I don't even know, I'd say leave her, but I don't know the whole situation, and what not, but yeah I suck at advice in relationships, so listen to Vince :chug:

And put on some PTW, make you feel better...

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]Yeah, for sure..But then I'll get the impression she's not in the mood for talking so I'll just shut up..And she'll go, "Talk! Your more annoying when you don't talk than when you do," so I have no idea..?[/QUOTE]I was sort in a similiar situation with my ex girlfriend, except she invited me to a party and kissed me, so yeah. I'd say just stay friends and see what happens.

[QUOTE=Atticus!]V: yeah, I know. It's just, nothing is ever like that for me. I wish I could feel differently about stuff but it takes ages for my feelings to change where as they change their ****ing mind every few minutes.

Stew: if she's really aas good of a friend as you say, then you shouldn't have to worry about losing her. One of my friends has known that I've liked her on and off for years, even though she's hadboyfriends and stuff. She doesn't mind, it's kind of nice, as long as you can control your feelings anyways.[/QUOTE]
Well you're not a girl :) I tend to cling to not-changing too, but I realize how fast they change and being adaptable is key to success not only in relationships but life in general, so it's worth working on it.

Eh..that's not at all true. If you tell a girl you have feelings for her she doesn't reciprocate she'll feel awkward and guilty and as a result will often try to ignore you so as to not feel that way. You can be best friends, but adding that sort of awkwardness can still destroy it. It all depends on the girl.

So the survey says...Find out for yourself? lol

Thats cool anyways..Maybe having no friends will give me time to study all the time and I'll get mad *** grades and my parents will actually want to see my report card..Which is going to be horrible when I get it in a week or so..

To make everyone happy, i'd like to point out what jon said: Ice-T has a hardcore band.

I allready knew this though, im just that underground.

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]So the survey says...Find out for yourself? lol

Thats cool anyways..Maybe having no friends will give me time to study all the time and I'll get mad *** grades and my parents will actually want to see my report card..Which is going to be horrible when I get it in a week or so..[/QUOTE]
Well no one an find out for you :p

It comes down to a situation by situation basis so just do what you feel is right and cross your fingers.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Well no one an find out for you :p

It comes down to a situation by situation basis so just do what you feel is right and cross your fingers.[/QUOTE]
True lol..It's somewhat unfortunate that it's true, but still lol

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Well you're not a girl :) I tend to cling to not-changing too, but I realize how fast they change and being adaptable is key to success not only in relationships but life in general, so it's worth working on it.

Eh..that's not at all true. If you tell a girl you have feelings for her she doesn't reciprocate she'll feel awkward and guilty and as a result will often try to ignore you so as to not feel that way. You can be best friends, but adding that sort of awkwardness can still destroy it. It all depends on the girl.[/QUOTE]
You'd be suprised how girl-like I actually am :-\

I don't adapt well to anything.

Meh. In all cases I've had like that it's been how I described it. Maybe I just have really understanding friends.

Am I complete idiot if my heart skips a beat when this girl says "Hey" to me on Msn? Like she was set to away, so I wasn't expecting her to say anything..But as soon as I saw it I was all like..*Heart skips beat*..

/Feels like complete idiot :p

Not really. It's called emotion, some people have it. :p

Except Chuck Norris.










:upset: I had to do it, I couldn't resist.

Man, I hate him.

[QUOTE=Atticus!]You'd be suprised how girl-like I actually am :-\

I don't adapt well to anything.

Meh. In all cases I've had like that it's been how I described it. Maybe I just have really understanding friends.[/QUOTE]
Not at all. Ask Rissa how girly I am.

Work on that.

Eh, I speak from what I've seen in many relationships. Including my own experiences. But I have no doubt some girls aren't that lame.

Stew: I still get that with Gaby so...no.

:lol: at Form(of)Dark

Good..Just checkin'..

This girl I like has told me that I'm out there and stuff before, not just because of whatever I was saying but just my intire self in general..And she just said..

[QUOTE]I Left The Chill And Voice, The Screams In Kids And Ran For Shelter.. says:
She just bothers me lol
ashley; i hope you're as happy as you are pretending. says:
yeah, same haha
ashley; i hope you're as happy as you are pretending. says:
a little too out there
ashley; i hope you're as happy as you are pretending. says:
but that's good in a person too, makes them interesting
[/QUOTE]

Is it a hint? lol

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]
Stew: I still get that with Gaby so...no.[/QUOTE]

"I like eating diarrhea, is that weird?"

"Uh...no...I do it...so it...uh...must be perfectly normal...and stuff..."

:rolleyes:

[QUOTE=BridgeToSolace]"I like eating diarrhea, is that weird?"

"Uh...no...I do it...so it...uh...must be perfectly normal...and stuff..."

:rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Hey, I'm not [I]that[/I] abnormal ok? :-\

Stew: Eh, don't read into it too much, seems innocent to me. Plus, too much of something means it's bad.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Not at all. Ask Rissa how girly I am.

Work on that.

Eh, I speak from what I've seen in many relationships. Including my own experiences. But I have no doubt some girls aren't that lame.[/QUOTE]
Actually yeah, we seem to have a lot in common in aspects like that. Aside from yours being generally more serious due to the age difference.

I don't have much of a choice. :-\

Yeah, too bad those girls are the ones that are just my friends though.

Stew: You are reading wayyyyyyyyyyyyy too much into that.

Notice my emphasis with the too many Y's

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]Hey, I'm not [I]that[/I] abnormal ok? :-\[/quote]

It was an anology that was exaggerated for comic effect. Read it for the message, not the literal meaning.

[quote] Plus, too much of something means it's bad.[/QUOTE]

Which raises the question: "What's to much?"

[QUOTE=Atticus!]Actually yeah, we seem to have a lot in common in aspects like that. Aside from yours being generally more serious due to the age difference.

I don't have much of a choice. :-\

Yeah, too bad those girls are the ones that are just my friends though.[/QUOTE]
I have something in common with every neurotic person ever as I seemingly have a little bit of like every neurosis :-\ On the plus side crazy people are more interesting and they tend to trust you when they realize you're like them so eh.

Sure you do, condition yourself. Next time something really gets at you, instead of freaking out, stop, think, and realize you can deal with it, and it's not worth freaking out (at least in most cases). Eventually it will become sub-concious habit.

Better that than not around at all.

Jon: No I got it. Just because I do something doesn't mean it's normal. I was comically playing back :)

If you use the word "too" pre-empting an adjective, it means too much.

So, uhh, I'm finally getting blinds for my room tomorrow :cool:

This thread is getting way to 'omg i hav butterflies in my stumik teehee'.

I gave up on trying to get chicks a long time ago. If you go looking to get a girl, you get her because you think she fits this image you have of what you want, and she never truly is. If a girl goes looking for you, then that's the only way to tell if she truly likes you.

Ack.

But how will I watch you get dressed in the morning now? :(

<_<

/creepy

Cob: Not entirely true. But mostly. Sometimes you have to take the risk though. It's better to do it with girls you don't know though. Once you're friends it's hard.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]But how will I watch you get dressed in the morning now? :(

<_<

/creepy
[/QUOTE]

lol, don't worry, I had an alternative.

I think I will post a pic, brb.

[QUOTE]I have something in common with every neurotic person ever as I seemingly have a little bit of like every neurosis :-\ On the plus side crazy people are more interesting and they tend to trust you when they realize you're like them so eh.

Sure you do, condition yourself. Next time something really gets at you, instead of freaking out, stop, think, and realize you can deal with it, and it's not worth freaking out (at least in most cases). Eventually it will become sub-concious habit.

Better that than not around at all.[/QUOTE]
That is quite true actually. Having stuff in common makes it way easier to talk about stuff. And I'm extremely neurotic about everything. Although it seems to be kind of common among people I talk to. Maybe it's a musician thing.

I don't really freak out. I tend to refrain from freaking out due to not wanting to hurt the other person's feelings. (Yeah, after all that i still don't want to hurt her feelings :-\) On the internet though I tend to get a lot more angry so..

Very true.

COB: That's so true.. It's easy to know it, but hard to stop trying to chase girls. Except sometimes they think if you're not off chasing them that you don't have any interest.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]
[quote]If you use the word "too" pre-empting an adjective, it means too much.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, well Gaby is fat :(

-

So I'm listening to Billy Talent for no real reason. They're so good.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]But how will I watch you get dressed in the morning now? :(

<_<

/creepy

Cob: Not entirely true. But mostly. Sometimes you have to take the risk though. It's better to do it with girls you don't know though. Once you're friends it's hard.[/QUOTE]

I dont even care anymore, i just gave up.

[QUOTE=brandon]COB: That's so true.. It's easy to know it, but hard to stop trying to chase girls. Except sometimes they think if you're not off chasing them that you don't have any interest.[/QUOTE]

Yes. Some girl at school one time told her friends she thought i was kinda cute, but I guess she wasnt sure if i was straight or not. That hurt.

[URL="http://i2.tinypic.com/vh6k44.jpg"]http://i2.tinypic.com/vh6k44.jpg[/URL]

:cool:

I did it myself.

[QUOTE=Atticus!]That is quite true actually. Having stuff in common makes it way easier to talk about stuff. And I'm extremely neurotic about everything. Although it seems to be kind of common among people I talk to. Maybe it's a musician thing.

I don't really freak out. I tend to refrain from freaking out due to not wanting to hurt the other person's feelings. (Yeah, after all that i still don't want to hurt her feelings :-\) On the internet though I tend to get a lot more angry so..

Very true.

COB: That's so true.. It's easy to know it, but hard to stop trying to chase girls.[/QUOTE]
It is to a degre, not because you're a musician, but I'm sure there are correlations with what draws you to music and some types of neuroticism. Just think about all the crazy musicians over time. Oddly, I've found neuroticism is not as commonly attributable to intelligent people as I once thought. I don't know many crazy geniuses, unless they are also musicians, oddly.

Translation: I bottle up. That's bad, don't do that. Sometimes you need to just speak your mind, whether it's good or bad. Some could say my emails to people were me freaking out, though in a positive way.

Not chasing was always easy for me, I was too unconfident to chase because I knew I was pre-destined to fail. I guess I was "lucky" in that aspect.

BBS, gonna go buy some food for the week.

Jon: Wot?

Cob: Fair enough.

Mattay: Nice.

[QUOTE=Form(of)dark][URL="http://i2.tinypic.com/vh6k44.jpg"]http://i2.tinypic.com/vh6k44.jpg[/URL]

:cool:

I did it myself.[/QUOTE]

:lol:

Nice.

While were on neurosis: Someone asked me what i thoguth of that crappy blue october band thats all over the radio and before i said anything, this a'sshole kid (old guitarist) mocked me and said 'Oh, theyre terrible', and i got mad and semi-flipped out to myself because i guess im not allowed to have a negative opinion on anything, and some girl called me the most angst filled person she knows.

[QUOTE=Permanent Solution]It is to a degree, not because you're a musician, but I'm sure there are correlations with what draws you to music and some types of neuroticism. Just think about all the crazy musicians over time. Oddly, I've found neuroticism is not as commonly attributable to intelligent people as I once thought. I don't know many crazy geniuses, unless they are also musicians, oddly.

Translation: I bottle up. That's bad, don't do that. Sometimes you need to just speak your mind, whether it's good or bad. Some could say my emails to people were me freaking out, though in a positive way.

Not chasing was always easy for me, I was too unconfident to chase because I knew I was pre-destined to fail. I guess I was "lucky" in that aspect.

BBS, gonna go buy some food for the week.

Jon: Wot?

Cob: Fair enough.

Mattay: Nice.[/QUOTE]Yeah, dumb people can be neurotic as well you know! :p I agree with what you said though. I think being intelligent does add to the neuroticism sometimes.

Yeah, I do. I just feel really guilty when I make people feel bad, even if I meant what I said.

I know I'm going to fail, yet I continue anyways. This one time I actually had some confidence, but there that goes :-\

Get me some Taco Bell while you're out. I'm really craving some right now.

Oh no.

I've fallen into the 'omg i hav butterflies in my stumik' trap this therad has created.

198d has become one of my new favorite At the Drive-In songs.

Check the pits threads for embaressment :eek:

[url]http://www.myspace.com/kidsintheway[/url]

Not bad a self-proclaimed screamo band.

[url]http://www.myspace.com/kidsintheway[/url]

A bad self-proclaimed screamo band.

Whoo..I'm still talking to this girl..We've both enjoyed talking to each other about how depressed we are all the time..Horray for being emo..:(

I actually kind of like them.

Screamo my *** though.

Stew: wear tight pants

peerpressurepeerpressure

[QUOTE=cobert][url]http://www.myspace.com/kidsintheway[/url]

A bad self-proclaimed screamo band.[/QUOTE]

There are far worse, with whinier singers and worse screaming and more formulatic music and worse melodies.

[QUOTE=Atticus!]I actually kind of like them.

Screamo my *** though.

Stew: wear tight pants

peerpressurepeerpressure[/QUOTE]
Brandon: No
No one else in pet1culre: Whoo..

[QUOTE=BridgeToSolace]There are far worse, with whinier singers and worse screaming and more formulatic music and worse melodies.[/QUOTE]

That doesnt change the fact that I think they're bad, though.

[QUOTE=brandonio]
peerpressurepeerpressure[/QUOTE]

:lol:

..Horray for talking to her about ducks now..:lol: