Go for it. She likes you.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]Go for it. She likes you.[/QUOTE]

You think so?

That's good to hear.:p

[QUOTE=Pazz]You think so?

That's good to hear.:p[/QUOTE]

You can almost always count on a girl liking you if you could throw her in a pool fully clothed only to have her sit in your lap.

To be honest, even having a girl sitting in your lap is a pretty good indication

[QUOTE=AmericanWeiner]You can almost always count on a girl liking you if you could throw her in a pool fully clothed only to have her sit in your lap.

To be honest, even having a girl sitting in your lap is a pretty good indication[/QUOTE]

Well she is usually flirty with most guys, but there were two other guys there last night and she didn't flirt with either of them all night.

[QUOTE=Pazz]Well she is usually flirty with most guys, but there were two other guys there last night and she didn't flirt with either of them all night.[/QUOTE]
Seriously- go for it :)

Told ya, Matty.

You didn't tell me anything.

<_< >_>

Thanks guys.

Oh that's it.
No more one on one advice for you ever again.:angry:

[QUOTE=Tillius]Oh that's it.
No more one on one advice for you ever again.:angry:[/QUOTE]

No! Please! I need it.

Spamming makes baby Jesus cry. :'(

...Me and my ex are about to get back together... :) Any tips people have for a second time around?

...and from previous page... NO RULES NO EXPECTATIONS is the gold plated/pseudo-gold rule.

So I went on the date and everything went fairly well. We went to dinner first with some other people and hung out and had a good time. Then I met up with this guy I was buying some weed from and had to go talk to him for like say 30 minutes. The girl I was hanging out with went to this coffee shop where she was supposed to meet her friend to see some guy play. She talked to him for a while and when I got back I hung out with her friends then we all went to the park. The girl and I had a pretty good time and it doesn't really bother me that she talked to her guy friend for a while since I did leave to buy drugs, it's not that bad.

When I hung out with her she seemed to enjoy my company and I made her laugh at all the times I intended to etc. Now, I'm not sure what to do. I want to see her again, but I don't know when to ask her. I'm going out of town for a week and I don't know if it would be a good idea to call her while I'm gone or what. Any advice would be helpful.

Call her before you go, arrange something for when you get back.

Call her and ask her if she'd like to go do something when you get back.

:EDIT: God dammit Aidan.:angry:

[QUOTE=Pazz]No! Please! I need it.[/QUOTE]

So did you go for it?

[QUOTE=Iscariot]Spamming makes baby Jesus cry. :'([/QUOTE]

Lolzzzz

Ok, a few weeks ago, I was playing a round of mini-golf with my friends and when we were done, we started to walk back to the main building to get some food. I was conversing with them, and joking, and laughing like we always do, and then I saw this girl. Now, I've never liked red-heads. Ever. They just never seemed attractive to me. But this girl, for some reason, stopped me in my tracks. It's not even like she was that great looking, she was just super appealing to me. I'm really unsure as to why this girl who normally I would not even noticed, was this appealing to me.

Alright, so me liking this girl has been pretty secretive and not a whole lot of people know about me liking her. So I decided to tell one of my friends, who happens to be my ex-girlfriend. I told her and she started freaking out at me. She told me I shouldn't do it, because the girl I like supposively does this with guys, flirts with them and leads them on and when they make a move she turns them down. She told me she doesn't want to see me get hurt. We had a pretty big argument and I told her I would be careful, but I still like the girl. So I'm going to tell the girl I like her sometime this week hopefully. I talked to her on MSN tonight and the conversation died, so I asked her if she liked anyone and she said she didn't know.

[QUOTE=Pazz]Alright, so me liking this girl has been pretty secretive and not a whole lot of people know about me liking her. So I decided to tell one of my friends, who happens to be my ex-girlfriend. I told her and she started freaking out at me. She told me I shouldn't do it, because the girl I like supposively does this with guys, flirts with them and leads them on and when they make a move she turns them down. She told me she doesn't want to see me get hurt. We had a pretty big argument and I told her I would be careful, but I still like the girl. So I'm going to tell the girl I like her sometime this week hopefully. I talked to her on MSN tonight and the conversation died, so I asked her if she liked anyone and she said she didn't know.[/QUOTE]
Oh no Matt!

Makes you feel any better, I'm a loser too! :thumb:


:p

Big mistake telling your ex-girlfriend. Well, not BIG, but it's something I wouldn't have done. But, no worries.

My only advice for keeping conversations flowing is to make observations or tell stories. Asking questions like "so whats up and etc." doesn't really bode well because the answers will be somewhere in the one-word-answer category. If you ask questions that require some thought (other than yes/no/maybe/idk/lol), you can always ask follow-up questions.

I'm not saying be an interrogator, but if you ask her questions, feel free to answer your own after she's done. Or, answer her questions. Just try to stay away from 'so whats up' or 'how was your day' or something along those lines.

What I always used to do: play the question game with someone you're trying to get to know online.
-first person asks a question
-second answers
-first answers
-second person asks a question
etc

:) It works really well and can spawn some nice conversations.

[QUOTE=Jom]Big mistake telling your ex-girlfriend. Well, not BIG, but it's something I wouldn't have done. But, no worries.

