lmao, if you want, you can really do that. Just make sure it's filmed for us. ;)

[QUOTE=Wizard.]I don't even know yet. She hasn't said. =\

It took her forever to get that job. Finding a good paying job aroudn ehre is hard. I live in a poor area. ><[/QUOTE]

That sucks, dude.

edit: I retract my comment about a union, since I just read your mom was in management.

[QUOTE=drunkoveryou]i just think that the DAY AFTER i saw him is a little weird. im not gonna do it.... i dont know....[/QUOTE]

Do it tomorrow. Overthinking is the worse thing you can do to yourself.

[QUOTE=Danish]Do it tomorrow. Overthinking is the worse thing you can do to yourself.[/QUOTE]

She already did it and posted that she did.

I always overthink everything.

I'm already having problems with it and I've only been going out with my current girlfriend for a week today.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]lmao, if you want, you can really do that. Just make sure it's filmed for us. ;)[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I'd hook you guys up.

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I always overthink everything.[/QUOTE]

I do this all the time, but it's more of an analysis than it is thinking, which I'd argue as two separate entities. I'd also argue that what you're doing isn't wrong until you start becoming obsessed with being emersed in thought.

Just don't lose sleep over it.

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]I always overthink everything.

I'm already having problems with it and I've only been going out with my current girlfriend for a week today.[/QUOTE]


i overthink things too

Any tips on kissing?

[QUOTE=AtomShip]Any tips on kissing?[/QUOTE]
First kisses?
Any kiss?
Depends on a situation really. to me.

[QUOTE=AtomShip]Any tips on kissing?[/QUOTE]

Don't make loud noises or suck like a leech. And don't try to emulate things you see in the movies. Otherwise, just go with what you think is normal. Unless slurping is considered 'normal,' which I hope is not the case, heh.

And I agree with grif:

[quote=grif]First kisses?
Any kiss?
Depends on a situation really. to me.[/quote]

It depends on the situation and where you're kissing. Cheek? Lips?

[QUOTE=~grif~]First kisses?
Any kiss?
Depends on a situation really. to me.[/QUOTE]


i agree

i remember when i was sorta worried i guess about kissing. It guess it just came natural to me because every girl tells me that im a good kisser.

[QUOTE=Jom]Don't make loud noises or suck like a leech. And don't try to emulate things you see in the movies. Otherwise, just go with what you think is normal. Unless slurping is considered 'normal,' which I hope is not the case, heh.

And I agree with grif:[/quote]

True, some girls ACTUALLY dont like tongue. Knocking of teeth and making that squeekey noise - ever happens, i just laugh it off lol.
Hands are important - place of that is. Hips, her stomach or side, her *** in any case, her face is one of the most romantic - bit cliché like a movie but you honestly are thinking about that. Like when i kiss its me its not something i see in a movie - whatever you think at the time you should be doing do it - cause thats you kissing.

[quote=Jom]
It depends on the situation and where you're kissing. Cheek? Lips?[/QUOTE]
...everywhere else :eek:

Kissing is awsome
I love kissing.

Edit: im frekaing out cuz i cant see my gf and we love kissing

Wat can pass the time until i see her next?

[QUOTE=~grif~]...everywhere else :eek:[/QUOTE]

Raunchy.

Haha.

[quote=Destined_for]Edit: im frekaing out cuz i cant see my gf and we love kissing

Wat can pass the time until i see her next?[/quote]

How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.

[QUOTE=Jom]
How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.[/QUOTE]
sleep :thumb:
smoke :smoke:
drink :chug:

[QUOTE=Jom]Raunchy.

Haha.



How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.[/QUOTE]


She lives like 30 minutes away driving and its really hard for us to get rides to see each other. and i cant drive until april.

I would love some good books. I really want to read some books by Nietzche.
I play the guitar everyday and im saving up for some recording equipment.
Ah my videogames get boring after a while.
Ill probally write some music like always.

What else could be good to do?

