[QUOTE=Eleventeen]OK, that's good I guess... but how should I explain what happened?[/QUOTE]

Say, "Well, I was going to call you, but decided to have a drink. One drink turned into 9 or 10 and I passed out. Sorry."

[QUOTE=Eleventeen]OK, that's good I guess... but how should I explain what happened?[/QUOTE]


Best to be honest, since you are probably a habitual douchebag and if you just keep lying about things they will build up. If you can just train her to expect you to let her down, it will go much smoother.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Best to be honest, since you are probably a habitual douchebag and if you just keep lying about things they will build up. If you can just train her to expect you to let her down, it will go much smoother.[/QUOTE]

:lol: Brutally honest.

[QUOTE=Tiger]Best to be honest, since you are probably a habitual douchebag and if you just keep lying about things they will build up. If you can just train her to expect you to let her down, it will go much smoother.[/QUOTE]

ouch.

it's only happened twice... :upset:

[QUOTE=Tiger]That talk sounds familiar.[/QUOTE]

Yes it does, my cub.

Hi mum. :)

Thanks for the responses people.

The reason I say it would be hard for me to get the pill without anyone knowing is that I live on a farm by a VERY small town, and I can't drive yet. So I would need to arrange for a doctors appointment to get a prescription for the pill, and it would pretty much be impossible for me to get to a doctor's appointment without my parents knowing, and of course they would want to know why I need an appointment. Also, there's the matter of picking up the pill from the pharmacy, which could be difficult.

Kimmie, may I ask why you think it would have been better to talk to your dad rather than your mom? Just curious. I'd be even more terrified to ask my dad about it.

And also, because of my location, there's no planned parenthood centers or anything around here.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Yes it does, my cub.[/QUOTE]


Me and the missus are doing great by the way, no more stupidness on either side.

[QUOTE=\m/ Wrathchild \m/]Thanks for the responses people.

The reason I say it would be hard for me to get the pill without anyone knowing is that I live on a farm by a VERY small town, and I can't drive yet. So I would need to arrange for a doctors appointment to get a prescription for the pill, and it would pretty much be impossible for me to get to a doctor's appointment without my parents knowing, and of course they would want to know why I need an appointment. Also, there's the matter of picking up the pill from the pharmacy, which could be difficult.

Kimmie, may I ask why you think it would have been better to talk to your dad rather than your mom? Just curious. I'd be even more terrified to ask my dad about it.

And also, because of my location, there's no planned parenthood centers or anything around here.[/QUOTE]

My dad was very liberal when he was alive and never let the thought of "his daughter having sex" influence the way he thought.

Men seem to be much more rational when it comes to daughters getting pregnant than women do.

I didn't need a doctor's appointment to get the Pill way back when.

About your small town...if you're still in high school they will have recommendations as to how to get it.

[quote=Chaindrive]My dad was very liberal when he was alive and never let the thought of "his daughter having sex" influence the way he thought.

Men seem to be much more rational when it comes to daughters getting pregnant than women do.

I didn't need a doctor's appointment to get the Pill way back when.

About your small town...if you're still in high school they will have recommendations as to how to get it.[/quote]
Yeah, I was considering talking to my guidance counselor about it. Also, apparantly some people in school talked to our counselor about having a presentation in the school sometime about safe sex, so if that were to happen, it would be the perfect opportunity to bring the subject up. I don't know when or even if this presentation would be though.

Try to find out more about the presentation...it really is a perfect opportunity.

[QUOTE=\m/ Wrathchild \m/]I'm not entirely sure if this is where I should be posting this, but I don't know where else it would go. I sort of need advice, but I can't bring myself to ask anyone I really know, so I figured I could ask a bunch of random strangers instead.

I've been with my boyfriend for over 7 months now. He just turned 18, and I'm turning 16 in a few days. We're in a long distance relationship and have only really been with eachother a few times since we started going out, but our visits are going to become more frequent now. We both love each other and we want to take our relationship to the next level (sex). We both would much rather use the pill than condoms.
The problem is, there's not really any way for me to get birth control pills without my parents knowing. So I guess the best thing to do would be to talk to my Mom about it. The thought of that scares me to death though. My parents have always thought of me as the "good child". I rarely drink, don't smoke or do drugs, i get good grades, etc. So I think it would come as a pretty big shock to them that I want to become sexually active. So I guess what I'm asking is...how should I approach my Mom about this? Or would it be at all possible for me to get the pills without my parents knowing? I live in a small town though where everyone knows everything about everyone so it would be rather hard to keep it a secret from my parents.
Any help would be appreciated.

