Thats old enough, over than all the chicks stop dating at that age, well because thats when male hormones are at their most firiest.

[QUOTE=Tillius]:lol: @ ugly goth girls.[/QUOTE]

Oh shi.

*did not see the ugly part*

Shows your observant skills.

[QUOTE=Wild Child]thank you very much. I would really like to talk to my guidence teacher but I struggle to even speak to people close to me. My mum doesn't know about all my feelings that I have and my guidence teacher would probably tell her. I struggle to talk to people 1 on 1. When a teacher has something to say to me then i mainly look at the ground.[/QUOTE]

A good start for that would be try the good ol' "maintaining eye contact with people" technique.



Hi everyone :wave: I'm not dead or anything

The girl I was going to hang out with on Sunday says she got grounded today, and can't. To be honest, I'm relieved because it was going to be awkward for me. But now I have to wait two weeks before I get another chance. I'll get my license sometime during that time, so maybe I can take her out on a real date. :cool:

Man I have to go out soon with one of my friends...the thing is she wants me but me dont want her in that sense...god this is gonna be rough :upset:

[QUOTE=Damien Rhodes]The girl I was going to hang out with on Sunday says she got grounded today, and can't. To be honest, I'm relieved because it was going to be awkward for me. But now I have to wait two weeks before I get another chance. I'll get my license sometime during that time, so maybe I can take her out on a real date. :cool:[/QUOTE]

That might be for the better. Good luck.

[QUOTE=_ThisSecretNinja_]Man I have to go out soon with one of my friends...the thing is she wants me but me dont want her in that sense...god this is gonna be rough :upset:[/QUOTE]
Good Luck:thumb:

[QUOTE=guitar_godess]Just let it go, i guess.

She'll come back crawling to you when she realises that you're not going to bother her whilst she is acting like this. i guarantee she'll still want u going on this trip, its hard for people to get over their ex when they're still good mates with them. i dont think i'll ever get over my boy now, although we had broken up for a few weeks - are now back together, and it's the ****test relationship anyone could ever endure, but still - i dont have the strength to get over him and move on.[/QUOTE]
I really hope you're right. Do you think she might be upset that I don't like her even though she doesn't like me?

Why would it matter if she was upset because you didn't like her?

Not really a relationships issue, but something I need to get off my chest.

This weekend is the annual Spring festival on campus. I was getting ready all month to come out of my shell once and for all. I've been rehearsing a magic routine, had some good stories to tell, and was getting myself primed to just be able to start a conversation with anybody at any time.

Last night, it's pouring rain. Today, it's cold, damp, miserable, and the clouds still haven't passed. The shuttle off-campus was already cancelled months in advance for this event, but the weather has led to all but two of the events of the day being cancelled. No one's going out. Everyone's just sitting in with their roommates and getting drunk.

So I'm basically all dressed up with nowhere to go. I feel cheated.

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Not really a relationships issue, but something I need to get off my chest.

This weekend is the annual Spring festival on campus. I was getting ready all month to come out of my shell once and for all. I've been rehearsing a magic routine, had some good stories to tell, and was getting myself primed to just be able to start a conversation with anybody at any time.

Last night, it's pouring rain. Today, it's cold, damp, miserable, and the clouds still haven't passed. The shuttle off-campus was already cancelled months in advance for this event, but the weather has led to all but two of the events of the day being cancelled. No one's going out. Everyone's just sitting in with their roommates and getting drunk.

So I'm basically all dressed up with nowhere to go. I feel cheated.[/QUOTE]

Sorry to hear that man. Do you have a roommate? And if so what is he up to? Maybe you could hang out with some people that way? Just a thought.

Dang, that sucks. Are they going to postpone the cancelled events?

[QUOTE=Steerpike]Not really a relationships issue, but something I need to get off my chest.

This weekend is the annual Spring festival on campus. I was getting ready all month to come out of my shell once and for all. I've been rehearsing a magic routine, had some good stories to tell, and was getting myself primed to just be able to start a conversation with anybody at any time.