[QUOTE=~grif~]sleep :thumb:
smoke :smoke:
drink :chug:[/QUOTE]


sleep is a must
i stopped smoking(its bad for u)
Eh i only drink wine.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]sleep is a must
i stopped smoking(its bad for u)
Eh i only drink wine.[/QUOTE]
drink a bottle of wine and go to bed for a while.

nah smoking isnt that bad.

[QUOTE=Jom]Raunchy.

Haha.



How far away are you from her / when will you be seeing her next?

There are lots of things you could do yourself if you have to go solo. Videogames, listen/write music, read a short book (I have lots of suggestions for books), write a letter (to her or someone else), write in a journal of some kind, play your parents/siblings in a card game like gin rummy or something, the list could go on.[/QUOTE]


Yeah, maybe call her or something.

For books, Read- A short history of nearly everything. Its reallly good if you like science, and stuff, but don't want the fancy mumbo jumbo. Bill Bryson is a good writer, its like hes telling about all the things, like a story, but you learn.

[QUOTE=~grif~]drink a bottle of wine and go to bed for a while.

nah smoking isnt that bad.[/QUOTE]


Pot or....cigrattes?(i cant spell)

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Pot or....cigrattes?(i cant spell)[/QUOTE]
cigarettes of course.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]Yeah, maybe call her or something.

For books, Read- A short history of nearly everything. Its reallly good if you like science, and stuff, but don't want the fancy mumbo jumbo. Bill Bryson is a good writer, its like hes telling about all the things, like a story, but you learn.[/QUOTE]


I like books that cause contiversity for some reason. I also like learning about bands.

If you want a short book (as in, around 150 pages or so), I'd tell you to read [i]The Five People You Meet In Heaven[/i] by Mitch Albom. It's not a religious book at all, but here's the backstory, in case you're interested (courtesy of Amazon.com):

[Preamble: No spoilers, please, if you've read the book.]

[i]Mitch Albom's [u]The Five People You Meet in Heaven[/u] weaves together three stories, all told about the same man: 83-year-old Eddie, the head maintenance person at Ruby Point Amusement Park. As the novel opens, readers are told that Eddie, unsuspecting, is only minutes away from death as he goes about his typical business at the park. Albom then traces Eddie's world through his tragic final moments, his funeral, and the ensuing days as friends clean out his apartment and adjust to life without him.

In alternating sections, Albom flashes back to Eddie's birthdays, telling his life story as a kind of progress report over candles and cake each year. And in the third and last thread of the novel, Albom follows Eddie into Heaven, where the maintenance man sequentially encounters five pivotal figures from his life (a la [u]A Christmas Carol[/u]).

Each person has been waiting for him in Heaven, and, as Albom reveals, each life (and death) was woven into Eddie's own in ways he never suspected.

Each soul has a story to tell, a secret to reveal, and a lesson to share. Through them Eddie understands the meaning of his own life even as his arrival brings closure to theirs.[/i]

The last two paragraphs are why this is one of my favorite books of all time. The five people he meets, and the storys and parables told by Albom, make this book incredibly worthwhile. Go check it out at a library or go buy it at a bookstore, it's cheap.

[Postamble: no spoilers, please!]

[QUOTE=~grif~]cigarettes of course.[/QUOTE]


eh its okay only if u dont get addicted.

ive smoked a few times. it wasnt that great. but meh ill do it once in a while.

[QUOTE=Jom]If you want a short book (as in, around 150 pages or so), I'd tell you to read [i]The Five People You Meet In Heaven[/i] by Mitch Albom. It's not a religious book at all, but here's the backstory, in case you're interested (courtesy of Amazon.com):

[Preamble: No spoilers, please, if you've read the book.]

[i]Mitch Albom's [u]The Five People You Meet in Heaven[/u] weaves together three stories, all told about the same man: 83-year-old Eddie, the head maintenance person at Ruby Point Amusement Park. As the novel opens, readers are told that Eddie, unsuspecting, is only minutes away from death as he goes about his typical business at the park. Albom then traces Eddie's world through his tragic final moments, his funeral, and the ensuing days as friends clean out his apartment and adjust to life without him.

