[quote=Kimmie]Whine whine whine Jom ignores me whine whine something or another[/quote]

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[quote=Slug]Jom doesn't show pics very often.[/quote]

Unless they're joke pics. Hellllllllll yes!

Oh Jom.

[QUOTE=Jom][url=http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v607/frozeninshadows/hc2k4modificationlol.jpg]Sup suit[/url]



Unless they're joke pics. Hellllllllll yes!



lol.[/QUOTE]

You know, I'm 48 years old next week and I have no problems whatsoever posting pics of myself.

Why do you?

You know I like my anonymity.

Bah. Everyone's anonymous on the internetz, even those of us who aren't.

I know what he looks like :cool:

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever][Lots of good advice][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chaindrive][Lots of good advice][/QUOTE]
Thanks guys, these are the kind of things i wanted to hear

the guy with the problem about lasting - try masturbating before sex, or just do it more often. the shorter the time between each orgasm, the longer itll take to uhh.. pump on out. also think about other stuff while in intercourse, like bunnies or baking cookies or something

Yea my first time having sex, I was thinking of lyrics in my head so I would last :-/

[QUOTE=Vannaroth]Thanks guys, these are the kind of things i wanted to hear

- try masturbating before sex, or just do it more often. the shorter the time between each orgasm, the longer itll take to uhh.. pump on out. also think about other stuff while in intercourse, like bunnies or baking cookies or something[/QUOTE]

You're welcome.

Edit your post, please, so you're not calling him by name. :)

done :)

[QUOTE=Vannaroth]done :)[/QUOTE]

Thank you. :)

I also had another suggestion for him...I have some stuff called Kama Sutra (oil and also lotion) which kind of deadens the nerve endings. It prolongs the moment...

EDIT: Just a reminder...if anyone requires anonymity, my IMs are in my profile.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Bah. Everyone's anonymous on the internetz[.][/QUOTE]

Incorrect.

/creates a Kimmie mySpace account using the picture she sent me for her big avatar when I was on the staff

/invites tons of little children to be her friend

/imagines her door getting kicked down by the popo

Hey guys, been a while since I've given you folks down here in L&R a go, so here it is :p.

Last night I was hanging out with a girl and stuff at a party. And some moron was sittin' beside her and he wouldn't get up (Luckily he wasn't hittin' on her or anything). So once he finally got up and left, I sat down beside her and we talked some. And my intire plan for the day was to make my move at this party. Well, about 2 minutes into the convo she brings up that she's going to camp for the summer, and she only gets back on weekends. It just so happens my scheduele works the opposite. I'm away every single weekend this summer aside from two.

So after hearing about this, my mind just kinda' went blank and I stopped worrying about making my move.

Whata' I do? Should I make a move anyways? Or should I just maybe try and wait 'till the summer ends..or what??

Thanks in advance.

You should tell her before she leaves. And just explain the situation to her. If she's not interested then you have the whole summer to find someone else. If she is then you could write letters and stuff, girls like that. Then when she gets back... :naughty:

[QUOTE=Sun Ray™]You should tell her before she leaves. And just explain the situation to her. If she's not interested then you have the whole summer to find someone else. If she is then you could write letters and stuff, girls like that. Then when she gets back... :naughty:[/QUOTE]
Hahaha :p

Good thinking. Never thought of that.

Soooooo. I have this problem, sort of. So I'm 16, going to be a senior in high school. Now I have only really kissed 2 girls in my life. That's the farthest I've ever gotten with a girl. You see, I used to be fat and I really just did think anyone would really like me. I still kind of feel that way, but anyways, everyone else is starting to have sex and everything and I've never even gotten passed first base. So, I don't know what I should do about it. I really have no experience whatsoever to begin with. How would I be if I even tried to have sex with a girl.

And on another note, I don't even know how to, like, get with a girl, to begin with. I'll kind of flirt with girls, but nothing really happens after that. I don't understand how other people do it.

[QUOTE=allalone]Soooooo. I have this problem, sort of. So I'm 16, going to be a senior in high school. Now I have only really kissed 2 girls in my life. That's the farthest I've ever gotten with a girl. You see, I used to be fat and I really just did think anyone would really like me. I still kind of feel that way, but anyways, everyone else is starting to have sex and everything and I've never even gotten passed first base. So, I don't know what I should do about it. I really have no experience whatsoever to begin with. How would I be if I even tried to have sex with a girl.[/quote]

Well, you're farther along than I was at age sixteen (and a big FU to people who say 'Yeah and he's farther along than you are now lol!," hahaha).

Judging on this paragraph alone, you have some confidence issues to sort through. If you're not proud of the way you look, try to change it. Go jogging everyday for a mile, then work up to two or three. Bring music while you jog - it's not like you can jog with nothing going on. It helps me. Or, get a membership to a gym, if you'd like.

Secondly, like thedarkangel said, stop worrying about what others are doing. There is no curve you need to meet at age sixteen, and people aren't going to look down on you if you're a virgin while in high school. Because, hey, if that's the case, I would have been talked down to a lot, heh.

Third, do not worry about how you would last with a girl, or that you have 'no experience,' or what-have-you. Just don't think it. Experience comes with... well, experience. But you can't have the mentality that you can have a girlfriend who will put out for you on the first encounter. You should focus on keeping a healthy relationship first, and then building up from there. And don't look to por[font=verdana]n[/font] for help - there's a huge difference between that and what you should be striving for.

[quote]And on another note, I don't even know how to, like, get with a girl, to begin with. I'll kind of flirt with girls, but nothing really happens after that. I don't understand how other people do it.[/QUOTE]

Believe it or not, I asked friends for advice. Some of them had absolutely terrible suggestions, but some of them were pretty good. And then there are things I came up with on my own. But if you're that stuck, ask friends for tips and tricks. If they're your friends, they'll give you a straight answer.

