[QUOTE=illmitch;18874773]gonna be honest sam i dont really like talking about having sex on the internet[/QUOTE]

lol that's cool man didn't mean to make you uncomfortable

@malcolm yeah i hope you're right i've never been cheated on that i know of but that seems like it would suck. I guess we could ask brent what it's like :lol:

i mean i've had sex/one night stands with random girls so i cant really think less of girls who do the same thing

youre a horrible person and are going to hell

[QUOTE=blockhead;18874760]did you or have you ever fucked her?[/QUOTE]

nah man, that was a first date kinda thing. we talked a bit back when we used to work together, but she always had bfs. we reconnected at our friend's memorial and kinda took it from there. nothing happened yet but i was fixing to try and make a move when dummy walked in

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874779]i mean i've had sex/one night stands with random girls so i cant really think less of girls who do the same thing[/QUOTE]

I've done that a few times too when I was younger but the vast majority of girls I have slept with/hooked up with were really close friends or girlfriends. I try not to have casual sex with people I don't know because it makes me feel like a scumbag.

I think that saying is true "A key that can open any lock is a really great key but a lock that will open for any key is a pretty shitty lock."

i dont think that saying is true at all, its pretty sexist

it basically goes along with the idea that guys are always pursuing sex and girls aren't, and guys have to "conquer" girls to have sex with them

idk i'm getting liberal here

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874782]nah man, that was a first date kinda thing. we talked a bit back when we used to work together, but she always had bfs. we reconnected at our friend's memorial and kinda took it from there. nothing happened yet but i was fixing to try and make a move when dummy walked in[/QUOTE]

that sucks man. maybe she will think more highly of you for handling the situation well and plus in comparison to him i'm sure you look fantastic

[QUOTE=blockhead;18874786]that sucks man. maybe she will think more highly of you for handling the situation well and plus in comparison to him i'm sure you look fantastic[/QUOTE]

that's certainly the hope. she's pretty awesome, never met a girl i can sit around and listen to old anarcho punk and crust records with so i'm hoping it goes somewhere. she lives kinda far though, total opposite side of the city.

opposite side of the city isnt that big a deal bro

[QUOTE=illmitch;18874785]i dont think that saying is true at all, its pretty sexist

it basically goes along with the idea that guys are always pursuing sex and girls aren't, and guys have to "conquer" girls to have sex with them

idk i'm getting liberal here[/QUOTE]

Aren't men hardwired to spread their seed and women are supposed to be more selective of their mates because they can only have a baby every 9 months? I know birth control exists but I think biology plays a factor in how people view sex.

Any way I feel like I have the right to judge women who whore around because I don't sleep with random people.

[QUOTE=witchxrapist;18874789]opposite side of the city isnt that big a deal bro[/QUOTE]

toronto's kinda big though, it takes me at least 45 minutes on the transit to get down to her area. idgaf or anything though, when i lived in the burbs and dated a girl in midtown, with the way the subway is set up it took me like an hour 30. if the broad is worth it, i dont mind

i don't think either of us have studied enough biology to make a statement about how it affects human sexuality

do you judge men who have sex with lots of girls too, because you don't sleep around?

[QUOTE=blockhead;18874790]Aren't men hardwired to spread their seed and women are supposed to be more selective of their mates because they can only have a baby every 9 months? I know birth control exists but I think biology plays a factor in how people view sex.[/QUOTE]

idk that's kind of an arcane and sexist way of looking at things

[QUOTE]Any way I feel like I have the right to judge women who whore around because I don't sleep with random people.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure if you have the right, but I think it's fair so long as you do the same for men. My roommate has probably slept with more women than I've ever met, and I think it's repulsive. Much the same for a close female friend of mine. She's real easy and again, repulsive.

^^^ basically sums up my thoughts on the matter

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874787]that's certainly the hope. she's pretty awesome, never met a girl i can sit around and listen to old anarcho punk and crust records with so i'm hoping it goes somewhere. she lives kinda far though, total opposite side of the city.[/QUOTE]

that feeling you get when you go on the first few dates with a really cool new girl is great

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874798]I'm not sure if you have the right, but I think it's fair so long as you do the same for men. My roommate has probably slept with more women than I've ever met, and I think it's repulsive. Much the same for a close female friend of mine. She's real easy and again, repulsive.[/QUOTE]
i'm judgmental to both sexes as well hi5

i have the same situation with two good friends... and theyre dating now

and they both constantly spam each other's facebook walls like omg bb ily and then link a techno video, its like theyre desperately trying to convince each other that theyre not sleeping around, but they totally are

girl flipped out on me because i unsubscribed from her facebook page in order to alleviate the burden on my news feed :lol:

[QUOTE=Tyler;18874798]idk that's kind of an arcane and sexist way of looking at things


I'm not sure if you have the right, but I think it's fair so long as you do the same for men. My roommate has probably slept with more women than I've ever met, and I think it's repulsive. Much the same for a close female friend of mine. She's real easy and again, repulsive.[/QUOTE]

I don't think that's sexist because I'm looking at it from a biological perspective. That's the way men and women are programmed to view sex. People just want to be so PC and accepting of everything but I believe in calling a spade a spade.

I hold myself to the same standard that I judge other people by. There have been plenty of times I could have fucked girls but didn't because I thought it would be wrong since I didn't really even know them. I agree about it being repulsive. This is why so many people have STDs now.

the worst is when my roommate uses me to pick up chicks. i want to meet girls pick up girls etc but i dont want to outright lie to them. he uses me being a writer as a way to start convos but always says it's my birthday or some shit to which i always go "oh, no it isn't".

i mean i'd love random hookups here and there sure but i'd rather date/hang out and not ruin a girl's week yknow? im kind of a catch iw ouldn't wanna hurt anyones feelinz

if men are programmed to spread their seed why are there gay people

[QUOTE]I don't think that's sexist because I'm looking at it from a biological perspective. That's the way men and women are programmed to view sex.[/QUOTE]
That's societal though, not biological.