Yeah that is pretty weird. Don't know what to say though.

EDIT: To grif

[QUOTE=pohl_56]So you worry excessively? How long have u had this one?[/QUOTE]


Forever.

[QUOTE=~grif~]well the girlfriend is up in dublin at the moment, she is doing training, she was staying with me for like 3weeks down here and now after Dublin she will be going to Dundalk.
so i had to leave her yesterday - bought her to dublin so she wouldnt get lost (she is from Kansas)

well anyway tonight she went out with the people she is training with and was txt'n me on the mobile/cell phone - and she wasnt getting some of my msgs (because she has this new number and i accidently put 19 instead of 91 in some of them)
but like earlier she sent me an odd msg like i said above "propose to me" so im like "lol yea" and joked it off with a gay joke
so she was sending msgs and said she had something important to tell me or something.
anyway since i am stupid i kept replying to the wrong number so she sent me a goodnight msg like "sweet dreams hun, love you very much, miss you so much, talk to you tomorrow" was it.


So thats that - but this is the weird thing.

i rang her up to say goodnight cause the whole msg thing wasnt working for me (i realised my stupidness)
she was kinda sleepy talking and im like "hey, you ok? just rang to say goodnight" and she is all "hey dont go" and i say "no its ok, i can tell you are really tired right now, il leave you be" and we were talking for a little and then out of nowhere she says "i dont know what to do with you kev" all sad like and im like "whats wrong?" and she went silent for ages and i think i heard her cry and she just hung up on me.
So i waited a little to ring her back cause she hates when im there when she is crying, but she turned off her phone.

and im like "eh wtf?"

im kinda worried really.

errrrrrr :confused:

Well thats that.
kinda feel better ive typed it all out to someone[/QUOTE]

How old are you guys? You've probably said before but Ive been outta here for a while. Sounds to me like you inadvertantly hurt her feeling and offended her? I'm not sure. You need to somehow talk to her and the fact that she has her phone off seems kinda immature, at least to me.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]How old are you guys? You've probably said before but Ive been outta here for a while. Sounds to me like you inadvertantly hurt her feeling and offended her? I'm not sure. You need to somehow talk to her and the fact that she has her phone off seems kinda immature, at least to me.[/QUOTE]
im 19, she is nearly 19.

You got that whole thing totally wrong, i was just saying goodnight to her and she was telling me about her night and she got a bit upset, ya know the way you can tell by the tone of her voice - and she said "i dont know what to do with you kev" and started crying...i think...for like 20seconds of that, her crying in the background - she takes the phone away from her face so i cant hear lol and the phone just hung up.

She didnt hang up on me in anger or anything.


maybe something happened. :confused:

[QUOTE=Aakon_Keetreh]Forever.[/QUOTE]

*Is confused... So you have worried forever or ahve had the gf forever? Well I worry too, more than I should, but it wasnt so much with this one and all the worry I did have was worth it cuz my intuitioin was right.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]*Is confused... So you have worried forever or ahve had the gf forever? Well I worry too, more than I should, but it wasnt so much with this one and all the worry I did have was worth it cuz my intuitioin was right.[/QUOTE]


I have worried everytime i get a gf. But i trust the one i have now. The biggest thing im worried about her is getting bored of me....

[QUOTE=~grif~]im 19, she is nearly 19.

You got that whole thing totally wrong, i was just saying goodnight to her and she was telling me about her night and she got a bit upset, ya know the way you can tell by the tone of her voice - and she said "i dont know what to do with you kev" and started crying...i think...for like 20seconds of that, her crying in the background - she takes the phone away from her face so i cant hear lol and the phone just hung up.

She didnt hang up on me in anger or anything.


maybe something happened. :confused:[/QUOTE]

Sorry. I misunderstood. I was under the impression that it happened like, last night and her phone was still off. My bad. Just give her some time and try to call tomorrow. Maybe something else triggered it and you were just there. Dont beat urself up over it just yet.

