oic, thats really gay of her, have you talked to her since then?

[QUOTE=Atticus!]Wait, you said oyu were shooting your bow :-\[/QUOTE]
Bow n' arrow. lol..Your sick minded :p

Here's a question since we're on the L&R topic..

I like this girl, and I'm not sure how she feels..I think I should just at least tell her I like her, just to find out her response. I've gone over it so many times in my head, and I'm totally lost.

That's like the oldest question in the book Stewart :-\

It always comes down to the girl and also what you want out of you guys' relationship. If it turns out she doesn't like you like that, are you willing to risk losing her as a friend too? What do you want out of it if there's a mutual interest? etc...

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]That's like the oldest question in the book Stewart :-\

It always comes down to the girl and also what you want out of you guys' relationship. If it turns out she doesn't like you like that, are you willing to risk losing her as a friend too? What do you want out of it if there's a mutual interest? etc...[/QUOTE]
..Thats kinda' the whole thing..I'm not sure if I wanna' risk losing her as a friend, because she's one of the few people who sees me beyond who I am, or at least who I show. I'm just wondering if you guys think it'd be worth it? It's just that right now I don't really have that many friends (Her being the only one at the moment) and I'm not sure if I could take losing her, my only friend right now because of something like this. Normally I'd not even question this..I'd let her know.

[QUOTE=Form(of)dark]oic, thats really gay of her, have you talked to her since then?[/QUOTE]
Yes. She said she just wants to be friends now.

I'm so ****ing lost.

How can somehting like that turn around so quickly..

Well that's answering your own question really :)

We can't tell you whether or not that risk is worth it to you, that's all your call man, but I can say this...having a girlfriend who is your friend is fabulous, but I'd rather have a friend that's a girl than jump for something more and lose it all in any case I can think of. That's probably why I have so many girl friends :-\

B: Because rule #1 of girls is that they do not know what they want, and I'm serious about that. If you deal with girls you must be prepared for that wishy washiness.

Does she give any signs of liking you as more than a friend?

EDIT: to LST

[QUOTE=yourstruly]Does she give any signs of liking you as more than a friend?

EDIT: to LST[/QUOTE]
Yeah, for sure..But then I'll get the impression she's not in the mood for talking so I'll just shut up..And she'll go, "Talk! Your more annoying when you don't talk than when you do," so I have no idea..?

So...uh...Ice T has a hardcore band....

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V: yeah, I know. It's just, nothing is ever like that for me. I wish I could feel differently about stuff but it takes ages for my feelings to change where as they change their ****ing mind every few minutes.

Stew: if she's really aas good of a friend as you say, then you shouldn't have to worry about losing her. One of my friends has known that I've liked her on and off for years, even though she's hadboyfriends and stuff. She doesn't mind, it's kind of nice, as long as you can control your feelings anyways.

I don't even know, I'd say leave her, but I don't know the whole situation, and what not, but yeah I suck at advice in relationships, so listen to Vince :chug:

And put on some PTW, make you feel better...

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]Yeah, for sure..But then I'll get the impression she's not in the mood for talking so I'll just shut up..And she'll go, "Talk! Your more annoying when you don't talk than when you do," so I have no idea..?[/QUOTE]I was sort in a similiar situation with my ex girlfriend, except she invited me to a party and kissed me, so yeah. I'd say just stay friends and see what happens.

[QUOTE=Atticus!]V: yeah, I know. It's just, nothing is ever like that for me. I wish I could feel differently about stuff but it takes ages for my feelings to change where as they change their ****ing mind every few minutes.

Stew: if she's really aas good of a friend as you say, then you shouldn't have to worry about losing her. One of my friends has known that I've liked her on and off for years, even though she's hadboyfriends and stuff. She doesn't mind, it's kind of nice, as long as you can control your feelings anyways.[/QUOTE]
Well you're not a girl :) I tend to cling to not-changing too, but I realize how fast they change and being adaptable is key to success not only in relationships but life in general, so it's worth working on it.

Eh..that's not at all true. If you tell a girl you have feelings for her she doesn't reciprocate she'll feel awkward and guilty and as a result will often try to ignore you so as to not feel that way. You can be best friends, but adding that sort of awkwardness can still destroy it. It all depends on the girl.

So the survey says...Find out for yourself? lol

Thats cool anyways..Maybe having no friends will give me time to study all the time and I'll get mad *** grades and my parents will actually want to see my report card..Which is going to be horrible when I get it in a week or so..

To make everyone happy, i'd like to point out what jon said: Ice-T has a hardcore band.

I allready knew this though, im just that underground.

