[QUOTE=Jom]Well, sappy is an adjective. It basically means to be sentimental to an excessive degree, or just overly mushy.



Heh, I'm like that. There's really nothing you can do but keep encouraging him. Kissing and touching isn't exactly something you can flip on and off like a switch.

He'll grow out of his pansy stage as soon as he's comfortable - but you can't force it.[/QUOTE]

K thanks for the advice and the description of the word but i just think he has no confidence. Is there any help for that?



[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]you just said it- romantic, baisically, when guys go all goo goo over girls, they get all sappy.[/QUOTE]


Ha, i do too


[QUOTE]you just said it- romantic, baisically, when guys go all goo goo over girls, they get all sappy.[/QUOTE]

K i get it now

Thanks!

Haha, you should kiss him and be like "See hoe? that was easy!".

you'll blow his mind.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Haha, you should kiss him and be like "See hoe? that was easy!".

you'll blow his mind.[/QUOTE]


hahahaha

No.

I should tell a girl to do that tho.

I know a few girls that would do that as a joke ha.

Ill ask my friend Jeskya. hahahaha, this is gonna be funny.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]K thanks for the advice and the description of the word but i just think he has no confidence. Is there any help for that?[/QUOTE]


Confidence comes in soo many differnent ways. I mean, If hes worried hes gonna screw up. Either if he does it first with some random girl, so that hey can just wing it, and not worry about it, because shes not someone he wants to keep. OR, this one is probably better, if its someone who he knows will care about him, and accept him ,and understand, "hey, its his first time" actually, i bet alot of girls think thats cute.


For general confidence with girl all togeter, I learned this, here, in L&R. When ever you make eye contact, tell him not do do that whole, jerk your head away as fast as you can. I used to do that alot, but now, if i can help it, it's best to maintaine the eye contact, and make them break it. It may seem wierd at first. but try it. I've been working on it for a while now, and I think it actually helps.

Edit- I hope Bush doesn't use this post as an excuse for all of his mistakes.

[quote=Destined_for]K thanks for the advice and the description of the word but i just think he has no confidence. Is there any help for that?[/quote]

Well, maybe. Currently, I have had absolutely zero confidence in pretty much anything lately because anything that could go wrong the past couple weeks has (Murphy's Law ftw!), but I know that there are better days ahead, and I'll be back on my feet one way or another.

Some people are just naturally shy, or uneasy in one-on-one situations with another person, especially if it's potentially intimidating. Again, I'm a pile of nerves in pretty much any preceding situation, but once I get talking, the butterflies are assuaged.

wait till he starts having sex. then we'll have something to talk about.

[QUOTE=Jom]Well, maybe. Currently, I have had absolutely zero confidence in pretty much anything lately because anything that could go wrong the past couple weeks has (Murphy's Law ftw!), but I know that there are better days ahead, and I'll be back on my feet one way or another.

Some people are just naturally shy, or uneasy in one-on-one situations with another person, especially if it's potentially intimidating. Again, I'm a pile of nerves in pretty much any preceding situation, but once I get talking, the butterflies are assuaged.[/QUOTE]


True. I tell him that eye contact is key.

[QUOTE]Confidence comes in soo many differnent ways. I mean, If hes worried hes gonna screw up. Either if he does it first with some random girl, so that hey can just wing it, and not worry about it, because shes not someone he wants to keep. OR, this one is probably better, if its someone who he knows will care about him, and accept him ,and understand, "hey, its his first time" actually, i bet alot of girls think thats cute.

For general confidence with girl all togeter, I learned this, here, in L&R. When ever you make eye contact, tell him not do do that whole, jerk your head away as fast as you can. I used to do that alot, but now, if i can help it, it's best to maintaine the eye contact, and make them break it. It may seem wierd at first. but try it. I've been working on it for a while now, and I think it actually helps.[/QUOTE]

Eye contact is important.

Ive told him to keep eye contact but im not sure if he does.


[QUOTE]wait till he starts having sex. then we'll have something to talk about.[/QUOTE]

Thats something i hope i dont ever have to talk to him about.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]hahahaha

No.

I should tell a girl to do that tho.

I know a few girls that would do that as a joke ha.

Ill ask my friend Jeskya. hahahaha, this is gonna be funny.[/QUOTE]
It would be funnier if a guy did it. :(

[QUOTE=~grif~]wait till he starts having sex. then we'll have something to talk about.[/QUOTE]
Haha, my first time went smoothly, because we were drunk and didn't really care about anything atm.

The secoind time I was nervous as hell. :(

[QUOTE=Wizard.]It would be funnier if a guy did it. :(


Haha, my first time went smoothly, because we were drunk and didn't really care about anything atm.

