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DBoons Ghost 06-09-2006 01:35 PM

Well thanks guys. I'm really only tryin to help. I want the best for everyone I guess. I'm a sap like that.

kurrpt 06-09-2006 01:36 PM

i try to be the same when i can. Some times exerperience and wisdom do come with age :naughty:

Amit 06-09-2006 01:57 PM

heart of gold

dick of steel

ghost of

dboon

Iscariot 06-09-2006 01:59 PM

[QUOTE=Kurrpt]it really seems like her sole purpose in life right now[/QUOTE]

Tell her straight up that you're not ready for a kid yet at this point in your life. I'm sure you already have told her, but make sure she gets it. If you're not ready, then don't let it happen. If she can't deal with that, well, then you'll have something else to bring to L&R in a week or so.

nobodyblossomsforever 06-09-2006 02:31 PM

Hey just wonjerin. What's everyone's opinions on a senior being with a freshman, like if the girl is 15 and the guy is 17 or something?

Iscariot 06-09-2006 02:33 PM

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Hey just wonjerin. What's everyone's opinions on a senior being with a freshman, like if the girl is 15 and the guy is 17 or something?[/QUOTE]

I don't see a problem with it, but it's one of those relationships that has a slim to none chance of lasting more than a year at the most. Once a guy is out of high school he starts expecting more of a relationship out of his relationship. That's something that a girl still in high school can't offer because her priorities are set on her education rather than furthering her love life. This leads to a lot of fights, problems and eventually a break-up.

kurrpt 06-09-2006 02:37 PM

the age difference gets less and less significant as you get older. Sure theres a stigma that comes with dating a younger girl in high school, but i wouldnt pay any attension to that. You may find yourself mature to a level where you deem her "unnecessary", but until then, id give it a go

Amit 06-09-2006 04:45 PM

[QUOTE=Kurrpt]the age difference gets less and less significant as you get older. Sure theres a stigma that comes with dating a younger girl in high school, but i wouldnt pay any attension to that. You may find yourself mature to a level where you deem her "unnecessary", but until then, id give it a go[/QUOTE]

After high school, it's not really an age difference but more like an educational or societal difference.

DBoons Ghost 06-09-2006 04:49 PM

Yeah I agree with that, especially since I'm gonna work real hard to find a young lady in her late 20s.

It's a lot easier when you're older.

I'm such a scoundrel.

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 04:50 PM

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Yeah I agree with that, especially since I'm gonna work real hard to find a young lady in her late 20s.

It's a lot easier when you're older.

I'm such a scoundrel.[/QUOTE]

Cradle-robber.

Tillius 06-09-2006 04:51 PM

*cough*

Junooni 06-09-2006 04:52 PM

Here, have a mentos. Want pepsi with that?

Tillius 06-09-2006 04:53 PM

Yes, please.

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 04:53 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]*cough*[/QUOTE]

Was that directed at me? Hmmmmm?

DBoons Ghost 06-09-2006 04:53 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Cradle-robber.[/QUOTE]


Well, I wouldn't go that far. Like 26 and up is fair game right? I'm somewhat immature with an absurd sense of humor, and my cynicism knows no bounds. You don't understand NYC. If a chick here is in her 30s and she's still single, she's either insane or she has incurable stankbox. Or she asks what I make before she asks me what I'm all about. That, and they all want to have sex first and get to know you later. What fun is that? I can't do that anymore. It's no fun trying to please some battle worn broad when I don't even know her.

Actually, I truly have no limits as to age. But I'm young at heart. I don't want some crazy old yoga instructor who likes horses and long walks on the beach.

Tillius 06-09-2006 04:54 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Was that directed at me? Hmmmmm?[/QUOTE]
It was indeed.

Pazz 06-09-2006 04:55 PM

I guess I can fill everyone in with what has happened in the past few days. I left everyone off with me telling my friend about the new girl I like and her telling me she was a big flirt and that I shouldn't be wasting my time with her. Well today I was at my friends house again with others, and I guess for the first time, I saw how big of a flirt she really is. She was flirting with the two other guys that were that. So I guess my friend was right and I have decided that maybe in my best interest, she isn't worth the time.

