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Pazz 06-09-2006 05:13 PM

[QUOTE=Hep Kat]Provided you have a big check book, that is ;)[/QUOTE]

And I don't.

Well tomorrow night there's the party I'm going to, with lots of people. Maybe I can get some magic to happen.

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:15 PM

Don't be forget one of [url=http://www.minimus.biz/images/P07-0124102-1000bg.jpg]these[/url].

Pazz 06-09-2006 05:16 PM

I don't have any of those.

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:17 PM

Better go to the store.

Pazz 06-09-2006 05:19 PM

And use what money?

:lol:

DBoons Ghost 06-09-2006 05:19 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]How much money do you make again? :p[/QUOTE]

:upset:

I tell chicks I deliver newspapers out of my 77 Chevy Caprice.

It almost never works.

I swear I'm doomed to be alone forever.

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:21 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]And use what money?

:lol:[/QUOTE]
No money needed if you use one of [url=http://dts.ystoretools.com/1092/images/200x200/mabawbu.jpg]these[/url].

Pazz 06-09-2006 05:22 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]No money needed if you use one of [url=http://dts.ystoretools.com/1092/images/200x200/mabawbu.jpg]these[/url].[/QUOTE]

:lol: I probably have one of those.:p

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:24 PM

Problem solved.

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 05:49 PM

this is random, but im a little confused ok so here goes
my girlfriend ( im gay just for future reference) and i have been going out for about a month and all of a sudden any time she's with me she acts like she would rather be some place else. (now here's the confusing part) so i leave her alone for a while, ya know back off, give her space and then she like pulls a swicheroo and calls like twice a day every day :confused: any advice?

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 06:47 PM

Sounds like she can't make up her mind whether she wants to be with you or not. Have you mentioned this to her?

Tiger 06-09-2006 07:32 PM

[QUOTE=bumblebeebass]this is random, but im a little confused ok so here goes
my girlfriend ( im gay just for future reference) and i have been going out for about a month and all of a sudden any time she's with me she acts like she would rather be some place else. (now here's the confusing part) so i leave her alone for a while, ya know back off, give her space and then she like pulls a swicheroo and calls like twice a day every day :confused: any advice?[/QUOTE]


I love Luke Chueh! He's a big inspiration.


Oh, and yea, dealing with females is like this. It just sounds like the typical inconsistent bull**** we have to put up with.

Really, just ask her about it. Put it out in the open.




All of that said, I think Im leaving MX a while.

The Buttloaves 06-09-2006 08:09 PM

So that psycho chick apologized as usual today. And as usual, said she was just having a bad day. She just IMed me and said
"Are you going to talk now"
"I doubt it"
"Why?"
"Because I'm gay like that"
"But you're talking to _________ right."
I just signed off. It's always about someone else and how I talk to them and not her. I'm done with being nice, I'm just going to be a jackass from now on. She drives me crazy with this crap.

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 08:11 PM

the only thing that's stopping me from just flat out asking her is the fact that before we started dating we were best friends and this crap is going to screw everything up and i don't want to loose a great friend over something so stupid
(oh and if you like luke chueh you should check out thomas han he's another cool artist)

The Buttloaves 06-09-2006 08:15 PM

[QUOTE=Return of Buttloaves]So that psycho chick apologized as usual today. And as usual, said she was just having a bad day. She just IMed me and said
"Are you going to talk now"
"I doubt it"
"Why?"
"Because I'm gay like that"
"But you're talking to _________ right."
I just signed off. It's always about someone else and how I talk to them and not her. I'm done with being nice, I'm just going to be a jackass from now on. She drives me crazy with this crap.[/QUOTE]
Ok, now she's just being a dyke about it. She has this gem as her away message:

like you care.
summer sucks so far.

:lol: :lol: :lol: I've ruined her summer BOOHOO

Pazz 06-09-2006 08:17 PM

[QUOTE=bumblebeebass]the only thing that's stopping me from just flat out asking her is the fact that before we started dating we were best friends and this crap is going to screw everything up and i don't want to loose a great friend over something so stupid
(oh and if you like luke chueh you should check out thomas han he's another cool artist)[/QUOTE]

I was pretty good friends before I started going out with my ex. Now me and my ex are bestfriends. You may not screw things up, it depends on how you handle it.

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 08:30 PM

how do you suggest i handle it? because ive thought it over and i just keep seeing a verbal lashing as well as a few things being forcefully tossed in the general direction of my head:confused:

Pazz 06-09-2006 08:39 PM

Well you say you are gay. Well does she know this?

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 08:41 PM

Honey, you don't need schit tossed at your head. Nor a verbal lashing.