Last night, it's pouring rain. Today, it's cold, damp, miserable, and the clouds still haven't passed. The shuttle off-campus was already cancelled months in advance for this event, but the weather has led to all but two of the events of the day being cancelled. No one's going out. Everyone's just sitting in with their roommates and getting drunk.

So I'm basically all dressed up with nowhere to go. I feel cheated.[/QUOTE]
Perform for your roommate? :)

[QUOTE=Chaindrive]Dang, that sucks. Are they going to postpone the cancelled events?[/QUOTE]

Cancel. The possibility of another thunderstorm isn't expected to move on until Monday.

[QUOTE=c0ld_3mphasis05]Perform for your roommate? :)[/QUOTE]

My friends have been my guinea pigs and critics for the last 4 months.

Hi All. Just wanted to drop by to complain since its been a while again...

My gf and me are going really well and its been 2 months almost. Something is different with her and we can actaully talk on deeper issues and say what we need fixed. Heck, we are even in a band outside of school together, and I finally have someone to have read my lyrics, listen to music, etc..

Anywho... Her mom and her have a lot of problems and I guess always have. She is just really protective and I understand this but I have been trying to get her not appreciate me more and its not working. I was gonna get a ride with her to go to my gfs soccer game and they pass right by my house but her mom says she isnt ready for her daughter to go out in public with boys... She is 15, and in my opinion that is old enough. Especially since her mom could have her eye on me the whole time anyway if it was the soccer game.

So far we have never gone anywhere and the only chance we can see eachother outside of school is at either jazz band (not the band i was talking about earlier) or at dances. There is another one in a couple weeks that I am gonna ask her to and am gonna hope that her mom lets her go.

The thing that really pisses me off is that I am a straight A kid, band officer in high school band, have honors in like, everything, in track, and have nothing negative to my name, and she continues to think I am bad.

I dunno why I took the time to type this. I guess just because I needed to vent. As a regular in here I never really drop by either so yea.

People like your girlfriend's mom bother me a bit. They do a perfectly fine job raising their kids up until a certain point, at which they don't want to let go. I know a bunch of parents like that.

[QUOTE=halfdeadhippo]People like your girlfriend's mom bother me a bit. They do a perfectly fine job raising their kids up until a certain point, at which they don't want to let go. I know a bunch of parents like that.[/QUOTE]

It sucks. Everything is so great until that one age comes around and then they refuse to move on. We ahve talked about some of the hell she has beent through lately and its taking its toll. I guess all i can say is oh well, make the best of it.

you guys want to hear something funny. I swear, this came right out of the movies. This girl likes me. I don't like her, but like her best friend. hahahahaha. I told her, because she asked what was bothering me. She got real quiet and emo and depressed. I explained that I wasn't going to go off and date her best friend and ditch her or anything. She still types out sentences with "......." at the end and has away messages like "Sometimes I just wish I could take a break from life" or "Not again..." because apparently every guy she likes falls for her best friend. So yeah, school Monday = awkward as balls.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]Hi All. Just wanted to drop by to complain since its been a while again...

My gf and me are going really well and its been 2 months almost. Something is different with her and we can actaully talk on deeper issues and say what we need fixed. Heck, we are even in a band outside of school together, and I finally have someone to have read my lyrics, listen to music, etc..

Anywho... Her mom and her have a lot of problems and I guess always have. She is just really protective and I understand this but I have been trying to get her not appreciate me more and its not working. I was gonna get a ride with her to go to my gfs soccer game and they pass right by my house but her mom says she isnt ready for her daughter to go out in public with boys... She is 15, and in my opinion that is old enough. Especially since her mom could have her eye on me the whole time anyway if it was the soccer game.

So far we have never gone anywhere and the only chance we can see eachother outside of school is at either jazz band (not the band i was talking about earlier) or at dances. There is another one in a couple weeks that I am gonna ask her to and am gonna hope that her mom lets her go.

The thing that really pisses me off is that I am a straight A kid, band officer in high school band, have honors in like, everything, in track, and have nothing negative to my name, and she continues to think I am bad.