The secoind time I was nervous as hell. :([/QUOTE]



Well ya. Maybe some gay guys at school will do it lol.
I have not had sex yet. It is not a big importance to me. Sex will come when it comes.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Well ya. Maybe some gay guys at school will do it lol.
I have not had sex yet. It is not a big importance to me. Sex will come when it comes.[/QUOTE]
its not as cracked up as you'd expect it to be.

Yeah, if you push for sex, you aren't going to get it. I didn't really care about it much either, we just thought it was a good idea at the time. I regret it actually. =\ Still love the girl, but I should've waited longer to lose my virginity.

You better tell us what happens if you can get someone to kiss your friend.

[QUOTE=~grif~]its not as cracked up as you'd expect it to be.[/QUOTE]
It really isn't.
Its fun, yes. But i find kissing better.

[QUOTE=Banshee]It really isn't.
Its fun, yes. But i find kissing better.[/QUOTE]
id have to agree with that.

[QUOTE=Banshee]It really isn't.
Its fun, yes. But i find kissing better.[/QUOTE]


Ya i agree too.

[QUOTE]Yeah, if you push for sex, you aren't going to get it. I didn't really care about it much either, we just thought it was a good idea at the time. I regret it actually. =\ Still love the girl, but I should've waited longer to lose my virginity.

You better tell us what happens if you can get someone to kiss your friend.[/QUOTE]

Haha i will.

Ill go tell somebody to do and give them 5$

[QUOTE=Banshee]It really isn't.
Its fun, yes. But i find kissing better.[/QUOTE]
Depends on my mood and stuff really. Kissing seems more personal than sex for some reason. So kissing/making out always feels more romantic and stuff, but it eventually leads to sex in many cases. =S

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Depends on my mood and stuff really. Kissing seems more personal than sex for some reason. So kissing/making out always feels more romantic and stuff, but it eventually leads to sex in many cases. =S[/QUOTE]


That is true also.

Kissing > Sex

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Depends on my mood and stuff really. Kissing seems more personal than sex for some reason. So kissing/making out always feels more romantic and stuff, but it eventually leads to sex in many cases. =S[/QUOTE]
making love is more romantic and closer.
not to be all korney or anything.

but like spending like an hour or 2 just taking of clothes and kissing to the whole build up of it.

i like that.

then theres just sex. :smoke:

All the stuff building up to sex is more personal, but the actual sex never is. I enjoy the buildup more actually, but at the time I can't wait to actually get it in. :lol:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]All the stuff building up to sex is more personal, but the actual sex never is. I enjoy the buildup more actually, but at the time I can't wait to actually get it in. :lol:[/QUOTE]
"get in"
nicely put.

[QUOTE=~grif~]"get in"
nicely put.[/QUOTE]


lol ya.


So hows everybodys life?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]lol ya.


So hows everybodys life?[/QUOTE]
not bad. kinda.

in terms of L&R

im heading to England (like i said so many times so far) to my girl for a week.
i really cant wait.
im excited.

ive never flown before though - i think im nervous about that.

but i cant wait to see her, havent seen her in a month! just to give her a kiss again and hugs and etc and omg i cannot wait to see her.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]lol ya.


So hows everybodys life?[/QUOTE]
Bad, me and my girlfriend have pretty much broke up, because some girl started spreading rumours which arent true.
I now hate her.

[QUOTE=~grif~]not bad. kinda.

in terms of L&R

im heading to England (like i said so many times so far) to my girl for a week.
i really cant wait.
im excited.

ive never flown before though - i think im nervous about that.

but i cant wait to see her, havent seen her in a month! just to give her a kiss again and hugs and etc and omg i cannot wait to see her.[/QUOTE]


haha i know how u feel.

How old are you dude?

[QUOTE=Banshee]Bad, me and my girlfriend have pretty much broke up, because some girl started spreading rumours which arent true.
I now hate her.[/QUOTE]


you hate ur ex-gf?

or the girl who started rumors?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]haha i know how u feel.

How old are you dude?[/QUOTE]
im 18. il be 19 in April.

you?

[QUOTE=~grif~]im 18. il be 19 in April.[/QUOTE]


Thats cool

im only 15

i turn 16 on april 22nd.

I hate the girl that started it.
I've been with my gf for pretty much 2 years, and everything was fine, and now this.
Any advice?

[QUOTE=Banshee]I hate the girl that started it.
I've been with my gf for pretty much 2 years, and everything was fine, and now this.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]
explain yourself? prolly have done that already

ask the girl who started it like wtf?

talk to you're ex...


what was the rumour?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]lol ya.


So hows everybodys life?[/QUOTE]

My life is doing well... Did nothing all day which is always fun. You?

