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Corkofski 06-14-2006 06:08 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]That's because all the ugly girls with a bad personality don't have boyfriends.[/QUOTE]
amen

purplefeet 06-14-2006 06:15 PM

[QUOTE=Atman]man is it just me or do a lot of MXers always end up liking some girl who somehow already has a boyfriend[/QUOTE]

Its true.

I think a lot of male Mxers (or just Mxers in general) find themselves "liking" people way too easily. Like, if you develop strong feelings for someone, would you know enough about them in the first place to know whether or not they have a boyfriend? I dunno...I guess thats just how I see it.

Get to know people before you get your hopes up.

Amit 06-14-2006 07:27 PM

yeah seriously

very good advice purpz

Jom 06-14-2006 07:44 PM

[quote=Eggo]man is it just me or do a lot of MXers always end up liking some girl who somehow already has a boyfriend[/quote]

Nah, it's not just you.

But I can't deny that this is very likely true as well:

[quote=Strongbad]That's because all the ugly girls with a bad personality don't have boyfriends.[/quote]

Although I also concur with purplefeet's explanation as well.

Amit 06-14-2006 07:45 PM

lol

yeah

hmm i guess i've always been lucky

nobodyblossomsforever 06-14-2006 07:46 PM

It seems like my situation is the girl starts off as single, then when I get to know her and all that, she goes back to her exbf.

RouteOne 06-14-2006 07:46 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]It seems like my situation is the girl starts off as single, then when I get to know her and all that, she goes back to her exbf.[/QUOTE]
That sucks.

Amit 06-14-2006 07:48 PM

that's why you guys just gotta chill out

watch office space or read the bhagavad gita

they're both really the same thing

RouteOne 06-14-2006 07:49 PM

Quick question for you guys. If you and your lady went to a dance, and she danced with her guy friends, but it's purely "kidding around", how would you feel?

Amit 06-14-2006 08:08 PM

haha i'd tell myself to not be such a possessive and insecure little bitch

if she has no problems with you dancing with your girl friends, why should you?

RouteOne 06-14-2006 08:30 PM

[QUOTE=Atman]haha i'd tell myself to not be such a possessive and insecure little bitch

if she has no problems with you dancing with your girl friends, why should you?[/QUOTE]
I don't see it as being possessive. Every guy has a little protective voice in the back of his head. But believe me, i'm VERY trusting maybe a little more than I should be, actually.

Jom 06-14-2006 08:51 PM

If/When I get married, and my wife starts dancing with her father, I'm not going to drop-kick him.

Girls have to have guy friends, and guys need girl friends. So long as they're not sucking face and just having fun, you shouldn't try to put yourself in a position to ruin that fun.

nobodyblossomsforever 06-14-2006 08:52 PM

I wish some guys would realize that. I've lost a lot of good girl friends over the years cuz of their overprotective boyfriends.

I Am a Hat 06-14-2006 08:53 PM

man i'm so emotionally unavailable right now

WindowLedge 06-14-2006 08:54 PM

while she dances with another guy, dance with his girl.

ATM 06-14-2006 08:55 PM

[QUOTE=Jom]If/When I get married, and my wife starts dancing with her father, I'm not going to drop-kick him.

Girls have to have guy friends, and guys need girl friends. So long as they're not sucking face and just having fun, you shouldn't try to put yourself in a position to ruin that fun.[/QUOTE]

Man, I hate when gay guys dance with your girlfriend tho because they feel as if they can be all over them and its okay because they are gay.

**** that!

Jom 06-14-2006 09:12 PM

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Man, I hate when gay guys dance with your girlfriend tho because they feel as if they can be all over them and its okay because they are gay.

**** that![/QUOTE]

However, your girl likes it because her thuperfriends let her know where all the big sales are!

[size=-2](I agree, that is pretty gay. RIMSHOT.)[/size]

Chaindrive 06-14-2006 10:05 PM

[QUOTE=WindowLedge]while she dances with another guy, dance with his girl.[/QUOTE]

This is actually good advice.

Chaindrive 06-14-2006 10:54 PM

My problem:

A girl (well about my age, I'm guessing) just joined our local music message board. She types in all caps and doesn't seem to have any brain cells to speak of. She's a giant attention whore.

I've had enough of her one night and make a comment (directed to her by name) about whether she actually PLAYS an instrument or just...(plays skin flute). The last part is just alluded to, not said. This was a week ago.