I dunno why I took the time to type this. I guess just because I needed to vent. As a regular in here I never really drop by either so yea.[/QUOTE]
Dude, you're pretty much telling my story, minus the honors stuff.
My ex is 14. Her mom said she was too young to be having "physical relationships".

And, while I don't have all that stuff to my name that you do (:p ), I'm still a generally good guy.
Well, even though we broke up, I talked to her parents(while we were still going out). I told them how much I liked her, and that I could respect their wishes, but I still wanted to be able to date her, even if it was under their supervision a lot of the time.

Basically, what I'm saying is, don't give up with her parents. Convince them that you're a good guy, and good enough for their daughter. Even if they are still skeptical at first, which I take it they have been, don't give up. Keep talking to them. That shows them that you're not just some guy, but you're a guy whose not gonna give her up without first doing everything you can.

Hope this helped.

[QUOTE=Tillius]Dude, you're pretty much telling my story, minus the honors stuff.
My ex is 14. Her mom said she was too young to be having "physical relationships".

And, while I don't have all that stuff to my name that you do (:p ), I'm still a generally good guy.
Well, even though we broke up, I talked to her parents(while we were still going out). I told them how much I liked her, and that I could respect their wishes, but I still wanted to be able to date her, even if it was under their supervision a lot of the time.

Basically, what I'm saying is, don't give up with her parents. Convince them that you're a good guy, and good enough for their daughter. Even if they are still skeptical at first, which I take it they have been, don't give up. Keep talking to them. That shows them that you're not just some guy, but you're a guy whose not gonna give her up without first doing everything you can.

Hope this helped.[/QUOTE]

I am basically trying to inch my way up more and more on their approval ratings whenever I can so thats a plus. Plus my band teacher who has had my gf as a student for like, 7 years knows her mom very well and is putting in some good words. We get along great and he is actaully the one that told her mom about us. But yea.

We shall see. As long as things dont get effed over by anything else.

So how is the recovery from your car accident back like, a month ago?

[QUOTE=The Buttloaves]you guys want to hear something funny. I swear, this came right out of the movies. This girl likes me. I don't like her, but like her best friend. hahahahaha. I told her, because she asked what was bothering me. She got real quiet and emo and depressed. I explained that I wasn't going to go off and date her best friend and ditch her or anything. She still types out sentences with "......." at the end and has away messages like "Sometimes I just wish I could take a break from life" or "Not again..." because apparently every guy she likes falls for her best friend. So yeah, school Monday = awkward as balls.[/QUOTE]
That is funny

I used to know a chick like that, except not the whole "best friend thing". We were goin out and things were fine then we didnt talk for about a week, so she e-mailed me, dumping me. I was like "WTF ok". Neway about a month later she sends me all these e-mails saying "take me bak" and what not. Next i (plus other ppl) get e-mails about her complaining saying "how could i ever let him go" and "why doesn't he love me the way i love him" and "I cut my self becoz of the way he treats me". So now i'm like [U][B]WTF[/B][/U]. So yeah the other day i saw her, feeling very awkward @ bball. She came up to me hugged me tried talking to me, i made up an excuse, and backed away. True story.

[QUOTE=pohl_56]I am basically trying to inch my way up more and more on their approval ratings whenever I can so thats a plus. Plus my band teacher who has had my gf as a student for like, 7 years knows her mom very well and is putting in some good words. We get along great and he is actaully the one that told her mom about us. But yea.

We shall see. As long as things dont get effed over by anything else.

So how is the recovery from your car accident back like, a month ago?[/QUOTE]
Actually, it was about 2 1/2 months ago, and I'm doing pretty good.

My liver is still healing, so I can't do the do for another few weeks, but other than that.....:thumb:
Thanks for asking.

My best friend is like that, 'cause she has a crush on me and I won't date her. It's very annoying.

[EDIT: To the posts above Mitch's.]

[QUOTE=Tillius]Actually, it was about 2 1/2 months ago, and I'm doing pretty good.

My liver is still healing, so I can't do the do for another few weeks, but other than that.....:thumb:
Thanks for asking.[/QUOTE]

Shows how much time has been flying lately for me. Well, good that you are healing. I'm out for the night and thanks for the chat.

