Oh God, I got the pleasure(/sarcasm) of getting to talk to Pam's dad one-on-one about her tonight, about an hour or so ago.

How FUN!

Great. What did he say?

EDIT: Damn, I should have actually QUOTED Jom. The jerk deleted his post.

:lol:

Quick, nobody ask him how it went, because he's going to say it anyway! :p

Fake ninja edit: the irony here is rather amusing.

[QUOTE=Jom]Quick, nobody ask him how it went, because he's going to say it anyway! :p

Fake ninja edit: the irony here is rather amusing.[/QUOTE]

Ima cut u.

:mad:

[QUOTE=Jom]Quick, nobody ask him how it went, because he's going to say it anyway! :p

Fake ninja edit: the irony here is rather amusing.[/QUOTE]
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Well, anyway, first thing he said to me was that when he was my age, he was just looking for the pus[size=2]sy[/size], and I told him that really depends on the guy and what girl he's with, and that I have a lot of respect for Pam, and that's actually the last thing I'm after(which is true).

Then he said that he's at least glad to see what good friends we are, because a good relationship builds off of friendship first, but he still had a hard time allowing it right now, and I told him that I respect him and his wishes, and if he says not to be with her right now then that's how it'll be. That really got him, and I actually think he may be considering actually giving me permission now, which means we won't have to go do whatever it is we do in secret.

[QUOTE=Ugoff]I always tell myself every year, I'm going to be assertive and I'm going to get a girlfriend and well nothing really happens (well except for last year but that doesn't really count.)

This year, it seemed that I was so close to going out with this one girl that I really liked but things just didn't work out.

I know this sounds really stupid but how can I be assertive? I'm really shy around stranges and I don't really know how to approach someone; and if I did, I wouldn't really know what to talk about.[/QUOTE]

It helps to mentally rehearse. Figure out situations you commonly find yourself in, and rehearse a few possible lines and topics of conversation. One of my favorite bits is when you get asked what your job or major is, answering, "I fight /major in fighting ninja drug cartels." Always gets a laugh.

Christ, he said "pussy"? WTF? That's awful, on a bunch of levels.

Otherwise, good on the permission thing.

Yeah, I felt pretty good about how it went.

It was still weird though, because Pam has a trampoline at her house and we got bored and started jumping on it, and eventually my pants fell off, and I fell, so was on my back and putting them on, and she had fallen over laughing, so was kinda over me, and her dad walks out, so what he sees is her over me with my pants down.:(

I feel like I just described a cheesy part in a crap romantic comedy.

You didn't. What I did, however, was forget the filter.

I am worried about her dad's perception though. He could have been a WHOLE lot more classy.

Yeah, well, that's just the type of guy he is.

Ugh.

Oh man, that is awful. He COULD have been so much more classy, at least dumbed it down to "wanted action" or something like that. I bet you're looking forward to these kind of talks in the future huh.

[QUOTE=Jo Shoe Wah]Oh man, that is awful. He COULD have been so much more classy, at least dumbed it down to "wanted action" or something like that. I bet you're looking forward to these kind of talks in the future huh.[/QUOTE]

123. Tacky, in my oh so humble opinion.

I miss the girl I'm infatuated with :(.

I'm sorry. I miss my axe murderer that I should have just killed a year ago.

*isn't kidding*

So what is he up to now. Do you still talk to him?

Yeah, its gettin hard, we had a hard fall out and I want to try to start anew when she gets back from her month long vacation...

[QUOTE=Jo Shoe Wah]So what is he up to now. Do you still talk to him?[/QUOTE]

Yes, I still talk/yell/dis him. Right at the moment he's trolling me on our local message board. I'm making fun of him. :p

ATOMICSHIP: What do you mean, a hard fall out?

Well I talked a bit about it a few pages back,

RECAP:
We got close,she lead me on, I let myself get lead on, I push a bit to see if she wants to perhaps go out, she ponders it, is on the verge of saying yes but "something was holding her back" next day says she didnt want to ruin our friendship, so we TRY to be friends, but I'm stubborn, shes stubborn, we fight some more, stop talking start talking stop talking, finally she lies to me for like the fourth time in the past 6 months, I tell her I'm done with her and that I dont want to be friends with her etc. I figured getting her out of my life once and for all COMPLETELY would help me move on. I was wrong, she recently went with her friend to europe, I'm worried shes gonna get with some crazy european guy cause she is quite capricious but she also has a thing where shes very prude unless she happens to be dating the guy... Well anyways I texted her in europe saying I wanted to see her when she got back, talk things out. Now I'm just waiting till she comes home.

I dont even know when she comes home :/.

Oh, man. I read what you posted the first time and...well...friendship is a funny thing sometimes. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh, man. I read what you posted the first time and...well...friendship is a funny thing sometimes. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.[/QUOTE]
Well we would always fight and make up alot, I also realized after I stopped talking to her that she kinda "substituted" this other guy in for me, and treated him like me, she even told him she missed talkin to me. Well I need to bring myself above all this crap and come out on top, showing I've grown up a bit might encourage her to do the same.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Yes, I still talk/yell/dis him. Right at the moment he's trolling me on our local message board. I'm making fun of him. :p

ATOMICSHIP: What do you mean, a hard fall out?[/QUOTE]

Haha, well at least it's not a painful/hurtful thing on your side, keep up the good work :thumb:

here we go...

i met this girl 3 months ago through a friend of mine and her looks are amazing. she reminds me of a younger kate beckinsale from underworld or something, but that's just a bonus. she's extremely nice, we have similar tastes, etc. and she actually likes metal o.O

so the "drama" begins here... she met a guy that she supposedly likes and he likes her a month or so ago. he crashes his motor bike and goes into a coma for a few days but has to remain in the hospital for quite sometime. while he's in the hospital i hang out with "her" and a few of our friends about 4-5 times up until he is able to return home(last week).

