[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Broke their necks or some such, didn't he? It's all right, I'm safe because I'm not a prostitute.[/QUOTE]I think so. He lived three blocks from my high school. And our middle school had a cannibal. Albert Fentress. But I wasn't born in the city, so it's okay. I think.

But yeah, if I do manage a road trip at some point and I don't piss you off by then and you're still affliated with here, can I have a couch? Or a driveway?

Okay, heres another pointless blabber from purplefeet.

I feel ackward, and I dont know if its justified or anything. I guess this whole rant will be based on my own insecurities and nothing more.

Anyway, my boyfriend just started a new job. As a window washer..something temporary as he is trying to get into trades right now.

Well, he had his interview and it turns out his boss is this 18yr old chick (my age). And he is working with her + a couple of other chicks everyday. Now, its not that he works with chicks is what bothers me, I have mostly guy friends myself so I cant really analyze him or that situation at all.

What kind of makes me feel iffy is that he told me that she looked disappointed when he mentioned the fact that he had a gf. Which 1) makes me feel good that he mentioned me. 2) makes me feel werid because I dont like the fact that someone may want in his pantaloons..well at least I dont like knowing about it, lol. (As this totally sounds like grade 7).

I guess because they spend like 8-14 hours a day together, she drives him around to the job places (where I feel inferior as I still dont have my license) and bought him dinner the other day.

I think this is strictly me reading too much into the situation and (due to past experieces) I just feel uincomfortbale. Which, mind you, I have not expressed to him in any fashion as that will only make him feel werid as well.

Im not a jealous person, and this whole feeling of insecurity is kind of new to me. So, Im just goign to suck it up for the next couple of months until it passes.

Deep down, I know I have nothing to sweat about (as I know he cares for me greatly). I just needed to bitch and whine for a minute and do the whole "woe is me" thing.

LOL, i feel a tad better already.

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]I think so. He lived three blocks from my high school. And our middle school had a cannibal. Albert Fentress. But I wasn't born in the city, so it's okay. I think.

But yeah, if I do manage a road trip at some point and I don't piss you off by then and you're still affliated with here, can I have a couch? Or a driveway?[/QUOTE]

You can actually have a bed (yes, my house is big enough to have a guest bedroom w/bed and computer...ask Tiger).

All you need to do is be nice to my cats and nicer to my dog.

:)

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Okay, heres another pointless blabber from purplefeet.

I feel ackward, and I dont know if its justified or anything. I guess this whole rant will be based on my own insecurities and nothing more.

Anyway, my boyfriend just started a new job. As a window washer..something temporary as he is trying to get into trades right now.

Well, he had his interview and it turns out his boss is this 18yr old chick (my age). And he is working with her + a couple of other chicks everyday. Now, its not that he works with chicks is what bothers me, I have mostly guy friends myself so I cant really analyze him or that situation at all.

What kind of makes me feel iffy is that he told me that she looked disappointed when he mentioned the fact that he had a gf. Which 1) makes me feel good that he mentioned me. 2) makes me feel werid because I dont like the fact that someone may want in his pantaloons..well at least I dont like knowing about it, lol. (As this totally sounds like grade 7).

I guess because they spend like 8-14 hours a day together, she drives him around to the job places (where I feel inferior as I still dont have my license) and bought him dinner the other day.

I think this is strictly me reading too much into the situation and (due to past experieces) I just feel uincomfortbale. Which, mind you, I have not expressed to him in any fashion as that will only make him feel werid as well.

Im not a jealous person, and this whole feeling of insecurity is kind of new to me. So, Im just goign to suck it up for the next couple of months until it passes.

Deep down, I know I have nothing to sweat about (as I know he cares for me greatly). I just needed to bitch and whine for a minute and do the whole "woe is me" thing.

LOL, i feel a tad better already.[/QUOTE]

First off, Nic, what she's doing (driving him around; buying him dinner) is inappropriate. End of story, or as the crazy UKers put it...full stop.