[QUOTE=allalone]Soooooo. I have this problem, sort of. So I'm 16, going to be a senior in high school. Now I have only really kissed 2 girls in my life. That's the farthest I've ever gotten with a girl. You see, I used to be fat and I really just did think anyone would really like me. I still kind of feel that way, but anyways, everyone else is starting to have sex and everything and I've never even gotten passed first base. So, I don't know what I should do about it. I really have no experience whatsoever to begin with. How would I be if I even tried to have sex with a girl.

And on another note, I don't even know how to, like, get with a girl, to begin with. I'll kind of flirt with girls, but nothing really happens after that. I don't understand how other people do it.[/QUOTE]



It'll all come in time - when you feel confident and comfortable. Try talking to girls for friendship reasons - friendships sometimes develope into something more and it's lot more of an easy flow that way.

Don't worry about 'how far' others have got - most are probs exaggerating anyway! This guy used to tell everyone I'd slept with him when we hadn't even kissed! -_-

Jom's right - experience comes with experience - but there really is no rush. When the times right - it'll be a much nicer event - rather than doing it because you feel like you have to, and it being an awkward feeling.

And you never know whats round the corner, I wasn't expecting to find someone and never really search tbh - but I ended up being with someone a lot closer to home. The bassist in my band ahaha :D We started becoming friends and gradually it became something more.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]Totally- which is wht I'm going with my friend Lucy :) Simple.

My prom is tonight :D:D[/QUOTE]

Hope you had a good prom! How was the after party? didn't get too trashed eh :p

I went to a party, climbed a climbingi frame, fell off, stomach onto the bottom pole. Ouch. It got recorded too *cringe*

[QUOTE=zealous]Hope you had a good prom! How was the after party? didn't get too trashed eh :p

I went to a party, climbed a climbingi frame, fell off, stomach onto the bottom pole. Ouch. It got recorded too *cringe*[/QUOTE]
Oh man it was AWESOME!!!

Ah goood :p remember much? haha glad you had a great night!

It just seems like it's really hard to find someone, or to get in a relationship with someone, when other people do it no problem.

[QUOTE=The_dark_angel]Most relationships are superficial imo which is why they don't last.[/QUOTE]

I've noticed that a lot of high school relationships don't last. I usually see these preppy kids walking down the hall with a different person about every two weeks, it's really lame. But the guys probably only go out with the preppy chicks to fu'ck them anyway, because all the preppy chicks I've encountered have been shallow, stupid, and obnoxious as fu'ck. I don't see any likable quality about them. No offense to any preppy chicks, I'm sure there's ones that aren't like this. God, I can't wait to get out of high school.

Edit: Actually, now that I think about it, most chicks at my school fall under the "fu'ckable, but not likable" category.

Having a defeatist attitude doesn't help you, either. You're not going to succeed if you don't give yourself a chance at all. And that's something that you and you alone need to fix; others (especially here) can't do it for you.

Actually, I don't even think I want to be in a relationship. I just wanna get experience.

[QUOTE=allalone]Actually, I don't even think I want to be in a relationship. I just wanna get experience.[/QUOTE]

You mean sex, right?

High school is full of whores, you'll have no problem there. And even the ones that don't appear to be whores probably are, you just have to press the right buttons.

i should probably get off the internet before i get in trouble, im gonna go read, later

[QUOTE=The_dark_angel]Seriously, you can't just expect girls to let you use them for experience. Concentrate on a relationship.[/QUOTE]
I really wasn't expecting that. I'm just saying, I'm not going to find a meaningful relationship where I'm at and with all these girls I know. I'm still in high school and I shouldn't really be concentrating on a relationship when I gotta get a job and have schoolwork and everything.

[QUOTE=Towlie]You mean sex, right?

High school is full of whores, you'll have no problem there. And even the ones that don't appear to be whores probably are, you just have to press the right buttons.

i should probably get off the internet before i get in trouble, im gonna go read, later[/QUOTE]
Not really sex. I haven't gotten past first base.

THe truth is, you're not really gonna find some magical formula or anything that will suddenly grant you the wisdom to get some experience.

You have to learn to accept humility. Accept rejection. It's gonna happen. It will happen a lot as you go through the rest of your life. Suck it up, and just go about trying to talk to girls first. Build up some conversation skills first. Make a few chicks laugh, and in turn, build up your confidence levels. Stuff like this is best in baby steps. You can't conquer Rome in one day.

Once you gain confidence with simply talking, all the rest will follow. Even the most naive shy introvert can read those signals. You aren't gonna find those skills in any piece of advice. You either learn for yourself, or go find a prostitute so you can at least blow that first load.

If you come back again with more whines, you should go bury your head in the sand and forget it.

[QUOTE=Towlie]I've noticed that a lot of high school relationships don't last. I usually see these preppy kids walking down the hall with a different person about every two weeks, it's really lame. But the guys probably only go out with the preppy chicks to fu'ck them anyway, because all the preppy chicks I've encountered have been shallow, stupid, and obnoxious as fu'ck. I don't see any likable quality about them. No offense to any preppy chicks, I'm sure there's ones that aren't like this. God, I can't wait to get out of high school.

Edit: Actually, now that I think about it, most chicks at my school fall under the "fu'ckable, but not likable" category.[/QUOTE]

Yeah tis true, the 'popular' girls at my school basically swapped boyfriends. It's so lame, and they all just do it to show off and boast about what they did - then use it to bitch when they break up. They just come across as whores.

Then you get the wannabes, who sleep with anyone anywhere - they're megawhores. :]