I meant most people our age, usually like to experiment with different relationships.
Everyone has their different views on relationships. Many people would rather settle down in their mid 20's some don't mind at younger ages, especially if it's something real. If it is, you shouldn't let go.

That's what I meant.

[QUOTE=ProSeries]I meant most people our age, usually like to experiment with different relationships.
Everyone has their different views on relationships. Many people would rather settle down in their mid 20's some don't mind at younger ages, especially if it's something real. If it is, you shouldn't let go.

That's what I meant.[/QUOTE]
yea i know,
im just saying, how people look down on it and arent open minded or realise that you have just met someone you dont think you could ever let go.

thanks

Usually those people are our own parents.

[QUOTE=~grif~]lol
yea...i enjoy it..

no but really, she said something like "kev what am i going to do with you" and then she went silent and i thought i heard her cry and the phone hung up. She is away from me atm.[/QUOTE]
maybe "kev" is what she calls her cell phone battery? :)

I hope i never get bored of my gf.....

I have one thing to say, and one thing only.



















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I sort of agree.

It has two sides. It can make you sad or happy, but mostly sad.

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]I sort of agree.

It has two sides. It can make you sad or happy, but mostly sad.[/QUOTE]

agreed, but when it's good it feels so amazing. little can compare the feeling of caring about somebody and knowing they care about you.

[QUOTE=Tillius]I have one thing to say, and one thing only.



[B][SIZE="7"]FUC[size=7]K[/size] LOVE!!!!!!!!![/SIZE][/B][/QUOTE]


Cue self loathing, whiny bitching, and dumbassedness in this thread.

so yeah, i posted awhile ago about some gf troubles. we got over those, even though it was somewhat a hassle i'd rather not go through again. The thing that gets me about her is that like....most of the time, things are good, and we get along, especially when were together in person, were all touchy feely and you know...i like it. but it seems like sometimes when she's online, she is really bi polar. she will get mad over things, and usually it isn't about me, or at least she claims, she never wants to talk about what's bothering her, she just says "nothing" and continues being short with me. Idk, it seems like sometimes we don't even have that much in common or anything, and other times we talk for hours, it's kinda wierd. idk, it seems like our whole relationship is bi polar, sometimes it's like super happy, and i hope we never break up, but lately there has been more then a few times where i've though, as much as I wouldn't like it, it probably would be nice if we broke up. idk, i probably worry too much, hopefully we'll just start having more of the good times, and less of the wierd bad times.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]I can excel at loads of things compared to my friends... but sometimes they hold that against me which ends up maing me feel worse. And it's like "But I can do all these things, and yet you still prefer them??". And yeah Geoff is not tactful and that did actually hurt me despite me not showing it. He can be a twat sometimes.


1. Like I said before; he's got no tact.
2. No, I'm not good looking. I'm not sure if you've seen any pictures of me and this is the first time I've admitted it, but the camera can be very forgiving. Please take my word for it, my friends are better looking than me.
3. I'm not out of their league, I was never in it.
4. I act like I would around anyone. They doon't flirt with me, they treat me like one of their mates, so I treat them the same back. I'm not going to embarrass myself with a poor attempt at flirting. I went to an all gir's school for 4 years in primary school, I often wonder if that has had an effect on how I act today. I'm bubbling with confidence and quite often near the centre of attention. I like to mess around and make people laugh. I think my main problem is people feel intimidated by me. I'm also quite... masculine for a girl. Not like really butch but I used to be a real tomboy. I have quite a deep voice, don't really tend to wear skirts or dresses, people say I walk like a guy and other shiznit.[/QUOTE]

Even if you already have the answers you wanted/needed, im still going to write this out, im pretty sure, that i know exactly how you feel.

For instance i have never had attention from girls, hardly anyone sees my good sides, and yeah i feel like i am taken for granted as someone who is kept around to tease/make a joke out of for entertainment purposes.

The guy who told you blatantly to your face that you're unattractive and he wouldn't bother with you? He's a dick, sadly a great portion of the male population are also dicks, such as the ones i hang around with.

From the photo i've seen in the MX photo album, you are attractive. Try not to think so much "why are there prettier girls than me" and more along the lines of "i am much prettier than lots of girls around the world". As steerpike said you tend to notice imperfections about yourself more than others do. I know that some people have told me i am fairly attractive, yet i deem myself to be ugly as f[SIZE="2"]uck[/SIZE], the guys who tell you you are unnattractive, are not only extremely rude to say things in such a way, but also, as stated above, dicks.