The fact that he's accepting that behavior is inappropriate as well, but you're never gonna get a guy to actually see it that way.

So...suck it up is what you're gonna have to do, but watch it like a hawk. If/when it's gone too far you'll get the gut feeling, and that gut feeling will be correct. Then you need to act on it.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
The fact that he's accepting that behavior is inappropriate as well, but you're never gonna get a guy to actually see it that way.
[/QUOTE]



Well like, Ive been bought dinner and stuff by bosses, its a nice way to break the ice and all.

I dont think that whats going on with her boy is inappropriate, Nic youre overreacting in my not humble at all opinion.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Well like, Ive been bought dinner and stuff by bosses, its a nice way to break the ice and all.

I dont think that whats going on with her boy is inappropriate, Nic youre overreacting in my not humble at all opinion.[/QUOTE]

You be quiet, cub; you're a different breed of cat than these guys.

Most love the attention, you do not. It's different.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You be quiet, cub; you're a different breed of cat than these guys.

Most love the attention, you do not. It's different.[/QUOTE]


Iiiive been known to bask in attention, I soak it up if its from the right person.

LADIES & GENTLEMAN...MEET MY SON.

Who I had older ladies hit on whilst he was here. Yes, older than me.

The only thing stopping them was his mom...me.


But, cub, you don't go there, normally, ever. Because you don't need too and you don't normally want to. You're different.

They wanted me to take my shirt off. :mad:

Ok, this is a weird question, but I need some advice. I've had this girlfriend for a while, and I've recieved oral sex twice, and she's given me a handjob twice. But for some reason, when I masturbate, I can't fantasize about her. I don't know why. I try to fantasize about the **** we've done, no dice. What the hell is up? I'm definitely attracted to her though. Does anyone else have this problem?

[QUOTE=KurtCobain2902]Ok, this is a weird question, but I need some advice. I've had this girlfriend for a while, and I've recieved oral sex twice, and she's given me a handjob twice. But for some reason, when I masturbate, I can't fantasize about her. I don't know why. I try to fantasize about the **** we've done, no dice. What the hell is up? I'm definitely attracted to her though. Does anyone else have this problem?[/QUOTE]


I...I wouldnt say thats a bad thing, perhaps it wasnt particularly good?

Hand jobs, ick!

[QUOTE=Tiger]I...I wouldnt say thats a bad thing, perhaps it wasnt particularly good?

Hand jobs, ick![/QUOTE]

Yeah, they weren't particularly good. She needs more experience, and A LOT of practice, if you know what I mean...:naughty:

So you think thats normal then?

Hmm, I don't remember how I felt when my ex first "performed" in terms of thinking about it afterwards. It took her awhile to become good at it and I know I didn't enjoy it much at first, but as long as you feel the attraction I don't see a problem with it.
[QUOTE=Chaindrive]You can actually have a bed (yes, my house is big enough to have a guest bedroom w/bed and computer...ask Tiger).

All you need to do is be nice to my cats and nicer to my dog.

:)[/QUOTE]
I love animals. I hear dog's good :)

And refl at Tiger's plight.

Ah, great. I went to sleep around 11, just woke up. Since when do you wake up in the middle of the night wide awake? I thought naps were for the daytime.

When is the right time in a relationship to say you 'love' them. For some reason, that scares the s[b]h[/b]it out of me.

[QUOTE=Mellotron]When is the right time in a relationship to say you 'love' them. For some reason, that scares the s[b]h[/b]it out of me.[/QUOTE]


With the person Im with now, it was right after the first kiss because we both 'knew'.

[QUOTE=Tiger]With the person Im with now, it was right after the first kiss because we both 'knew'.[/QUOTE]
lol =|

Well, I've been avoiding Pam lately, so as not to do what I did yesterday.
I kissed her.
Out of nowhere, wasn't really thinking about anything other than wanting to kiss her, so I did.
Then I was like...oh crap.
So I started talking, saying I was sorry, shouldn't have done that and all this...but before I can finish talking....she kisses me back.
Then she says we can talk on Monday.(she's in band, and they're on a cruise until late sunday night)
So, I mean, I still don't know if we're going to go back out right now, but I'm making progress.:)

Well, good for you.

