I caused a food fight at my prom.

...With my date. :(

Did it end with sex?

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Did it end with sex?[/QUOTE]

As a matter of fact....

...no.

I dont know why anyone thinks they are going to get laid at prom. I mean, if you havent gotten any before, you probably wont just because of a fancy school dance.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]I dont know why anyone thinks they are going to get laid at prom. I mean, if you havent gotten any before, you probably wont just because of a fancy school dance.[/QUOTE]

Well, the afterparty might help...:P

/me had 16 liquer shots of "courage":naughty:

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Yay! Have fun! I never had one of my own, so my ex wife's was all I had.

Truth be told, I had a lot of fun that night. A LOT![/QUOTE]
He he it's gonna be good. I want to see all the teachers dressed up :p Tbh the party after is probably gonna be better than the night itself...

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]He he it's gonna be good. I want to see all the teachers dressed up :p Tbh the party after is probably gonna be better than the night itself...[/QUOTE]

Heh that's usually the way, have fun :p

At my year 10 formal, my entire group of friends was told not to come to the afterparty because apparently there wasn't enough room, yet the house it was hosted at was massive and had an acreage and all. :mad:

[QUOTE=The Flabbit Rides High]Well, the afterparty might help...:P

/me had 16 liquer shots of "courage":naughty:[/QUOTE]

Hah, yeah I guess that helps.

My prom afterparty was alright. The only thing about my year was EVERYONE was like friends. So, everyone said they would have a party after, so everyone was scattered from party to party. So no one ended up all at the same place.

But there had been many AMAAAAZING parties before prom that made up for it.

[QUOTE=Jo Shoe Wah]Heh that's usually the way, have fun :p

At my year 10 formal, my entire group of friends was told not to come to the afterparty because apparently there wasn't enough room, yet the house it was hosted at was massive and had an acreage and all. :mad:[/QUOTE]
Heh my group of friends are orgainising ours so :thumb:

[QUOTE=nobodyblossomsforever]I'd try to do something caring for her to get her softened up.[/QUOTE]

yeah...stuff like that basically goes unnoticed by her. she doesn't really pick stuff like that up. that's why straightforward is the best way.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]If you want to get to the bottom of it in a hurry, tell her how you feel, straight up.[/QUOTE]

yeah thats probably the best way

god this is gonna be hard and/or awkward

I think it needs doing, though.

Well it will be pretty good conditions for it. Everyone having a good time, food, friends, movies, me playing guitar, my friend playing the uke...etc. I'd have to be alone with her when i tell her though.

i need to think this through

Good luck.

lord knows i could use it

When is this party occurring again?

tomorrow

i'm getting there at like 2 , but i'm not sure when everyone else is

I didn't go to my prom in high school, but I hope you guys have a lot of fun. My graduating class's prom was tainted by SEVENTEEN MIPs.

So, uh, lol at that.

I did go to Homecoming my senior year, and that was quite a bit of fun, because I thought it was going to be not-my-thing. But I rock a suit pretty well, so that was cool, and my date was super-awesome, so that helped substantially, too.

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Well Sara doesn't like me. She likes some 14 year old kid which makes no sense to me.

She also found out from somewhere that I liked her and now she doesn't want to talk to me.

This is the fifteen-year old, right?

Well, regardless of age, girls can get kind of weirded out when they find out that a boy likes them, especially if he's older than her by a couple years. It's not like OMG COOTIEZ stage, but kind of similar.

Just hold off on talking to her for a day or two, but you do need to try to talk to her sometime. The silent treatment fuc[font=verdana]k[/font]in' sucks (because I'm going through it right now, but for other reasons, and none of it is my fault, which makes revenge really sweet), but you can deal for a day or two.

Right now I really don't feel like talking to her. I don't really see how she could be weirded out by the fact I'm 2 years older than her, considering her boyfriend is 20 years old.

I love it. I ask Jom for pics and he ignores me.

:angry:

Jom doesnt show pics very often.

Yeah, I know. But he was whoring the fact that he rocks a suit; I thought he might put his money where his mouth is.

Well I'm in a pretty odd situation (scroll down for short version)

Basically, my girlfriend of nearly 2 years broke up with me on Sunday, reason being that she just wanted to be alone and that she felt too restrained in a relationship. Oh I was upset, but I knew her mind was made up. We are still best friends and want it to stay that way

BUT

Today she came round so we can talk about the break up and where to go from there, and a few truths came out:

1) 2 fridays ago when she said she was having tuition, she was actually at another guys house. NOT CHEATING, mind. This guy is ****ed up, hes obsessed with her and hes an alcoholic with lots of life problems. he basically sent her a text saying "i've had a bit too much drink and I'm bleeding more than I should be, please help" or something. So she went over and just talked to him and helped him throw up etc. It turns out he's been cutting himself quite badly, and that hes been doing nothing but talk about her to his friends (and hes losing them rather quickly by keeping this up). I believe this to be true and i dont think she cheated on me here, and that she only said she had "tuition" because she didnt want me to fuss about him (until now me and this guy have been pretty good friends, but I didnt know about any of this ****)

2) The same guy (lets call him Roy from now on) had a gathering the following tuesday during a couple of free periods at school which i couldnt attend because I had classes. Anyway basically she drank too much, passed out on the floor and woke up to see Roy trying to make out with her, she pushed him away and left at that point feeling incredibly guilty etc. Ive asked about half a dozen people about what happened here and they all say that she didnt do anything with him and that really is all that happened, and she didnt act on it at all.

3) Basically (I keep using that word) she kissed another guy at a party while drunk (i didnt see) for like 2 seconds before realising what she was doing and retiring the corner looking depressed, guilty and... depressed. When I asked her what was wrong she just said it was the drink. So anyway I took her home after that. Again, multiple sources have confirmed it was just 2 seconds and nothing else happened.


The first 2 truths I'm not mad at[I] her[/I] about, she didnt really do anything, its more Roy I'm [I]worried [/I]about. My gf and I have been in a similar situation before where some obsessive creep becomes infactuated with her and it wasnt nice for either of us. I know that the ex-gf has 0 feelings for Roy, and she didnt for the other guy either, but that didnt stop him from nearly breaking us apart (I know we're not bf/gf anymore but we'd like to remain close). The 3rd one, for some reason I dont care that much, maybe its because I'm too worried about the other things, maybe its because its over now anyway, but somehow it doesnt seem like a big deal.

Anyway.. after that bombshell was dropped on me, we talked about our future as both friends and as a couple and we're now both thinking about getting back together because we really do love eachother, and do feel as though we need eachother. After a while we somehow ended up making out and eventually ****ing. Yeah, I dont know. Boy have I got some thinkin to do. I mean I know she cheated, but it was only a 2 second long kiss, I dont know about you guys but when I hear "cheating" I think of frequently visiting the same guy, or at least getting past..*sigh*.. first base (i hate using those terms). I dont know what to make of it really, is it that big a deal? Should we get back together? I mean, that IS the only time shes been unfaithful, I think we'd be able to recover

Cliffs:
1) gf of 2 years broke up with me, we remain close friends
2) turns out that durnig the relationship she briefly kissed some other guy while drunk (I think its hardly cheating, but not exactly faithful, either). I think its forgivable
3) some depressed wrist slitting alcoholic is becoming obsessed with her (saying he loves her, constantly talking about her in creepy ways n ****, more than just a "crush"), she has no feelings for him and never has.
4) the same creepy guy tried to make out with her while shes passed out on the floor (see what i mean?), she wakes up and pushes him away, and did nothing with him
5) me and my now ex-gf have sex for some reason
6) me+ex-gf still have strong feelings for eachother and are considering getting back together, but I dont know if we should
7) dont know what to do about that messed up obsessed guy from 3 & 4. I mean he may have turned out to be a creep but until now hes been a good friend of mine. he also may end up tearing my friendship with my now-ex gf apart which had nearly happened previously in a similar situation

[QUOTE=Vannaroth]Well I'm in a pretty odd situation (scroll down for short version)

Basically, my girlfriend of nearly 2 years broke up with me on Sunday, reason being that she just wanted to be alone and that she felt too restrained in a relationship. Oh I was upset, but I knew her mind was made up. We are still best friends and want it to stay that way

BUT

Today she came round so we can talk about the break up and where to go from there, and a few truths came out:

[B]1) 2 fridays ago when she said she was having tuition, she was actually at another guys house. NOT CHEATING, mind. This guy is ****ed up, hes obsessed with her and hes an alcoholic with lots of life problems. he basically sent her a text saying "i've had a bit too much drink and I'm bleeding more than I should be, please help" or something. So she went over and just talked to him and helped him throw up etc. It turns out he's been cutting himself quite badly, and that hes been doing nothing but talk about her to his friends (and hes losing them rather quickly by keeping this up). I believe this to be true and i dont think she cheated on me here, and that she only said she had "tuition" because she didnt want me to fuss about him (until now me and this guy have been pretty good friends, but I didnt know about any of this ****)[/B]

2) The same guy (lets call him Roy from now on) had a gathering the following tuesday during a couple of free periods at school which i couldnt attend because I had classes. Anyway basically she drank too much, passed out on the floor and woke up to see Roy trying to make out with her, she pushed him away and left at that point feeling incredibly guilty etc. Ive asked about half a dozen people about what happened here and they all say that she didnt do anything with him and that really is all that happened, and she didnt act on it at all.

3) Basically (I keep using that word) she kissed another guy at a party while drunk (i didnt see) for like 2 seconds before realising what she was doing and retiring the corner looking depressed, guilty and... depressed. When I asked her what was wrong she just said it was the drink. So anyway I took her home after that. Again, multiple sources have confirmed it was just 2 seconds and nothing else happened.


The first 2 truths I'm not mad at[I] her[/I] about, she didnt really do anything, its more Roy I'm [I]worried [/I]about. My gf and I have been in a similar situation before where some obsessive creep becomes infactuated with her and it wasnt nice for either of us. I know that the ex-gf has 0 feelings for Roy, and she didnt for the other guy either, but that didnt stop him from nearly breaking us apart (I know we're not bf/gf anymore but we'd like to remain close). The 3rd one, for some reason I dont care that much, maybe its because I'm too worried about the other things, maybe its because its over now anyway, but somehow it doesnt seem like a big deal.

Anyway.. after that bombshell was dropped on me, we talked about our future as both friends and as a couple and we're now both thinking about getting back together because we really do love eachother, and do feel as though we need eachother. After a while we somehow ended up making out and eventually ****ing. Yeah, I dont know. Boy have I got some thinkin to do. I mean I know she cheated, but it was only a 2 second long kiss, I dont know about you guys but when I hear "cheating" I think of frequently visiting the same guy, or at least getting past..*sigh*.. first base (i hate using those terms). I dont know what to make of it really, is it that big a deal? Should we get back together? I mean, that IS the only time shes been unfaithful, I think we'd be able to recover

Cliffs:
1) gf of 2 years broke up with me, we remain close friends
2) turns out that durnig the relationship she briefly kissed some other guy while drunk (I think its hardly cheating, but not exactly faithful, either). I think its forgivable
3) some depressed wrist slitting alcoholic is becoming obsessed with her (saying he loves her, constantly talking about her in creepy ways n ****, more than just a "crush"), she has no feelings for him and never has.
4) the same creepy guy tried to make out with her while shes passed out on the floor (see what i mean?), she wakes up and pushes him away, and did nothing with him
5) me and my now ex-gf have sex for some reason
6) me+ex-gf still have strong feelings for eachother and are considering getting back together, but I dont know if we should
7) dont know what to do about that messed up obsessed guy from 3 & 4. I mean he may have turned out to be a creep but until now hes been a good friend of mine. he also may end up tearing my friendship with my now-ex gf apart which had nearly happened previously in a similar situation[/QUOTE]

In bold, that was me a month ago.

Now, a two second kiss, especially if she was drunk, is no big deal. That isn't cheating. If she was cheating on you, she would be in an intimate relationship with another guy without you or anyone else knowing, which of course is not the case. I'd say for you guys to stay together, you guys seem to love each other and if you guys are okay with it, then go for it. I don't see any problem in the matter.

About Roy, he needs to get counseling. I still need to get counseling. I am technically mentally ill. I try not to show it off as much, but I am mentally insane, as it is, and I know this, my friends know this, and this may be one of the reasons Sara doesn't want to put up with my nonsense anyway, she probably doesn't want me to end up even worse, but ever since my loss I feel like I've lost the whole world.

I like your cliffs; although I read the whole thing in its entirety first.

Roy needs more help that she/you/anyone can provide him. He needs to get help. Now.

She obviously needs to stop drinking because it's causing problems. That's HER fault. She needs to deal with it.

Whatever she did or didn't do, she still has quite a few issues to take care of first. After those are dealt with, and only then, would I consider getting back together with her.

A way of training yourself to last longer is to masturbate and see what the trick is. It might be the touch, or if your mind is wandering, or anything. I know you can prolong it by thinking about something else.

Go ahead and delete now. :)

[QUOTE=i suppose I should change this too]okok@CD[/QUOTE]

Ok seriously that's no big deal. Every guy goes through that (I hear it gets better as you have more experience.

Things I learned that helped-
Get her to shave or wax. It makes it easier to get into and that gives less..pleasure...while you're getting in. I don't really know how to explain the difference.

If you're like me...it's just going to be hit and miss. Sometimes you'll be ready for a long time and you just pace yourself...and then sometimes she's wanting to work it a wee bit too hard and slowing down doesn't really help.

I also found that the longer we built up to it, the longer I lasted.

Come to think of it, the easier it was to get into her, the longer I lasted.

ps. I quoted.

And everything that that woman said.

Edit your post, Weiner.