Oh, well that really blows. But, there's not much you can do about it, focus on the fact that you graduated college. Now you get to start a new life, and make new friends. =\

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Oh, well that really blows. But, there's not much you can do about it, focus on the fact that you graduated college. Now you get to start a new life, and make new friends. =\[/QUOTE]
No, I'm a junior in the fall. I have two years of this and have to make new friends because being friends with my ex will prevent me from having any other significant other (we've been sleeping together--she's not here, though). I have to find a summer job that will probably be terrible and home makes me miserable. Huzzah. Now it's time to up the meds.

For some reason i have trouble keeping a conversation with my girlfriend. This has happened in my last 2 relationships, and one of them dumped me because of this. i have no problem talking to them when before we start going out, but like soon after i find myself one the phone sitting there in silence not knowing what to say...whats wrong with me?

[QUOTE=meizmatt] i have no problem talking to them when before we start going out, but like soon after i find myself one the phone sitting there in silence not knowing what to say...whats wrong with me?[/QUOTE]


You suck.

[QUOTE=Tiger]You suck.[/QUOTE]
oh...thanks...i always wanted someone to waste my time....

[QUOTE=meizmatt]oh...thanks...i always wanted someone to waste my time....[/QUOTE]


Thats probably whats going through your girlfriends mind right now.

[QUOTE=Tiger]You suck.[/QUOTE]
You could at least try. =\

meizmatt: That happens to alot of people. Just start making conversatino about stupid things. Simple stuff like how her day went and stuff. You probably just suck at conversation. I do too, just ask dumb questions, and never let silences drag on too long.

**** off...i didnt come here for you to be a dick to me, i kinda came for help...

[QUOTE=meizmatt]**** off...i didnt come here for you to be a dick to me, i kinda came for help...[/QUOTE]
Just ignore him, he does it to everyone, and the more you fight back, the harder he'll press on.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]You could at least try. =\[/QUOTE]


I know, todays one of those off days.

[QUOTE=meizmatt]For some reason i have trouble keeping a conversation with my girlfriend. This has happened in my last 2 relationships, and one of them dumped me because of this. i have no problem talking to them when before we start going out, but like soon after i find myself one the phone sitting there in silence not knowing what to say...whats wrong with me?[/QUOTE]

problem: you're on the phone.

how'd you get looped into that one? i'm a girl and i can't keep up conversations on the phone with my boyfriend. they're awkward. possibly because we're both awful at talking on the phone (plus he mumbles and i talk to other people in the room and switch between conversations)

point: don't talk on the phone as much. there's no point, and then you'll have more to say in person - which is a better way to tell things anyway

(or are you in a long distance-relationship?)

this is just a minor thing, i just want some opinions on what to do.

my school had a leavers ball a few days ago, and i met this girl. she was flirting with me like hell, so after a dip in the pool at the afterparty i go to find her to see if she wants to go somewhere more quiet. so i find her, pinning this guy to the wall, apparently its her boyfriend! i laughed a bit. did i get played or what?

i know i could pull her if we met again. what do i do?

pull her to spite her for playin the field?
pull her becuase shes hot and fun?
dont pull her because it would f[COLOR="LemonChiffon"]u[/COLOR]ck up her relationship?

if her boyfriend can kick your *** dont do anything...if not...go for it

I'd leave her alone if she has a boyfriend. If she comes back up to you, I'd probably go ahead and do whatever with her, but don't go out of your way to pull her. It looks like a waste of time, and you don't want to screw up anything for her, even though she shouldn't be flirting with you in the first place. =\

[QUOTE=madhatter70]this is just a minor thing, i just want some opinions on what to do.

my school had a leavers ball a few days ago, and i met this girl. she was flirting with me like hell, so after a dip in the pool at the afterparty i go to find her to see if she wants to go somewhere more quiet. so i find her, pinning this guy to the wall, apparently its her boyfriend! i laughed a bit. did i get played or what?

i know i could pull her if we met again. what do i do?

pull her to spite her for playin the field?
pull her becuase shes hot and fun?
dont pull her because it would f[COLOR="LemonChiffon"]u[/COLOR]ck up her relationship?[/QUOTE]

that's a ridiculous amount of confidence. do you do this a lot with the women? i highly doubt you would break up her relationship

That's not rediculous at all. Getting girls isn't exactly complicated, especially if you know the girl already has some sort of attraction to you.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]I'd leave her alone if she has a boyfriend. If she comes back up to you, I'd probably go ahead and do whatever with her, but don't go out of your way to pull her. It looks like a waste of time, and you don't want to screw up anything for her, even though she shouldn't be flirting with you in the first place. =\[/QUOTE]

thats the thing, this is the first time ive felt someone actually deserves being hurt. i sure didnt feel great about myself when i saw her being groped by some guy i order my drinks off in my lunchbreaks.