She PMs me last night and apologizes and says she just wants to be friends. I haven't answered her yet because I don't know what to say.

Any ideas? This girl is annoying as hell.

But she's local. And, her husband (although you'd never know she's married) I guess sits in every now and then with one of the local cover bands.

Also, she's been really hitting on my axe murderer HARD. Gee, don't let THAT influence you, Kimmie.

Amit 06-15-2006 04:07 AM

[QUOTE=Jom]If/When I get married, and my wife starts dancing with her father, I'm not going to drop-kick him.

Girls have to have guy friends, and guys need girl friends. So long as they're not sucking face and just having fun, you shouldn't try to put yourself in a position to ruin that fun.[/QUOTE]

exactly

okay so i'm thinking the l&r thread is mostly a very drawn out version of jamie blunt's you are beautiful song

FVG27 06-15-2006 04:44 AM

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Man, I hate when gay guys dance with your girlfriend tho because they feel as if they can be all over them and its okay because they are gay.

**** that![/QUOTE]
Umm if they're gay then they're not going to have any ulterior motive are they? So it doesn't actually matter.

dazmo 06-15-2006 04:46 AM

[QUOTE=inassociationwithdeanlearner ] I think harold bishop from neighbours is pretty fit... [/QUOTE]
:lol:
[QUOTE=inassociationwithdeanlearner]I love the way harold's face swings from side to side when he says anything.[/QUOTE]
:lol::lol::lol:

AmericanWeiner 06-15-2006 06:19 AM

[QUOTE=Atman]that's why you guys just gotta chill out

watch office space or read the bhagavad gita

they're both really the same thing[/QUOTE]

I lolled at that

I like a girl and I don't think she has a boyfriend. I have seen two marines make a pass at it tho

if I get with her my ego's probably going to grow a foot or two

KurtCobain2902 06-15-2006 02:31 PM

What is the best way to say "Will you go out with me" to a girl? That sounds dull, so I want to use something else. And if she says yes, should I kiss her afterwards?

RouteOne 06-15-2006 02:38 PM

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]What is the best way to say "Will you go out with me" to a girl? That sounds dull, so I want to use something else. And if she says yes, should I kiss her afterwards?[/QUOTE]
Well, there isn't really any other way to say it....just say some thing on why you liker her, ask her, then just give her a little kiss.

KurtCobain2902 06-15-2006 02:41 PM

[QUOTE=Mr. Ron]Well, there isn't really any other way to say it....just say some thing on why you liker her, ask her, then just give her a little kiss.[/QUOTE]


Thanks, man

tumples 06-15-2006 02:41 PM

try and get as close to her as you can so its a kinda unspoken thing, its a lot better that way, i find that if you ask, you feel you have to act like you didnt before just to prove it, where if its gradual, it feels more close and real

RouteOne 06-15-2006 02:46 PM

[QUOTE=tumples]try and get as close to her as you can so its a kinda unspoken thing, its a lot better that way, i find that if you ask, you feel you have to act like you didnt before just to prove it, where if its gradual, it feels more close and real[/QUOTE]
Yeah, thats a good idea too.

purplefeet 06-15-2006 04:55 PM

I dont know why people ask "will you go out with me". I dont even kno how that even came to be, since it really doesnt make any sense.

Actually, I dont know why people need to ask anyway. I mean, if you are close enough where it is clear you both have interest in each other, why do you have to have a spoken agreement with each other. Why not just continue what you are doing and become an "official" couple over time. I dunno, maybe I just have a silly way of thinking.

All I know is, the whole "will you go out with me" b/s makes you sound like you're about 15.

RouteOne 06-15-2006 05:22 PM

[QUOTE=purplefeet]I dont know why people ask "will you go out with me". I dont even kno how that even came to be, since it really doesnt make any sense.

Actually, I dont know why people need to ask anyway. I mean, if you are close enough where it is clear you both have interest in each other, why do you have to have a spoken agreement with each other. Why not just continue what you are doing and become an "official" couple over time. I dunno, maybe I just have a silly way of thinking.

All I know is, the whole "will you go out with me" b/s makes you sound like you're about 15.[/QUOTE]
Because it's almost a verbal contract.

Girl: "Soo....why where you with that girl last night?"

Guy: "Why do you care? It's not like we're going out."


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