[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Oh, man. I read what you posted the first time and...well...friendship is a funny thing sometimes. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.[/QUOTE]
Well we would always fight and make up alot, I also realized after I stopped talking to her that she kinda "substituted" this other guy in for me, and treated him like me, she even told him she missed talkin to me. Well I need to bring myself above all this crap and come out on top, showing I've grown up a bit might encourage her to do the same.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Yes, I still talk/yell/dis him. Right at the moment he's trolling me on our local message board. I'm making fun of him. :p

ATOMICSHIP: What do you mean, a hard fall out?[/QUOTE]

Haha, well at least it's not a painful/hurtful thing on your side, keep up the good work :thumb:

here we go...

i met this girl 3 months ago through a friend of mine and her looks are amazing. she reminds me of a younger kate beckinsale from underworld or something, but that's just a bonus. she's extremely nice, we have similar tastes, etc. and she actually likes metal o.O

so the "drama" begins here... she met a guy that she supposedly likes and he likes her a month or so ago. he crashes his motor bike and goes into a coma for a few days but has to remain in the hospital for quite sometime. while he's in the hospital i hang out with "her" and a few of our friends about 4-5 times up until he is able to return home(last week).

during those 4-5 times we all hang out she is really flirty, she always plays with my hair for example. the second to last time we hang out we went swimming at our friends pool and she showed me her boobs, when we were in the backseat of my friends car she was always wanting to take a picture of the both of us and she would randomly smile/wave and give me hugs. and when i was lying in my friends bed to rest she comes over and lies ontop of me...

the last time we hung out we walked around the beach and went to a pier. while we were in subway she rests her head on my shoulder for a picture and starts "grinding" against me. when we walk to the end of the pier we are sitting over the edge she wants to point something out to me, but isntead of just pointing with her hand she puts her face next to mine and after lays her head in my lap. etc. etc. i never make it seem like i want her to touch me nor do i say things like "come here, give me a hug."

plus, the sad thing is. the friends of the guy that was in a coma hit on her like crazy, while i don't or i try not to because i know it would be totally messed up to do so.

i'm quite sure phsyical contact = she likes me, but yea. coming out of a coma and finding the girl you like with someone else would be horrible. and i can't exactly push her off because i'm starting to like her.

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]here we go...

i met this girl 3 months ago through a friend of mine and her looks are amazing. she reminds me of a younger kate beckinsale from underworld or something, but that's just a bonus. she's extremely nice, we have similar tastes, etc. and she actually likes metal o.O

so the "drama" begins here... she met a guy that she supposedly likes and he likes her a month or so ago. he crashes his motor bike and goes into a coma for a few days but has to remain in the hospital for quite sometime. while he's in the hospital i hang out with "her" and a few of our friends about 4-5 times up until he is able to return home(last week).

during those 4-5 times we all hang out she is really flirty, she always plays with my hair for example. the second to last time we hang out we went swimming at our friends pool and she showed me her boobs, when we were in the backseat of my friends car she was always wanting to take a picture of the both of us and she would randomly smile/wave and give me hugs. and when i was lying in my friends bed to rest she comes over and lies ontop of me...

the last time we hung out we walked around the beach and went to a pier. while we were in subway she rests her head on my shoulder for a picture and starts "grinding" against me. when we walk to the end of the pier we are sitting over the edge she wants to point something out to me, but isntead of just pointing with her hand she puts her face next to mine and after lays her head in my lap. etc. etc. i never make it seem like i want her to touch me nor do i say things like "come here, give me a hug."

plus, the sad thing is. the friends of the guy that was in a coma hit on her like crazy, while i don't or i try not to because i know it would be totally messed up to do so.

i'm quite sure phsyical contact = she likes me, but yea. coming out of a coma and finding the girl you like with someone else would be horrible. and i can't exactly push her off because i'm starting to like her.[/QUOTE]

Was the guy who is in a coma in a relationship with this girl prior to his accident? Or does she still have feelings for him? Has she visited him in hospital or anything like that?