during those 4-5 times we all hang out she is really flirty, she always plays with my hair for example. the second to last time we hang out we went swimming at our friends pool and she showed me her boobs, when we were in the backseat of my friends car she was always wanting to take a picture of the both of us and she would randomly smile/wave and give me hugs. and when i was lying in my friends bed to rest she comes over and lies ontop of me...

the last time we hung out we walked around the beach and went to a pier. while we were in subway she rests her head on my shoulder for a picture and starts "grinding" against me. when we walk to the end of the pier we are sitting over the edge she wants to point something out to me, but isntead of just pointing with her hand she puts her face next to mine and after lays her head in my lap. etc. etc. i never make it seem like i want her to touch me nor do i say things like "come here, give me a hug."

plus, the sad thing is. the friends of the guy that was in a coma hit on her like crazy, while i don't or i try not to because i know it would be totally messed up to do so.

i'm quite sure phsyical contact = she likes me, but yea. coming out of a coma and finding the girl you like with someone else would be horrible. and i can't exactly push her off because i'm starting to like her.

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]here we go...

i met this girl 3 months ago through a friend of mine and her looks are amazing. she reminds me of a younger kate beckinsale from underworld or something, but that's just a bonus. she's extremely nice, we have similar tastes, etc. and she actually likes metal o.O

so the "drama" begins here... she met a guy that she supposedly likes and he likes her a month or so ago. he crashes his motor bike and goes into a coma for a few days but has to remain in the hospital for quite sometime. while he's in the hospital i hang out with "her" and a few of our friends about 4-5 times up until he is able to return home(last week).

during those 4-5 times we all hang out she is really flirty, she always plays with my hair for example. the second to last time we hang out we went swimming at our friends pool and she showed me her boobs, when we were in the backseat of my friends car she was always wanting to take a picture of the both of us and she would randomly smile/wave and give me hugs. and when i was lying in my friends bed to rest she comes over and lies ontop of me...

the last time we hung out we walked around the beach and went to a pier. while we were in subway she rests her head on my shoulder for a picture and starts "grinding" against me. when we walk to the end of the pier we are sitting over the edge she wants to point something out to me, but isntead of just pointing with her hand she puts her face next to mine and after lays her head in my lap. etc. etc. i never make it seem like i want her to touch me nor do i say things like "come here, give me a hug."

plus, the sad thing is. the friends of the guy that was in a coma hit on her like crazy, while i don't or i try not to because i know it would be totally messed up to do so.

i'm quite sure phsyical contact = she likes me, but yea. coming out of a coma and finding the girl you like with someone else would be horrible. and i can't exactly push her off because i'm starting to like her.[/QUOTE]

Was the guy who is in a coma in a relationship with this girl prior to his accident? Or does she still have feelings for him? Has she visited him in hospital or anything like that?

If not i see no reason why you should stop yourself from reciprocating the feelings which she seems to be throwing at you, him liking her alone can not stop you from going ahead with a relationship, heh, it doesn't really work like that aye. Anywho i think you should go for it, unless they had a relationship, or she is showing obvious signs that she still has feelings for him.

Good luck. :)

she has visited him in the hospital numerous times and they were supposedly going out. i'm not really sure, although i don't think they are.

also my friend said it's possible for her to like me and him, but it's just awkward if that was so.

but it's quite obvious she has some feelings for me eh?

thats a s[COLOR="Black"]hit[/COLOR]ter of a situation. i say, although it may be hard, leave it and see what happens. this kinda happened to me with a chick i know, except her bf was off on holiday for a month. she started hitting on me, told me she didnt like her bf anymore, and me being me, i went for it. once her bf came back, she completely blanked me.

to be harsh, shes probably just bored. but keep close by. if shes as hot as you say and has that much interest in you, if she breaks up with him you wanna be the first to know :naughty:

/first half-useful post in l+r

It could be physical attraction and overall need for love/physical interaction with a male.

Nonetheless, there was nothing really "serious" in the guys relationship, why do you bother? If he's not your friend, I think it's fair game. If only you were making a move on her and she was just "no, stop" then you could worry, because she's not going for it. But if she goes for it, and yuo're willing to take it, what's the problem?

I do warn you that she [I]might[/I] go back to the guy after the whole recovery thing goes on, so you should look for the aftermath and how things develop after he's out of the hospital for a couple weeks.

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]she has visited him in the hospital numerous times and they were supposedly going out. i'm not really sure, although i don't think they are.

also my friend said it's possible for her to like me and him, but it's just awkward if that was so.

but it's quite obvious she has some feelings for me eh?[/QUOTE]

Yes, quite obvious, i still think that her behaviour towards you indicates that, despite this other guy. And yeah, i agree with tojes, if shes acting like this, fair game. See how things are once this other guy is out of hospital if you are concerned about the seriousness of the relationship, if she is still the same once hes back then it is, quite obvious she likes you :p , good luck again.

I say bang her and break it off.

[QUOTE=beeyotch]I say run away - far and fast!

But I guess of course that depends on what kinda relationship you are wanting from her. She seems like a sleazebag to me. Gettin up on other guys when he's in the hospital in a coma is pretty low. That's assuming they were dating. But even if she were just leading him on, still makes her seem like a bitch in my book. -If she did it to him, she'd do it to you, too.[/QUOTE]
oh my god



um if you do decide to go for it now don't do a complete 180 with your behavior because that would creep her out most likely. i mean you say you haven't been hitting on her like all the other guys and you haven't initiated any of the flirting. cool. just make it seem it seem like she's slowly winning you over a little bit i guess.