Ok, sorry I haven't posted in a while but here's a few things.

So last night my two friends slept over and at around 1 in the morning we decided to just go outside and walk around. Well we were walking by Angela's house (ex gf but we're kinda friends now still) I see her moms truck pull out of the driveway with the brights on and zoom past the street kinda sweervy and jerky. My friends and I were wondering what the hell was going on. Well apparently they went in a circle and went back to their house.

Angela, her friend JEnny (she hates me for STUID reasons now), Ali, and some random black kid in the drivers seat all got out. I walk up to angela and ask what's going on. She acts like I'm going to turn her into the cops or something and in general is like a bitch to me or something.

She said they all snuck out and that they were all really tipsy. So then I just walk away and they get into her moms car (none of them are old enough to drive) and have the brights on shining onto her house being REALLY loud. Well as I'm going around thje corner I see her mom walk outside and catch them. The black guy just starts jogging away but I couldn't see what else went on. About 10 min later Angela texts me saying "Mom just caught us, cant talk right now anyways :/ night"

Her mom is really strict so I bet it's gonna be quite the punishment. Except I think they might get away witht he drinking though, not sure.

But one thing that I have been thinking about is that they were drving under the influence. That bothers me that they would do such a stupid thing. I almost wish a cop puilled them over and make them take a breathlaizer test because what they were doing was extremely stupid and I do think they should get full punishment for it. Another thing is there is a pretty big road thats busy all night about a block from her house. So I wouldn't have been suprised if they would have gone on that in a little bit. They were just leaving to go get high though. :/

wow, i cant believe that all happened and i saw it ALL, what are the chances.

[QUOTE=Jom]


Remember, you need money and time to do this, and lots of it. Good luck if you do, but be weary of those two necessities.[/QUOTE]
I would totally rep ++ you if I could... thanks a lot man. Also I was thinking of backpacking etc, moving from job to job temporarily (like a drifter) and just explore since I'm obsessed with exploring, I'm one of thoughs guys that sees a huge majestic mountain and says "I'm so gonna climb it."

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]Ok, sorry I haven't posted in a while but here's a few things.

So last night my two friends slept over and at around 1 in the morning we decided to just go outside and walk around. Well we were walking by Angela's house (ex gf but we're kinda friends now still) I see her moms truck pull out of the driveway with the brights on and zoom past the street kinda sweervy and jerky. My friends and I were wondering what the hell was going on. Well apparently they went in a circle and went back to their house.

Angela, her friend JEnny (she hates me for STUID reasons now), Ali, and some random black kid in the drivers seat all got out. I walk up to angela and ask what's going on. She acts like I'm going to turn her into the cops or something and in general is like a bitch to me or something.

She said they all snuck out and that they were all really tipsy. So then I just walk away and they get into her moms car (none of them are old enough to drive) and have the brights on shining onto her house being REALLY loud. Well as I'm going around thje corner I see her mom walk outside and catch them. The black guy just starts jogging away but I couldn't see what else went on. About 10 min later Angela texts me saying "Mom just caught us, cant talk right now anyways :/ night"

Her mom is really strict so I bet it's gonna be quite the punishment. Except I think they might get away witht he drinking though, not sure.

But one thing that I have been thinking about is that they were drving under the influence. That bothers me that they would do such a stupid thing. I almost wish a cop puilled them over and make them take a breathlaizer test because what they were doing was extremely stupid and I do think they should get full punishment for it. Another thing is there is a pretty big road thats busy all night about a block from her house. So I wouldn't have been suprised if they would have gone on that in a little bit. They were just leaving to go get high though. :/

wow, i cant believe that all happened and i saw it ALL, what are the chances.[/QUOTE]

SHe sounds irresponsible and immature. If you arent old enough to realise you shouldnt drink and get behind the wheel of a car than you shouldnt be drinking. Its as[size=1]s[/size]holes like your girlfriend that makes everyone so godda[size=1]mn[/size] unbearable sometimes. She needs to smarten the fu[size=1]ck[/size] up.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]SHe sounds irresponsible and immature. If you arent old enough to realise you shouldnt drink and get behind the wheel of a car than you shouldnt be drinking. Its as[size=1]s[/size]holes like your girlfriend that makes everyone so godda[size=1]mn[/size] unbearable sometimes. She needs to smarten the fu[size=1]ck[/size] up.[/QUOTE]

and you know what the worst part is?