In alternating sections, Albom flashes back to Eddie's birthdays, telling his life story as a kind of progress report over candles and cake each year. And in the third and last thread of the novel, Albom follows Eddie into Heaven, where the maintenance man sequentially encounters five pivotal figures from his life (a la [u]A Christmas Carol[/u]).

Each person has been waiting for him in Heaven, and, as Albom reveals, each life (and death) was woven into Eddie's own in ways he never suspected.

Each soul has a story to tell, a secret to reveal, and a lesson to share. Through them Eddie understands the meaning of his own life even as his arrival brings closure to theirs.[/i]

The last two paragraphs are why this is one of my favorite books of all time. The five people he meets, and the storys and parables told by Albom, make this book incredibly worthwhile. Go check it out at a library or go buy it at a bookstore, it's cheap.

[Postamble: no spoilers, please!][/QUOTE]

That sounds really good.

Thanks Jom!

does everybody remember if they were scared on there first kiss?

i was for a bit but i got over it.

You probably like books that spark controversy, becuase your curious as to why(same with me :thumb:), like, "whats the fuss all about".


Jom- I've heard about that book. I Take it its worthwile to read?

Kissing is easy. Just press your lips against the girl's, and you know what to do from there. =\

It's really so easy once you do it the first time.

your first kiss will probably suck. Most people's do.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]does everybody remember if they were scared on there first kiss?

i was for a bit but i got over it.[/QUOTE]

Oh, I'm sure people have been nervous about their first anything with their boyfriend/girlfriend/partner. First kiss, first date, and any other firsts I've failed to mention. It's in our nature to be. I still get nervous driving to her house or meeting her somewhere, but the butterflies eventually dissipate as soon as I get talking or something.

[quote=Guns_023]Jom- I've heard about that book. I Take it its worthwile to read?[/quote]

Yeah, definitely. You could easily pound through it in a couple days after classes or something when you have some spare time - the chapters/each story are pretty short, and everything is entwined exceptionally well. It's definitely worthwhile.

I'm not saying it changes your world, but it impacted me. I've learned from it.

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Kissing is easy. Just press your lips against the girl's, and you know what to do from there. =\

It's really so easy once you do it the first time.

your first kiss will probably suck. Most people's do.[/QUOTE]
Yea mine kinda sucked - at some mini boppers gig - very slobbery :upset:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Kissing is easy. Just press your lips against the girl's, and you know what to do from there. =\

It's really so easy once you do it the first time.

your first kiss will probably suck. Most people's do.[/QUOTE]


my ex told me that i was really good at kissing. Even tho that was my first time.

I was shocked. I guess it just came naturally lol.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]You probably like books that spark controversy, becuase your curious as to why(same with me :thumb:), like, "whats the fuss all about".


Jom- I've heard about that book. I Take it its worthwile to read?[/QUOTE]


Ya i love books like that too.

[QUOTE=Jom]Oh, I'm sure people have been nervous about their first anything with their boyfriend/girlfriend/partner. First kiss, first date, and any other firsts I've failed to mention. It's in our nature to be. I still get nervous driving to her house or meeting her somewhere, but the butterflies eventually dissipate as soon as I get talking or something.



Yeah, definitely. You could easily pound through it in a couple days after classes or something when you have some spare time - the chapters/each story are pretty short, and everything is entwined exceptionally well. It's definitely worthwhile.

I'm not saying it changes your world, but it impacted me. I've learned from it.[/QUOTE]

Ya ive been trying to help my friend get over his fears about kissing and touching and all that good stuff but it doesnt work.

He just calls himself a pansy and walks away.

lol wat should i tell him?

[QUOTE=Destined_for]That sounds really good.

Thanks Jom!

does everybody remember if they were scared on there first kiss?

i was for a bit but i got over it.[/QUOTE]

I remember hearing this- "Are you [I]ever[/I] going to close your mouth?"

lol :upset:

But then I went to camp, where I made out with this chick sooo much, I'm like an expert now. I remember stairway came on, we started. The song finished before us. This chick was awesome, Before i got used to it, i actually gagged a little... That was pretty awesome....