If not i see no reason why you should stop yourself from reciprocating the feelings which she seems to be throwing at you, him liking her alone can not stop you from going ahead with a relationship, heh, it doesn't really work like that aye. Anywho i think you should go for it, unless they had a relationship, or she is showing obvious signs that she still has feelings for him.

Good luck. :)

she has visited him in the hospital numerous times and they were supposedly going out. i'm not really sure, although i don't think they are.

also my friend said it's possible for her to like me and him, but it's just awkward if that was so.

but it's quite obvious she has some feelings for me eh?

thats a s[COLOR="Black"]hit[/COLOR]ter of a situation. i say, although it may be hard, leave it and see what happens. this kinda happened to me with a chick i know, except her bf was off on holiday for a month. she started hitting on me, told me she didnt like her bf anymore, and me being me, i went for it. once her bf came back, she completely blanked me.

to be harsh, shes probably just bored. but keep close by. if shes as hot as you say and has that much interest in you, if she breaks up with him you wanna be the first to know :naughty:

/first half-useful post in l+r

It could be physical attraction and overall need for love/physical interaction with a male.

Nonetheless, there was nothing really "serious" in the guys relationship, why do you bother? If he's not your friend, I think it's fair game. If only you were making a move on her and she was just "no, stop" then you could worry, because she's not going for it. But if she goes for it, and yuo're willing to take it, what's the problem?

I do warn you that she [I]might[/I] go back to the guy after the whole recovery thing goes on, so you should look for the aftermath and how things develop after he's out of the hospital for a couple weeks.

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]she has visited him in the hospital numerous times and they were supposedly going out. i'm not really sure, although i don't think they are.

also my friend said it's possible for her to like me and him, but it's just awkward if that was so.

but it's quite obvious she has some feelings for me eh?[/QUOTE]

Yes, quite obvious, i still think that her behaviour towards you indicates that, despite this other guy. And yeah, i agree with tojes, if shes acting like this, fair game. See how things are once this other guy is out of hospital if you are concerned about the seriousness of the relationship, if she is still the same once hes back then it is, quite obvious she likes you :p , good luck again.

I say bang her and break it off.

[QUOTE=beeyotch]I say run away - far and fast!

But I guess of course that depends on what kinda relationship you are wanting from her. She seems like a sleazebag to me. Gettin up on other guys when he's in the hospital in a coma is pretty low. That's assuming they were dating. But even if she were just leading him on, still makes her seem like a bitch in my book. -If she did it to him, she'd do it to you, too.[/QUOTE]
oh my god



um if you do decide to go for it now don't do a complete 180 with your behavior because that would creep her out most likely. i mean you say you haven't been hitting on her like all the other guys and you haven't initiated any of the flirting. cool. just make it seem it seem like she's slowly winning you over a little bit i guess.

the guy was already out of the hospital when all the stuff on the pier and subway occured, so...

i'm just gonna wait it out and see if she continues to flirt with me i'll just take it one step at a time and i won't "hit on her". i like her a lot but i don't think enough to want a serious relationship with her or at least not yet.

o damn bro, that is a hotty.


I would say you are playing hard to get. Its either a conscious or sub-conscious thing. Considering the circumstances, I would say you are clearly in the right. Maybe shes not a manogamous type of person. I really dont know.

As far as getting intimate with her, or taking it to the next level, you are really gonna have to ask yourself how important this other guy is to you. Obviously, if he was that important to her, you wouldnt exactly have seen her boobs, or flirted nearly as much.

Im sure the "laid up boyfriend from a wreck" isn't exactly a desireable position to be in, in respects to the ladies wanting you. If you are worried, I would mention your feelings flat out to her. Something in regard to what she thinks of that other guy, then you, and so on

i want to tell her, but i know it's gonna get really awkward and possible end our friendship.

not to mention her close friends are my friends as well. i think i am subconsciously playing hard to get now that you mentioned it, maybe that's why she's hitting on me much more i suppose.

i think thats the easiest explanation. She probably feels that other boy is off her list, so shes looking at other prospective males. Since you are playing hard to get (possibly unintensional) it seems like shes into that, and is going the extra distance

i would assume if you did nothing, it would persist, and if not, get worse. I mean, she showed you her bubbies, whats next :lol:

you are right though, confronting could possibly end it, depending on how you broach the subject.