EDIT: TO DESTINED_FOR
I worry as well, not so much as they are getting bored with me but about going outta my way for them and how they dont do it back... It goes from there and basically I just get clingy (reason for first breakup but has since been somewhat resolved.) All ya can do is work on it. Just keep her interested by doing new things that ya dont usually do and she cant get bored. Good luck with that.

So before I got in my shower, I texted her. She said she wanted me to have a copy. So, whatevs, I'm done with it. Right now it's like I'm not hung up, but I wouldn't say I'm completely over her.

[QUOTE=Rasta Rocker]So before I got in my shower, I texted her. She said she wanted me to have a copy. So, whatevs, I'm done with it. Right now it's like I'm not hung up, but I wouldn't say I'm completely over her.[/QUOTE]

Im sorry if im not familiar with your situation... U got the photo from the dance right? Well, I guess just move on and you'll find better anyway. :thumb:

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Im sorry if im not familiar with your situation... U got the photo from the dance right? Well, I guess just move on and you'll find better anyway. :thumb:[/QUOTE]
Yeah, she gave me the picture of us. But it only brought bad feelings, so I threw it away. Eh, it only gets better from here. Man, I sound like a pussy.

[QUOTE=Rasta Rocker]Yeah, she gave me the picture of us. But it only brought bad feelings, so I threw it away. Eh, it only gets better from here. Man, I sound like a slightly confuzzled sea lion.[/QUOTE]

She isnt worth your time and you already know that. You'll find better. confuzzled sea lion!!! i love that expression!

Hey guys. I'm from the drum forum. I don't normally post here but I need some help.

I just don't have enough confidence anymore to go up and talk to a girl outta nowhere. I used to do it all the time in high school but after being rejected or having relationships that didn't work out I just totally lost my confidence and haven't really got it back since. If it matters, I am kinda nerdy lookin or atleast I think so.

What should I do?

Also I was wondering, if I ever get good at drums and get into a band that does shows, would being a good drummer increase my chances of getting hooked up? I mean like chicks comin up to me and talkin to me tellin me how cool the band is or somethin.

Thanks for the help.

[QUOTE=Cocaberry]Hey guys. I'm from the drum forum. I don't normally post here but I need some help.

I just don't have enough confidence anymore to go up and talk to a girl outta nowhere. I used to do it all the time in high school but after being rejected or having relationships that didn't work out I just totally lost my confidence and haven't really got it back since. If it matters, I am kinda nerdy lookin or atleast I think so.

What should I do?

Also I was wondering, if I ever get good at drums and get into a band that does shows, would being a good drummer increase my chances of getting hooked up? I mean like chicks comin up to me and talkin to me tellin me how cool the band is or somethin.

Thanks for the help.[/QUOTE]


Definitely, man. if you are in a band you will SO get some. Take it from me, i play guitar. girls love it.

Guitar is different. Guitarists are in the front and some even sing. Drums are in the back. Lots of people might not even be able to see the drummer.

wel, let them give you a couple short solos, or have a cool gimmick(like sunglasses, hats,fro wigs, etc.), or come up with some cool beats or something. they'll be like "whoa, that is a tight beat!"

Okay, update!!!

That whole thing with Breanna.....first of all, I really am liking her a lot more now. And lucky me, I was talking to her on AIM earlier tonight, and basically, I found out she liked me. Now, we're open talking about that we like eachother, and all that fun stuff.

Soooo, on Monday, I'm moving, and we're basically gonna be neighbors. I can't wait! Its kinda safe to say that we're gonna end up being in a relationship. I just don't wanna rush into it too fast just yet.

Its funny, we both thought we were completely out of each other's leagues, and that we had no chance with with eachother. And as it turns out....not soo much.


I think I got soo lucky to be given a chance with this girl. She's everything you could want. Fun, caring, interesting, someone you could talk to for hours. Not to mention she's gorgeous. She's a model. Nuff' said.

We both take relationships seriously, and have a lot of the same views, relationship-wise. We get along great, but at the same time, have countless differences. Which I think, is good.

