[QUOTE=Retard Sars]If you want it to work, it's worth a shot, even if you think it might not last. It's not like you [B]don't[/B] want it to work, is it? Then that would make you a bad man :p[/QUOTE]
Well, I mean, I would have no complaints if it worked out, but, I mean, I don't really know. I mean, I've had at least SOME feelings for Erica for awhile now, but I really started to like Pam, and in a way, this is just to get me to stop thinking about her.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Well, I mean, I would have no complaints if it worked out, but, I mean, I don't really know. I mean, I've had at least SOME feelings for Erica for awhile now, but I really started to like Pam, and in a way, this is just to get me to stop thinking about her.[/QUOTE]

Right, so basically you have to choose one or the other, no?

Just got to weigh it up

[QUOTE=comm]Ok here it goes ....

3 years ago my girlfriends mom died after being hit by a car.
She has kinda gotten over it but defininetly not completely. I have been dating her for around 2 months now and her moms birthday came and went, and she went all depressed like. Well, tomorrow is Mothers Day, and she is already pretty upset about it. Should I try to cheer her up and take her mind off of it, or is that not possible and should I just kinda play it cool and let her sulk for a day?

By letting her sulk Im not talking about ignoring her, Im talking about like not going to the movies or something and just let her stay home.[/QUOTE]

You don't have to do something with her, however it probably would be really good if you spent the day with her.

....

On to my problems.

I think Katie's avoiding me after our conversation on Thursday night :-/

Can someone please give me some advice here? I want to know if anyone else would be mad/hurt about this, or if I'm being a pussy.


My girlfriend told me she was grounded and wasn't aloud to leave, or talk on the phone. Later, I found out she got high by herself because her mom was at work, and then went to Fry's. When she was there, these 3 kids we know came up and I dont know how it went down but she ended up hanging out with them the rest of the afternoon. When she got home, she called her best friend Ariel to tell her the story. I was really hurt, because she's not supposed to be talking to anyone, but she goes and hangs out with these other guys(even though she didnt plan it out, she just ran into them) and then when she gets home she calls Ariel but not me. I calle dher, and I was like "I thought you were grounded?" And she explained that her mom wasn't home and she ran into those guys, she didnt plan it out. But then I was like, "How come you called Ariel and not me?" And she goes, "I was going to but I didnt want it to show up on the caller ID or anything" and I go "But you called ariel." Then she says "yeah maybe I had a problem." So I asked what the problem was, and she told me it was because she hasn't talked to Ariel in a while. But thats a whole other story. What should I do? I'm really hurt that she would rather get stoned and **** than talk to me. Advice please?

She probably just went out and fooled around with them a bit while high, I wouldnt worry about it.

Oh, and she has little respect for you.

[QUOTE=Tiger]She probably just went out and fooled around with them a bit while high, I wouldnt worry about it.

Oh, and she has little respect for you.[/QUOTE]

Why do you say she has little respect for me?

This sucks so bad. I don't even know if I trust her, but I love her. I dont know what to do. I'm always worried about her cheating on me, but I cant break up with her.

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Why do you say she has little respect for me?
[/QUOTE]


Um...everything she did showed very little respect towards you, her 'boyfriend'. She ditched you, only to get high and hang out with a bunch of other guys, then doesnt tell you about it. It also sounds like there is something else going on...she's just got you wrapped around her finger aparently. Have fun with that.

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Why do you say she has little respect for me?

This sucks so bad. I don't even know if I trust her, but I love her. I dont know what to do. I'm always worried about her cheating on me, but I cant break up with her.[/QUOTE]
If you have to worry about her cheating, and can't trust her, then you NEED to break up with her, because either you just have a really self-concious feeling to the point that you can't be trusting, or she has done something that makes you feel like you can't trust her.

Either way, the relationship needs to be ended.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Um...everything she did showed very little respect towards you, her 'boyfriend'. She ditched you, only to get high and hang out with a bunch of other guys, then doesnt tell you about it. It also sounds like there is something else going on...she's just got you wrapped around her finger aparently. Have fun with that.[/QUOTE]

I am wrapped around her finger. Its ****ing bull****. SHes mean to me too. God, I am a slightly confuzzled sea lion. So what should I do?

[QUOTE=Tillius]If you have to worry about her cheating, and can't trust her, then you NEED to break up with her, because either you just have a really self-concious feeling to the point that you can't be trusting, or she has done something that makes you feel like you can't trust her.

Either way, the relationship needs to be ended.[/QUOTE]

She cheated on 2 of her other boyfriends, but everyone keeps saying she wont do it to me, because she loves me. think thats bull**** too?

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]I am wrapped around her finger. Its ****ing bull****. SHes mean to me too. God, I am a slightly confuzzled sea lion. So what should I do?[/QUOTE]


Id assume let her stay in control, let the good times roll. You probably cant do any better anyway, so let her just have fun with you. And a few other guys, probably.

I dunno, I cant really think of what the right thing to do in this situation would be. :confused:

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]She cheated on 2 of her other boyfriends, but everyone keeps saying she wont do it to me, because she loves me. think thats bull**** too?[/QUOTE]
She doesn't love you. Just by the things you've told us you can tell that she doesn't love you.

And, you say that she's "mean" to you, yet you're still wrapped around her finger.
Dude, she may as well have a collar and leash for you, because you've become her bitch.

End this relationship.

My ex was on my caller ID. Should I call her back? I sort of want to, but I know I probably shouldn't.

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]My ex was on my caller ID. Should I call her back? I sort of want to, but I know I probably shouldn't.[/QUOTE]
How long ago did she call?

I havent seen my gf in 3 weeks :(

[QUOTE=Tillius]How long ago did she call?[/QUOTE]
Last night, but I didn't get to check it until now. I got off work, and almost immediately went to sleep yesterday, and didn't wake up until it was time for work today.

EDIT: Oh, a few days ago we had some words through Myspace. She says she misses me and I told here there was nothing I could do about it. She said she may call me sometime this week, and I was like 'whatever'. This was probably last Sunday. I didn't actually think she would call.

Well, I think it's been long enough of a wait.

Why don't you give her a call?

I'm really happy that me and my ex-girlfriend are bestfriends now. A lot of sh[size="2"]i[/size]t happened and we still managed to come out as friends.

Because she'll probably try to make me take her back. I miss her too, but I don't want her back, and I don't want to be in a long distance thing again. Talking to her would probably make me a bit sad. But not calling her back will drive me nuts, because I'm obsessive compulsive. =\

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]I havent seen my gf in 3 weeks :([/QUOTE]


Like, have you notified the authorities or...?



[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Talking to her would probably make me a bit sad. [/QUOTE]

Aww :'(

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]
But not calling her back will drive me nuts, because I'm obsessive compulsive. =\[/QUOTE]


Awwwww :'(

Damien, weigh out which would hurt you more.

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]Damien, weigh out which would hurt you more.[/QUOTE]
Well one way, I'd be a little down for the night, but I'd be fine by morning. The other, I'd just obsess over why she called. I do that, I get obsessed with the slightest details about something, no matter how small or stupid it is. Sometimes it's something as stupid as losing something. I lost a CD once and searched for it all day long, and trashed my room to find it, and it ended up being in my car. hhaa

I'll probaly call her, I'd get over that quicker.

Glad to see you've made up your mind man, good luck.

No answer. :-\

Hmm...

This girl and i have been good friends since we were kids. And I've always kind of had a thing for her... and i want to hang out with her and all, but she has a boyfriend.

God... listen to me, i'm such a bitch.

[QUOTE=Weezerfan_returns]

God... listen to me, i'm such a bitch.[/QUOTE]

Dont worry, I'm my girlfriends bitch.

[QUOTE=Weezerfan_returns]This girl and i have been good friends since we were kids. And I've always kind of had a thing for her... and i want to hang out with her and all, but she has a boyfriend.

God... listen to me, i'm such a bitch.[/QUOTE]

You can still hang out with her if she has a boyfriend. She's your friend, ask her to hang out sometime.

I just need to vent, especially considering what I have to vent about. Today was graduation for at least half of my close friends here (probably my only close friends left are my ex and a potential future girlfriend). I've had to close up being an RA and now I'm left here in an empty door, tearing down things from the year, and wasn't able to see any of them for more than a minute as I gave them a hug after they walked the stage. I had to run back to work and now I'm feeling pretty lonely and emo. Bah. I shouldn't say emo. It just hasn't caught up to me like it had with them. Haha, and Me First and the Gimme Gimmes are playing "I Am Rock." Awesome.

I won't see many of them for a long time, maybe never. It just sucks saying goodbye and not being able to take some time to do it. ****.

Why can't you seem them outside school?

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]Why can't you seem them outside school?[/QUOTE]
Because this is college and I'm from New York, going to school in Ohio. None of my friends live any closer than a nine-hour drive, and with them all being seniors they're not going to have unlimited internet access for even stupid IMs. Or time in general, since they're going to have to pay bills and whatnot. It's lame.