[QUOTE=Tiger]With the person Im with now, it was right after the first kiss because we both 'knew'.[/QUOTE]

Thats probably the most sensitive thing Ive ever seen you say. Ever.

You just do it when it feels right, some longer than others. For me it took 1.5 years of being friends and about 4 months of serious dating til I said those words to the person I am with now.

But you see, as you compare me and Tiggy, everyone is different.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]Thats probably the most sensitive thing Ive ever seen you say. Ever.

You just do it when it feels right, some longer than others. For me it took 1.5 years of being friends and about 4 months of serious dating til I said those words to the person I am with now.

But you see, as you compare me and Tiggy, everyone is different.[/QUOTE]
Yep. If it scares the hell out of you, then it probably isn't time yet.

Ok I have this problem, Im met this girl where I worked, you know we got talking and started hanging around every day, I started to get feelings for her and she was kinda given me signals that she wanted to you know, go out, have sex...but every time I hint to her that I like her she backs down..She goes to my gigs ect..I think the problem might be that we became too good friends and she thinks anymore might ruin what we've got already...But then i love her and have deep feelings for her...I dont know what to do, Im so confused!:confused:

[QUOTE=I_was_god]Ok I have this problem, Im met this girl where I worked, you know we got talking and started hanging around every day, I started to get feelings for her and she was kinda given me signals that she wanted to you know, go out, have sex...but every time I hint to her that I like her she backs down..She goes to my gigs ect..I think the problem might be that we became too good friends and she thinks anymore might ruin what we've got already...But then i love her and have deep feelings for her...I dont know what to do, Im so confused!:confused:[/QUOTE]
You say you hint at it, but have you ever actually TALKED to her aobut it?

Ya I have tried, but she's the kinda girl you cant get a straight answer out of, and she twists it into a different story like gossup or something....

Well, okay.
Hmmm...
Well, I don't know what to say. I don't know if you've asked her out or not. If you haven't, well, you probably should.

I basically have asked her out and she backs down, I.E not replying..but then she'd reply after or something...

Two minor issues that I'm not sure how to handle:

A girl I flirt with/talk to basically just told me she's bulimic. I don't know what to say to her about it. I don't want to degrade her for it, but I have a natural reaction to flame dumb girls.

This other girl was alright at first, but got annoying after a week or so. She calls me all the time, and I just don't answer sometimes. I need to distance myself, but I'm naturally flirty and don't really notice it. I don't want to hurt her feelings or make it seem like a big rejection either. She's clingy. =\

Nobody's really naturally flirty. If you're flirting, it's because you want to flirt. So, if you're trying to distance yourself, you're gonna have to cut that out.

As for the bulemic girl, well, that's just wrong. You should tell her your views on that.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Nobody's really naturally flirty. If you're flirting, it's because you want to flirt. So, if you're trying to distance yourself, you're gonna have to cut that out.

As for the bulemic girl, well, that's just wrong. You should tell her your views on that.[/QUOTE]


I knew an emo/bulemic/bi-polar/anorexic girl. People with those things dont listen, they always see themselves as flawed or w/e. you get a better reaction from a fuc[SIZE="2"]k[/SIZE]ing brick.

its kinda sad. Maybe one day ill post the whole story


(p.s, whats up thread, long time no post. I just got a job, so i'm happy, anything exciting with anyone else?)

[QUOTE=The Fonz]I knew an emo/bulemic/bi-polar/anorexic girl. People with those things dont listen, they always see themselves as flawed or w/e. you get a better reaction from a fuc[SIZE="2"]k[/SIZE]ing brick.[/QUOTE]
What did you do about it?