I agree with what the others said about pursuing the things you're good at and holding them as things which you have over your friends. Even if at the moment your friends hold these things against you (if im right you're talking about them not really caring/when you accomplish something they'll act like you wasted your time doing whatever it is you accomplished?). I know this is what 99% of my friends seem to do, and the few accomplishments i do have are only appreciated by a select few good friends, and i know how it feels when you just think "well why bother when nothing good comes of it". If this is your situation, then i have no idea how to help you out here, or else i probably wouldn't still be putting up with it. I've come to the conclusion that those 99% of my friends who hold my accomplishments against me, wont long be my friends. I don't know if this is the same way you feel towards it, but good luck with that anyway.

Buh, i don't think i so much gave you any advice as i did compare my situation to yours haha, sorry, i hope it helps somewhat. But make sure you kick geoff in the balls. Hard.

Twice.

Nevermind, I posted while half asleep and sad.

I have a question for the ladies...how would you react if when you went to hug one of your male friends you could feel his boner poking into you? :upset:

[QUOTE=_ThisSecretNinja_]I have a question for the ladies...how would you react if when you went to hug one of your male friends you could feel his boner poking into you? :upset:[/QUOTE]

1. It was really a banana in his pocket, or
2. He was just happy to see you.

[QUOTE=_ThisSecretNinja_]I have a question for the ladies...how would you react if when you went to hug one of your male friends you could feel his boner poking into you? :upset:[/QUOTE]

This belongs in the awkward moments thread for sure. Maybe she didn't notice.

[QUOTE=Jo Shoe Wah]Even if you already have the answers you wanted/needed, im still going to write this out, im pretty sure, that i know exactly how you feel.

For instance i have never had attention from girls, hardly anyone sees my good sides, and yeah i feel like i am taken for granted as someone who is kept around to tease/make a joke out of for entertainment purposes.

The guy who told you blatantly to your face that you're unattractive and he wouldn't bother with you? He's a dick, sadly a great portion of the male population are also dicks, such as the ones i hang around with.

From the photo i've seen in the MX photo album, you are attractive. Try not to think so much "why are there prettier girls than me" and more along the lines of "i am much prettier than lots of girls around the world". As steerpike said you tend to notice imperfections about yourself more than others do. I know that some people have told me i am fairly attractive, yet i deem myself to be ugly as f[SIZE="2"]uck[/SIZE], the guys who tell you you are unnattractive, are not only extremely rude to say things in such a way, but also, as stated above, dicks.

I agree with what the others said about pursuing the things you're good at and holding them as things which you have over your friends. Even if at the moment your friends hold these things against you (if im right you're talking about them not really caring/when you accomplish something they'll act like you wasted your time doing whatever it is you accomplished?). I know this is what 99% of my friends seem to do, and the few accomplishments i do have are only appreciated by a select few good friends, and i know how it feels when you just think "well why bother when nothing good comes of it". If this is your situation, then i have no idea how to help you out here, or else i probably wouldn't still be putting up with it. I've come to the conclusion that those 99% of my friends who hold my accomplishments against me, wont long be my friends. I don't know if this is the same way you feel towards it, but good luck with that anyway.

Buh, i don't think i so much gave you any advice as i did compare my situation to yours haha, sorry, i hope it helps somewhat. But make sure you kick geoff in the balls. Hard.

Twice.[/QUOTE]
:lol: thanks for the advice :) sometimes it's just nice to know there others out there too :huggle:

alright, the thing is i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. But now a another girl is hittin on me and this girl is VERY sexually attractive. Now i love my girlfriend a lot, but i have a problem with inhibitions. I dont have many. I am easily tempted and i give in easily. The other girl wants to hang out again, and im a really friendly person, and couldnt bring myself to say no to hanging out again. These girls also know each other, they used to be best friends, but the other knows im going out with my gf, so she probably isnt gonna say anything to my gf. also she doesnt like my gf anymore.
I am at a loss at what to do.

Another thing, there may be a third girl, whos also hitting on me....
im in a dilemma

[QUOTE=chickensandwiches]alright, the thing is i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. But now a another girl is hittin on me and this girl is VERY sexually attractive. Now i love my girlfriend a lot, but i have a problem with inhibitions. I dont have many. I am easily tempted and i give in easily. The other girl wants to hang out again, and im a really friendly person, and couldnt bring myself to say no to hanging out again. These girls also know each other, they used to be best friends, but the other knows im going out with my gf, so she probably isnt gonna say anything to my gf. also she doesnt like my gf anymore.
I am at a loss at what to do.

Another thing, there may be a third girl, whos also hitting on me....
im in a dilemma[/QUOTE]

If you really loved your girlfriend you wouldn't even question your fidelity to her. The fact that you are even considering "accidentally" acting on your inhibitions (which is what you seem to be implying here) is proof enough. There is nothing wrong about hanging out with this girl, or even finding her attractive. But once you act on it everything changes. You need to think about your situation with your girlfriend and ask yourself if you are truely commited to her.

And consider yourself lucky that 3 girls would be interested in you at one time.

That's always the way. Three at a time then nothing for ages.

Hello again thread! I'm really rubbish at posting in here regularly.

