[QUOTE=Chaindrive]What would be new and novel that you haven't done before.[/QUOTE]

Ummm I dunno see thats the problem

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]That's like asking what the meaning of life is. [/QUOTE]

Man, it was a long day today, but I finally got my first laugh. Ace reply, hahaha.

I like this girl that has a boyfriend and blah blah and **** like that. And there's this other girl that seems to like me and I kinda like her. We hang out and talk a lot but I don't feel the same about her as I do for the other girl. Should I keep hanging out with her and try to forget about the girl with a boyfriend? The other girl seems so perfect for me.

If you like the girl with the boyfriend, I would wait a little while to see what happens. Are her and her boyfriend doing well? DO NOT try to break them up, though, whatever you do. In the meantime, though, find out more about this other girl and see what happens there. Good luck! :D

[QUOTE=followedformat]I like this girl that has a boyfriend and blah blah and **** like that. And there's this other girl that seems to like me and I kinda like her. We hang out and talk a lot but I don't feel the same about her as I do for the other girl. Should I keep hanging out with her and try to forget about the girl with a boyfriend? The other girl seems so perfect for me.[/QUOTE]
You can try- but remember, you can't just make feelings. I made that mistake once and went out with a guy I didn't really have feelings for. Actually I've done it a fair few times.
You seem smart enough to know not to break the other two up. Just see what happens.

Is there any easy way to break up with a girl? A girl who likes you so much and thinks the relationship wont be ending for a very long time? I'm breaking up with her because, although shes a great girl, I hardly see her. She's allowed out about 2 nights a week and her parents dont approve of me so they dont let her out to see me. I only see her if she convinces her folks shes out with mates. Its gonna be tough...

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]Is there any easy way to break up with a girl? A girl who likes you so much and thinks the relationship wont be ending for a very long time? I'm breaking up with her because, although shes a great girl, I hardly see her. She's allowed out about 2 nights a week and her parents dont approve of me so they dont let her out to see me. I only see her if she convinces her folks shes out with mates. Its gonna be tough...[/QUOTE]
Nope no easy way. But as soon as you say something along the lines of 'we need to talk' she'll ge the idea. And anything you say after that won't really matter.

Man this'll suck. I KNOW shes gonna cry too. lol I dont just wanna walk away froma crying girl..

:-/ gutted. I really feel for you, I hate those type of situations.

I might do it over the phone. Atleast then I can use the excuse of "I woulda done it in person but we're never in person." I've been with her six months too.

Six months probably deserves a face to face.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]Is there any easy way to break up with a girl? A girl who likes you so much and thinks the relationship wont be ending for a very long time? I'm breaking up with her because, although shes a great girl, I hardly see her. She's allowed out about 2 nights a week and her parents dont approve of me so they dont let her out to see me. I only see her if she convinces her folks shes out with mates. Its gonna be tough...[/QUOTE]
To be honest dude, Id try and get round her house more and convince her parents that you're a nice guy.
You could tell her that you dont feel happy in the relationship with the small amount that you see each other and that you want to see her more or you think its for the best if you split up. If she then says something like 'Ohh my parents wont let me see her' then tell her that she needs to tell her parents that she wants to see you more and that its her decision. How old are you two by the way just out of interest?

[QUOTE=Yppolitia]To be honest dude, Id try and get round her house more and convince her parents that you're a nice guy.
You could tell her that you dont feel happy in the relationship with the small amount that you see each other and that you want to see her more or you think its for the best if you split up. If she then says something like 'Ohh my parents wont let me see her' then tell her that she needs to tell her parents that she wants to see you more and that its her decision. How old are you two by the way just out of interest?[/QUOTE]

Theres no arguing with her parents. Shes had shouting matches with them when it comes to me. Believe me we've tried. I'm 17 and shes 16, 17 in about a month. Her folks are really religous so they think that cos I've left school and am working "my priorities change." Bet you can guess what that is. I think it is for the best we split up, I cant see anything else we can do. Not to mention shes in about three hockey teams so that her weekdays gone. Hockey season doesnt end til September, so then I may be able to go round during the week for tea. But its really not worth the wait when theres plenty more books on the shelf...

be a ****ing man

and think about it as well. i was in a situation almost exactly the same, and i dumped her and tbh i still wish i hadnt...

how old are you guys?

my gfs mum says she cant go see me, she lives a 45 min walk and 20 min train ride away, but i still see her whenever i can. doesnt her mum work or something so you can go and see her?