Be firm and tell her what you're having a problem with. Preface this conversation with "Before we get started on this...if you're going to rip me a new one verbally or throw things at me, know this: I won't stand for it."

If she does either of the above-mentioned, walk out.

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 08:42 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]Well you say you are gay. Well does she know this?[/QUOTE]
well i hope she does considering im dating her if not then im sadly mistaken about our current relationship

Pazz 06-09-2006 08:45 PM

It's just wierd. You are gay, but you still have a girlfriend.

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 08:47 PM

hey dude just a little heads up im a GIRL:thumb:
( your smart):)

Pazz 06-09-2006 08:49 PM

Ohh, well that makes me feel like an idiot.

Well that changes perspectives and I don't know how to help you.

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 08:52 PM

thanks anyway though, sorry i didn't make that a liitle clearer

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 08:54 PM

Guys don't ever get the obvious.

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 08:55 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]Ohh, well that makes me feel like an idiot.

Well that changes perspectives and I don't know how to help you.[/QUOTE]

No, it doesn't really because it's a relationship like any other. :)

Pazz 06-09-2006 08:57 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]No, it doesn't really because it's a relationship like any other. :)[/QUOTE]

Well I know it's a normal situation, but I don't know how the reaction will be.

nobodyblossomsforever 06-09-2006 08:57 PM

[QUOTE=bumblebeebass]hey dude just a little heads up im a GIRL:thumb:
( your smart):)[/QUOTE]

lmao now I get it.

/feels like a retard

Pazz 06-09-2006 08:59 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]lmao now I get it.

/feels like a retard[/QUOTE]

YES!

I wasn't the only one who didn't get it!

bumblebeebass 06-09-2006 09:00 PM

:) don't feel stupid i guess i should have been a little more specific

nobodyblossomsforever 06-09-2006 09:00 PM

Yea when you say gay, I think of guys being gay, I never call girls gay.

Jom 06-09-2006 09:42 PM

People don't tend to read, you know, the important details.

DBoon: as always, very, very nice to see you around again.

Tillius 06-09-2006 11:16 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]YES!

I wasn't the only one who didn't get it![/QUOTE]
Don't worry, it took me a second, too, but I then realized the obvious.

dcr 06-10-2006 01:12 PM

So I've been talking to that gay kid lately. I have never met him in person and had a conversation, but I've seen him around tons of times and we have mutual friends. He keeps hitting on me and stuff, but I don't know how to react since he's a guy. He wants to meet up with me, but I'm so nervous about. I really don't know how to act. If he was a girl, I'd have no problem.

Sabian4015 06-10-2006 01:16 PM

dcr, really couldn't help you out there. Do you have feelings for this guy or not? Judging by the way you explain that seems to me your straight. Umm...maybe you should just tell him to back off or something, unless you like him hitting on you?

Chrysostom 06-10-2006 01:19 PM

[QUOTE=dcr]So I've been talking to that gay kid lately. I have never met him in person and had a conversation, but I've seen him around tons of times and we have mutual friends. He keeps hitting on me and stuff, but I don't know how to react since he's a guy. He wants to meet up with me, but I'm so nervous about. I really don't know how to act. If he was a girl, I'd have no problem.[/QUOTE]

If he makes you so uncomfortable, don't meet him.

dcr 06-10-2006 01:37 PM

I'm bicurious I guess. I used to think I was gay though. I like girls more, but I'm interested in guys, and this guy is attractive and definitely seems interested in me.

I've always been nervous around meeting new people, but it's going to be worse since he's a guy, and I've had no experience dealing with guys. I don't mind him, I just don't want to be a wreck when he meets me.

nobodyblossomsforever 06-10-2006 03:38 PM

I don't know what to do...


Elyse killed herself. I feel like I'm going to die...I can't stop crying...I have no idea what to do...omfg how could this happen...why did it have to happen??? WHY????

KRASH 06-10-2006 03:45 PM

[QUOTE=dcr]I'm bicurious I guess. I used to think I was gay though. I like girls more, but I'm interested in guys, and this guy is attractive and definitely seems interested in me.

I've always been nervous around meeting new people, but it's going to be worse since he's a guy, and I've had no experience dealing with guys. I don't mind him, I just don't want to be a wreck when he meets me.[/QUOTE]


tell him its your first time with a guy, your not used to the same sex, so he'll need to take it easy

Chaindrive 06-10-2006 08:07 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]I don't know what to do...


Elyse killed herself. I feel like I'm going to die...I can't stop crying...I have no idea what to do...omfg how could this happen...why did it have to happen??? WHY????[/QUOTE]

WHAT????


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