the guy was already out of the hospital when all the stuff on the pier and subway occured, so...

i'm just gonna wait it out and see if she continues to flirt with me i'll just take it one step at a time and i won't "hit on her". i like her a lot but i don't think enough to want a serious relationship with her or at least not yet.

o damn bro, that is a hotty.


I would say you are playing hard to get. Its either a conscious or sub-conscious thing. Considering the circumstances, I would say you are clearly in the right. Maybe shes not a manogamous type of person. I really dont know.

As far as getting intimate with her, or taking it to the next level, you are really gonna have to ask yourself how important this other guy is to you. Obviously, if he was that important to her, you wouldnt exactly have seen her boobs, or flirted nearly as much.

Im sure the "laid up boyfriend from a wreck" isn't exactly a desireable position to be in, in respects to the ladies wanting you. If you are worried, I would mention your feelings flat out to her. Something in regard to what she thinks of that other guy, then you, and so on

i want to tell her, but i know it's gonna get really awkward and possible end our friendship.

not to mention her close friends are my friends as well. i think i am subconsciously playing hard to get now that you mentioned it, maybe that's why she's hitting on me much more i suppose.

i think thats the easiest explanation. She probably feels that other boy is off her list, so shes looking at other prospective males. Since you are playing hard to get (possibly unintensional) it seems like shes into that, and is going the extra distance

i would assume if you did nothing, it would persist, and if not, get worse. I mean, she showed you her bubbies, whats next :lol:

you are right though, confronting could possibly end it, depending on how you broach the subject.

If i were in that position, i would pretend that the question never existed in my head, but i would be coy. Like instead of coming out and asking her what you want to know, I might invite her somewhere just off the cuff. If it doesnt seem pre-planned, then shes likely to go for it.

so get the both of us alone and see what happens?

yeah just create a situation where something can "just happen"

definatley don't have some "serious talk" where you find out where you both stand

that would pretty much ruin it by killing all the tension and excitement. right now shes really not sure how you feel about her and you should keep it that way.

Exactly

/points to side of nose

but like i said, i wouldnt just COME OUT and say you want to be alone with her. I would think a movie would be too forward. I would take her to a coffee shop, or some place for lunch. Just the two of you ya know. I wouldnt necessarily change your actions either, just your game plan.

It seems to me, that your foot, leg, and part of your torso are already through the door. It would just take that NUDGE till you probably get to seal the deal (:naughty:)

sure, i sound like a male prick right about there, but come on, she showed her bubbies. There hasnt been a single girl that showed me her bubbies that didnt want to sleep with me, or vice versa. Thats a pretty safe bet IMO

well...

i'm going over to our friends house with her and another friend of ours to play Halo 2 so maybe something will happen. we'll probably end up alone in the room since we are the only two that enjoy playing it.

we love playing Halo 2, haha.

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]yeah just create a situation where something can "just happen"

definatley don't have some "serious talk" where you find out where you both stand

that would pretty much ruin it by killing all the tension and excitement. right now shes really not sure how you feel about her and you should keep it that way.[/QUOTE]



im with this guy. Whatever you are doing, you are winning. Your car is basically on the last lap man. guide her through to the finish line, and you should be sipping some bubbly in the "hot" seat :naughty:

lol.

i don't want to do her :(

i have been so close to kissing her, i think i may just go for it if i'm offered the oppurtunity.

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]i don't want to do her :(
[/QUOTE]

:confused:

sexual actions ruined my last relationships.

cool just make sure you keep the frame that [I]she's[/I] trying to get [I]you[/I].


basically just don't start chasing her and being a chode. the way you've been acting so far has worked so keep doing it



edit:to your last post, what do you mean?

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]sexual actions ruined my last relationships.[/QUOTE]

How?

i was partially joking. I personally like to wait for a while anyway.


Regardless, I find it better to think less, and just act in those situations myself.

This rain isnt helping my sad day go bye... :(

I'm sorry.

Why Atomship, what's the matter? :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]How?[/QUOTE]

because the relationships turned into booty calls and had no substance.

[QUOTE=AtomShip]This rain isnt helping my sad day go bye... :([/QUOTE]
It's there to wash away your sorrows.

Yeah, that's it.:thumb:

/double post

So...yeah...uh...me and Pam...uh....had sex.

Thought I'd see what you'd have to say about this, Kimmie.

[QUOTE=Tillius]/double post

So...yeah...uh...me and Pam...uh....had sex.

Thought I'd see what you'd have to say about this, Kimmie.[/QUOTE]

o_O

Yup.

So, how do you feel about it?

I don't know.
I mean, we're still not together, and it's not like something that I planned on happening. It just.......happened.

How does she feel about it?

Different.

So, what now?

Don't know.

We're talking on yahoo right now though.
If anybody else wants to know, then I'll just let THEM talk to me about it.

Would you consider teenage love the same as adult love? (btw none of this post is my personal opinion, just throwing the question out). Lots of people say "oh its just puppywuuuvv" and that teenagers dont really know what it is and just throw the word around.