And yahh. I'm just really happy right now. For once, a girl is catching my attention as much as Wynston did when I liked her, and everyone is noticing. Heck, my friend Nicole saw Breanna a few days back(Nicole used to really like me, and now we know eachother really good), and the first thing she thought of was me, and that I'd like her. Everyone is drooling over Breanna since she moved back here, guys and girls. Its kinda annoying to have that following her everywhere she goes, but at the same time, it lets me know how lucky I am, and might be.

Anyways, tomorrow is bring your kid to work day, a.k.a skipping the day of school and hanging with Breanna and some friends. I guess if you have any tips or anything, to attempt to make this relationship happen, and for ehr to like me enough, go ahead and let me know. But at the moment, i think I could ask ehr out right now and get a 'yes'; i'm just gonna take things slowly first though.

Goddammit, I wish I could tell her..
I'm too scared. :upset:

[QUOTE=Dude3]
Soooo, on Monday, I'm moving, and we're basically gonna be neighbors. I can't wait! Its kinda safe to say that we're gonna end up being in a relationship. I just don't wanna rush into it too fast just yet.
[/QUOTE]

Yeah you are lucky dude. I wish I had a neighbor that was a hot chick. All the houses around me have old people in them though. :(

Post a pic when you get one though. I wanna see this hottie. :thumb:

[QUOTE=Cocaberry]Yeah you are lucky dude. I wish I had a neighbor that was a hot chick. All the houses around me have old people in them though. :(

Post a pic when you get one though. I wanna see this hottie. :thumb:[/QUOTE]
YAh, dude, let me get a few pics. Jsut give me few minutes.

Okay, keep in mind, I'm only 15, and she's one grade level below me, so don't go and start calling me a pedo. Anyways, here:

[url]http://i3.tinypic.com/wjwbx2.jpg[/url]

[url]http://i3.tinypic.com/wjwbyb.jpg[/url]

[url]http://i3.tinypic.com/wjwbnr.jpg[/url]

OMFG she is hella hot. You are a lucky man.

[QUOTE=Dude3]Okay, keep in mind, I'm only 15, and she's one grade level below me, so don't go and start calling me a pedo. Anyways, here:

[url]http://i3.tinypic.com/wjwbx2.jpg[/url]

[url]http://i3.tinypic.com/wjwbyb.jpg[/url]

[url]http://i3.tinypic.com/wjwbnr.jpg[/url][/QUOTE]


You've posted these before, haven't you? Lucky bastard.

Dammit, I just tried calling her, to tell her I'm crazy about her, she's already on the damn phone, I IM'ed her, told her I need to tell her something, left a voicemail.

I think i ****ed up that one. dammit.

[QUOTE=Junooni]You've posted these before, haven't you? Lucky bastard.[/QUOTE]
Yup. Awhile ago. I met her a couple months ago, and basically, i was just exicted that I was gonna hna gout with some hot chick who i thought I might make out with.

Hahaha.


As it turns out, I think me and this girl may really have something going. =)

Dude, where in FL are you? I'm coming down there for 4 days tomorrow, Field trip.

[QUOTE=Junooni]Dude, where in FL are you? I'm coming down there for 4 days tomorrow, Field trip.[/QUOTE]
What's going on down there? The girl I'm crushin' on is taking a four-day field trip down there with her high school band.

That's what's up. Same thing, what school you guys? Maybe I can uh...
never mind.


I'm not part of the band, just a guest guitarist that gets to go along. Should be fun.

Haha, I don't know what school she goes to anyway.

[QUOTE=Junooni]Dude, where in FL are you? I'm coming down there for 4 days tomorrow, Field trip.[/QUOTE]
In the Brandon/Valrico area.

Is that anywhere near Orlando?

I do believe Junooni is planning to move in on our women, Dude3. :p

Possibly. I think I just fu[size=2]cked [/size] up with my chance with Fatima.

Please, I'd rather not go into it. :upset...very upset:

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