all she got was a small slap on the wrist. Her mother is such a devout christian that all she did was force her to read 2 verses out of the bible about grace and she assumed they learned their lesson

*rollzeyes*

My problem from last night in case it got missed:

Could someone please concur with me as to whether I'm wasting my time or not:

I've been going out with my girl for about 4 months. I see her on average one day a week for a couple of hours. This is for a number of reasons. Mostly because shes in about 3 hockey teams and her mum is mental and doesnt want her seeing me. And when I do see her its usually at a hockey match or when we're with alot of other friends, ie we have very little alone time.

We're not having sex, I know its not all about that but lets be honest, its helps a lot more if you are. Theres no chance of having sex, shes a staunch christian and wont do so before marriage. However shes absolutely taken with me, I'm showered with compliments all the time, and I treat her good of course.

Shes a nice girl and all but I'm sure theres alot of nice girls out there. Am I wasting my time waiting for these precious hours once a week?



[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]How old are you?[/QUOTE]

17.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]and you know what the worst part is?

all she got was a small slap on the wrist. Her mother is such a devout christian that all she did was force her to read 2 verses out of the bible about grace and she assumed they learned their lesson

*rollzeyes*[/QUOTE]

Well thats why no one learns a thing these days. Like sh[size=1]it[/size] you can get away with ANYTHING these days.

Like, i realise people make mistakes but your ex doesnt seem mature enough to learn from it. Just wait until she flattens out her moms truck against a cement wall, then she'll learn.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Well thats why no one learns a thing these days. Like sh[size=1]it[/size] you can get away with ANYTHING these days.

Like, i realise people make mistakes but your ex doesnt seem mature enough to learn from it. Just wait until she flattens out her moms truck against a cement wall, then she'll learn.[/QUOTE]

i totally agree, i mean i'm not against her in anyway or anything but she needs to learn to consequences from what she does

i was really hoping for a cop to pull them over

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]My problem from last night in case it got missed:

Could someone please concur with me as to whether I'm wasting my time or not:

I've been going out with my girl for about 4 months. I see her on average one day a week for a couple of hours. This is for a number of reasons. Mostly because shes in about 3 hockey teams and her mum is mental and doesnt want her seeing me. And when I do see her its usually at a hockey match or when we're with alot of other friends, ie we have very little alone time.

We're not having sex, I know its not all about that but lets be honest, its helps a lot more if you are. Theres no chance of having sex, shes a staunch christian and wont do so before marriage. However shes absolutely taken with me, I'm showered with compliments all the time, and I treat her good of course.

Shes a nice girl and all but I'm sure theres alot of nice girls out there. Am I wasting my time waiting for these precious hours once a week?





17.[/QUOTE]

Im not sure it depends on what you are looking for within the relationship. It sounds more to me like a friendship than anything. Im not saying you haev to haev sex in order for it to be a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, but it doesnt seem like the two of you are necessarily progressing as "unified bond" I guess you could say.

Within your relationship, if you want something casual and not serious, then I think this is the place for you. If you want something more intimate and structured then I think you need to jump ship man.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]i totally agree, i mean i'm not against her in anyway or anything but she needs to learn to consequences from what she does

i was really hoping for a cop to pull them over[/QUOTE]

If people dont get consequences they arent going to learn. Few can learn from mere past experiences without action, most cant.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Im not sure it depends on what you are looking for within the relationship. It sounds more to me like a friendship than anything. Im not saying you haev to haev sex in order for it to be a boyfriend/girlfriend thing, but it doesnt seem like the two of you are necessarily progressing as "unified bond" I guess you could say.

Within your relationship, if you want something casual and not serious, then I think this is the place for you. If you want something more intimate and structured then I think you need to jump ship man.[/QUOTE]

Thanks to Nicole for handling the problems here today. You rock baby; I've been busy cleaning house.

"unified bond" is the best phrase I've heard all year. :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Thanks to Nicole for handling the problems here today. You rock baby; I've been busy cleaning house.