I have no problem at all. The closest is what to get my girlfriend for our 6 months? I figured it was quite important as it is half a year, plus with all the fights that've happened with various friends it was quite an achievement to have such a stable relationship.

Any ideas are welcome. I don't have too much money as I don't work at the moment what with exams coming up, but if you just throw realistic ideas at me whenever you get the chance that'd be great!

I have a problem.

This guy keeps hitting on me but I'm not gay. He hangs out in the drum section of this forum. His name is SKacoredrummer.

What do I do? I told him to knock it off and that I'm not gay but he keeps tryin to hook up WTF.

Dude doesn't understand that I'm not gay.
Here is this fool ROFL
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[img]http://myspace-110.vo.llnwd.net/00209/01/11/209491110_l.jpg[/img]

What a loser.

What should I do though?

[QUOTE=Monkey:Dust]I have no problem at all. The closest is what to get my girlfriend for our 6 months? I figured it was quite important as it is half a year, plus with all the fights that've happened with various friends it was quite an achievement to have such a stable relationship.

Any ideas are welcome. I don't have too much money as I don't work at the moment what with exams coming up, but if you just throw realistic ideas at me whenever you get the chance that'd be great![/QUOTE]

Go for something with meaning to her. You can save money by getting something not so expensive, but valuable symbolically. I don't know anything about your girlfriend, so I can't suggest anything specific.

Perhaps a few smaller gifts as well as something you make? I'm assuming you're a musician, so maybe a cd of sorts? Just some thoughts.

were is a good place to go on a saturday night with a (girl) friend? as just friends.

this will basically be our first time hang ing out and im not too sure what to do :/

help?

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]were is a good place to go on a saturday night with a (girl) friend? as just friends.

this will basically be our first time hang ing out and im not too sure what to do :/

help?[/QUOTE]

What do you both like? Go play some pool, movies? If you are old enough go to a bar and have a few drinks. Go see a local band.

hmmm maybe i was a little vague heh sorry

were both 16. We don't have same intrests in music, i dont want to go see a movie since that seems to not be very socialble. I'm not sure what she likes since i dont know her very well. I might ask her to go to like a coffee shop and just hang out there for a little while.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]hmmm maybe i was a little vague heh sorry

were both 16. We don't have same intrests in music, i dont want to go see a movie since that seems to not be very socialble. I'm not sure what she likes since i dont know her very well. I might ask her to go to like a coffee shop and just hang out there for a little while.[/QUOTE]

Coffeé shop or a café would be ok. You could get something to eat and drink and yet still be able to talk to her easily. I meet up with friends for something to eat all the time, it's easy and informal so there shouldn't be any pressure on your part.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]hmmm maybe i was a little vague heh sorry

were both 16. We don't have same intrests in music, i dont want to go see a movie since that seems to not be very socialble. I'm not sure what she likes since i dont know her very well. I might ask her to go to like a coffee shop and just hang out there for a little while.[/QUOTE]

Sometimes I have found some of the more fun times spent with people are just driving around at night talking. I don't know if you have access to a car or not, but maybe take her out for coffee like you said and then wing it.

[QUOTE=EizingerIsGod]Sometimes I have found some of the more fun times spent with people are just driving around at night talking. I don't know if you have access to a car or not, but maybe take her out for coffee like you said and then wing it.[/QUOTE]

yeah we both can drive so thats not a problem

its just that i know driving can be really fun,i think i need to know her a littlebetter

but thanksfor the help.

[QUOTE=thunderzstruck]yeah we both can drive so thats not a problem

its just that i know driving can be really fun,i think i need to know her a littlebetter

but thanksfor the help.[/QUOTE]

Perhaps a group situation then to break the ice?

ok i feel pretty gay 4 posting here, im not generally like this, and its sad of me to have to tlk to strangers but i'm that desperate. Me and my gf hav been going out 4 a year and a half, (longest most serious relationship i ever had) well last few monthes have been very rocky, weve had fights b4 but we always worked them out, were really good together. like i say last few monthes have been bad and i havent been the best bf in the world to her, so we decided to go on a break. hmm the moral of my story is that we are in love (i think, i've never been in love b4, and neithers she) but it was all getting really heavy so we had to kool it off. i wanted a break because when i leave skool next year we will break up 4 definate because we both have to go to very diffrent places with our lives and we talked about it and decided a long distance relationship really wont b good 4 either of us. wot im trying to say is i kno we need this break but i love her so much i cant bear to think about being apart from her ever...so now i'm screwed, we both wana get back together now but we both realise that we have to take this time out to re evaluate ourselves, im just saying it really hurts inside and i kno i sound like an idiot but i was just desperate to tlk.
excuse the grammer and structure of this writing, its complicated and i just wanted to throw it out there cus im desperate, noones has to answer i just wanted to try and relieve myself. thanks