[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Poor you. And why would her getting back together with him make her sad?[/QUOTE]

Because girls never learn. They go out with complete jerks and then they get hurt and they get back together and get hurt again or they break up and she just goes out with another jerk who'll just hurt her the same. It's so dumb.

[QUOTE=YouGottaBeCrazy]Because girls never learn. They go out with complete jerks and then they get hurt and they get back together and get hurt again or they break up and she just goes out with another jerk who'll just hurt her the same. It's so dumb.[/QUOTE]

sadly, it's kinda true sometimes

So, my Valentine's Day has been happy. =)

I think we're done being mad at each other. It's probably too early to really tell though. At least we're happy for the moment.

YO, sup thred

K, so

1) I'm baisically over her now, that was really fast, but what it is, is that my mood in the morning sets my mood for the day, an dive been listening to happy music, so yeah.
2) I jump at a chance to go out with her still though.
3) valentines day was good, not for romantic reasons, it just was a rather funny day.
4)I have no idea what the deal is with the sad, and the getting back togeter :confused:
5) I wa an idiot, an did I slit my finger by accident. BUt its not profusely bleeding anymore
6) I've just started to download lotsa mew music, but I'm outta CDs to burn it onto :upset:

(the last two were just a "whats up" with me."

[QUOTE=Guns'n'Zeppelin023]YO, sup thred

K, so

1) I'm baisically over her now, that was really fast, but what it is, is that my mood in the morning sets my mood for the day, an dive been listening to happy music, so yeah.
2) I jump at a chance to go out with her still though.
3) valentines day was good, not for romantic reasons, it just was a rather funny day.
4)I have no idea what the deal is with the sad, and the getting back togeter :confused:
5) I wa an idiot, an did I slit my finger by accident. BUt its not profusely bleeding anymore
6) I've just started to download lotsa mew music, but I'm outta CDs to burn it onto :upset:

(the last two were just a "whats up" with me."[/QUOTE]

Good, I'm glad you're feeling better.

[QUOTE=comptonassrobert]Woo hoo for pictures

[url]http://tinypic.com/view/?pic=nq93lu[/url] the lady, at santa cruz
[url]http://tinypic.com/view/?pic=nq917n[/url] meh i tell her she wears too much makeup sometimes, but its rare.

cool.[/QUOTE]

Hawt. You got good taste my friend. :thumb:

i feel like **** today.
was up all night talking to that girl on the phone and shes all sobbing and stuff and then at one stage "can you gimme 2mins" and she starts crying without me knowing but i could hear her on the other end :upset:

i really miss her.
time to act!

Yeah, today was a pretty good valentines day for me. I sent this girl a rose with a message (it was somethng that student council usese to raise money for my doomed junior class). I have some frinds in her 1st period class, and they told me that when she got it she was smiling and giggled a little (the attached message was supposed to be funny) and her freinds were like "Aww....its from Alex". Sounded like things went as planned. :)

[QUOTE=got tool?]Yeah, today was a pretty good valentines day for me. I sent this girl a rose with a message (it was somethng that student council usese to raise money for my doomed junior class). I have some frinds in her 1st period class, and they told me that when she got it she was smiling and giggled a little (the attached message was supposed to be funny) and her freinds were like "Aww....its from Alex". Sounded like things went as planned. :)[/QUOTE]

Congratulations, heh. Sounds like a good day.

Sorry Kimmie, she loved it.

Saw something on the BBC website today that reminded me of that confidence boosting thing someone posted... can't remember who. Well [URL="http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/improving_your_confidence/exercise_index.shtml"]here[/URL] is some more stuff about that.

[QUOTE=ThePinkPanther]Sorry Kimmie, she loved it.[/QUOTE]

That's okay. Mitch gave me my own bear. :)

[QUOTE=Perroquet Magique]Saw something on the BBC website today that reminded me of that confidence boosting thing someone posted... can't remember who. Well [URL="http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/improving_your_confidence/exercise_index.shtml"]here[/URL] is some more stuff about that.[/QUOTE]

Im too lazy to read links, but was it about eye contact, cuase I've been working on that. I think it actually helps, Its hard though, becuase i always instinctivly avoid eye contact.

so angela came over for a few hours today. She said truthfully too that she was sorry. She said she didn't like how she treated me either and that she wants to get back together.