Oh also, does anyone happen to know how long you have to be on birth control before it really starts working?[/QUOTE]

I dont know what its like where you live but in England you can go to the doctor on your own and your parents dont have to know.
Do you have any friends on the pill? You could go with them?

The pill will start working as soon as you start taking it but muke sure you take it at the same time every day. And remember the pill cant protect you from std's so you still gotta be carefull.

My mum found out the other day I was on the pill ( I'm also 16 ), I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14, she didnt mind atall.

want anymore advise add me [email]soppy333@msn.com[/email] :)

These threads get way too big way too fast.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]These threads get way too big way too fast.[/QUOTE]

Good morning to you too. :p

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Good morning to you too. :p[/QUOTE]

And a merry good morning to you as well!

I'm on vacation this week, spending some quality time with my daughter.

She's watching Lady and the Tramp for the 5th time in the last 2 days.


OMG I'm off topic spamming in the sacred L&R Thread!

When are you visiting the girl?

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]When are you visiting the girl?[/QUOTE]


Bah!

It aint gonna happen. To hell with long distance nonsense. I can't be bothered.

It just wasn't meant to be. I aint the type to carry on over the web and stuff, so it was just better to end it.

Wow, are you serious? It sounded like she was important.

*gets on plane*

:p

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Wow, are you serious? It sounded like she was important.

*gets on plane*

:p[/QUOTE]


I thought she was. It just wasn't meant to be.

She did some lying, like all internet wenches seem to do. Thats really what killed it.

So be it.

Something strange happened while sleeping with my ex last night. Things have been going fine and she knows we're broken up, so that's not the problem. The strange thing was that I punched her while I was sleeping. Like, instead of sleep walking I physically punched her while I was in REM. I don't know where I punched her, but she woke me up probably twenty minutes after I fell asleep, asking if something was wrong because of it. It's the second time I've done it in two years, too. (We've been broken up for two months and have been sleeping together the past week.) I don't know if I have parasomnia or if it's psychosomatic (I'm not a psych major . . . ), but I'm a douche. I've just been thinking about how it's a message to tell me to stop sleeping with her. She wasn't hurt, but she was understandably annoyed. Yeah, I don't know.

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]I thought she was. It just wasn't meant to be.

She did some lying, like all internet wenches seem to do. Thats really what killed it.

So be it.[/QUOTE]

Christ, it's stupid to lie, even if you're not going to meet them ever.

My problem is I always assume that people on the net are telling the truth. For all I knew Tiger could have been a 90 year old axe murderer.

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Christ, it's stupid to lie, even if you're not going to meet them ever.

My problem is I always assume that people on the net are telling the truth. For all I knew Tiger could have been a 90 year old axe murderer.[/QUOTE]
So if I told you that my name's Kendall Francois and that I've killed eight prostitutes, you wouldn't let me stay on your couch? I guess I shouldn't tell you that then.

Hey there Kimmie.
:wave:

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]
My problem is I always assume that people on the net are telling the truth. For all I knew Tiger could have been a 90 year old axe murderer.[/QUOTE]


Back at you.

I just saw a pic of my ex kissing her new boyfriend and it's gettin' me down. :(

Bah!

[QUOTE=The Profit of Maine]So if I told you that my name's Kendall Francois and that I've killed eight prostitutes, you wouldn't let me stay on your couch? I guess I shouldn't tell you that then.[/QUOTE]

Broke their necks or some such, didn't he? It's all right, I'm safe because I'm not a prostitute.

[quote=Tiger]Back at you.[/quote]

[size=2]S[/size]hit, you got a point there.

[quote=Gregg]Hey there Kimmie.
:wave:[/quote]

Hey you, where you been?

[quote=Damien Rhodes]I just saw a pic of my ex kissing her new boyfriend and it's gettin' me down. :frown:

Bah![/quote]

Don't let it. You've moved on and so has she.

I know. Still can't help it, lol.

It'll take awhile. But it'll get better.

Been like two months or something, I shouldn't care, still makes my stomach churns for some reason, even though I don't want her or anything, lol. I got more pressing issues with a couple of other girls. I'm lovin' that though. ;)

I just posted 'cause I happened across this thread. I's not a real problem.

Okay, then.