My only advice for keeping conversations flowing is to make observations or tell stories. Asking questions like "so whats up and etc." doesn't really bode well because the answers will be somewhere in the one-word-answer category. If you ask questions that require some thought (other than yes/no/maybe/idk/lol), you can always ask follow-up questions.

I'm not saying be an interrogator, but if you ask her questions, feel free to answer your own after she's done. Or, answer her questions. Just try to stay away from 'so whats up' or 'how was your day' or something along those lines.[/QUOTE]

My ex-girlfriend has a boyfriend and we have been broken up since March.

I feel like I'm always asking her questions and it is usually, "what's up" and stuff like that. I have been trying to get her to hang out sometime, but she is always busy. I gave her my phone number and told her whenever she is free, she can call me.

This may be a really stupid question but...

I spent the night with a girl in the same room but in diff beds, and spent all night talkin to eachother laughing, talking bout sex, vibrators and other stuff like that. She tells me to get her a vibrator for her birthday. She asks me stuff bout "morning woods" and if she can see it in the morning. So in the morning I just whip it out and show her, shes like oh yep, nice, whatever ya know. Then when she leaves the rooms flashes me.

I know it seems a bit juvenile really, but if I'm not mistaken, is this girl into me? Shes knows I have a gf and shes the good sort so I dont think shed be one to do anything while I still do. But did I interpret all of that right?

Sorry if that was poorly written, I have no excuse...

does your girlfriend know you flashed your peen to another girl and she showed u her bewbs?

i would ask your girl if she likes girls...

Yes, thats the first thing I said when I talked to her again.

"hey honey, I showed this chick my knob and got to see her boobs, how was your day?"

yes well i didn't think you would have

obviously to flash a girl your pen-is you must be somewhat sexually attracted to her
but is it just a sexual tension between you and her

you might end up having sex with her but after that is out of your system where to?

so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..

[QUOTE=Pazz]Alright, so me liking this girl has been pretty secretive and not a whole lot of people know about me liking her. So I decided to tell one of my friends, who happens to be my ex-girlfriend. I told her and she started freaking out at me. She told me I shouldn't do it, because the girl I like supposively does this with guys, flirts with them and leads them on and when they make a move she turns them down. She told me she doesn't want to see me get hurt. We had a pretty big argument and I told her I would be careful, but I still like the girl. So I'm going to tell the girl I like her sometime this week hopefully. I talked to her on MSN tonight and the conversation died, so I asked her if she liked anyone and she said she didn't know.[/QUOTE]
MSN = bad. If you talk to her IRL then she's more likely to tell you the truth and she won't be able to just go offline.

What I would do is go for it- but don't get your hopes up too high. If it turns out she's just leading you on then it'll be easier to just forget about her.

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..[/QUOTE]

You must have some insane self-confidence issues if you can't trust your girlfriend alone with a gay guy.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]You must have some insane self-confidence issues if you can't trust your girlfriend alone with a gay guy.[/QUOTE]
maybe he needs help in oral sex technique though

i would just ask her what she does

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..[/QUOTE]
No absolutely nothing to worry about. I'm really close to my gay friend Tim. It's an odd relationship because it's like having a girlie friend but he's a guy. Seriously, girls just like having gay friends. You should not feel insecure.

man one of my best friends is gay and he is absolutely amazing and hilarious

however my sister's gay friends are flaming, bitchy, drama queens just for the sake of it

and they dress poorly

URGH

[QUOTE=Iscariot]You must have some insane self-confidence issues if you can't trust your girlfriend alone with a gay guy.[/QUOTE]
only been with her a month, so...

[QUOTE=BJ_maddog]maybe he needs help in oral sex technique though

i would just ask her what she does[/QUOTE]
shes the right person to ask :thumb:

[QUOTE=Atman]man one of my best friends is gay and he is absolutely amazing and hilarious[/QUOTE]
this guy is as well

[QUOTE=Corkofski]only been with her a month, so...[/QUOTE]

What the hell man, he's gay. He's not porking your bitch. At all.

if you say so :)

[QUOTE=Corkofski]if you say so :)[/QUOTE]
i say he is bisexual
best thing to do is when they return from the bathroom, smell his peen

no but seriously
just ask her, and him
get the truth
stop worrying
problem solved

[QUOTE=BJ_maddog]i say he is bisexual
best thing to do is when they return from the bathroom, smell his peen [/QUOTE]
LOL :lol:

If this guy has a boyfriend, then you (dude with the issue) shouldn't worry. Infact, you shouldn't worry at all but if you're that insecure, just remember, he's porking some other guy, so don't worry.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]No absolutely nothing to worry about. I'm really close to my gay friend Tim. It's an odd relationship because it's like having a girlie friend but he's a guy. Seriously, girls just like having gay friends. You should not feel insecure.[/QUOTE]

I'm going to tell her in person, hopefully sometime this week.

Good plan :thumb:

[QUOTE=Corkofski]so my gf has a mate, male, who is gay and has a bf..

now, they are really close and have known each other for ages, but am i right to feel insecure when they disappear into the toilet at a party for 20 mins together?

im pretty sure this guy is totally gay and not attracted to women, but still..[/QUOTE]

You have to trust your girlfriend. My current girlfriend has a few guy friends that she's really close to. You just have to learn to be comfortable with it and trust her. I'd say in your case you have nothing to worry about since a girl having a close relationship with a gay guy is very common.