[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]What did you do about it?[/QUOTE]

well, i wasn't very well in with her, is was a three week camp, and she had one girl who she really clung to, but i was sorta friends with both. Me and my friend, another guy, were both like you, thinking, "wow, stop being stupid, eat", but we were more sensitive to her. she would go like two days w/o eating, then eat a peice of lettuce, ad freak out, it was really bad. Mostly, we tried beingr eally nice, and practically begging her to eat. By the third week, she had probably eating the equivalent of like, 2 meals, and we were worried, so me and my friend went to the campus(it was at a college) store, and bought the most protien/carb rich things we could find, which, our RA, who runs ALOT, told us is peanut butter and a bagel. so we bought it, and she diddnt want to eat it, but then she started to get really cold, when its was 90+ degress out, then later she started shaking and getting real pale, and finnaly agreed to eat them, but EVEN THEN, she had to go the the bathroom, because she was like, ashamed to eat.


as for your girl, i recomend, since you flirt with her, compliment her alot, make her feel real skinny and pretty, then offer her a little something, and either start to offer her more, or if she refuses keep trying, but stay sensitive to her.

I have no idea what to say about eating disorders. They kinda freak me out.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I have no idea what to say about eating disorders. They kinda freak me out.[/QUOTE]
"Seek professional help."

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]"Seek professional help."[/QUOTE]

Thing is, I've never known anyone (I don't think) with one, so that whole thing lies outside of my experience.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Thing is, I've never known anyone (I don't think) with one, so that whole thing lies outside of my experience.[/QUOTE]
My ex's best friend was bulimic for awhile and I know at least one girl who was anorexic, but wrestlers are the easiest to talk to. They normally don't realize they even have a problem.

What exactly is anorexia?

I don't really understand it, I get bulemia though..

Is there a difference between anorexia and just being really underweight?

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]What exactly is anorexia?

I don't really understand it, I get bulemia though..

Is there a difference between anorexia and just being really underweight?[/QUOTE]
Starving yourself intentionally. Emaciation accompanies it as well as a loss of period and other wonderful things.

Sorry for getting off-track. This really is supposed to be a serious thread about Love & Relationships.

FU[color=black]CK[/color]! my gfs family are a bunch of head cases. Ok she is a year younger than me and still at school, I left school last year. They for some reason see this as a problem. It took them 3 months for them to work up the manners to invite me round to meet them. Even then her mother didnt say two words to me all night, she went off to her room. Her dad was ok though. Apparently when you leave school your future goes out the window and your priorities change (meaning I only want to have sex with her). So every time I see her she needs to make up some excuse.

This weekend her folks are away so her older sister is babysitting and she STILL isnt allowed to see me. Cos her sister doesnt want to get in trouble with her parents. Can this woman not keep her mouth shut or something. Fu[color=black]c[/color]kin christians and their wierd fuc[color=black]k[/color]in ideas.

What should I do? I like this girl and we've been gojng out for like 4 months but only see eachother a few hours a week. I REALLY wanna slash her mums tyres but that might make things worse :p.

[QUOTE=BrownSugar]FU[color=black]CK[/color]! my gfs family are a bunch of head cases. Ok she is a year younger than me and still at school, I left school last year. They for some reason see this as a problem. It took them 3 months for them to work up the manners to invite me round to meet them. Even then her mother didnt say two words to me all night, she went off to her room. Her dad was ok though. Apparently when you leave school your future goes out the window and your priorities change (meaning I only want to have sex with her). So every time I see her she needs to make up some excuse.

This weekend her folks are away so her older sister is babysitting and she STILL isnt allowed to see me. Cos her sister doesnt want to get in trouble with her parents. Can this woman not keep her mouth shut or something. Fu[color=black]c[/color]kin christians and their wierd fuc[color=black]k[/color]in ideas.

What should I do? I like this girl and we've been gojng out for like 4 months but only see eachother a few hours a week. I REALLY wanna slash her mums tyres but that might make things worse :p.[/QUOTE]
Have you had sex with her? coz if you have, she may hav told her mum and she may want to slash [I]your[/I] tyres. Why dont you do something to prove you are responsible and are doing something with ur life.

I dont usually post my L&R things on here but here goes:
I've liked this chick for a while now, we always flirt and we hang out after skool. Shes a year older than me but she looks like the same age as me. So anyway i was talking to her on the phone the other night and she was really hypo and her mum yelled @ her to get off the phone so she did n she sent me a message saying "I need to tell you something"

So i 4got about that message until yesterday on the bus (she lives around the corner from me), so i ask her about it, n she says d/w i might tell you later. so we were talking yesterday arvo, n i finally got it out of her that the thing was that she liked me.

So I told her i liked her to, after she got all embarrassed about telling me, n then we say we dunno wats gonna happen coz we dont wanna ruin our friendship coz we hav so much fun. and now we wait.

Oh nah she doesnt go very far so theres no danger of havin sex with her. Her Dad finds me ok, we had this big chat about why Ive left school and my plans with life and sh[color=black]i[/color]t. Its just her Mum that thinks I'm a bum.

And I say go for it man. Unless youve been friends since you were kids or something I reckon you should. If your pretty good friends with her now youll both have a great time going out with eachother. I was like that with one of my gfs, had the best times for about 6 months til we got tired of it and went seperate ways. We're still really good friends though.