[QUOTE=Luster]that's a ridiculous amount of confidence. do you do this a lot with the women? i highly doubt you would break up her relationship[/QUOTE]

nah, im not that kind of guy. im more into romance, being gentlemanly etc. than the whole treat-em-rough one-night-stand thing. she has a reputation for being obscenely flirty, so i gather. i should have made this clear.

and of course im not 100% sure i could pull her, but i dont think it would be difficult, considering her willingness to get both myself and herself mightily drunk.

[QUOTE=madhatter70]
and of course im not 100% sure i could pull her, but i dont think it would be difficult, considering her willingness to get both myself and herself mightily drunk.[/QUOTE]


Come on man. Go **** yourself.

don't make me dredge up the threads of you and your girlfriend, tiger. ;)

[QUOTE=madhatter70]don't make me dredge up the threads of you and your girlfriend, tiger. ;)[/QUOTE]


My current one...? There arent any.



I dont think there are too many cases of me taking advantage of a drunken female on MX.

EDIT: If there are, please find them, cause this I gotta see!

sorry, i havent been around for a few years, im kinda out of date. i shouldnt go making comments like that. >_>

anyway, read what i said.

[QUOTE=madhatter70]and of course im not 100% sure i could pull her, but i dont think it would be difficult, considering her willingness to get both myself and herself mightily drunk.[/QUOTE]

im hardly taking advantage if im wasted out of my mind too. :chug:

either way, i definately didnt think enough about that post.

[QUOTE=madhatter70]thats the thing, this is the first time ive felt someone actually deserves being hurt. i sure didnt feel great about myself when i saw her being groped by some guy i order my drinks off in my lunchbreaks.[/QUOTE]
Well then, you're just being an a[SIZE="2"]s[/SIZE]s. Don't bother with her.

alright, cheers for the honesty. :thumb:

We had an assembly at school today... and like two periods beforehand Katie told me to wait for her outside of the gym because she wanted to talk about something important... anyhow I waited for her outside the gym, and missed a chance to sit by some good friends, and ended up talking to this kid who's in my history class... anyway she came up to me and expected me to break off the conversation right that second, and when I didn't she got kinda annoyed and didn't talk to me at all, and then proceded to ask an aide if she could go to the library during the assembly and left. I don't understand what the big deal over one damn sentence was, and I really want to know what she wanted to talk to me about, but I don't want to aggravate her anymore than I obvioulsy have...

bleh

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]We had an assembly at school today... and like two periods beforehand Katie told me to wait for her outside of the gym because she wanted to talk about something important... anyhow I waited for her outside the gym, and missed a chance to sit by some good friends, and ended up talking to this kid who's in my history class... anyway she came up to me and expected me to break off the conversation right that second, and when I didn't she got kinda annoyed and didn't talk to me at all, and then proceded to ask an aide if she could go to the library during the assembly and left. I don't understand what the big deal over one damn sentence was, and I really want to know what she wanted to talk to me about, but I don't want to aggravate her anymore than I obvioulsy have...

bleh[/QUOTE]

Dude tahat basically sux. Ive been in the same boat before. Sacrifice my time and some dang good times to wait for someone. At least she showed up and didnt completely blow you off... been there... Give her a day and then talk to her. She cant be too pissed off at you. She'll come around.

Meh, I guess.

She WANTED YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION.

And just think of how you'll be tied to that response should a relationship progress.

Too bad for her; she needs to get a grip on reality.

I wanna see if there's anything I can do to help my friend.

Wynston, who I consider my best friend, is having her best friend Emily move away to California this summer. And I lvoe Emily too, she's one of my closest friends. But once she moves, I'm scared for how Wynston is gonna react. I don't know how she'll be able to handle it. She's already been feeling kinda crappy with her relationships lately, and having her best friend move away is jsut going to make matters extremely worse.

Is there anything special I can do to comfort Wynston, once Emily moves? I'm willing to do all I can to try and help her get through this. Once Emily is gone, I'm basically the next clsoest friend to Wynston, so I figured I should try and take action with this. As I consider her my best friend(who I care about more than anyone in this world), seeing her get depressed is going to make me feel the same as well.

Soooo, anything I can do guys?

Nothing. People move away. It's life.

Sorry to sound harsh here, but Wynston needs to experience what happens in life. It's part of the learning process, unfortunately.

Buy her a box of tissues and give her my number.