Iscariot 06-09-2006 04:56 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]I guess I can fill everyone in with what has happened in the past few days. I left everyone off with me telling my friend about the new girl I like and her telling me she was a big flirt and that I shouldn't be wasting my time with her. Well today I was at my friends house again with others, and I guess for the first time, I saw how big of a flirt she really is. She was flirting with the two other guys that were that. So I guess my friend was right and I have decided that maybe in my best interest, she isn't worth the time.[/QUOTE]

Good decision.

Tillius 06-09-2006 04:56 PM

*cough*[size=1]one night stand[/size]*cough*

EDIT: To Pazz

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 04:56 PM

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Well, I wouldn't go that far. Like 26 and up is fair game right? I'm somewhat immature with an absurd sense of humor, and my cynicism knows no bounds. You don't understand NYC. If a chick here is in her 30s and she's still single, she's either insane or she has incurable stankbox. Or she asks what I make before she asks me what I'm all about. That, and they all want to have sex first and get to know you later. What fun is that? I can't do that anymore. It's no fun trying to please some battle worn broad when I don't even know her.

Actually, I truly have no limits as to age. But I'm young at heart. I don't want some crazy old yoga instructor who likes horses and long walks on the beach.[/QUOTE]

Unfortunately for me I have the mentality of a 17 year old. I like guys in their mid 30's/early 40's.

Tillius 06-09-2006 04:57 PM

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Unfortunately for me I have the mentality of a 17 year old. I like guys in their mid 30's/early 40's.[/QUOTE]
:upset:

DBoons Ghost 06-09-2006 04:58 PM

Well, move here then. You can strum my e-string all night.

Pazz 06-09-2006 04:58 PM

[QUOTE=Iscariot]Good decision.[/QUOTE]

Thanks.

Mitch: If you can explain to me how that is going to work and how that is going to make me feel any better?

/9,000th post.

Tillius 06-09-2006 04:59 PM

I did. Or tried anyway.

Iscariot 06-09-2006 04:59 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]how that is going to make me feel any better?[/QUOTE]

You can join the club of people who have had sex with her. I'm sure it's a big club.

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 04:59 PM

And the occasional 17 year old.

There.

Pazz 06-09-2006 04:59 PM

[QUOTE=Iscariot]You can join the club of people who have had sex with her. I'm sure it's a big club.[/QUOTE]

I'm like 100% sure she's still a virgin.

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:01 PM

[QUOTE=Iscariot]You can join the club of people who have had sex with her. I'm sure it's a big club.[/QUOTE]
I didn't mean with HER!

[quote=Chaindrive]And the occassional 17 year old.
There.[/quote]
:D

Junooni 06-09-2006 05:01 PM

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Well, move here then. You can strum my e-string all night.[/QUOTE]

The question on everyone's mind:

Is it a high e string or a low e string?

Chaindrive 06-09-2006 05:02 PM

[QUOTE=DBoon's Ghost]Well, move here then. You can strum my e-string all night.[/QUOTE]

How much money do you make again? :p

Hep Kat 06-09-2006 05:02 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]*cough*[size=1]one night stand[/size]*cough*

EDIT: To Pazz[/QUOTE]


:thumb:

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:03 PM

:confused:

Hep Kat 06-09-2006 05:03 PM

That's my stamp of approval.

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:04 PM

Oh, good.

Pazz 06-09-2006 05:04 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]I didn't mean with HER!


:D[/QUOTE]

Then with who?:confused:

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:05 PM

Whoever the hell you want.


And if you can, why not with her.

Pazz 06-09-2006 05:05 PM

[QUOTE=Tillius]Whoever the hell you want.[/QUOTE]

If I were only capable of getting someone.

EinzingerIsGod 06-09-2006 05:06 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]If I were only capable of getting someone.[/QUOTE]

Everyone is. Just put yourself out there.

Tillius 06-09-2006 05:06 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]If I were only capable of getting someone.[/QUOTE]
I'm sure you are.

Hep Kat 06-09-2006 05:07 PM

[QUOTE=Pazz]If I were only capable of getting someone.[/QUOTE]

You're as capable of getting someone as anyone else.


Provided you have a big check book, that is ;)


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