Now, I can tell when someone is being truthful or not (sometimes) and it seemed like it. She brought up the idea of getting back and she said she was truthfully sorry for everything. I'm not going to get involved right away but she said that all through out the relationship with her and mike she realized how much I meant to her.



I told her we'll hang out a few more times but the ooption is definitly there. And that we'll just have to be a little more open to communication. Because our first time we stopped being friends basically. I mean, even I noticed that but before I could do anything about it we broke up

/thoughts?comment?

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]so angela came over for a few hours today. She said truthfully too that she was sorry. She said she didn't like how she treated me either and that she wants to get back together.

Now, I can tell when someone is being truthful or not (sometimes) and it seemed like it. She brought up the idea of getting back and she said she was truthfully sorry for everything. I'm not going to get involved right away but she said that all through out the relationship with her and mike she realized how much I meant to her.

I told her we'll hang out a few more times but the ooption is definitly there.

/thoughts?comment?[/QUOTE]

I like your cautious take on it. Go slow.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]so angela came over for a few hours today. She said truthfully too that she was sorry. She said she didn't like how she treated me either and that she wants to get back together.

Now, I can tell when someone is being truthful or not (sometimes) and it seemed like it. She brought up the idea of getting back and she said she was truthfully sorry for everything. I'm not going to get involved right away but she said that all through out the relationship with her and mike she realized how much I meant to her.

I told her we'll hang out a few more times but the ooption is definitly there. And that we'll just have to be a little more open to communication. Because our first time we stopped being friends basically. I mean, even I noticed that but before I could do anything about it we broke up

/thoughts?comment?[/QUOTE]

I answered your first post...

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I answered your first post...[/QUOTE]

haha yeah sorry.. I wanted to add in a few parts but instead of edit i hit quote :P

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]haha yeah sorry.. I wanted to add in a few parts but instead of edit i hit quote :P[/QUOTE]

I was very confused there for a minute. :p

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I was very confused there for a minute. :p[/QUOTE]

haha naaah i posted it twice for [b]EMPHASIS[/b]

YAY.

Kimmie, he did suprise me.

James called me about 12:30 and asked if he could come over and hang out durring his lunch break. I said it would be great if he came. A few minutes later, he comes over, and he has one of those pink gift bags, and it was pretty big, and he gave me a kiss and handed me the bag. I walked him to the couch and we sat, and I pulled his gift off the coffee table and gave it to him.
We are both geeks, and we both play video games, so i bought him Final Fantasy 1+2 for Gamboy Advance. and he bought me a kick a[i]s[/i]s wireless controler for my Xbox.
He told me his boss let him off work early, so from 1 until 4, we played video games and did other stuff. :naughty:
I had to force him to leave, though. He had school, and I didnt want him to ditch again just to hang out with me.


so yeah, my day has been pretty damn good.

Chaindrive, have I told the story of the one girl I used to love, but now completely hate? I don't know if I mentioned her name, but it was Tiffany.

Happy V-Day all!!!

So yea. Typical day. I got such a sugar high cuz everyone was giving me candy (big shocker there ha!) and yea. Decent day though. Nothing major. Anyone have anything worthwhile happen or some good/funny stories?

Well, first V-Day with Sarah, over with.

Hello L&R Thread:

I come to you today to ask for your help. You see, over the months that i've been at college (Sept - Feb), my social confidence has shot through the roof. however, my sexual confidence (asking girls out, basically) has packed its bags, changed its identity and started a new life in poland. i sit here a broken man, i'm so torn inside. I do feel like this piece of confidence has taken something away from my character. i have tried the usual self motivation pushes (i was gonna give this girl a rose for valentine friday at college, as a thank you for just being there as a good friend). three seconds before the big test (i had the damn thing in my hand) and i bottled. I walked away, having just failed myself and everything i stand for (My life thesis is 'f[COLOR="Black"]uc[/COLOR]k it, why not?!?'). I'm distraught, and in essence, i've come here to ask for advice on how i can basically reclaim myself and at the same time aid my quest to get the guts to grab a girlfriend. i really need help, and any will be appreciated. thanks.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Happy V-Day all!!!