[QUOTE=Banshee]I hate the girl that started it.
I've been with my gf for pretty much 2 years, and everything was fine, and now this.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]


you could tell ur gf how u feel.

ummm...let....me...think....


Tell her that the rumors are not true. and that u love her

Make her feel like you here for her again.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]My life is doing well... Did nothing all day which is always fun. You?[/QUOTE]


its good

i did nothing all day too.

Other than school.

[QUOTE=Banshee]Apparently i slept with her at a party i went to.
Her friends are saying i did, and my friends are saying i didnt.
I have spoken to her about it, and she says thatim lying.
Its kinda confusing.[/QUOTE]


is there a way to prove that u didnt?

Apparently i slept with her at a party i went to.
Her friends are saying i did, and my friends are saying i didnt.
I have spoken to her about it, and she says thatim lying.
Its kinda confusing.

[QUOTE=Banshee]Apparently i slept with her at a party i went to.
Her friends are saying i did, and my friends are saying i didnt.
I have spoken to her about it, and she says thatim lying.
Its kinda confusing.[/QUOTE]
her friends obivousley dont like you?

that is kinda a difficult one to get out to - but if you could sit and talk for an hour to explain like wtf happened, nothing at all - maybe she will come around. you have been going out for 2years, why would you sleep with her friend. just isnt logical.

I dont't know.
Im going to see her tomorrow, well today now, and i'm just gonna talk to her and see what happens. Thanks for your help guys.
I'm off to bed now.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]its good

i did nothing all day too.

Other than school.[/QUOTE]

You had school. Ha! I didnt... I woke up though to the sound of the phone ringing and thought it was saturday.

Yeah so tonight at my school's winter formal, me and jessica got in a big fight. Like it wasn't horrible with screaming. But she was yelling for a little bit. And we kinda left each other alone for a while. Eventually i told her i was sorry, and i guess after a while after that we got better. Like i was making her laugh, even though she said she was still mad at me. I could tell she wasn't that mad though. Mad enough not to dance with me during the last dance though. I guess we're better, like across the parking lot i had to help her not fall on the ice. And we held hands during that. So i guess it's back to usual. But yeah.

I needed to vent.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Yeah so tonight at my school's winter formal, me and jessica got in a big fight. Like it wasn't horrible with screaming. But she was yelling for a little bit. And we kinda left each other alone for a while. Eventually i told her i was sorry, and i guess after a while after that we got better. Like i was making her laugh, even though she said she was still mad at me. I could tell she wasn't that mad though. Mad enough not to dance with me during the last dance though. I guess we're better, like across the parking lot i had to help her not fall on the ice. And we held hands during that. So i guess it's back to usual. But yeah.

I needed to vent.[/QUOTE]


why did u get in a fight?

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Yeah so tonight at my school's winter formal, me and jessica got in a big fight. Like it wasn't horrible with screaming. But she was yelling for a little bit. And we kinda left each other alone for a while. Eventually i told her i was sorry, and i guess after a while after that we got better. Like i was making her laugh, even though she said she was still mad at me. I could tell she wasn't that mad though. Mad enough not to dance with me during the last dance though. I guess we're better, like across the parking lot i had to help her not fall on the ice. And we held hands during that. So i guess it's back to usual. But yeah.

I needed to vent.[/QUOTE]

What was the fight about?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]why did u get in a fight?[/QUOTE]

Long, stupid story. To sum it up: I wanted to dance. She didn't. After an hour i gave up and didn't bother. A little after she starts dancing. i'm like "wtf" and go sit down. Her friend comes over and asks whats wrong. i tell her that it's bull**** and whatnot. Jessica reacts. blah blah blah sounds stupid....

[QUOTE=Destined_for]sounds like u had a bad day....?[/QUOTE]

Hi, Jon. No, I didn't have a bad day; I was reading about kissing with total interest since I am a girl, and of course, like that...

How was your day?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Hi, Jon. No, I didn't have a bad day; I was reading about kissing with total interest since I am a girl, and of course, like that...

How was your day?[/QUOTE]


It was alright.

I found out that my AP EURO teacher made a mistake

instead of getting a 7.5/20

i got a 7.5/10

so it raised to a B

and im just trying to find a way to my gf's tomorrow. I cant find any rides.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]It was alright.

I found out that my AP EURO teacher made a mistake

instead of getting a 7.5/20

i got a 7.5/10

so it raised to a B

and im just trying to find a way to my gf's tomorrow. I cant find any rides.[/QUOTE]

Thats a little bit better than an F. I love when teachers make mistakes and you get to prove em wrong cuz then they feel bad for a long time and you become one of their best students. Lol.