Say 'So recently I've been think more about you. Do you wanna come on a date with me?'

I guess I just don't know how to work up the balls to ask her out.

Just do it, even if she says no, you'll probably feel better that you tried. It's much better to try and fail then not to try and wonder what could have happened.

That there is your problem.

Just pretend to be someone really confident, say what someone who had massive cohoneys would say.

True, the only problem is taht we don't go to the same school, so we talk online alot and i try to hang out with her every couple of weekends.

Anyone have anything to say to my first post up there^^^

How long had they been going out?

Maybe your freinds just afraid that his feelings will come back because of jealousy.

Maybe a month or two, nothing long. I'm almost positive that he's interested in another girl now.

[QUOTE=EBS77]Maybe a month or two, nothing long. I'm almost positive that he's interested in another girl now.[/QUOTE]

How old are you?

16. I know, typical stupid high school relationships. But I really like this girl and it seems stupid to have it ruined just because of this "rule" between friends.

I've helped friends get together with my exs. that rule is stupid. tell your friend to stop being an idiot.

This is all my opinion, of course.

Anyone got anymore advice for my problem?

How good of friends are you with this girl?

I agree with Fonzy, tell your friend to suck it up.

^^What Aidan said.

[QUOTE=EBS77]Does this make any sense?: My friend says don't date his ex only because it is his ex and he thinks a friend shouldn't date another friend's ex. However, he also says he has no feelings for this girl anymore. Maybe there's just something I'm not getting, but this "rule" of not going out with your friend's ex girlfriend seems pretty stupid to me if he has no feelings for her.[/QUOTE]

The general idea is that you wait six months or more before you attempt to date a friend's ex-girlfriend. Bros before hos. Remember that. It'll save you from quite a few as[size=2]s[/size]-whoopings.

Another good rule to follow is, don't date girls that you talk to more online than in person. Relationships like that don't work. At all. They all end poorly at some point or another.

Serious, good advice there.

If you meet a girl and wanna do the dating thing, get her number, not her msn.

Even if you get her msn, never talk to her on it. Ruins relationships.

[QUOTE=AG]Serious, good advice there.

If you meet a girl and wanna do the dating thing, get her number, not her msn.

Even if you get her msn, never talk to her on it. Ruins relationships.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I have had that problem... But I'm learning from my mistakes...

[QUOTE=Iscariot]The general idea is that you wait six months or more before you attempt to date a friend's ex-girlfriend. Bros before hos. Remember that. It'll save you from quite a few as[size=2]s[/size]-whoopings.

Another good rule to follow is, don't date girls that you talk to more online than in person. Relationships like that don't work. At all. They all end poorly at some point or another.[/QUOTE]
So very very true in every way.

[QUOTE=AG]That there is your problem.

Just pretend to be someone really confident, say what someone who had massive [b][u]cohoneys[/b][/u] would say.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

Wow.

EDIT: imaginary props for trying to phonetically spell it.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]The general idea is that you wait six months or more before you attempt to date a friend's ex-girlfriend. Bros before hos. Remember that. It'll save you from quite a few as[size=2]s[/size]-whoopings.

[B]Another good rule to follow is, don't date girls that you talk to more online than in person. Relationships like that don't work. At all. They all end poorly at some point or another[/B].[/QUOTE]

ay caramba, tell me about it

[QUOTE=Iscariot]The general idea is that you wait six months or more before you attempt to date a friend's ex-girlfriend. Bros before hos. Remember that. It'll save you from quite a few as[size=2]s[/size]-whoopings.

Another good rule to follow is, don't date girls that you talk to more online than in person. Relationships like that don't work. At all. They all end poorly at some point or another.[/QUOTE]
Now what if you talk to the person on the phone more than in person, isn't it the same thing? and if it is what about those long distance relationships?

what does it mean when a girl says to you "it's like we're together, but we're not." ?

[QUOTE=Petrucci]what does it mean when a girl says to you "it's like we're together, but we're not." ?[/QUOTE]
That you're kind of 'seeing each other'. Not together officially (boyfriend/girlfriend) but you'll casually get together when you see each other. But you're not tied to each other. Make any sense?

ya, but does it mean more that she doesn't want to offically be more than friends and that she just wants to "have fun"? that's what i'm thinking.

[QUOTE=Petrucci]ya, but does it mean more that she doesn't want to offically be more than friends and that she just wants to "have fun"? that's what i'm thinking.[/QUOTE]
She wants to have fun.

123 at the don't chat with girls you're interested in.

At worst (if you have her SN) tell her you're coming over or something. Getting to know each other online does bad things.

Both parties learn some things too fast and some things too slow, and it breaks down and leads it awry.

Haha, I asked a girl if she wanted to go see a X-men3 last night because we had a private showing setup up after midnight. Little did I know that her boyfriend was sitting right beside her. I said "What's up man, I know I've met you about eight times but I've forgotten your name," and shook his hand and all that jazz. Gave her my number and told her to call when she got there.

Well, she never called, but showed up with him and about 5 other people (which wasn't cool), and made it easy enough to pretend not to notice them, so I did. I felt like an ***, but I'm going to tell her I didn't see her to let her in the front doors, and that she should have called.:p

Wow, dude. That explains what went wrong here perfectly. Thanks.

This girl is a good friend of my cousin, goes to a different school, (we have 3 high schools in a 5 mile radius) and dating is not acceptable in the culture I gotta put up with. So the only time I saw her was when I occasionally went to that school for something, or every saturday at the youth group thing at the mosque. Talked to her online more, just because she would be the only person on at 3 AM, and then she asked if I wanted to do a show at her school.

So I went there after school for about two weeks everyday, and I figured out I liked her after that. Still talked online - bad idea. Stuff comes out way too fast.

[QUOTE=Junooni]Wow, dude. That explains what went wrong here perfectly. Thanks.

So I went there after school for about two weeks everyday, and I figured out I liked her after that. Still talked online - bad idea. Stuff comes out way too fast.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, I've really made it a point to be distant on the internet.

But honestly, I'm the last person anyone should be taking dating advice from. :(