What I always used to do: play the question game with someone you're trying to get to know online.
-first person asks a question
-second answers
-first answers
-second person asks a question
etc

:) It works really well and can spawn some nice conversations.

[QUOTE=Jom]Big mistake telling your ex-girlfriend. Well, not BIG, but it's something I wouldn't have done. But, no worries.

My only advice for keeping conversations flowing is to make observations or tell stories. Asking questions like "so whats up and etc." doesn't really bode well because the answers will be somewhere in the one-word-answer category. If you ask questions that require some thought (other than yes/no/maybe/idk/lol), you can always ask follow-up questions.

I'm not saying be an interrogator, but if you ask her questions, feel free to answer your own after she's done. Or, answer her questions. Just try to stay away from 'so whats up' or 'how was your day' or something along those lines.[/QUOTE]

My ex-girlfriend has a boyfriend and we have been broken up since March.

I feel like I'm always asking her questions and it is usually, "what's up" and stuff like that. I have been trying to get her to hang out sometime, but she is always busy. I gave her my phone number and told her whenever she is free, she can call me.

This may be a really stupid question but...

I spent the night with a girl in the same room but in diff beds, and spent all night talkin to eachother laughing, talking bout sex, vibrators and other stuff like that. She tells me to get her a vibrator for her birthday. She asks me stuff bout "morning woods" and if she can see it in the morning. So in the morning I just whip it out and show her, shes like oh yep, nice, whatever ya know. Then when she leaves the rooms flashes me.

I know it seems a bit juvenile really, but if I'm not mistaken, is this girl into me? Shes knows I have a gf and shes the good sort so I dont think shed be one to do anything while I still do. But did I interpret all of that right?

Sorry if that was poorly written, I have no excuse...

does your girlfriend know you flashed your peen to another girl and she showed u her bewbs?

i would ask your girl if she likes girls...

Yes, thats the first thing I said when I talked to her again.

"hey honey, I showed this chick my knob and got to see her boobs, how was your day?"

yes well i didn't think you would have

obviously to flash a girl your pen-is you must be somewhat sexually attracted to her
but is it just a sexual tension between you and her

you might end up having sex with her but after that is out of your system where to?

so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..

[QUOTE=Pazz]Alright, so me liking this girl has been pretty secretive and not a whole lot of people know about me liking her. So I decided to tell one of my friends, who happens to be my ex-girlfriend. I told her and she started freaking out at me. She told me I shouldn't do it, because the girl I like supposively does this with guys, flirts with them and leads them on and when they make a move she turns them down. She told me she doesn't want to see me get hurt. We had a pretty big argument and I told her I would be careful, but I still like the girl. So I'm going to tell the girl I like her sometime this week hopefully. I talked to her on MSN tonight and the conversation died, so I asked her if she liked anyone and she said she didn't know.[/QUOTE]
MSN = bad. If you talk to her IRL then she's more likely to tell you the truth and she won't be able to just go offline.

What I would do is go for it- but don't get your hopes up too high. If it turns out she's just leading you on then it'll be easier to just forget about her.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..[/QUOTE]

You must have some insane self-confidence issues if you can't trust your girlfriend alone with a gay guy.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]You must have some insane self-confidence issues if you can't trust your girlfriend alone with a gay guy.[/QUOTE]
maybe he needs help in oral sex technique though

i would just ask her what she does

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..[/QUOTE]
No absolutely nothing to worry about. I'm really close to my gay friend Tim. It's an odd relationship because it's like having a girlie friend but he's a guy. Seriously, girls just like having gay friends. You should not feel insecure.

man one of my best friends is gay and he is absolutely amazing and hilarious

however my sister's gay friends are flaming, bitchy, drama queens just for the sake of it

and they dress poorly

URGH

[QUOTE=Iscariot]You must have some insane self-confidence issues if you can't trust your girlfriend alone with a gay guy.[/QUOTE]
only been with her a month, so...

[QUOTE=BJ_maddog]maybe he needs help in oral sex technique though

i would just ask her what she does[/QUOTE]
shes the right person to ask :thumb:

[QUOTE=Atman]man one of my best friends is gay and he is absolutely amazing and hilarious[/QUOTE]
this guy is as well

[QUOTE=Corkofski]only been with her a month, so...[/QUOTE]

What the hell man, he's gay. He's not porking your bitch. At all.

if you say so :)

[QUOTE=Corkofski]if you say so :)[/QUOTE]
i say he is bisexual
best thing to do is when they return from the bathroom, smell his peen

no but seriously
just ask her, and him
get the truth
stop worrying
problem solved

[QUOTE=BJ_maddog]i say he is bisexual
best thing to do is when they return from the bathroom, smell his peen [/QUOTE]
LOL :lol:

If this guy has a boyfriend, then you (dude with the issue) shouldn't worry. Infact, you shouldn't worry at all but if you're that insecure, just remember, he's porking some other guy, so don't worry.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]No absolutely nothing to worry about. I'm really close to my gay friend Tim. It's an odd relationship because it's like having a girlie friend but he's a guy. Seriously, girls just like having gay friends. You should not feel insecure.[/QUOTE]

I'm going to tell her in person, hopefully sometime this week.

Good plan :thumb:

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..[/QUOTE]

You have to trust your girlfriend. My current girlfriend has a few guy friends that she's really close to. You just have to learn to be comfortable with it and trust her. I'd say in your case you have nothing to worry about since a girl having a close relationship with a gay guy is very common.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]this guy is as well[/QUOTE]

har har you're the one who is so insecure that a gay guy will take your girlfriend away haha

anyway

oral is like the easiest thing in the world to do but some girls still can't understand the apparently incredibly difficult concept of NO TEETH DAMN IT :mad::mad::mad::mad:

[QUOTE=Atman]
oral is like the easiest thing in the world to do but some girls still can't understand the apparently incredibly difficult concept of NO TEETH DAMN IT :mad::mad::mad::mad:[/QUOTE]

im glad to say,. all mine have got that.

tho i have a mate who decided to start playing halo 2 while his gf was sucking him off, sghe didnt like it, clamped down and made him bleed....

[QUOTE=Corkofski]im glad to say,. all mine have got that.

tho i have a mate who decided to start playing halo 2 while his gf was sucking him off, sghe didnt like it, clamped down and made him bleed....[/QUOTE]
:lol: serves him right.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]:lol: serves him right.[/QUOTE]

i kno rite? halo 2 sux!

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]Good plan :thumb:[/QUOTE]

Because I have told many girls in the past that I have liked them. Only one was in person, and that was my only girlfriend. So I'm thinking I have caught on to something.:p

Last night was very nice.

I've known this girl for two years of so, but we'd never really hung out until last night at a party. I decided not to drink and she's sober, and we stayed up all night talking, watching stars (and a couple of ufos and a falling star shower), and wishing that we hadn't forgotten our swim suits.

I know I'm too young for her (she's 21 and feels like guys her age are too immature; I'm 19 and not even in college), but it felt so nice to be myself again. :)

Good on you man. It's nice to know there are people having good stuff happen to them like this.

[QUOTE=Atman]
oral is like the easiest thing in the world to do but some girls still can't understand the apparently incredibly difficult concept of NO TEETH DAMN IT :mad::mad::mad:[/QUOTE]
Im good at it. :cool:

[QUOTE=Tess-Tube Baby]Im good at it. :cool:[/QUOTE]


Tess, c'mon. Ew.





















:)

Well, I am. Im not going to lie.