To buttloaves or whatever... Dont ya just love it when things come outta the movies? I dont know if I gave you guys the story about the breakup last year with a voicemail.. Well yea. quite amusing. Maybe ill bring it up tomorow.

Well I'm out. G'night thread

Hey, I've been around here for awhile just reading what people say, but pohl's situation sounds kind of like mine...only mine seems even more difficult to solve in terms of parents that won't listen. Anyway, I'll try to make this as short as possible ;).

Well, I am 18 and my boyfriend is 21. He's my second boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend (no, all of you who are 15 and don't have a bf/gf are not losers ;p). Anyway, after we had been going out for about a month or so, my boyfriend tells his mother about me. She seems to be fine with it and asks questions about me like any mother would, which made me happy as he seemed worried about telling her.

A couple weeks later she comes here to visit him for christmas (he's from Turkey and goes to the same university as me as an international student), and a few days later they come to my city for about four days and visit me. Everything, as before, seems to be going ok. His mother is a bit stressful because when she gets her mind set on something she has to have it, as well on top of that she speaks a very limited amount of english :confused:. Anyway, I take them all over my city and they meet my family and all goes well. I try to talk to her as best that I can, I try to do everything she wants, I keep my hands very far away from her son when we're in front of her. They leave for Montreal, and I think everything is fine.

Apparently, it wasn't. I got an email from my boyfriend about three days later that told me his mother freaked out at him and told him to never introduce me to her as his girlfriend again. He tries to argue with her, but then she comes up with BS and somewhat hurtful reasons he shouldn't go out with me such as the fact that my parents are divorced (she's catholic...and I remember something about catholics thinking divorce is really bad..but still, how does this reflect on me? :/), that I act like a "cold european" (hem..she made me drive her around all day and 1. I was very tired and 2. I'm kind of shy and don't always talk a ton :S) and some other stupid things about me. She then went on about him being too young (what the hell..the guy's 21..:mad:) and other things like that about him. (This part is more of an angry rant from me than anything else hehe).

So, he tells her we'll just be friends without fighting too much because she has the power and money to make him go back to Turkey and go to school. Meanwhile, in reality we're still going out and almost everyone he knows other than her knows about it. She lives in Turkey so it's not that difficult to get away with. It's now been about four months since then and I love him very much. Saying that, I know we can't keep this a secret forever if we ever want this relationship to have a chance of amounting to anything significant. The only hope of getting help that we can think of is my boyfriend's father, who is not at all controlling like his mother. The problem is he might have to convince him to fight her with him as his father tends to just agree with what his mother says.

My boyfriend is the only son of an extremely possessive mother and I don't know what to do to safely convince her to change her mind without her freaking out again. If anyone can think of[SIZE=5] ANYTHING [SIZE=2]I would be extremely appreciative :).[/SIZE][/SIZE]

Wow, she sounds like a serious wacko.

I know...I think she might be :(

I thought your name said Cocaine bunny and it reminded me of that one animation with the bunny that's like "I'M EXTREEEEEEEEEME".

The one Jom had as an avatar once.

Haha I loved that bunny.

I saw a bunny tonight outside. It was cute.

My relationship problems stem from a lack of being unable to meet new people. And therefore have no relevance to this thread really. I don't even know why I post here half the time. I just like the poeple here I guess.

Seeing as how she's miles away from you and him, she can't control him like a puppet. And I sincerely doubt that she would jeopardize her only son's happiness by restricting you. She may be a nutjob, but she wouldn't do that.

You could possibly talk to his father, but why push the issue? It's going to be up to your boyfriend - not you - to say that you guys are together. If he's so insecure that he can't stand up to his mother in regards to a relationship he's been in, that doesn't say much about him, now, does it.

Anyways, as I was saying, it's up to him to 'break it' to his mother. It seems like his mother is genuinely interested in his happiness, so she wouldn't disrupt that. She may not like you, but she'll come around. She shouldn't have judged you on a one-time incident.