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]So the survey says...Find out for yourself? lol

Thats cool anyways..Maybe having no friends will give me time to study all the time and I'll get mad *** grades and my parents will actually want to see my report card..Which is going to be horrible when I get it in a week or so..[/QUOTE]
Well no one an find out for you :p

It comes down to a situation by situation basis so just do what you feel is right and cross your fingers.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Well no one an find out for you :p

It comes down to a situation by situation basis so just do what you feel is right and cross your fingers.[/QUOTE]
True lol..It's somewhat unfortunate that it's true, but still lol

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Well you're not a girl :) I tend to cling to not-changing too, but I realize how fast they change and being adaptable is key to success not only in relationships but life in general, so it's worth working on it.

Eh..that's not at all true. If you tell a girl you have feelings for her she doesn't reciprocate she'll feel awkward and guilty and as a result will often try to ignore you so as to not feel that way. You can be best friends, but adding that sort of awkwardness can still destroy it. It all depends on the girl.[/QUOTE]
You'd be suprised how girl-like I actually am :-\

I don't adapt well to anything.

Meh. In all cases I've had like that it's been how I described it. Maybe I just have really understanding friends.

Am I complete idiot if my heart skips a beat when this girl says "Hey" to me on Msn? Like she was set to away, so I wasn't expecting her to say anything..But as soon as I saw it I was all like..*Heart skips beat*..

/Feels like complete idiot :p

Not really. It's called emotion, some people have it. :p

Except Chuck Norris.










:upset: I had to do it, I couldn't resist.

Man, I hate him.

[QUOTE=Atticus!]You'd be suprised how girl-like I actually am :-\

I don't adapt well to anything.

Meh. In all cases I've had like that it's been how I described it. Maybe I just have really understanding friends.[/QUOTE]
Not at all. Ask Rissa how girly I am.

Work on that.

Eh, I speak from what I've seen in many relationships. Including my own experiences. But I have no doubt some girls aren't that lame.

Stew: I still get that with Gaby so...no.

:lol: at Form(of)Dark

Good..Just checkin'..

This girl I like has told me that I'm out there and stuff before, not just because of whatever I was saying but just my intire self in general..And she just said..

[QUOTE]I Left The Chill And Voice, The Screams In Kids And Ran For Shelter.. says:
She just bothers me lol
ashley; i hope you're as happy as you are pretending. says:
yeah, same haha
ashley; i hope you're as happy as you are pretending. says:
a little too out there
ashley; i hope you're as happy as you are pretending. says:
but that's good in a person too, makes them interesting
[/QUOTE]

Is it a hint? lol

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]
Stew: I still get that with Gaby so...no.[/QUOTE]

"I like eating diarrhea, is that weird?"

"Uh...no...I do it...so it...uh...must be perfectly normal...and stuff..."

:rolleyes:

[QUOTE=BridgeToSolace]"I like eating diarrhea, is that weird?"

"Uh...no...I do it...so it...uh...must be perfectly normal...and stuff..."

:rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Hey, I'm not [I]that[/I] abnormal ok? :-\

Stew: Eh, don't read into it too much, seems innocent to me. Plus, too much of something means it's bad.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Not at all. Ask Rissa how girly I am.

Work on that.

Eh, I speak from what I've seen in many relationships. Including my own experiences. But I have no doubt some girls aren't that lame.[/QUOTE]
Actually yeah, we seem to have a lot in common in aspects like that. Aside from yours being generally more serious due to the age difference.

I don't have much of a choice. :-\

Yeah, too bad those girls are the ones that are just my friends though.

Stew: You are reading wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too much into that.

Notice my emphasis with the too many Y's

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Hey, I'm not [I]that[/I] abnormal ok? :-\[/quote]

It was an anology that was exaggerated for comic effect. Read it for the message, not the literal meaning.

[quote] Plus, too much of something means it's bad.[/QUOTE]

Which raises the question: "What's to much?"

[QUOTE=Atticus!]Actually yeah, we seem to have a lot in common in aspects like that. Aside from yours being generally more serious due to the age difference.

I don't have much of a choice. :-\

Yeah, too bad those girls are the ones that are just my friends though.[/QUOTE]
I have something in common with every neurotic person ever as I seemingly have a little bit of like every neurosis :-\ On the plus side crazy people are more interesting and they tend to trust you when they realize you're like them so eh.

Sure you do, condition yourself. Next time something really gets at you, instead of freaking out, stop, think, and realize you can deal with it, and it's not worth freaking out (at least in most cases). Eventually it will become sub-concious habit.

Better that than not around at all.

Jon: No I got it. Just because I do something doesn't mean it's normal. I was comically playing back :)

If you use the word "too" pre-empting an adjective, it means too much.

So, uhh, I'm finally getting blinds for my room tomorrow :cool: