[QUOTE=Wizard.]So my girlfriend thinks I'm in love with another girl, and won't believe me when I tell her I'm not. And for some reason I'm enjoying every second of it. :cool:

Someone start up a coversation. I'm bored as hell and The Pit sucks. :([/QUOTE]
Have you said "im loving every min of you thinking im in love with someone else because i find it so halarious" to her yet?

She must be very paronoid about you. Are you into the PDA? im all for it.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You're welcome and glad it worked out. I hope you kept the extra roses for yourself, or gave them to an elderly lady that you saw walking down the street, though.

:wink:[/QUOTE]



*gives e-[color=yellow]rose[/color] to Chaindrive*



We're going to see a movie later this week ... probably this weekend. So things are moving along. Taking it slow.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Funny how everyone in here goes right to kimmie. Lol dont you feel needed Miss Love Doctress?[/QUOTE]

I've just seen things and experienced things in my life that you guys haven't yet, is all.

And that's never ended up being the end of the world.

:)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I've just seen things and experienced things in my life that you guys haven't yet, is all.

And that's never ended up being the end of the world.

:)[/QUOTE]
o rly?

Do you have any love & relationship question on you're mind? you must have

[QUOTE=~grif~]Have you said "im loving every min of you thinking im in love with someone else because i find it so halarious" to her yet?

She must be very paronoid about you. Are you into the PDA? im all for it.[/QUOTE]
Hell no, I don't want to get botched at again. :p

She's getting paranoid over dumb small things she's seen. She's overreacting like I was the past couple weeks. As I said before; e're both very jealous people. lol...

What's PDA? :confused:

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Hell no, I don't want to get botched at again. :p

She's getting paranoid over dumb small things she's seen. She's overreacting like I was the past couple weeks. As I said before; e're both very jealous people. lol...

What's PDA? :confused:[/QUOTE]
Public Display of Affection.

You should and just kiss her.

I do PDA alot with girls that im really into, really really into. Maybe she'll feel less paronoid and know that you love her - if you do that is..

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Moz is a chick. Gav and SD are extremely awesome guys.

Really, the only mods I've ever had any slight problem with are Defelon(he's kind of harsh sometimes), Strum(shouldn't be a mod at all), and joshmay(he has a grudge against me I believe). And I still like those guys.

So basically, all the mods are pretty cool.


I'm the same way. I don't have any [I]real[/I] friends. I remember back when I was younger and lived in North Carolina, I had a tight ring of friends, and we were all like brothers. When I moved to Kentcky, it's like I died socially. I seem to attract alot of girl friends here, but nearly all of them are huge whores, orjust stupid. I'm incapable of making any male friends like I used to have. :\

It's ok though, I got the internets!

[SIZE="1"]EDIT: Fixed my double post.[/SIZE][/QUOTE]

I have only talked to Moz once, so I didnt know she was a she.
And DoubleBassJim is pretty cool.

I had quite a few friends in high school, and every one says "We will hang out alot after graduation." but that is a big lie. Only a few of them i still talk to, the rest are assholes who wont email or call me back. I have made alot of friends here on MX, and I know I will most likely never meet in person.

[QUOTE=~grif~]Public Display of Affection.

You should and just kiss her.

I do PDA alot with girls that im really into, really really into. Maybe she'll feel less paronoid and know that you love her - if you do that is..[/QUOTE]
Ah yeah. I'm very affectionate. The only problem is, I'm in a long distance thing. Hard to kiss a girl that's over 800 miles away. ;)

When we're together neither of us is ever worried about anything. It's just the distance causing issues. :/

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Ah yeah. I'm very affectionate. The only problem is, I'm in a long distance thing. Hard to kiss a girl that's over 800 miles away. ;)

When we're together neither of us is ever worried about anything. It's just the distance causing issues. :/[/QUOTE]
She move? Or internet thing?

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]I had quite a few friends in high school, and every one says "We will hang out alot after graduation." but that is a big lie. Only a few of them i still talk to, the rest are spatulas who wont email or call me back.[/QUOTE]

Yep, I know how that goes.

[QUOTE=~grif~]She move? Or internet thing?[/QUOTE]
Well, we met online, but at the time we met, I was supposed to be moving to her town in less than a month, and it was coincidence that we started talking. Plans got screwed up, and it's been over a year since we first started talking now. I won't move until I either get into college, or turn 18 in October.

And no, it's nothing like those dumbasses who "date" through Myspace, so don't look at it like that. >:-( lol

[QUOTE=Wizard.]Well, we met online, but at the time we met, I was supposed to be moving to her town in less than a month, and it was coincidence that we started talking. Plans got screwed up, and it's been over a year since we first started talking now. I won't move until I either get into college, or turn 18 in October.