If i were in that position, i would pretend that the question never existed in my head, but i would be coy. Like instead of coming out and asking her what you want to know, I might invite her somewhere just off the cuff. If it doesnt seem pre-planned, then shes likely to go for it.

so get the both of us alone and see what happens?

yeah just create a situation where something can "just happen"

definatley don't have some "serious talk" where you find out where you both stand

that would pretty much ruin it by killing all the tension and excitement. right now shes really not sure how you feel about her and you should keep it that way.

Exactly

/points to side of nose

but like i said, i wouldnt just COME OUT and say you want to be alone with her. I would think a movie would be too forward. I would take her to a coffee shop, or some place for lunch. Just the two of you ya know. I wouldnt necessarily change your actions either, just your game plan.

It seems to me, that your foot, leg, and part of your torso are already through the door. It would just take that NUDGE till you probably get to seal the deal (:naughty:)

sure, i sound like a male prick right about there, but come on, she showed her bubbies. There hasnt been a single girl that showed me her bubbies that didnt want to sleep with me, or vice versa. Thats a pretty safe bet IMO

well...

i'm going over to our friends house with her and another friend of ours to play Halo 2 so maybe something will happen. we'll probably end up alone in the room since we are the only two that enjoy playing it.

we love playing Halo 2, haha.

[QUOTE=I Am a Hat]yeah just create a situation where something can "just happen"

definatley don't have some "serious talk" where you find out where you both stand

that would pretty much ruin it by killing all the tension and excitement. right now shes really not sure how you feel about her and you should keep it that way.[/QUOTE]



im with this guy. Whatever you are doing, you are winning. Your car is basically on the last lap man. guide her through to the finish line, and you should be sipping some bubbly in the "hot" seat :naughty:

lol.

i don't want to do her :(

i have been so close to kissing her, i think i may just go for it if i'm offered the oppurtunity.

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]i don't want to do her :(
[/QUOTE]

:confused:

sexual actions ruined my last relationships.

cool just make sure you keep the frame that [I]she's[/I] trying to get [I]you[/I].


basically just don't start chasing her and being a chode. the way you've been acting so far has worked so keep doing it



edit:to your last post, what do you mean?

[QUOTE=guitarfreakguy101]sexual actions ruined my last relationships.[/QUOTE]

How?

i was partially joking. I personally like to wait for a while anyway.


Regardless, I find it better to think less, and just act in those situations myself.

This rain isnt helping my sad day go bye... :(

I'm sorry.

Why Atomship, what's the matter? :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]How?[/QUOTE]

because the relationships turned into booty calls and had no substance.

[QUOTE=AtomShip]This rain isnt helping my sad day go bye... :([/QUOTE]
It's there to wash away your sorrows.

Yeah, that's it.:thumb:

/double post

So...yeah...uh...me and Pam...uh....had sex.

Thought I'd see what you'd have to say about this, Kimmie.

[QUOTE=Tillius]/double post

So...yeah...uh...me and Pam...uh....had sex.

Thought I'd see what you'd have to say about this, Kimmie.[/QUOTE]

o_O

Yup.

So, how do you feel about it?

I don't know.
I mean, we're still not together, and it's not like something that I planned on happening. It just.......happened.

How does she feel about it?

Different.

So, what now?

Don't know.

We're talking on yahoo right now though.
If anybody else wants to know, then I'll just let THEM talk to me about it.

Would you consider teenage love the same as adult love? (btw none of this post is my personal opinion, just throwing the question out). Lots of people say "oh its just puppywuuuvv" and that teenagers dont really know what it is and just throw the word around.