it's happened, there's no going back - but there is plenty of time for it.

[QUOTE=~grif~]Wow things have changed since ive been gone....

MXtabs is closed again, the pit is renamed. i bet ppl were crying about that. lol.

but yea hey lads - hows thigns goin for everyone? Aint been on much, had my exams all month and what nots, been going up and down to see Sierra alot. We are getting on great =)
[/QUOTE]

Things have been going pretty well for me. Went camping with some friends and my girlfriend last weekend. I've just been busy working to make money for bills to pay rent and such.

[QUOTE=zealous]Couldn't put it better myself! Lots of my friends say regret losing their virginity. Most even hate the guys they lost it to.

I'm still a virgin, there's no rush. Once it's happened, there's no going back - but there is plenty of time for it.[/QUOTE]
:h5: :)

ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?

I wish I could say I was still a virgin.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?[/QUOTE]

Thats really your choice and nobody elses. How do you even know you're gonna have sex anyway during this camp?

[QUOTE=Corkofski]ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?[/QUOTE]

Personally I'd go for the relationship, but that's just me. Do what you feel is best. And if you decide to not have sex with this girl at camp it doesn't mean there aren't other options...

[QUOTE=Corkofski]ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?[/QUOTE]

Your situation doesn't seem realistic.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]This is gonna sound really generic and crap but whatever.

It doesn't matter.

I've spoken to so many people that regret their first time. Basically all my friends have had sex, and are in relationships with very active sex lives and I'm still a virgin.

You'll feel happier with yourself if you just wait it out rather than trying to find girls to experiment with, trust me. Sex and all that jazz is only part of a relationship and only a part of your life. At our age, everything is starting to change, new responsibilites and everything. It all happens so fast that sometimes you feel left behind and like you have to catch up. Take things at your own pace, everyone is different.[/QUOTE]
It just seems like everyone else is doing stuff and I'm being left out. I just think I'm going be like 21 with no experience whatsoever. I don't know. I guess I'll just wait it out.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?[/QUOTE]

Hmm, things may have changed since that last year, I'd wait to see how the relationship developes. It may not even be an option?
Of course, it is your choice. However, I'd rethink the consequences from all angles.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?[/QUOTE]
I'd fcuk her and keep the relationship. You'll only see her 1 week a year anyway. If you keep in touch, maybe it'll be an annual thing.

[QUOTE=allalone]It just seems like everyone else is doing stuff and I'm being left out. I just think I'm going be like 21 with no experience whatsoever. I don't know. I guess I'll just wait it out.[/QUOTE]

I think more people than you think will find that appealing .

I think it should be a point of pride.

[QUOTE=mack03]I'd fcuk her and keep the relationship. You'll only see her 1 week a year anyway. If you keep in touch, maybe it'll be an annual thing.[/QUOTE]
Maybe if he wasn't a virgin. That really doesn't make too much sense, to me. Does he really wanna look back at losing his virginity to someone who he only met for a week. I know I'd want to lose my virginity in a meaningful relationship.

hmm

well yea, ive been talkin to the girl since then, so i know shes still up for it...

[QUOTE=allalone]Maybe if he wasn't a virgin. That really doesn't make too much sense, to me. Does he really wanna look back at losing his virginity to someone who he only met for a week. [B]I know I'd want to lose my virginity in a meaningful relationship.[/B][/QUOTE]
I'm know some people look back on who they lost their viginity and didn't look at the relationship but who they lost it too. I'd rather lose it to someone that I cared about in a certain way then just wake up beside my bestfriend nude.

[QUOTE=SantaDuJuan]I'm know some people look back on who they lost their viginity and didn't look at the relationship but who they lost it too. I'd rather lose it to someone that I cared about in a certain way then just wake up beside my bestfriend nude.[/QUOTE]
Sooooo you're agreeing with me?

[QUOTE=allalone]Sooooo you're agreeing with me?[/QUOTE]
He's saying the you might loose the relationship after sex. So, would you rather loose your best friend or a complete stranger.

I think that's what he was saying.

[QUOTE=mack03]He's saying the you might loose the relationship after sex. So, would you rather loose your best friend or a complete stranger.

I think that's what he was saying.[/QUOTE]
I wasn't talking about having sex with my best friend. Or a complete stranger.:confused:

[QUOTE=allalone]I wasn't talking about having sex with my best friend. Or a complete stranger.:confused:[/QUOTE]
K, well, I have no clue as to what your talking about then.

[quote=Corkofski]ok, i need help here...

basically, i know my character. i'm a virgin, and i know that if i get in a relationship and have sex, im eventually gonna break up with the girl.

i feel ready for sex, and theres this camp coming up, and this girl i met last year has expressed interest in meeting up

so question: do i lose my virginity to someone who i will only see for one week a year, and possibly remain in contact and friendly with forever, or do i wait until im in a relationship, have sex, break up, hate each other and never speak?[/quote]

How do you know you're going to break-up, [B]hate[/B], and never talk to whoever may someday be your girlfriend? I assume you are not telepathic, so in that case you don't know. Maybe if you wait long enough for the right person you'll be happy and stay together...or maybe you'll break up and still be friends. Who knows, but whatever happens, the memories of your first time with someone you really care for will probably be better than those of a one night stand.