[QUOTE=dazmo]I dont usually post my L&R things on here but here goes:
I've liked this chick for a while now, we always flirt and we hang out after skool. Shes a year older than me but she looks like the same age as me. So anyway i was talking to her on the phone the other night and she was really hypo and her mum yelled @ her to get off the phone so she did n she sent me a message saying "I need to tell you something"

So i 4got about that message until yesterday on the bus (she lives around the corner from me), so i ask her about it, n she says d/w i might tell you later. so we were talking yesterday arvo, n i finally got it out of her that the thing was that she liked me.

So I told her i liked her to, after she got all embarrassed about telling me, n then we say we dunno wats gonna happen coz we dont wanna ruin our friendship coz we hav so much fun. and now we wait.[/QUOTE]
Okay.
What you need to do is convince her that the two of you getting together won't ruin the friendship. But don't lie to her, convince yourself too.
If the two of you are good enough friends, and the relationship is a good one for however long it lasts, then the friendship shouldn't be affected in the long run.
I say you ask her out, and see how things go.

.... whered the "you spam, jom smash :smash:" go?


:(

[QUOTE=The Fonz].... whered the "you spam, jom smash :smash:" go?


:([/QUOTE]
It went with Jom when he left. :(

[QUOTE=Tillius]It went with Jom when he left. :([/QUOTE]



[SIZE="5"]Whoaaaaaaaaaaaa, what?[/SIZE]

When'd this happen, i don't remember this, who where what? but...

:upset::upset::upset:

/cries

Just check up on some of the more recent threads around here.
You'll see.

Yes, it sucks, badly.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Just check up on some of the more recent threads around here.
You'll see.

Yes, it sucks, badly.[/QUOTE]


awww mannnn :(

p.s, did you ever find out what 30,000 is?


edit- either way, here it is.

there were more, like how he knocked up his GF and stuff.

[url]http://www.sputnikmusic.com/forums/showthread.php?p=12192236#post12192236[/url]

That thread will give you some insight as to Jom's leaving.

30,000 is a joke because some user awhile ago wanted to record 30,000 cds of his music.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive][url]http://www.sputnikmusic.com/forums/showthread.php?p=12192236#post12192236[/url]

That thread will give you some insight as to Jom's leaving.

30,000 is a joke because some user awhile ago wanted to record 30,000 cds of his music.[/QUOTE]


Kimmie wats ur AIM?

Aha, thanks to both of ye.

chaindrivekimmie

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]chaindrivekimmie[/QUOTE]


thanks

mines aakonkeetreh123

[quote=Kimmie]
chaindrivekimmie[/quote]
/adds

I'm not on unless someone requests it because it's my least favorite of the IM programs.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I'm not on unless someone requests it because it's my least favorite of the IM programs.[/QUOTE]


Wanna talk on there?

Also try the program trillian, you can be on all the messengers at once.

I know about trillian but I don't have that many contacts. So it probably wouldn't improve my IMing experience.

I prefer Yahoo to anything else.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]I know about trillian but I don't have that many contacts. So it probably wouldn't improve my IMing experience.

I prefer Yahoo to anything else.[/QUOTE]


Wanna talk on yahoo?

Mine is [email]theorcs2000@yahoo.com[/email]

I'll add you.

[QUOTE=The Fonz]as for your girl, i recomend, since you flirt with her, compliment her alot, make her feel real skinny and pretty, then offer her a little something, and either start to offer her more, or if she refuses keep trying, but stay sensitive to her.[/QUOTE]
I do all that, and I never really noticed her not eating or anything. She didn't come out and tell me she was bulimic. She said she was sick, and I asked why. She said she makes herself sick, because she's not pretty enough. We haven't gone out to eat or anything, so I haven't had a chance to offer her food. I guess all I can do is make her feel like she's pretty enough, 'cause she really is. =\

[QUOTE=Fire Whispers]What exactly is anorexia?

I don't really understand it, I get bulemia though..

Is there a difference between anorexia and just being really underweight?[/QUOTE]
I'm not too sure. I think bulimia is when the person purposely pukes and goes on binge dieting, while anorexia is where the person just refuses to eat.

And what do I do about the annoying girl?

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]I do all that, and I never really noticed her not eating or anything. She didn't come out and tell me she was bulimic. She said she was sick, and I asked why. She said she makes herself sick, because she's not pretty enough. We haven't gone out to eat or anything, so I haven't had a chance to offer her food. I guess all I can do is make her feel like she's pretty enough, 'cause she really is. =\[/QUOTE]

Working with eating disorders is very tricky. You can't negotiate with people like that. If you compliment them, they just keep doing it. They think it's working, or they think you're lying. If you try to bribe them, they resent you.

The first step is to act normal. Don't treat her differently because of her eating disorder. You still need to convince her to seek counceling. There's a reason professional therapists spend 6 or 7 years of education before getting their license to practice.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]The first step is to act normal. Don't treat her differently because of her eating disorder. You still need to convince her to seek counceling. There's a reason professional therapists spend 6 or 7 years of education before getting their license to practice.[/QUOTE]

Quoted for truth.

Eating disorders can be and usually are very complex problems that go deeper than just the fact that the person feels they are too fat or too skinny. Your best bet is to gain her trust and help her by getting her to seek counseling. If you try to aid her yourself you may unknowingly make it worse.