[QUOTE=Strongbad]Okay this wonderful girl Sara asked me to go to the movies couple of days ago and so we're gonna go out to the movies this Saturday to see "See No Evil". Now I'm gonna be upright honest, this will be my first actual date. This girl is so sweet and I really like her, I just want some advice on what to do for this first date that won't rush the relationship, because I want it to naturally take it's course so it becomes a long and strong one. Thanx to all advice givers. :)[/QUOTE]

[url]http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/1158185-see_no_evil/[/url]

is the first bit of advice (i'm sorry, i don't remember if you were the kid from a few pages back that was discussing going to a scary movie - because if so, then disregard this)

i would grab a bite to eat after the movie if it's not a late one - or go before hand possibly? offer to get her food and listen to her - pay attention to how she's acting/what she's saying, but don't try too hard. one of my biggest turn offs is when a guy goes out of his way to impress me on a first date.

the fact that you have the date says that she's interested i assume - so just be yourself- act natural

Okay, I'm not sure if this needs to be in here or not, but here goes.

Today, I was at Pam's, and I think things may start working out for the better with us again.

Well, her dad owns his own shop, and Pam's older brother works there with him. Well, today, he offered me a job.

Now, the guy seemed to hate me while I was with Pam, but now that we're "just friends" he doesn't seem to have a problem with me.

So what should I do?

I mean, I really need a job, but if something happened between me and Pam again, then it could jeopardize a lot of things. But, I mean, I could also show him that I'm not too bad of a guy, but I really don't know.

Any advice?

Money = good. Take the job, especially if it was offered to you.

Don't take it if the job sucks, though. But still, you said you 'really need' a job, so you might as well take this one.

Okay, but what if something ends up happening with me and Pam and then he fires my as[size=2]s[/size] and then winds up hating me even more?

Well, you could ask Pam about it.

Yeah, you're right.
Thanks for the advice my always favorite mod.

So i'm trying this new thing. I realized that a lot of girls I talked to, although very pretty, were at least moderately annoying bad people. So I decided to stop treating people differently just because they look good. Its working out pretty well. I feel better at least.

So this one girl who I decided I kinda hate, well, this made it worse.

This girl went on a date with this kid I know. He really liked her, so he wanted to treat her nice. They go out for a real expensive dinner, like 20$ parking, really nice. They have a good night, and at the conclusion of the night, she doesn't even say thank you, nothing...She concludes the night with an "its been real". That just added fire to the flames. She is such a bad person. I know this other kid who really likes her, and she leads him on so bad, but its never gonna go anywhere. I just can't stand what a bad, ignorant person she is.

o.k. that has nothing to do with anything. I'm just ranting. K bye.

[QUOTE=i am miik]So i'm trying this new thing. I realized that a lot of girls I talked to, although very pretty, were at least moderately annoying bad people. So I decided to stop treating people differently just because they look good. Its working out pretty well. I feel better at least.

So this one girl who I decided I kinda hate, well, this made it worse.

This girl went on a date with this kid I know. He really liked her, so he wanted to treat her nice. They go out for a real expensive dinner, like 20$ parking, really nice. They have a good night, and at the conclusion of the night, she doesn't even say thank you, nothing...She concludes the night with an "its been real". That just added fire to the flames. She is such a bad person. I know this other kid who really likes her, and she leads him on so bad, but its never gonna go anywhere. I just can't stand what a bad, ignorant person she is.

o.k. that has nothing to do with anything. I'm just ranting. K bye.[/QUOTE]

Volunteer to work in the main office in the morning so you can make a portion of the morning announcements. When it's your time to shine, announce to the entire school that she's an undeserving bitch who survives like a leech - sucking the life out of everyone she meets. That should own her pretty good.

[QUOTE=Iscariot]Volunteer to work in the main office in the morning so you can make a portion of the morning announcements. When it's your time to shine, announce to the entire school that she's an undeserving bitch who survives like a leech - sucking the life out of everyone she meets. That should own her pretty good.[/QUOTE]

Our last day of school was today. But maybe when we go to college i'll do something awesome like that. Like make flyers with her picture on it listing her crimes against humanity, and why everybody avoid her at all costs.

^^Laughs at ways of punishing bad people. :)

[QUOTE=i am miik]Our last day of school was today. But maybe when we go to college i'll do something awesome like that. Like make flyers with her picture on it listing her crimes against humanity, and why everybody avoid her at all costs.[/QUOTE]
Put a picture of her on a card, put it in a phonebox with her number advertising hot tranny wanting rough sex. Too extreme?

[QUOTE=Luster][url]http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/1158185-see_no_evil/[/url]

is the first bit of advice (i'm sorry, i don't remember if you were the kid from a few pages back that was discussing going to a scary movie - because if so, then disregard this)

i would grab a bite to eat after the movie if it's not a late one - or go before hand possibly? offer to get her food and listen to her - pay attention to how she's acting/what she's saying, but don't try too hard. one of my biggest turn offs is when a guy goes out of his way to impress me on a first date.

the fact that you have the date says that she's interested i assume - so just be yourself- act natural[/QUOTE]

NEVERMIND we arent going out and i never want to see her again, stupid bitch, usin me just to see her old boyfriend. I HATE MY DAMN LIFE.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]NEVERMIND we arent going out and i never want to see her again, stupid bitch, usin me just to see her old boyfriend. I HATE MY DAMN LIFE.[/QUOTE]

Hey, waitaminit. What the hell happened?

I dont want to talk about it. Let's just say I have made a pact with myself that I NEVER want to be in a relationship until I am out of college.

Either you are being WAY over dramatic or she like, cut your balls off or something.

I think it was going to be his first date, Nicole, and it sounds like she gave him a royal screwing. :(

Yea thats pretty much it. I feel like Ill never have my first date so Im just gonna give up.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]Yea thats pretty much it. I feel like Ill never have my first date so Im just gonna give up.[/QUOTE]

Thats a pretty big thing to say man. You cant give up because one dumb broad screwed you over.

I constantly get screwed over though. Even before the first date.

For every 100 girls you come across, 90 will screw you over, 9 won't screw you over but still won't be exactly the greatest thing, and that 1 girl will make it so worth it.

Thats because most teenage girls are idiots. Like, I know your frustrated man but you gotta sift through the morons until you find a good catch. You have nothing to lose and if you stick it out, you could walk away with something special. Walk in with no expectations.

Ive had my fair share of BAD experiences with the opposite gender, and I kept going. And now I have something really special.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]
Ive had my fair share of BAD experiences with the opposite gender, and I kept going. And now I have something really special.[/QUOTE]

A 1, and a 2, and a 3.

Golden Rule.

No expectations, No Disappointments.

Am I right?

ok &?

Amen.

That was for strongbad... You may think it is over and you have been through everything. Experiance tells me that you = wrong. Just remember that rule, and dont stress over relationships so much.

I think people expect too much from teenage relationships.

Or base what they think should happen based on MTV or romance movies they see.

Take it for what its worth.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]I think people expect too much from teenage relationships.

Or base what they think should happen based on MTV or romance movies they see.

Take it for what its worth.[/QUOTE]
Wait..Are you saying MTV and Romance movies aren't true! :eek:

[QUOTE=Lightning Strikes Twice]Wait..Are you saying MTV and Romance movies aren't true! :eek:[/QUOTE]

Sorry to burst your bubble babe, but you know how it is.:p

[QUOTE=Strongbad]I feel like Ill never have my first date so Im just gonna give up.[/QUOTE]

[quote=some people]Stop acting like a sissy.[/quote]

[quote=purplefeet]Thats because most teenage girls are idiots. Like, I know you're frustrated man but you gotta sift through the morons until you find a good catch.[/quote]

Truth.

You give the impression that you set yourself up with high hopes and that you're easily distraught when things don't go as anticipated.

[quote=pohl]Golden Rule.

No expectations, No Disappointments.

Am I right?[/quote]

That's not [i]the[/i] Golden Rule.

Hmmm so I once used to be really good friends with this girl. One day, she decided to stop talking to me, despite my attempts to save our friendship. 4 months later, she rings me out of the blue asking if I want to go to her birthday party. Am I a *** for not going to her party, or for not wishing her a happy birthday at all? Cos I really dont need people who only want to be friends when it suits them =\

[QUOTE=_ThisSecretNinja_]Hmmm so I once used to be really good friends with this girl. One day, she decided to stop talking to me, despite my attempts to save our friendship. 4 months later, she rings me out of the blue asking if I want to go to her birthday party. Am I a *** for not going to her party, or for not wishing her a happy birthday at all? Cos I really dont need people who only want to be friends when it suits them =\[/QUOTE]

No, you're not an as[font=verdana]s[/font]. I would have done - and have done - the same thing.

[QUOTE=purplefeet]I think people expect too much from teenage relationships.

Or base what they think should happen based on MTV or romance movies they see.

Take it for what its worth.[/QUOTE]


too true, people need to realise that its high school, nothing lasts forever, and be able to get over it and have the friendships and everything.
it pisses me off when ppl dont know how to break up.

What I need is a good defense, cause Im feeling like a criminal. I need to be redeemed to the one Ive sinned against, cause she's all I ever knew of love.

[QUOTE=Tiger]What I need is a good defense, cause Im feeling like a criminal. I need to be redeemed to the one Ive sinned against, cause she's all I ever knew of love.[/QUOTE]

huh?

[QUOTE=midori]too true, people need to realise that its high school, nothing lasts forever, and be able to get over it and have the friendships and everything.
it pisses me off when ppl dont know how to break up.[/QUOTE]
It's all relative though. There are different priorites and worries as a teen compared to an adult. Breaking up is a big issue for a teen because- what else do they really have to worry about? Just because someone is younger doesn't mean things are any easier.

[QUOTE=Strongbad]huh?[/QUOTE]

It looks like Fiona Apple lyrics.

[QUOTE=Herbert_da_fish]It's all relative though. There are different priorites and worries as a teen compared to an adult. Breaking up is a big issue for a teen because- what else do they really have to worry about? Just because someone is younger doesn't mean things are any easier.[/QUOTE]

Exactly.

When you're young, your life revolves around your friends (including significant others), and if anything messes up, you have nothing. A 16 year old doesn't have a career, a family to take care of, a retirement, or anything to focus on, really.

But then again, some adults are just as, if not more, reluctant to let go of other people even if the relationship is extremely painful.

:cool:

/Had a career and house payment at 16

So I like another girl now. I think I may have a chance with this one since the two of us flirt a lot.

Last night I went to my friend Sasha's house to hang out with her, the girl I like, and a few other people. We were sitting around talking and Sasha and the girl I like wanted to jump in the pool fully clothed. They ran towards the pool but the girl I like didn't jump in, so I picked her up and threw her in. She then got out and gave me a hug and sat on my lap so I would get wet. They later talked me into jumping into the pool fully clothed.

I'm pretty sure she likes me, well atleast she acts like she does.