Afternoon All

I have a Chiko Roll and chips for lunch. So nutritious....

He works for UPS or Fedex or something.

Some delivery company with ungodly hours.

[QUOTE=Aerodyne;13560299]:confused: Where do you work that requires you to show up at uno en la manana?[/QUOTE]

FedEx
my usual schedual is 5am - 930am tuesday - saturday

but i was told i could pick up some extra hours and come in at 1 today... but im sick and dont feel like being in a truck loading boxes.... i usually just sit at a computer, hah.
-sixner

Case in point, long distance relationship:


Each party is leading separate lives but are still connected by their love for one another.

Enter the distance factor. Becasue of the distance spearating the two, it becomes neccessary for each to have their own life, as a joined life is not possible.

Thus, because each lives a separate life each begins to change, things are no longer done together and slowly each person evolves differently.

What this means is that when one of the parties tries to find out what happens in the others life, the individual whose life is being enquired into feels an invasion of privacy has occured and reacts in an appropriate manner.

I.e. They shut the other person out and then enters the all time classic line, "You are smothering me".

So what is the solution?

To explain to the other party that you are not trying to pry, but rather are interested in what goes on.

Or

To back off and wait for them to come to you?



Either way, the process is unsatisfactory.

It becomes a struggle for independance and the bond of the relationship.

What needs to occur is a "middle ground" a point that is reached where the separate lives are shared, but not "invaded" so to speak. Obviosly concern is shown by each party from time to time which can be once again misconstruid as an attempt to control the other.

Most often this is not the case, but again concern for the others wellbeing.

[QUOTE=Jody LeCompte;13560335]He works for UPS or Fedex or something.

Some delivery company with ungodly hours.[/QUOTE]

haha... the hours arent bad. ive always been a night owl.
and for about $200 a week, its worth it.

especially 200 a week for just sitting at a computer and getting on mypace/ebay/mx forums............ and occasionally loggin in or out a trailer :lol:

-sixner

Elliott Smith was such a beautiful person.

[QUOTE=ebe9;13560341]Case in point, long distance relationship:


Each party is leading separate lives but are still connected by their love for one another.

Enter the distance factor. Becasue of the distance spearating the two, it becomes neccessary for each to have their own life, as a joined life is not possible.

Thus, because each lives a separate life each begins to change, things are no longer done together and slowly each person evolves differently.

What this means is that when one of the parties tries to find out what happens in the others life, the individual whose life is being enquired into feels an invasion of privacy has occured and reacts in an appropriate manner.

I.e. They shut the other person out and then enters the all time classic line, "You are smothering me".

So what is the solution?

To explain to the other party that you are not trying to pry, but rather are interested in what goes on.

Or

To back off and wait for them to come to you?



Either way, the process is unsatisfactory.

It becomes a struggle for independance and the bond of the relationship.

What needs to occur is a "middle ground" a point that is reached where the separate lives are shared, but not "invaded" so to speak. Obviosly concern is shown by each party from time to time which can be once again misconstruid as an attempt to control the other.

Most often this is not the case, but again concern for the others wellbeing.[/QUOTE]

well that basically debunks the entire teenage theory of the long-distance relationship as most teenagers don't have the maturity and mental/emotional capacity to take such things into consideration.

[quote=funkyhoney;13560376]well that basically debunks the entire teenage theory of the long-distance relationship as most teenagers don't have the maturity and mental/emotional capacity to take such things into consideration.[/quote]


I suppose the root cause of the problem is one person in the relationship feeling unapprciated.


I.e. Me at the moment.


<<<<<<<Does not enjoy having his cheese grated or battery pissed on





EDIT:


So what is the teenage theory of long distance relationship?

[QUOTE=ebe9;13560380]I suppose the root cause of the problem is one person in the relationship feeling unapprciated.


I.e. Me at the moment.