"unified bond" is the best phrase I've heard all year. :)[/QUOTE]

Well I thought it was about time I headed in here to see if I could help some of my e-buds out.

I was trying to think of a phrase that wouldnt sound too cliche or teeny-bopper like. Im glad I was successful, thanks love :)

My gf keeps trying to get me to say that I love her and I dont wana say it unless i rally mean it, so Im getting scared that shes gonna say it and i wont know what to say back. Any advice anyone?

[QUOTE=funluvinhobo]My gf keeps trying to get me to say that I love her and I dont wana say it unless i rally mean it, so Im getting scared that shes gonna say it and i wont know what to say back. Any advice anyone?[/QUOTE]

I think you know what the answer is going to be, my friend. Explain that you dont want to say it yet until you feel more comfortable, certain, whatever.

If you are too shy or hesitant to explain your own feelings to someone, you shouldnt be saying it anyway.

If you explain it to her and she understands it could mean growth within your relationship. If she doesnt, it could be the starting signs of a sinking boat.

Its good that you dont say it just because you feel you have to. Congrats.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]I think you know what the answer is going to be, my friend. Explain that you dont want to say it yet until you feel more comfortable, certain, whatever.

If you are too shy or hesitant to explain your own feelings to someone, you shouldnt be saying it anyway.

If you explain it to her and she understands it could mean growth within your relationship. If she doesnt, it could be the starting signs of a sinking boat.

Its good that you dont say it just because you feel you have to. Congrats.[/QUOTE]


Well she hasnt actually said tell me you love me, just kinda hinting at it and yeah if she does I will explain it to her, she prolly wont like it but like yaknow if she likes me enough or whtever shell understand.

[QUOTE=funluvinhobo]Well she hasnt actually said tell me you love me, just kinda hinting at it and yeah if she does I will explain it to her, she prolly wont like it but like yaknow if she likes me enough or whtever shell understand.[/QUOTE]

Exactly. To be honest I admire you for being one of the few people left who actually think about saying it beforehand. I mean, its very rare that you are going to be with someone for a few weeks and be in love with them.

People say it without thinking and it means nothing, which is a shame to be honest.

I really, truely feel with all my heart that I love my boyfriend more than anything. If everyone in the world could feel how I feel, I dont think there would be one sad person around ever. /sap

[QUOTE=funluvinhobo]My gf keeps trying to get me to say that I love her and I dont wana say it unless i rally mean it, so Im getting scared that shes gonna say it and i wont know what to say back. Any advice anyone?[/QUOTE]

If you don't want to say it back; if she says it first, simply smile and say "thank you."

Exactly. To be honest I admire you for being one of the few people left who actually think about saying it beforehand. I mean, its very rare that you are going to be with someone for a few weeks and be in love with them.
[quote=purplefeet]
People say it without thinking and it means nothing, which is a shame to be honest.

I really, truely feel with all my heart that I love my boyfriend more than anything. If everyone in the world could feel how I feel, I dont think there would be one sad person around ever. /sap[/quote]

Yeah I think its too big a feeling to just be thrown around. Im 17 and Ive been with her for 3 months its goin good and all but I just dont think the word love should come into it just yet.

[quote=Chaindrive]If you don't want to say it back; if she says it first, simply smile and say "thank you."[/quote]

But I can just picture a really dissapointed look on her face or something and I dont want that :/

[QUOTE=funluvinhobo]Exactly. To be honest I admire you for being one of the few people left who actually think about saying it beforehand. I mean, its very rare that you are going to be with someone for a few weeks and be in love with them.


Yeah I think its too big a feeling to just be thrown around. Im 17 and Ive been with her for 3 months its goin good and all but I just dont think the word love should come into it just yet.



But I can just picture a really dissapointed look on her face or something and I dont want that :/[/QUOTE]

You cant lie to her though.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]You cant lie to her though.[/QUOTE]

123.

And, saying thank you is a perfectly gracious gesture. It shows you appreciate her feelings.

Also, it's a good way to make her stop and think.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]You cant lie to her though.[/QUOTE]

yeah so ill prolly just say what i really feel. shes on the phone to me now. i wonder what shed think if she knew i was discussing our relationship on an internet forum?