So yea. Typical day. I got such a sugar high cuz everyone was giving me candy (big shocker there ha!) and yea. Decent day though. Nothing major. Anyone have anything worthwhile happen or some good/funny stories?[/QUOTE]


Hey dude

sounds like u had a good time today

my day was alright

but it really sucked cuz i couldnt see my gf

How are you Jay?

[QUOTE=Linkinbassist]Hello L&R Thread:

I come to you today to ask for your help. You see, over the months that i've been at college (Sept - Feb), my social confidence has shot through the roof. however, my sexual confidence (asking girls out, basically) has packed its bags, changed its identity and started a new life in poland. i sit here a broken man, i'm so torn inside. I do feel like this piece of confidence has taken something away from my character. i have tried the usual self motivation pushes (i was gonna give this girl a rose for valentine friday at college, as a thank you for just being there as a good friend). three seconds before the big test (i had the damn thing in my hand) and i bottled. I walked away, having just failed myself and everything i stand for (My life thesis is 'f[COLOR="Black"]uc[/COLOR]k it, why not?!?'). I'm distraught, and in essence, i've come here to ask for advice on how i can basically reclaim myself and at the same time aid my quest to get the guts to grab a girlfriend. i really need help, and any will be appreciated. thanks.[/QUOTE]
Okay. What you need to do is, when thinking of asking a girl out, just think of all that can come from her saying yes. There's loads of stuff that can come from her saying yes. First of all, you have a girlfriend, you get to see her all the time. You get a girl you can kiss and all that good stuff. If you're a big sex person, then you get a girl you can have sex with a lot. Loads of good stuff. And then, you think about the fact that there is only one bad thing that comes out of her saying now, and, that is simply the fact that she said no. Life goes on, and there are more girls out there.

[QUOTE=Destined_for]Hey dude

sounds like u had a good time today

my day was alright

but it really sucked cuz i couldnt see my gf

How are you Jay?[/QUOTE]

It was an ok day. So you are still with your gf I see. That's good. How's all that working out?

I am doing alright. I have been couseling a couple friends about their "love life problems" I guess you could call them. Starting to feel like Dr. Phil but oh well.

[QUOTE=Ibasslikethis!]YAY.

Kimmie, he did suprise me.

James called me about 12:30 and asked if he could come over and hang out durring his lunch break. I said it would be great if he came. A few minutes later, he comes over, and he has one of those pink gift bags, and it was pretty big, and he gave me a kiss and handed me the bag. I walked him to the couch and we sat, and I pulled his gift off the coffee table and gave it to him.
We are both geeks, and we both play video games, so i bought him Final Fantasy 1+2 for Gamboy Advance. and he bought me a kick a[i]s[/i]s wireless controler for my Xbox.
He told me his boss let him off work early, so from 1 until 4, we played video games and did other stuff. :naughty:
I had to force him to leave, though. He had school, and I didnt want him to ditch again just to hang out with me.


so yeah, my day has been pretty damn good.[/QUOTE]

Didn't I tell you I thought he had plans for you two?!?

:)

You did good by making him go to school and not ditch again; I'm proud of you.

Sound like you had a great time today, though. I'm so glad.

[QUOTE=Baliente]Chaindrive, have I told the story of the one girl I used to love, but now completely hate? I don't know if I mentioned her name, but it was Tiffany.[/QUOTE]

What's that story? And, I'm Kimmie, by the way. :)

[QUOTE=pohl_56]It was an ok day. So you are still with your gf I see. That's good. How's all that working out?

I am doing alright. I have been couseling a couple friends about their "love life problems" I guess you could call them. Starting to feel like Dr. Phil but oh well.[/QUOTE]


lol my mom loves dr. phil

ah actually im with another girl now

that other relationship died. it wasnt worth it. bad stuff.

im with this emo/punk girl now

i have known her for a while, and we always liked each other we just never did anything

my friends all have love life problems

thats why my friends group broke up.