And no, it's nothing like those dumbasses who "date" through Myspace, so don't look at it like that. >:-( lol[/QUOTE]
i dont, im more or less in the same boat :rolleyes:

[QUOTE=~grif~]o rly?

Do you have any love & relationship question on you're mind? you must have[/QUOTE]

I don't actually. I felt a shift in my emotions toward my guy the other day, and I think I'm done with that.

Which is so liberating I can't begin to describe it.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I don't actually. I felt a shift in my emotions toward my guy the other day, and I think I'm done with that.

Which is so liberating I can't begin to describe it.[/QUOTE]
Everything starts with one word, do go on..

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I don't actually. I felt a shift in my emotions toward my guy the other day, and I think I'm done with that.

Which is so liberating I can't begin to describe it.[/QUOTE]

E-clap for kimmie!!!

Yay!!! Good Luck!

[QUOTE=~grif~]Everything starts with one word, do go on..[/QUOTE]

It was just...really weird. I felt my really strong emotions for him leave me. It was like a weight off of my world.

I knew when I felt that, that I had had enough of his drama...

Damn, this is so hard for me to describe it. Because of how emotional this has been since June of last year.

But, it was like, "I'm done...and I know I'm done."

And, that was it.

Purifying.

And, another learning experience.

Go me. :)

Sigh... okay well I've been with this girl for 2 months now and things were going well at first, not to say they aren't anymore, but there's been this issue going on for the better half of this month. My girlfriend has never been the romantic type.. I think she's the kind that feels emotion but just doesn't like showing it. I understand that different people have different ways of showing love, but I feel like I just can't be in a relationship like this. Not only does she lack the ability to somehow show that she feels for me, but she does a pretty damn good job of making me think the exact opposite; she's barely in the mood to talk anymore, we hardly ever see each other because she's always busy with one thing or another, and I feel like I can never even start a conversation with her on the phone because she always either doesn't find it interesting or whatever.. or she just ignores me and goes on talking to whoever is in the room with her, making me feel like an idiot and definitely not making me want to try and bring up something again. We go to different schools, we practically live across town from each other (although it's not a very big town she's still wayy too busy with life to make plans to meet) and I've come to a tough decision: Should I break up with her? I want to tell her that we should just be friends.. since it seems that way already, but I've never broken up with a girl before.. If I really should just be her friend.. how should I tell her? I've gotten to thinking that she really wouldn't react emotionally to the break up since she never really shows emotion anyway.. but I know she must be the kind that keeps it inside. How can I just tell her without hurting her? I do still want to be her friend..

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]It was just...really weird. I felt my really strong emotions for him leave me. It was like a weight off of my world.

I knew when I felt that, that I had had enough of his drama...

Damn, this is so hard for me to describe it. Because of how emotional this has been since June of last year.

But, it was like, "I'm done...and I know I'm done."

And, that was it.

Purifying.

And, another learning experience.

Go me. :)[/QUOTE]
How did you just manage to drop your feelings like that? I really want in on this secret. :(

only took you 8 months heh but must of been somone of a longterm thing obivousley.

So you into anyone at the moment? Looking?

[QUOTE=Jom]Yep, I know how that goes.[/QUOTE]


Same here, and I have a lot of friends who seem to think I didn't go to college like they did...then somehow that makes them better than me. I always have to put up with them flexing they intellectual muscle around me and talking down to me.

And by them I only mean a select few, not all of them of course.

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]Sigh... okay well I've been with this girl for 2 months now and things were going well at first, not to say they aren't anymore, but there's been this issue going on for the better half of this month. My girlfriend has never been the romantic type.. I think she's the kind that feels emotion but just doesn't like showing it. I understand that different people have different ways of showing love, but I feel like I just can't be in a relationship like this. Not only does she lack the ability to somehow show that she feels for me, but she does a pretty damn good job of making me think the exact opposite; she's barely in the mood to talk anymore, we hardly ever see each other because she's always busy with one thing or another, and I feel like I can never even start a conversation with her on the phone because she always either doesn't find it interesting or whatever.. or she just ignores me and goes on talking to whoever is in the room with her, making me feel like an idiot and definitely not making me want to try and bring up something again. We go to different schools, we practically live across town from each other (although it's not a very big town she's still wayy too busy with life to make plans to meet) and I've come to a tough decision: Should I break up with her? I want to tell her that we should just be friends.. since it seems that way already, but I've never broken up with a girl before.. If I really should just be her friend.. how should I tell her? I've gotten to thinking that she really wouldn't react emotionally to the break up since she never really shows emotion anyway.. but I know she must be the kind that keeps it inside. How can I just tell her without hurting her? I do still want to be her friend..[/QUOTE]
She probably just lost interest. Just tell her blatantly that you think you guys will be better off as friends, because you've grown apart, and there is too much stopping you two fom being together. I don't think she'll take it very hard, since she seems to have lost interest anyway.