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]Theres no arguing with her parents. Shes had shouting matches with them when it comes to me. Believe me we've tried. I'm 17 and shes 16, 17 in about a month. Her folks are really religous so they think that cos I've left school and am working "my priorities change." Bet you can guess what that is. I think it is for the best we split up, I cant see anything else we can do.[/QUOTE]

Ahh, damn religeous parents. then yes I think splitting up is for the best, I'd highly recommend splitting up face to face because it will show her that you have respect to for her to do it that way otherwise just do it over the phone.

ok, read the above. religion is a bitch.


in other news, i got "the talk" for the first time yesterday!

basically:
"jonny, you are behaving with her, arent you?"
"yea..."
"cos the last thing you want is a baby at your age"
"yea, i kno"
"be careful"
"im not ****ing her, and if i was, i'd use a condom..."
"ok"

or, turn to god, and her parents may like you!

or, not...

/has tried this once

[QUOTE=Corkofski]be a ****ing man

and think about it as well. i was in a situation almost exactly the same, and i dumped her and tbh i still wish i hadnt...

how old are you guys?

my gfs mum says she cant go see me, she lives a 45 min walk and 20 min train ride away, but i still see her whenever i can. doesnt her mum work or something so you can go and see her?[/QUOTE]


What the hell? Be a man? How am I not being a man? All I'm saying is a want to a girlfriend I ca actually spend time with you as[color=black]s[/color]hole. Thats the whole point isnt it?

what im saying is, dump her face to face

after 6 months its just cowardly to dump her over the phone

[QUOTE=BrownSugar][B]Man this'll suck. I KNOW shes gonna cry too. [SIZE="5"]lol[/SIZE] [/B]I dont just wanna walk away froma crying girl..[/QUOTE]
If this is gonna suck so bad then why the hell do you find it funny?

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]Man this'll suck. I KNOW shes gonna cry too. lol I dont just wanna walk away froma crying girl..[/QUOTE]

Calvin?

oh nm.

This sounds eerily like a friend of mine's situation, but I didn't read the whole thing. Instead of religion, it's race. They won't let her see a black guy.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]what im saying is, dump her face to face

after 6 months its just cowardly to dump her over the phone[/QUOTE]

If you really like her or love her you'd stay with her no matter what condition the relationship is in.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]If you really like her or love her you'd stay with her no matter what condition the relationship is in.[/QUOTE]


Thats an ignorant thing to say.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Thats an ignorant thing to say.[/QUOTE]

tr00f

especially how it was worded

How the hell is that ignorant?

[QUOTE=Strongbad]How the hell is that ignorant?[/QUOTE]

If the relationship is in a bad condition, you'll break it off if you love the person.

Somewhere along the way, "can't live without" took over for "want the best for" under definitions for "Love."

The relationship isn't in a bad condition really. W/E wtf do I know.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]The relationship isn't in a bad condition really. W/E wtf do I know.[/QUOTE]

I'm just saying that there are cases that you will leave someone you love.

I did it, and it hurt extremely badly.

Anywho- I like a girl that works at "the hangout" coffee shop in town. I don't really know her dating status, and she only works once a week (and lives out of town; she really only comes to town once a week). I've seen two marines (one of whom has many of the same interests I do I think) make passes at her. She's a year older than me.

But...I've always subscribed to the "if you can't tell, it's not because you can't tell it's because it isn't there" theory when it comes to people liking me.

man I am such a loser

*sigh* Well I just tried calling the girl I love who I'm just friends with for now, and her dad answered:

Dad: hello
Me: hey is elyse there?
Dad: Um...whos calling
Me: uh stephen
Dad: uh...look, it's kinda late dont you think?
Me: Oh sorry, i couldnt tell, im in georgia so the timezones are messed up
Dad: Well isnt it 11:00 your time?
Me: Well im on a computer and it says 10:30, so i figured it was 9:30 down there
Dad: Well the clock is wroooong
Me: Oh, Im sorry...
Dad: Look, I dont know what is going on between you and Elyse, but I think it's best if you dont call here any more.
Me: There's nothing going on between me and her...
Dad: I didn't say there was, Im telling you as an adult to not call here any more.
Me: Did I do something wrong..?
Dad: LOOK Im not a phsychiatrist, I have your phone number on notice, I know what it is, so I dont want you calling here anymore, do you understand me or do I have to get the authorities to deal with you???
Me: no...its cool, sorry for ruining everyone's lives...
Dad: Good bye..dont call back here again.

I give up. I dont know what I did, but noone wants me to be talking with this girl while she is in a relationship it seems like. I havent done anything to make people think that me and elyse are having an afair or something, I just want to stay friends with her, which I can't do because noone will let me, her bf wont let me, my parents dont want me to, and now I cant call her any more. And I have a feeling Elyse doesnt want to talk to me either. WTF do I do? I dont want her whole family to be against me for whatever reason and I just want to be friends with her. Is it unusual for a guy to be friends with a girl who has a boyfriend? I didnt think so but apparently everything has changed.

Maaaan, that Dad is cold as ice! I like him.