She'd probably freak out.

id say so yeah

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]She'd probably freak out.[/QUOTE]
She more than likely would.

yes, yes she would. But then again I wouldnt want her discussing our relationship with poele on an internet forum, oh what a hypocrite I am.

So there's this girl. And she is mad, actually to quote her specifically, she is "pissed" at me, because she insists that I talk to her friend more than her. And now, its pissing me off, because who gives a fu[size="2"]ck[/size]. I don't like people, I don't talk to anyone, but someone she knows exactly who I talk to and exactly how long our conversations are. She likes me, because she told me, and now, apparently, because of this, I have to talk to her more than her friends. In the words of my pothead friend: "People are so fu[size="2"]ck[/size]in retarded".

That's an already obsessive girl.
If she's this way already, then you multiply that x10 and that's how the relationship will be, if you chose to start one.

My advice, if you were thinking about it, don't.

[QUOTE=Tillius]That's an already obsessive girl.
If she's this way already, then you multiply that x10 and that's how the relationship will be, if you chose to start one.

My advice, if you were thinking about it, don't.[/QUOTE]
I have no desire to date this woman. I think now she has realized that she doesn't have to be my center of attention 24/7 just because she likes me.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]If you don't want to say it back; if she says it first, simply smile and say "thank you."[/QUOTE]

Or, don't say anything at all. A smile + hug works just as well.

[quote]Exactly. To be honest I admire you for being one of the few people left who actually think about saying it beforehand. I mean, its very rare that you are going to be with someone for a few weeks and be in love with them.[/quote]

Agreed with this 100%. I've never told a girl that I loved her at any stretch. But then again, I get a kick out of a couple that says they love each other and then something goes wrong and it turns to "I hate you!"

Hahaha.

EDIT: just saw this:

[quote=AtomShip]I would totally rep ++ you if I could... thanks a lot man. Also I was thinking of backpacking etc, moving from job to job temporarily (like a drifter) and just explore since I'm obsessed with exploring, I'm one of thoughs guys that sees a huge majestic mountain and says "I'm so gonna climb it."[/quote]

Someone I used to talk to had this fling with a guy who was basically how you described: he traveled all over the world, but to do community service (he was an electrician, so he worked for groups like Habitat For Humanity... he doesn't work for a single company, he just kind of drifts from organization to organization... wherever life lands him, really).

He was basically a free spirit and a vagabond. The girl pressed him to be in a relationship but he was very against that because he said it was too 'conventional' and that he is 'anything but conventional.' Too bad for her, too, because she fell hard for the guy.

Anyway I don't think that there was much of a point in my story in response to what you said, but I'm glad that I said something helpful for you earlier. I could never be that adventurous in exploring the unknown... I mean, I love physical activity, but I could never just go to a different continent and climb a mountain just to say I did it, haha.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]My problem from last night in case it got missed:

Could someone please concur with me as to whether I'm wasting my time or not:

I've been going out with my girl for about 4 months. I see her on average one day a week for a couple of hours. This is for a number of reasons. Mostly because shes in about 3 hockey teams and her mum is mental and doesnt want her seeing me. And when I do see her its usually at a hockey match or when we're with alot of other friends, ie we have very little alone time.

We're not having sex, I know its not all about that but lets be honest, its helps a lot more if you are. Theres no chance of having sex, shes a staunch christian and wont do so before marriage. However shes absolutely taken with me, I'm showered with compliments all the time, and I treat her good of course.

Shes a nice girl and all but I'm sure theres alot of nice girls out there. Am I wasting my time waiting for these precious hours once a week?





17.[/QUOTE]
If you really like her, keep with it and you'll find away to make it work. But by the sounds of it... you're having doubts anyway. Maybe the nicest thing to do would be to break it off before either of you get in too deep.

yeah i have one ****ed up situation.

right my gf is moving to cyprus in under 3 weeks. we are both in love and we are basically been ripped apart. im seriously considering moving over there now because ive never been this happy ever and i want to give it a real go. weve been going out 2 months and we get on like a house on fire. I know moving over there is a real bug step but i want your opinions on this?