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]Sigh... okay well I've been with this girl for 2 months now and things were going well at first, not to say they aren't anymore, but there's been this issue going on for the better half of this month. My girlfriend has never been the romantic type.. I think she's the kind that feels emotion but just doesn't like showing it. I understand that different people have different ways of showing love, but I feel like I just can't be in a relationship like this. Not only does she lack the ability to somehow show that she feels for me, but she does a pretty damn good job of making me think the exact opposite; she's barely in the mood to talk anymore, we hardly ever see each other because she's always busy with one thing or another, and I feel like I can never even start a conversation with her on the phone because she always either doesn't find it interesting or whatever.. or she just ignores me and goes on talking to whoever is in the room with her, making me feel like an idiot and definitely not making me want to try and bring up something again. We go to different schools, we practically live across town from each other (although it's not a very big town she's still wayy too busy with life to make plans to meet) and I've come to a tough decision: Should I break up with her? I want to tell her that we should just be friends.. since it seems that way already, but I've never broken up with a girl before.. If I really should just be her friend.. how should I tell her? I've gotten to thinking that she really wouldn't react emotionally to the break up since she never really shows emotion anyway.. but I know she must be the kind that keeps it inside. How can I just tell her without hurting her? I do still want to be her friend..[/QUOTE]

well do break up with her, because from what you said its not working at all anyway.

How to really comes when you go to ask her, i could tell you how here but you wil probably say something else to her at the time.

Just say exactly what you said in that post, that ye dont talk any more, that ye are always busy and that you just cant seem to talk anymore.
If she goes on that she is busy and sorry - well - too bad on her behalf to be fair. If she wanted it to work she'd make time im sure as you are...
Then again as you said she dosent show emotion she could come out with "mm ok cya" and that'l be i'l.
Dont give her this "but can we still be friends" very Cliché - Maybe walk her home afterwards and stuff, talk and keep in contact. No biggy.
good luck

[QUOTE=~grif~]only took you 8 months heh but must of been somone of a longterm thing obivousley.

So you into anyone at the moment? Looking?[/QUOTE]

I'm not into anyone at the moment and not looking.

It's nice.

[QUOTE=~grif~]well do break up with her, because from what you said its not working at all anyway.

How to really comes when you go to ask her, i could tell you how here but you wil probably say something else to her at the time.

Just say exactly what you said in that post, that ye dont talk any more, that ye are always busy and that you just cant seem to talk anymore.
If she goes on that she is busy and sorry - well - too bad on her behalf to be fair. If she wanted it to work she'd make time im sure as you are...
Then again as you said she dosent show emotion she could come out with "mm ok cya" and that'l be i'l.
Dont give her this "but can we still be friends" [B][U]very Cliché [/U][/B]- Maybe walk her home afterwards and stuff, talk and keep in contact. No biggy.
good luck[/QUOTE]

That phrase is used way to much and now has a double meaning. Ugh I hate that "We can still be friends" becasue rarely are you actually still friends. I could ramble and ramble on this, ya know.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]That phrase is used way to much and now has a double meaning. Ugh I hate that "We can still be friends" becasue rarely are you actually still friends. I could ramble and ramble on this, ya know.[/QUOTE]
Its really something people go back and say to their friends and laugh about it.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]That phrase is used way to much and now has a double meaning. Ugh I hate that "We can still be friends" becasue rarely are you actually still friends. I could ramble and ramble on this, ya know.[/QUOTE]

Usually when a couple actually are friends after they break up, they end up getting back together because they realise what it is they really liked in eachother to begin with.

Thanks a bunch guys..
How I love coming to you all for help :)

[QUOTE=Whatsisface]Thanks a bunch guys..
How I love coming to you all for help :)[/QUOTE]
do post how it goes. :cool: :smoke:

[QUOTE=~grif~]Its really something people go back and say to their friends and laugh about it.[/QUOTE]

Yea. That phrase and the "It's not you, it's me" thing. Grrr... It really means :Get outta my life, I hate you now, you screwed me over and I am gonna leave you confused so you can suffer." Although there are always exceptions. mmmmk? :chug:

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Yea. That phrase and the "It's not you, it's me" thing. Grrr... It really means :Get outta my life, I hate you now, you screwed me over and I am gonna leave you confused so you can suffer." Although there are always exceptions. mmmmk? :chug:[/QUOTE]
You speak from experience? lol. Ive never had either said to me.