[QUOTE=Illmatic]God I hope that's not the case.

I've also explained myself a million times, too...argh.[/QUOTE]

Well, if this is the first time that she is having trust issues, don't take it too seriously. It could just be a passing insecurity.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]My girl is driving me crazy too. Why do girls insist on talking on the phone for so long, and get mad when you don't want to?[/QUOTE]

MY girlfriend is ALWAYS CALLING ME!!! And I NEVER have anything new to talk about!!

argh. She says she "just likes to hear my voice" which is sweet, but there's still the problem of having not that much to say that I didn't say when she called yesterday.

[QUOTE=EddieVanHalen769]I'd say more depressing. It's not really about n00bs though, but just about people not knowing all there is to know about metal.[/QUOTE]
So ignorance instead of stupidity? Lame.

Night.

[QUOTE=Cain]MY girlfriend is ALWAYS CALLING ME!!! And I NEVER have anything new to talk about!!

argh. She says she "just likes to hear my voice" which is sweet, but there's still the problem of having not that much to say that I didn't say when she called yesterday.[/QUOTE]
Get a more exciting life? :p

[QUOTE=Cain]MY girlfriend is ALWAYS CALLING ME!!! And I NEVER have anything new to talk about!!

argh. She says she "just likes to hear my voice" which is sweet, but there's still the problem of having not that much to say that I didn't say when she called yesterday.[/QUOTE]

Yea I really hate it. I just dislike being on the phone, and don't want to have small-talk for hours. Is that so wrong?

[QUOTE=zeppelinfan2k3]Get a more exciting life? :p[/QUOTE]

Exciting life ? home. Sorry. She just doesn't understand. I sit on my *** and play guitar while she goes a million places with her friends and her family. I am not so blessed whenever I go home. :-/ Then she calls me up and I know the conversation is basically over but will nevertheless continue for another hour of "ums" when she says "So what's up" for the third time. :p

I hate being on the phone. I love Clapton. God of War is cool.

[QUOTE=Cain]Exciting life ? home. Sorry. She just doesn't understand. I sit on my *** and play guitar while she goes a million places with her friends and her family. I am not so blessed whenever I go home. :-/ Then she calls me up and I know the conversation is basically over but will nevertheless continue for another hour of "ums" when she says "So what's up" for the third time. :p[/QUOTE]
My life is the reverse of yours.

Why can't phone convos just be replaced with hot sex?

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Well, if this is the first time that she is having trust issues, don't take it too seriously. It could just be a passing insecurity.[/QUOTE]

She had some doubts the first time this thing came up, but other than that, in about six months, nothing else.

[QUOTE=Cain]I know the conversation is basically over but will nevertheless continue for another hour of "ums" when she says "So what's up" for the third time.[/QUOTE]

I've had that happen to me before...

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Yea I really hate it. I just dislike being on the phone, and don't want to have small-talk for hours. Is that so wrong?[/QUOTE]

'Tis not. Comes with the territory of a relationship I suppose. It's much easier to talk to my girlfriend in person. I can flirt over the phone, but that's kind of pointless when you've already got her. :-/ 'Cause when you're with your girlfriend, that whole other dimension is added...kissing, touching, fondling...all that good stuff that you don't get by talking on the phone.

Plus she has a thing for cooing at me over the phone. That just drives me nuts. I'm like "If you're that crazy over me, wait until I can make good of it in person, dammit!!!"

Plus she is just a bad person to talk to on the phone. She'll split away from talking to me to talking to someone actually in her area constantly and at the drop of a hat. Most of the time the thing she talks to instead of me is her cat. It's a frustrating experience, talking to my girlfriend on the phone.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]Why can't phone convos just be replaced with hot sex?[/QUOTE]

They should be.

[QUOTE=Cain]
Plus she is just a bad person to talk to on the phone. She'll split away from talking to me to talking to someone actually in her area constantly and at the drop of a hat. Most of the time the thing she talks to instead of me is her cat. It's a frustrating experience, talking to my girlfriend on the phone.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

I'm glad my girlfriend isn't like that.

[QUOTE=Illmatic]:lol:

I'm glad my girlfriend isn't like that.[/QUOTE]

Can I have her?

lolzjk

I love my girlfriend, but she's something I just can't be satisfied with when I'm far away from her. Talking doesn't do it. Seeing her and talking to her does.

That should be a good thing, right? But I still just can't tell her that I'm not in a talking mood.

I wouldn't be too worried, Ray. Chicks worry like that sometimes.

[QUOTE=Cain]Can I have her?

lolzjk

I love my girlfriend, but she's something I just can't be satisfied with when I'm far away from her. Talking doesn't do it. Seeing her and talking to her does.

That should be a good thing, right? But I still just can't tell her that I'm not in a talking mood.[/QUOTE]

I'm the exact same way. When we are together in person, everything is fine, but when we are apart for long periods of time it sucks.