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*fades to flashback*
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heh

But yeah, the quote was from my first, my neighbore, how i wasn't romantically connected to, which has it bonuses and its dissapointments. The obviouse lack of "first kiss luster". But i learned, so that when it matter'd, I diddnt embarass myself.

BUt for anybody who's nervous, my advice, dont worry 'bout it. Just go with it, It'll come toyou, and you'll enjoy it.:)

[QUOTE=Destined_for]
Ya ive been trying to help my friend get over his fears about kissing and touching and all that good stuff but it doesnt work.

He just calls himself a pansy and walks away.

lol wat should i tell him?[/QUOTE]

I was like that, I went for three months with my girlfriend, never made out, even though i had that first time, but this was the first time it "counted". Then I went away(we had broken up)I had my fun with that girl, and i was sort of involved with her, so it softened it. Now i have no problem making about on the first date.

Its just that your friend is shy, and doesn't want to come off as a horny jerk, and "cross the line". Because that's what it was, and is, for me. I have no problem kissing and making out, but i feel wierd doing anything else, becuase I'm afraid I'll be taking it too far. Just assure him that its not a big deal, but don't pressure him. Because thats what my friends did to me, and it made it sooo much worse.

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]I remember hearing this- "Are you [I]ever[/I] going to close your mouth?"

lol :upset:

But then I went to camp, where I made out with this chick sooo much, I'm like an expert now. I remember stairway came on, we started. The song finished before us. This chick was awesome, Before i got used to it, i actually gagged a little... That was pretty awesome....

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*fades to flashback*
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heh

But yeah, the quote was from my first, my neighbore, how i wasn't romantically connected to, which has it bonuses and its dissapointments. The obviouse lack of "first kiss luster". But i learned, so that when it matter'd, I diddnt embarass myself.

BUt for anybody who's nervous, my advice, dont worry 'bout it. Just go with it, It'll come toyou, and you'll enjoy it.:)[/QUOTE]


i remember my first time.

I was in my basement with my gf. I just let go all my fears and kissed her. We both stopped then suddenly we started up again and we made out for like 2 hours straight.

Then this other girl i went out with, her kisses sucked. They were all slobbery and gross.

But both told me i was a good kisser :cool:

Kissing is like the most awsomeest thing to do(i think)

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Kissing is like the most awsomeest thing to do(i think)[/QUOTE]
Haha, when I'm with my gf we kiss about every 5 minutes. It's better than sex in some aspects... heh

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Haha, when I'm with my gf we kiss about every 5 minutes. It's better than sex in some aspects... heh[/QUOTE]


I think it is too

because sometimes it can be so romantic.

Im a sucker for romance.

No problem with that. I'm the sappiest guy I know. :upset:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]No problem with that. I'm the sappiest guy I know. :upset:[/QUOTE]


What does sappiest mean?

Sorry im trying to expand my english vocabulary.


I think kissing is just so damn romantic.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]What does sappiest mean?

Sorry im trying to expand my english vocabulary.[/QUOTE]

Well, sappy is an adjective. It basically means to be sentimental to an excessive degree, or just overly mushy. Does that make sense?

[quote]Ya ive been trying to help my friend get over his fears about kissing and touching and all that good stuff but it doesnt work.

He just calls himself a pansy and walks away.

lol wat should i tell him?[/quote]

Heh, I was like that for the most part (and probably still am, but I wouldn't know currently).

There's really nothing you can do but keep encouraging him. Kissing and touching isn't exactly something you can flip on and off like a switch.

He'll grow out of his pansy stage as soon as he's comfortable - but you can't force it on the poor lad, heh.

you just said it- romantic, baisically, when guys go all goo goo over girls, they get all sappy.

Sappy = Soaking with fluid, soggy, wet, soaking.

In this case I was saying I was sappy with lame romantic feelings. :p