<<<<<<<Does not enjoy having his cheese grated or battery pissed on





EDIT:


So what is the teenage theory of long distance relationship?[/QUOTE]


aww thats **** man..


the theory?

the theory is that such a thing can actually work in the long term.


EDIT:
eg. "ohh this guy on myspace is hawt, im in love lol". 3 months later she's either dead or horribly depressed

[QUOTE=ebe9;13560341]
What this means is that when one of the parties tries to find out what happens in the others life, [B]the individual whose life is being enquired into feels [U]an invasion of privacy[/U] has occured and reacts in an appropriate manner.[/B]
[/QUOTE]

What if there is no privacy between the 2? There are no secrets, nothing. No walls up, no hiding things... completely honest and open.

i actually had that with my ex. It gets alot of the bull**** out of the way and makes your relationship alot stronger, faster.

-sixner

[quote=funkyhoney;13560400]aww thats **** man..


the theory?

the theory is that such a thing can actually work in the long term.[/quote]



It can work, but as a result of distance and the people involved not being able to share a life together, it makes it difficult.

Two people sharinga common bond forced, in order to survive, to live separate lives and growing accustomed to that.

Thus the identity of each party is no longer that they are one part of a whole but rather an and the individual they were before.

Thus the relationship suffers in that each party reverts back to who they were before and thus the foundation of the relationship has to be built up once more.


In short it is a tightrope that must be crossed carefully and cautiously, without hast and disregard for both parties involved.

[url]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkoVhHT1Kaw[/url]
Just saw this dude and two other spoken word artists/poets perform. Awesomeness.

Ive actually really enjoyed the spoken word **** you post brad.

Yeah, I really like that. Now I want to make a spoken word band. They have those, right?

Ove stole the show, but Mark Gonzalez and Carla were good. The college students, eh.

I think it's just called improv or jam?

[url]http://www.myspace.com/HWProject[/url]
Found Mark, I had his last name spelled incorrectly.

Hmmm. . . I sense a need to further investigate this genre. Yay, new stuff to listen to! :D

Im off to bed. Night

:wave:

[quote=kilian;13560639]:wave:[/quote]


Heya, what you up to?

Of, hoe gaan dit?

Haha grappig die verschillen in de taal!

Haha funny, those differences in the language!

I'm fine, had a great gig last night. Well, the crowd thought it was great, but we couldn't hear a thing on the stage.

You/jij?

[quote=kilian;13560647]Haha grappig die verschillen in de taal!

Haha funny, those differences in the language!

I'm fine, had a great gig last night. Well, the crowd thought it was great, but we couldn't hear a thing on the stage.

You/jij?[/quote]


Well Afrikaans is considered a dirty version of dutch, its closest to flemmish.


I am a bit ****ty at the moment, hopefully that will improve soon.


Last day of work at my current job today, start with a new one on monday.


Where did you play your gig?

ALright. All I want to know is whose down with the Wu, coming through, in a theater near you.

Can it be that it was all so simple then? :amaze:

[quote=Jaded;13560697]ALright. All I want to know is whose down with the Wu, coming through, in a theater near you.

Can it be that it was all so simple then? :amaze:[/quote]



??????????

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm.....................................................okay.



You have very much lost me

:smoke:

[quote=Jaded;13560710]:smoke:[/quote]


.:smash:
:eek:

...:eek:

:smoke:


geddit? geddit?

[quote=funkyhoney;13560732]...:eek:

:smoke:


geddit? geddit?[/quote]


I get it........................................


Could actually go for an orgasm right about now.

[QUOTE=ebe9;13560772]I get it........................................


Could actually go for an orgasm right about now.[/QUOTE]

it works on two levels...


that was one, the other is blowing smoke up someones arse :p



i usually go for one around midnight, before i goto bed.. i mean..

[quote=funkyhoney;13560786]it works on two levels...


that was one, the other is blowing smoke up someones arse :p



i usually go for one around midnight, before i goto bed.. i mean..[/quote]


You blow smoke up someones arse before midnight?


:p