[QUOTE=ArrestThisMan]I wouldn't be too worried, Ray. Chicks worry like that sometimes.[/QUOTE]

I'm not worried, just annoyed. I've explained myself so many times to her.

[QUOTE=Cain]Talking doesn't do it. Seeing her and talking to her does. [/QUOTE]

Why don't you tell her that?

[QUOTE=Illmatic]
Why don't you tell her that?[/QUOTE]

The bitchiness factor is what comes into play here. In the name of self-preservation, it seems best to avoid saying anything that sounds remotely like "I don't want to talk to you right now."

So.......the basic problem is that I'm whipped. Oh well. What the hell. Sex is fun. I don't like being deprived of it and having it replaced by a fuming girlfriend.

[QUOTE=Cain]The bitchiness factor is what comes into play here. In the name of self-preservation, it seems best to avoid saying anything that sounds remotely like "I don't want to talk to you right now."

So.......the basic problem is that I'm whipped. Oh well. What the hell. Sex is fun. I don't like being deprived of it and having it replaced by a fuming girlfriend.[/QUOTE]

Eh, the girls I've said it to don't take it that way.

/is content having no female companion

/or male one either jerks

You guys should just take the easy way out and not have a girlfriend.


/lame :upset:

[QUOTE=zeppelinfan2k3]/is content having no female companion

/or male one either jerks[/QUOTE]

You're never content, though.

[QUOTE=zeppelinfan2k3]/is content having no female companion

/or male one either jerks[/QUOTE]

So, two in one? :naughty:

[QUOTE=magicbus]You guys should just take the easy way out and not have a girlfriend.


/lame :upset:[/QUOTE]

It's easier but less satisfying. Just like most things that are easy.

[QUOTE=magicbus]You guys should just take the easy way out and not have a girlfriend.


/lame :upset:[/QUOTE]

Putting up with minor annoyances is worth having a girlfriend.

[QUOTE=madeyadams]lol ur ghey lol[/QUOTE]

I just realized I haven't said hello to you yet or acknowledged your presence in this thread.

^ So here it is. :)

While we are whining about significant others....

So there's the girlfriend. Then there's the other girl. The other girl is hotter and we probably talk more and have more fun together. The other girl also just got dumped by her boyfriend. She still doesn't know he was cheating on her. I know because I saw pictures and heard about it weeks before they split. Should I tell her so that she has to go into depression and be not ready for a boyfriend for a while in hopes my girlfriend and I will break up so I don't have to tell her "I'm dumping your good friend's ex girlfriend" or something else. I really, really want this girl. There would be no question except that girlfriend has yet to actually give me sex (which seems shallow but it's a big thing for me because I'm naturally really physical) and the other girl has discovered that she really likes sex but because she doesn't have anyone to get it from right now, is an easy target (I know that sounds scummy).

In other words, I don't want your advice. I just wanted to post my emo story.

[QUOTE=Dancin' Man]While we are whining about significant others....

So there's the girlfriend. Then there's the other girl. The other girl is hotter and we probably talk more and have more fun together. The other girl also just got dumped by her boyfriend. She still doesn't know he was cheating on her. I know because I saw pictures and heard about it weeks before they split. Should I tell her so that she has to go into depression and be not ready for a boyfriend for a while in hopes my girlfriend and I will break up so I don't have to tell her "I'm dumping your good friend's ex girlfriend" or something else. I really, really want this girl. There would be no question except that girlfriend has yet to actually give me sex (which seems shallow but it's a big thing for me because I'm naturally really physical) and the other girl has discovered that she really likes sex but because she doesn't have anyone to get it from right now, is an easy target (I know that sounds scummy).

In other words, I don't want your advice. I just wanted to post my emo story.[/QUOTE]
Is your avatar moving faster than usual?

[QUOTE=Illmatic]You're never content, though.[/QUOTE]
I have brief moments.

[QUOTE=Dancin' Man]While we are whining about significant others....

So there's the girlfriend. Then there's the other girl. The other girl is hotter and we probably talk more and have more fun together. The other girl also just got dumped by her boyfriend. She still doesn't know he was cheating on her. I know because I saw pictures and heard about it weeks before they split. Should I tell her so that she has to go into depression and be not ready for a boyfriend for a while in hopes my girlfriend and I will break up so I don't have to tell her "I'm dumping your good friend's ex girlfriend" or something else. I really, really want this girl. There would be no question except that girlfriend has yet to actually give me sex (which seems shallow but it's a big thing for me because I'm naturally really physical) and the other girl has discovered that she really likes sex but because she doesn't have anyone to get it from right now, is an easy target (I know that sounds scummy).

In other words, I don't want your advice. I just wanted to post my emo story.[/QUOTE]

Ouch.

[QUOTE=Vince]I have brief moments.[/QUOTE]

oic